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300? What are the issues with the car?
NB: it not 2001, 2001 is w203, this is w202, 1996/7 model

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The bible didn't say when Solomon was born or how old he was when he came king. But it did say when he became king. 1037 BCE. And reigned for 40 years. His son succeeded him in 997 BCE

youngest85:
First hundred people to tell me the age of king solomon of the bible

Savagery at its height..... Real women support their men and earn respect..

crackkhaus:
Women 100x better than you obviously.

Kill yourself...

You are just 24 and you are complaining. What are your achievements in life? Y don't you focus on earning a living to support your man. Because if are earning something, together u too can rent a place n move out.

You have not entered the family, yet u are already complaining of you can't cook. In your house, don't you cook for your siblings everyday? But occasional cooking for your man n his siblings is draining.

You have not entered the family but you stay with them.


Listen to me, when you finish dreaming, u will wake up. Don't rush him. Build your self up and start earning money.

About your period being 2 days late, when you were doing what married people were doing, did you call us. Now you are telling us.

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

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Thanks

Pls, what are the issues with the car?

Can help me source for Mercedes Benz C class 180 w202 Automatic? How much? My budget is low!

Post Engine pictures.... And interiors, can it reach East from Lagos?

500k? Hope no underneath rust issues?

Automatic? What are the issues with the Car?

500k? What is the problem with the car?

Hello, can u share with me pictures of the 4plugs and location. Interior and exterior. U can send to my whatsapp - 07039650495

eRex:
600k 4plugs

2001 model
AC working optimum

250k? are u game?

someone else with safari as username is also advertising the same ride as 2008 for a higher amount

Describe an event using 5 sentences

madone:
op this small thing u can explain in 5 sentences why this long espistle

na them ......

SURElee:
Ask your mum to get a new partner, abi didn't I read she is divorced? It is boredom that is making her want to
live be included in your marriage life. When you were wedded at the altar, where you joined like this man+mother +wife? If not, get the marriage equation right and let your manipulative mother know she can't manipulate your wife, it won't work.

As foe your wife, when she sees less of your mom interfering in her marriage, a MIL and DIL can be built. Clearly your wife is a choleric who is blunt and won't pretend.

Did you read anywhere the OP said his mom wants to run her home?

The truth is women are their worst enemy. Believe me , your wife will face the same thing with your son's wife.

For me, I have been there and still there. When you are wrong I tell you to your face you are wrong, with or Mama, AND BOTH RESENT ME FOR THIS. ADULT SHOULD BEHAVE LIKE ADULT, WIFE LIKE WIFE. BOTH SHOULD RESPECT EACH OTHER.

MY MOM HAS BEEN A WIDOW FOR 21YEARS PLUS, RAISED 7 CHILDREN ALONE. SHE HAS A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY LIFE.

WIFY IS MY BETTER HALF, HAS A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART.

BOTH ARE IMPORTANT TO ME. ONE CANT CLAIM SOLE ONWERSHIP OF ME.

PUT EACH OF THEM IN THIER PLACE. FOR YOUR OWN SANITY N PEACE OF MIND!

Lucid1:
Some mothers don't know where to draw the line, it's rather unfortunate that it has come to this.

I feel for you bro, you don't want to hurt your mom's feelings by putting her in her place but you gotta find a way to do it. Let her allow your wife to run her home, too much interference is the major issue here.

But truly who owns the man, his wife or mother?

ariyebaba:
can i meet u ?

Aren't you scared that the moniker just registered on the 24th, of this month. That fine girl may not be the face behind that moniker.

If you must meet her, please do so in a public place.

Thank you Sam, just what I am saying. I have been in Borno for some months now. My first rule is, fly to abuja and continue to the east. Coming home this holiday and returning back to Borno, I spent plenty just to be safe. I booked a return ticket, its very expensive, but safety first.

I even nhad to plead with a colleague not to drive to plateau, as he came with his c class to Maiduguri. The guy insisted. He left base on Saturday, that route was attacked on Sunday. I called and told him that such risk are uncalled for. We have families waiting for us, putting bread on their table and returning safely to them is paramount.

If you're Implementing any intervention in Borno, please stay safe

SamuelAnyawu:
Me no fit try that Auno,Benisheikh, Mainok axis oh. Once i wanna travel for leave i just book Air to Abuja. Although it's cost demanding on me. But i no get option

Madam go home. See what disobeying your parents have caused you. Anybody supporting you with any thing is not helping you. Go home. Don't ruin your life the more. That is my advice...

Which humanitarian worker in Borno does not know that Monguno - Maiduguri road is a no go area. I have friends implementing GBV intervention in Monguno. They fly chopper to the place and back to base in Maiduguri.

This to me is very very uncalled for. Why would she talk that risk? Even if office refuse to book chopper for her, why didn't she book with her money?

Hope others learn from this.



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ahiboilandgas:
I actually intend helping 5 people radom get federal govt job next year (dont as me how ) am close to chairman house committes on........am very displead by the gross display of stupidty ,defeat by nigerians offering 1m to jobs that u might never gather 1m in your accounts ....25 slot was given free this year ...from when the member was sworn in to now

I have a younger brother who needs a job. I will prefer any federal parastatal or agency. I will pay if you are genuine.

Hello house,

I have a kid brother who needs a job. I am ready to pay for him to the any federal job. Not ministry o!. Any parastal will do.

If you are serious, I am in. Let's talk.

See my signature on how to reach me!

What's the cost of Honda civic 2006 European used? Mercedes Benz C class 180 1998

That's how people put themselves in trouble. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. HE WILL JUST GET WORSE WHEN YOU GUYS GET MARRIED. FLEE WHEN YOU CAN. THE SIGNS ARE VERY GLARING NOW.

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

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danny34:
Pls can you help a brother and forward the past question to my mail? Wifey is going for the test. She needs some thing to prepare with. Please help a brother. danielonyedika@gmail.com

danielonyedika@gmail.com

Thanks in advance. Those who already gotten may also help us too.