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Beyond reasonable doubt. . . .
I am very sure at least with the way you type. . .

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Ahhhh! Danity . . .which k.inda peepz u roll with? bus drivers? lol. .
I see thats why u have been reiterating that naija men are wannabeez. . no wonder!

Lets get sum straight. . .
Naija men are highly respected world-wide
You don't believe me? u need to see how them whites. . Hispanics. . .Brazilians,Caucz. . et all are after our tails . .

Beat that. . .because they know what we are worth!. . .
Y'all don't know what y'all are missing. . . .for real you're missing out big time
Chill with the real naija dudes and i bet ya. . u'd come back here to sing praise n worship songs for them naija men!

Lol - trust me. I'm working on the chilling with real naija dudes aspect .
Some naija dudes are cool, others are not.
Those that are not are so fake that it drives you crazy. Those that are cool are down to earth and really nice to be with.

Chacal:
@ Danity,

Of course, i can die for a woman i love.
However, i have to be sure she can die for me as well before i take such a dive!!!!
Fair exchange, innit??(as Oxford Circus residents will say).

faketan:
And who will you blame? You said 'after all i'm married' means 'afterall he does not care' where as he cares.

It is then that you will know he cares. Why will you show him pepper when you took your face value for granted.
Baby you gotta look good for your man. It is very necessary. Unfornatelty, in some places in nigeria, how fat your ass is, is a measure of how wealthy you are. And when you raise your hand and shout praiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiise the lord, your bicep fat will be obstructing the vew of those around you.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!! You are so mean
Did you not just see what Chacal said 5 seconds ago?

Well trust me - I plan on looking good for my man at anytime and it's something all women have to keep doing. It's a process. But then he's gotta strive to be more romantic because then I know that the way I look drives him crazy in ways that no other woman can and this alone - makes the woman even want to look better. She knows that all her efforts are not in vain. IN other words, it's a freaking cycle.

Chacal:
C'mon Danity Kane!!!!!!!!!!!!

You of all people should know the games between a man and a woman can never stop.
The politicking is the same. . . . . teasing and testing the waters, etc.
Do u really expect a man to show all his cards on the table? You are having a laugh.

Chacal:
@ Danity,

Thats the secret. . . . . .
When a woman gets loads of it. . . . she doesn't value it.
However, give it to her in drops and she will be lapping it up and chasing the man up n down for it.

Chacal:
@ Danity,

It does not work that way.
In reality, 1+1 is not always 2.
Women take men for granted when men go attention crazy.
Have u ever wondered why the wives of wife-beaters tend to stay with em despite the domestic violence and stuffs?
Don't get me wrong. . . . I don't like violence!!! It's just a THUNK.

Cheiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!
So what some men like you do is to make yourselves attention-deficient?
Have you ever wondered if some women actually like the attention because it reassures them of their positions in the man's life?
In reality 1 +1 is not always 2. However, for you to be married to a woman whom you're attention-crazy over, y'all are going to have to understand each other.
You're talking as if your wife wouldn't really know much about you.
She would have to understand that all the romance is so that she can add her side to make the marriage sweeter for both of you.

faketan:
Until you catch him eyeing a cute and smart lady who may be older than you are.

Yeah - then everything clicks into place or she shows the man pepper for looking at that cute, smart lady. It goes both ways.

Chacal:
@ Danity,

Is it that obvious i am sexist?
The crux of the issue is a woman must look after herself. . . . . . .
Once that condition is met. . . . a brother will co-operate and treat a sister in the right way.

Well then, if a man is spoiling his woman silly with attention, she'll want to please him in every way. When there is no romance, what's the use in keeping herself fit? It's not like the guy notices anyway.
Sexism won't get you very far. You need to be less sexist so you can be excluded from the typical naija men population

Chacal:
@ Danity,

You must admit it is one-sided for Black couples.
A Black sister's idea of romance in Nigeria is to cook goathead stew for her husband.
In return, she wants a boat-cruise or a romantic weekend in Hawaii. . . . . .How does that add up?

As for the bust-size, i do mind. I don't want to be choked to death.
Black sistas should sort themselves out and act straight.
Like the scriptures say, You REAP WHAT You SOW.

As for the loving her for her looks. . . . . Thats hypocrisy at the very top level.
I must like what i see before i even take the 1st step of chatting u up in the first place SO LOOKS COUNT.
Any man that comes here to say otherwise is deceitful!!!!!

