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When she was changing the Men, she was happy about it, forgeting that she wud married somday.

That is y the BIBLE says: There is a wey that looketh right unto a man, but at the END thereof, DESTRUCTION!!!.

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Relationships Hot Topics
Bragging about being good in bed is one thing,
secretly hoping you're great in the sack is another,
but what really does make you good in bed? Whether you're in a relationship or newly dating, being good in bed, together especially, is something most people consider vital to a happy relationship. So what are the tell-tale signs?

1. You feel connected to your partner

Research by sexologists seeking to answer the
question, "What makes good sex?" has shown that
the answer lies not in any particular technique but in two people feeling a sense of connection together.
Good sex is not just a physical experience but rather one that emphasises the core quality of it being a shared, meaningful experience. So to be good in bed, the very first step is to understand that dimension of connecting with your partner beyond the physical level. Couples who study tantric sex, karezza and other systems of mind-body-spirit sexual connection devote themselves to connecting beyond the physical. Many people are turning to trying it out and seeing the benefits in their relationship blossom

2. You're confident

Other fundamental qualities that make you a great
lover include being confident about yourself, having a positive body image, and feeling sexy. If you feel
greater about your sexy self it not only enhances
your physical libido, but it allows you to get lost in
the sexual experience, become intensely immersed
in it, and be swept away in the pleasure. This is a
great lover, the one who isn't self conscious and
detached from the experience.

3. You're open to change in the bedroom

A good lover uses their most important erotic organ
which isn't the one between the legs, but the one
between your ears. Using your brain for creativity,
imagination and keeping an open mind for trying new things also will make you a good lover your whole life. Your body will change, your partners may change, your sexual response and health will change. So if you remain open to change in your sexual expression you'll be guaranteed to be a creative, dynamic lover.

4. You listen to your partner

Listening is a vital quality of being a good lover, as is being attentive, generous or at least unselfish. Sex is a shared experience, so paying attention to your partners needs, including as their desires change too is more important than anything other thing that you do between the sheets. Without good communication you can't possibly be a great lover.

5. You don't rush things

Like with most things in life, it you pay attention to
detail, and take your time, the result will be far
superior than if you rush around blindly. While you
wouldn't think it, being thorough is a definitely quality of a master class lover. See things through from start to finish, if you catch my drift.

6. You welcome the opportunity to have sex

A good balance between spontaneity and just doing it is important! Don't forget the plain mathematics of good sex: saying yes more than no. Being
approachable by your partner, initiating nookie
yourself, and being eager more often than refusing is a pretty simple but often overlooked quality of being great sexually.

7. You're playful in bed

Sex is our adult recreation - not just procreation. This is your adult playtime to feel good with each other and enjoy every bit of one another. It doesn't have to be serious or harried (sometimes that's okay too). If you want to be good in bed, be playful - show your enjoyment!
GOODLUCK.

KUDOS to the BIG GUYS, Tunisia and Guinea.. Make the LEARNERS pack their bags and go home. They should go back to their DRAWING BOARDS.

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AM BROWSING WITH MINE. THANKS 4 THE INFO.

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AM BROWSING WITH MINE. THANKS 4 THE INFO. :oI CAN'T BELIEVE IT. AM BROWSING WITH MINE. THANKS 4 THE INFO.

Reasons why i like Nairaland. :DReasons why i like Nairaland.

Reasons why i like Nairaland.

Tell her it is evil in the eyes of God. And i advice you flee away from her.

This boys don spoil my 2day.

Is this how to advice someone? All the same God bless you all.

There is this two girls that we live in the same street. Both of them are my younger brother's frinds. One of them is telling my brother to be her girlfriend.(lovers).But my brother is saying no that they should just be friends.
Now, the other girl asked my brother few days ago if i like her because of the way i address her each time we pass by. She said she like me and dont know how to tell me. My brother lied that i have a girlfriend, and she said what if i like her more than that one.
Now, i wanted to talk to her, but my younger brother is saying no, that they talk too much. They always come to our house, even this night. Pls advice me, what do u think i should do. Am so confused.

Hmm! The truth is bitter, but it is gud to say. Believe it or not, dat ur girl is gone, and be ready to lose her. Unless dis ur girl really loves u, have it at the back of ur mind that sooner, she would ask sometin frm u,which u can't provide 4 her. Am not telling u to leave her now. But there's onething i want to say here. It all depends on the person involved. Take care bro.

Finally, he has enter into her friend zone (which is what we call, THE DREADED FRIEND ZONE). The truth is dat You were being too much of a NICE GUY. Onething i discoved is dat,
Girls absolutely love a guy who's nicf. But they definitely don't like a guy who goes overboard in tryin to pls them all the time, especially if they are not in a relationship already. Nice guys make great friends, but terrible lovers. Everytime a girl meets a nice guy, he usually ends up falling straight into her friend zone. So, my advice 4 u is dis: if u really love dis girl, try and engage urself in small conversation with girls,to c if she would warm up 2 u. But if not, call it quit if u cant make her ur frnd, which wil even hurt u d more.

Who on earth would buy a child?! It's so expensive already. you should be paying someone to take a child off your hands. It's a shame you don't want your own son, when so many are dying for a child. I just hope he wont end up in the hands of a juju man.

O! Becos of moni, meny souls av been sold out 2 d devil. Dis world is comin 2 an end.

Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries. Uromi, Edo State.

Weda na lie pipo even dey lie i non no. If Tonto is saying the truth, let her go and give her testimony at SCOAN. So that i personally will see and believe her.What else do i say: GLORY BE TO GOD.

O! Tears in my eyes. Why are people so wicked. Killing your fellow sister because of money. What shall it profit a man if he gain the world and looses his soul in hell. My Condolences to Late Miss Cynthia's family.

Pls help me Nairalanders. I knew dis girl b4 at my cousin's place, but i never have feelins 4 her. On one gud day, where i was sitting she came around, & b4 i knew wat was going on, she was starin at me & fluttery her eye lashes. So i took her numba & frm there tins went on she became my girl. I always call dis girl 5 to 6 times a week for 2 months and sum days. We will have fun on phone, flirt e.t.c. To make it short, this girl has never called me execpt once at midnite when i refused 2 call her for 3 days. Even if i send her card she will not even call. Sumtimes wen i cal her, either she hang up on me or divert my cal 4 a while. And the whole tin has make me tired, she has reach my place once wit her sister after much asking. What made me not 2 cal her for 5 days now, was when i called her on friday & she hang up on me and diverted d cal, and it pains me. Pls advice me, what do u tink about dis girl? and what do u tink i shud do. thanks pipo.