₦airaland Forum

kernniejay:
Amen, thank you Danisaint. God bless you and bless everything that concerns you too, amen.

Amen 👍

chidiokay:
Whats glamarious about a war induced invention, after the war nko as the inventions put SE ahead of other region
Is it that the East has no memorable period that resonate with glorious days such that the only history they have to share is Civil war ..

What is wrong with people one foolish man started a coup that led thousands of youth to there early and left so much destruction in there land yet that is the memory some one chooses as a glorious day

All those inventions, how did it benefit the economy of SE, is there any developmental growth worth of mentions

Inventions without food production , yet they brag they last 3yrs if not for Awolowo that was graciously sending food to SE can they last 1yr without food
When we SE historians start bragging and informing us of how they survive independently with food production, Ungrateful things, how many infrastructure in the SE was built by the invention revenue

In SW we have infrastructures built with agricultural proceeds/revenue .. those are the things of pride not a civil war you lost and can't pin point one benefit over time.

Wow you are so pained and happy you are. I'm just replying you right to tell you that I don't respond to ignoramuses mentions.

joshjc:
why did you modify your comment

Modify what comment?

joshjc:
what a foolish and stupid comment from you

You must be one of the enemies of Nigeria to have replied me. We have noticed you now.

Igbos and Southerners to the world. I don't support war but I laugh when I hear people say Igbos will be killed like chicken again if such war is repeated.

If Biafra can achieve all this during the war, when the world Haven't been this advance in tech think of what they could do now.

If Igbos are allowed to go trust me they wouldn't want to fail themselves and become a laughing stock.

If Singapore can do it Igbos who have done it before will do better this time.

One thing is sure with the current level of mass tribalism in this country way worse than racism Igbos face abroad Nigeria will surely divide someday.

The South might not go with Igbos but they (the igbos) will definitely become well progressive overtime and have peace in abundance..

This disease will never locate me and my family plus all well meaning Nigerians. Amen.

Agbado people and APC watchdogs would never see this.

The day one of his sons decide to contest for president now they remember his didn't fix the gully erosions in Anambra state.

Damn ungrateful dimwits.

A man his house is burning or being ransacked by criminals does not rest.

Nigeria is burning and needs to rescued from the hands of jackals, baboons and gorillas before it is looted and burnt completely to the ground.

PO we know as our president any other one is a counterfeit and eye neck select.

The man that actually meant well for Nigeria. I and well meaning Nigerians will continue to love you sir.

grandstar:
I know a lady married to a stingy man and she's happy.

I doubt the man womanizes as he can't lavish money on women outside.

That's why I said most not all. Majority will go for the guy with the cash even if he womanizes.

vickydevoka:
What about a stingy woman

Vice versa. Ofcourse if she is richer than the man.

samwillyco1:
What is your difinition of stingy? Differentiate poor man, from a stingy man.
Stingy man don't spend unnecessarily, they spend on things that matters. They take good care of their families very well but can't give money easily without justification.

What I call stingy is having but ain't giving. You rather prefer to give it to others but your family priority is never important to you and should be considered last.

Stingy beings exist there is reason the word was in existence. Don't get it twisted.

A man that is well to do (rich) but can't give his wife money as a gift and always wanting her to ask first is stingy.

A man that is rich but can't open a viable business for his wife is stingy.

A man that I rich but only considers his children wellbeing until they are sick is stingy. A stingy husband is synonymous to a non caring husband. You get?

JB4life:
Unfortunately, what most misguided ladies call stingy is not inability to provide for family needs ,but not being given so much money even for reasons unknown to the man.

Your opinion. 🥴

If the womanizer is loaded and got the cash. Forget it. Most ladies will pick him.

I don't Support stinginess because a man who can't take care of his family is stupid but a stingy is 10 times better than a humanizer who will be bringing multiple STD's back plus several baby Mamas that will make your life a living hell in the near future.

The Bakassi they ceded to Cameroon during the civil war to help them block food supplies coming from the South in order to starve Igbos to death. Karma is a fucking bitch.

Nigeria army can never risk going to war with any external country Currently cause they lack the balls they are only good at oppressing innocent citizens.

Juanmike:
You said you would fulfill your obligations to make your wife happy, and I ask, what of your happiness?
Do you have sexual feelings too?

Getting married to the right woman and having an heir is enough happiness for me already. Plus there are many things one can find happiness in. Not like I will engage in the act with a strong face. No way but my point is I am one of the people that ain't a slave to their sexual urges/lust.

Adedaniel123:
Read my post again. I already wrote it

Alright noted.

Merry100:
You are a bit lucky that you are a guy. My advice for you is not to wait for God's will but to find someone whom you love and appreciate and who also genuinely loves you. After you have found your potential partner, take her to God in prayer.

When I was a teenager I also had the wrong mentality, I was waiting for God's will, instead of accepting one of those amazing guys that genuinely loved me. I only befriended Church guys that were presented to me as God's will. With time, I realised that some guys that are extremely religious are narcissists. I consider my relationship with those Church guys mere friendship. Though, they were extremely religious but their personality was off. They were cocky, rude and unapologetic. I felt so restricted and suffocated. I experienced my worst relationship moments with them.

I started realizing what I have been missing now in my twenties as I started experiencing what it is like to actually date. I was made to feel so beautiful, loved, valued, and appreciated. I have a lot of beautiful and memorable moments. Relationship should be fun, when you are ready for marriage find someone that you can enjoy every moment with.

Hmm thanks for the advice. But I'm not the over religious type. Why should anybody even wait for God to provide them a spouse. We put in the work and finish the rest with prayers.