Any man that says otherwise - knows what's up.
Looks count - sure but do they have to be what your relationship is based on?
If you sow a few nights of goathead soup, at least a massage or one day's vacation should be reaped.

I won't even answer you about the bust size anymore. You know what you can handle so i guess big boobs are not your style

@ faketan,
Not every fat woman is lazy. Some of them can't lose weight after they pop children out. Some are genetically fat. Smartness, however, counts. A woman who cannot carry herself has issues.
Also, if you've been romantic but the ladies have been cruel to you - you've been looking in the wrong places.

@ Stillwater - thank you oooo. They will drink beer and start grooming pot bellies.

@ Chacal - her change from lepa shandy to Godzilla shouldn't matter. You should love her for who she is.

@4him, did you just say the black man has no time for deception? They take time out to deceive the white men and con them out of their money but they don't have time to deceive their women?

Rev2bit:
That depends, give her a break and get a divorce, if you love her for her looks the relationship is lost anyway. I am not trying to be mean just the facts sir. Oh the most important sex organ is between the ears not the legs, we all get old and not so pretty, but real love is loving the person not the shell. : {>

Una wan kill me? Ah ahn

Okay - first come, first serve.

@4him,
I love my color because I don't have different shades when it comes to conveying my expression.
Oh no he didn't! Did you just call black women - abrasive and loud? Not all black women are abrasive. The abrasion must have been caused by the man and his unromantic side.
The cruise was just an example.
We're the ones who tolerate their sorry behavioural problems.

Chacal:
Stop clutching at straws, will ya?

Romance shouldn't be one sided.
Unfortunately for Black sisters(especially Nigerians), Romance is material things.
Try send a Naija chic bouquet or romantic card on her birthday and watch the drama she would bring to a brother's door step.
Mr Bigg's sausages and TFC Chicken nuggets is her own version of Romance.
For Black sistas, it is food, ice-cream and chocolates. . . . . . . Anything in trousers willing to provide that for em is romantic.

Thanx for mentioning vow renewals. . . . .
Like the Holy Scriptures go. . . . You reap what u sow.
White women take care of themselves even in marriage. . . . They keep fit, look trim and are good value for money anytime, t in their life span.
They don't stop looking good. . . . The whole attitude is the same like they were still SINGLE.

Black-sisters? Puhleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeee
Just 6 months in marriage. . . . . they blow up like Nitro. From 34B to 42 FF. . . . .Belly protudes like an expecting momma elephant.
The ass is something else. . . . . .It flattens the tyres everytime they ride in a brother's SUV. . . . .
Now tell me. . . . . .Which Black brother will be considering a romantic cruise with such women??

Lol at TFC and Mr. Biggs. Romance is not one-sided all the time.
At the same time there is a difference between romance and provision. I agree.
Is it hard for a guy to put some food in a basket and take a woman out on a picnic? _{I'm westernized, yes and I hate myself for it.}
Black guys expect to come home from work and be catered to but how do they cater to their women in return? By giving her money to buy clothes for the children or by giving her money to buy groceries?
How many times do they get their wives gifts just for the sake of it? Or how many times, do black men cook for their wives and wait on her - hand and foot for one day out of the 52 weeks a year without it being an occasion.

As for the bust size - as long as it's not drooping, i think y'all should be thanking God for the increase in bounties

The ass - what can we say - we are just naturally endowed to have that part. At least some of the black sistas out there.

These gaynners have a messed up sense of reality.
I mean, how could y'all be so confident? I'm ashamed of your players and very unimpressed.
First, you come into our thread, blabbing crap about how you're better because you were leading.
We trashed you 4 - 0, yet some of you still had the guts to open your traps.
After that - you tied with Middlesbrough, Birmingham and you still somehow have the guts to brag.
The game against AC was surprising in a way but I have to say the gaynners deserved it because they had more chances with the net than a fat kid reaching for a chocolate cake.
To make it worse, Manchester United is now leading. Instead of y'all to start showing a little humility, what do you do? - you start dissing us. I swear y'all amaze me.

Wengay is probably awake now forming excuses for Sunday's game.
If Arsenal loses to Chelsea, I will seriously cry on your behalf because that means Liverpool and Torres will rip y'all to shreds.
If you tie - I'll come celebrate with you.
If you win. . . . . . . . . . .


well let's face it, that's just not happening.

4 Play:
It should be,"trophies are not our priority this season".