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Just got my approval SMS now. 300k approved.

From your post, you are a religious person.

Adultery is a basis for divorce.

Divorce her and move on.

Hope you took the evidence as you will need it in court!

Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

While I agree with you to an extent, I know that one is not doomed to fail because of his upbringing. While we can not change the past, we can change the future, we can overcome a loveless upbringing by showing love to others!

Hezekiah in the Bible was a good example. I will share my research on him on how he overcome his loveless upbringing and became one of the best kings of Judah!

IntersexSherry:
Love should start from the family. Was my family even together? All i saw was my mum keeping conflict with all her siblings and telling us not to communicate with any of them.
My mum and dad always fighting and we the kids rushing out to separate.
My dad cheating on my mum severally, doesn't even bring money for anything in the house. My mum always complain to us how she regrets marrying him . She was the bread winner in our family. She is strong and independent.
Wish they paid more attention to their kids especially me.
Then we go to school? All the bullying i faced from other kids there, i was strong too like my mum so i never let their bullying win over me.
Though you may ignore bullies but they can really damage someone's mental health.
My childhood was no fun, all i did was study just to pass grades.
There comes my elder brother who also bullies me at home too.
Hanging out with family and friends? No
Partying? No
Dating/having sex? No
I lived like a nun, was in so much isolation. This was when i learnt to start isolating myself.
Then i found out am intersex, another big problem in my life. I had to drop out of school due to the bullying i faced for being different.
My mum had to tell me to leave, she couldn't bear to keep on seeing me like this. At least my mum and younger bro were the best people that ever happened to me.
I left home long time ago, started surviving in this cruel world alone looking so androgynous. Everyone would stare at me wondering ''is that a girl or a boy"
Difficult for me finding a job or making good social relationship. Everyone was confused about my gender.
So then i had to stick to the female gender i identified with the most then most of the bullying and society stigmatization became less.
I still need to do lot of surgeries on myself but so far am still thriving.
It been hell so far and loneliness.

Oga, I have a different perspective to this issue!

Kindly file for divorce, get married and move on.

Even if you found out that the boy is yours, what next? Do you still want to live with her?

I thought you said you were happy the day she left your house?

You need peace of mind and That lady won't give you that!

Let her go... Focus on your life, get married and move on.

Life is too short for dramas.

My own opinion!

Dsimple:
I got married to this lady on 3rd December 2016 in Jos, plateau state. We were both staying together until she decided to absconds from my house on May 29th 2019. She gave birth to 'our son' on 1st February 2018.
Although I can term the marriage as marriage of convinience where both of us are never happy staying together and I became the happiest man on earth the day she left even though she stole a lot of my properties while I was away for work including my ATM card and withdrawing every money from my bank account.
I reported it to her mother and her mother was threatening me with jail terms if I don't produce her daughter. Meanwhile, her dad is late even before we got married. I never knew that her mom 'rented' people to stand in for her late father claiming they are her father's family members not knowing that her father's people have since cut off the relationship between them since the issues of inheritance came in because her mom doesn't want to share a dime with them.

Fast forward to few months ago, although she don't pick my calls but we do chat occasionally on whatshapp where she has been telling me that her 'son' is not mine. The last time she said that was the third time she will be saying that.
Now I really want to know the options I have, kindly assist with valuable information if you are in the know, a lawyer preferably.

Note:

She is now in Lagos with her mother and I really don't know the exact place. When I visited Jos where the marriage took place, I found out that they've sold their house there which is now a hospital.

I really want to know if truly I'm not responsible for the birth of the boy and if he's truly my son, I can't continue to trust him on her.
If otherwise he's not mine, I believe there should be a form of punishment for infedelity while under marriage contract. Besides, I think I deserve to be fully compensated for all the time we were together, the money she stole, the care I gave her, the nursing of her pregnancy, the monies I do transfer to her mother and siblings, the monies I spent in marrying her, her clothing and shelter while we were together etc.

Kindly advise, criticisms are also welcome.

Thanks.

If this is genuine, I am interested! Can we chat?

Julibet:
Just got talking with someone in Abj and he told me of some slots for sale in some A-list agencies. The least was 1.2m.. When he told me that it was a senator that was selling it, I just weak. If it was middle men, I would have understood. But with their fat salaries they still want to collect the small one we have. What hope does the average Nigerian youth with no money and connection have if not God? I'm sincerely weak here.