The thing is I just have certain believes about women that decided to remain chaste.

Trust is important in marriage and driving force for a long lasting marriage so for me to actually love and marry her she must possess qualities that must make me trust her completely. I'm aware of this as regards to my parents marriage.

But I get your point though and really do appreciate the advice. 👍

Hi

Juanmike:
What of your happiness?

I find happiness in video games and mobile games. it's one of the things that make me happy. Or simply come to Nairaland and engage in banters (advice and educate them In a harsh way) with tribal bigots whonhavebrefusednto have sense. Whenever the urge becomes too much I get busy immediately.

truthhurtsnaira:
That is if he is really Buhari…

You head dey there. In today's tech advance world almost anything is possible and in every rumour there is an atom of truth.

A northern female friend of mine from Jos said she actually know a Northern Muslim (a friend if hers) who swore to her with his generation that the man ruling us ain't Buhari and that as matter of fact his dad was among the people that buried him Saudi Arabia. I will stop here.

I never really believed it even when the news was flying around until this shocking revelation. And this is happening recently oo.

Before I opened the bread I already knew it would be an Igbo man. Igbo to the world. We marry anywhere and build a home anywhere too. What is happening in Nigeria is just pure hatred and jealousy. Simple.

Juanmike:
How do you quench your thirst thn?

Na God brother. When I remember the story of great men that have died or fallen because of what's under the skirt everything active in my body will fall immediately

Plus the thought of the act still disgusts me. I am the kind of the person that easily get irritated. I actually don't find sex cool and would only be engaging in it in the future because I have to have an heir and make a woman (my wife) happy.

OvertheTop:
The Problem is That:
if you dint have Experience of how to deal with Women through several relationships,
You will be Easily Manipulated when you eventually want to get Married.

you might easily fall for a Retired....." " in her 30s

So: there is Disadvantages to not having the experience

I am well aware of this. Reason I will date only when I'm ready to marry. Regarding the age difference, I won't marry a woman above 25 max 27.

Tinubu is currently in a phase of "chop make I chop" he knows he got into power in a crook manner and every law on Earth will reject the way he got into power but he is trying so hard to please the Judges and find favour in their eyes in order not to get booted out. Unfortunately ridiculous.

Anyway may this 35 billion Tinubu will give to the judges favour me and my family.

kay29000:
You don't do woman and you don't masturbate. Okay. I don hear you.

It's hard to believe right? Na God. I made a convenant with God that I will remain a virgin till marriage so he will give me a virgin that wouldn't make life hell on Earth for me. Hope this explains it?

On the other hand having a woman in your life when ain't ready for marriage is you entangling yourself with distraction. The reason 99% have girlfriend is because they want someone that would readily satisfy their sexual urge when aroused. Let be honest that's it.

If you can control your sexual urge and be patient to avoid distractions you will definitely though my path.

kay29000:
How many times do you self service in a week?

I don't masturbate bro. And I find the idea totally stupid.

Juanmike:
You do handjobs

I don't masturbate bro. And I find the idea totally stupid.

OLOKOESHIN:
Dey play

Ever seen a weirdo before? I am one when it comes to controlling sexual urge. Women have stylishly gone naked in front of me before but I stood firm to my decree. Rest.

When you have a goal in life you leave no room for distractions.

kernniejay:
My wife is my one and only Girlfriend up till now. We started dating 13 years ago, we are happily married now.

May God bless your union and eliminate anything that will foster separation in your marriage.

Never had a girlfriend. Still single. Probably the reason I don't understand what heartbreak or setback by women is. Progressing fine and steadily.

Some have assumed I am a gay. Funny.

I understood at a very young age that as a man if you can control your sexual urge and stay way from women over 77% of your problem is solved.

Jakpon:
I can dig out more than one thousand threads made years ago, warning tbe the ibos of the danger Nnamdi Kanu's IPOB portends for iboland. As usual, those who created such threads were fiercely insulted by Kanu's online minions.

As far back as 2014, a video surfaced right here on Nairaland, wherein Nnamdi Kanu was seen at the World Igbos in Los Angeles, asking for funds from the ibos in diaspora, that will be used to purchase arms which he intends to use fight war against the zoo.

Fee months after the meeting in Los Angeles, Kanu made the famous " Nigeria will be worse than Somalia if they dont give us Biafra" speech in an interview he granted Sahara TV. The signs were ominous.

People of goodwill kept cautioning the ibos against swallowing the poison Kanu was feeding them with, but yet again they savagely mobbed such persons with the files insults that can only come from those who were on the path of destruction.

GEJ's 2015 election loss and Buhari's emergence as the president engendered a new level of hate among the ibos. Kanu took advantage of this to aggressively promote his IPOB/Radio Biafra suicide agenda. As if struck by a spell, the entire iboland was engulfed with this madness. It was a classical case of mass hysteria. People warned and cautioned but it fell on deaf years.

Events and years have rolled past. Predictions of impending carnage have now become a reality. It is unfortunate to note that the pet that was nurtured by the ibos out of hate for others has now become a monster that cannot be tamed

If you don't really know to say then you shut up please.

Is it Kanu that is giving the orders for the criminal activities going on in the East currently? How you guys blame Nnamdi Kanu for this criminal atrocities baffles me.

Apparently the average Nigerian hate to hear the word BIAFRA there is a certain kind of sting and arousal of anger that comes with it.

The word is seen as a divider and the action for getting it a move to disintegrate their precious Nigeria. so anything to condemn it and the move made for it is very much welcomed.

I understand how you feel and what you are doing.