TPound:
550-600k

Will surely reach out once am ready! Thanks

Morning TPound, will favor a Mercedes Benz C180, 1997 - 2000, Auto, Registered. The one that be driven down to south east. What should I budget? Thanks!

7GB is for my phone. Office data is locked and only works on my system. So I can't use it on my phone. So I buy data for my phone and use laptop in the office.

UNDERSTAND?

JIMMY1393:
Unlimited data and you only used 7GB....I'm disappointed

Used 7. Something GB. And that is because in the office, it is unlimited data

Location?

Location? Engine pics?

Where are you based? You don't need to give up the baby for adoption. You need support to start fending for yourself. I need to talk to you. U can reach me on 07039650495.

Mizflo:
Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.

Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .

I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.

My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.

I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .

She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me .
Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..

My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until
I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.

My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.

If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.

I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.

please no insult what is your advice for me.

Thanks

What's the update? Have op made headway in the discovery?

650? Location?

Had the same fears when I got an offer to move to Maiduguri city 10 months ago. Before then, I have rejected offers offered me by colleagues I ve worked with before.

I made enquiries, and took the offer. Wifey cried the day I left home, asking me to come back alive and not leave her and my 10 months baby.

Did u know I got to Maiduguri and am still there.

However rule no 1 for me is safety. Which means I fly abuja to Maiduguri, when going, and maiduguri Abuja and then took bus to Enugu where my family is.

For me take the offer , save money, don't ever travel travel to yola via road. Always fly.

Thank you

Epistemology:
I need public opinion on this, please spare me your time.

I currently work in Abuja and my monthly salary is #75k a month, so I recently got another job offer in YOLA #170k a month including accomodation......
I actually asked family and friends for their thoughts and advice on me moving to Yola....and I got a lot of negative feedback. The reply are as follow;

A Male friend: Yola is not a peaceful place, there's insurgency there, and I'm in that stage of my life where I need to start thinking of settling down and this might not bode well for me as I might not want to settle down in Yola...( BTW, I'm a 24yr old female.)

Best friend: I'm naturally an introvert(I'm socially awkward) even in Abuja I don't mingle well, if I go to Yola, my Social life will be dead, I might be living a monk's life and also the issue of insecurity.

Parents: if the place is safe, I should go for it.

Northern Colleague: Yola is a very nice and cool place to live with lower cost of living, but I might find it difficult transitioning from Abuja life to Yola.

Me: I lived all my life in the south, and you know how we have this perception of northern states, the first northern place I've been to so far is Abuja, truth is I don't know how safe Yola town is, I have a colleague who moved to Yola for work, but then she's from there so I can't really compare with her...............I already made up my mind that I was going to reject the offer and keep my job in Abuja while looking out for better opportunities...... HOWEVER, after receiving my salary yesterday and buying food, paying bills and sending money home....I noted that 75k is small sha (I always know that sha) , and the fact that I've not been getting feed back from jobs I applied for....now I'm having a second though about the offer, should I go?, Should I not go?

BTW, the position will really boost my CV


If you were in my shoe, what are the things you'll consider and what will you do?

Price and location?

How much?

Donbukkytech:
need someone who can help with writing a thesis on the following topic


Monocular Depth Estimation Using Whole Strip
Masking and Reliability-Based Refinement

attached below is a reference material

5k for thesis? Bros fear God na, even if u no fit fear humans. Better go and write ur thesis your self.

Just relax and enter the bank on Monday. Walk up to them and complain, after hearing from them if in the negative, heaven will fall!

Pls post pictures that are very clear. Are they toks or Nigerian used. Let's see everywhere. Thank you

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More pics

Its been a while peeps.

But don't forget, we are still here and Painting is what we do!

Which of the 2 cars are u advertising? The silver or the red one? What other interior?

600k?

oga go to adman thread and get CLEAN car from Canada. https://www.nairaland.com/5167845/n1200000-less-tokunbo-cars

basiekanem25:
Pls where can I buy Toyota Corolla 2005 with 1.6 million naira

mummyz:
I will like to confirm if there is any hidden fault that might be wrong with this car so that the buyer can be aware of before inter state travel, i will be paying 300k and this is my whatsApp digit 08080487115 you might want to chat me up so that we can discuss.

I have wondered the same thing. How can a car so cheap not be sold until now. But then, I have always heard that cars are cheap for a reason?