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AutosRe: Sold! Sold!! Sold!!! Neatly Used 1999 Honda Accord Selling For 350k by danny34(m): 1:55pm On Jun 25, 2020
Location and final price?
FamilyRe: My Bitter Experience by danny34(m): 8:04am On Jun 25, 2020
Forget your ex wife and daughter and please move on. Life has never been fair. You need to get back on your feet. And to do that you need to be sane and clear. Let them go for now. If you have to travel, do so..

When you have find your feet, you can come prepared for your daughter.

For now, first things first.

That's my one scent!
AutosRe: I Am Planning To Acquire My First Car With A Budget Of 500K by danny34(m): 10:29am On Jun 20, 2020
Focusephraim:
Reverse camera
Leather seat
Alloyed rim
Ac chilling
Good engine and gear
450k
Slightly negotiable
09021352299

Forget about the background
The car is neater than this
Location and final price?
AutosRe: Direct Tokunbo Cars 1m And Above. by danny34(m): 8:59pm On Jun 19, 2020
Please put the price here so that others too who need the same thing can source their own. i honestly dont subcribe to whatsapp me on nairaland. put the deal here and let others see it too. I am considering the sienna because a bother is on my neck to buy it for him for business on hire purchase basis. Thats why am asking for a clean nigerian used or tokunbo.

Thanks!

Latidoh1:
Send me a message on WhatsApp
AutosRe: Direct Tokunbo Cars 1m And Above. by danny34(m): 1:28pm On Jun 19, 2020
Latidoh1:
Nigerian used, Tokunbo or pre-order?
Clean Nigerian used and tokunbo. Its for business. Let me have the estimate for both.
AutosRe: Direct Tokunbo Cars 1m And Above. by danny34(m): 9:59am On Jun 19, 2020
What of sienna 2006 model
AutosRe: tokunbo and used mercedez benz C, E, G classfor sale by danny34(m): 2:35pm On Jun 18, 2020
Dear Honeymix, I am looking for a clean Nigerian used C class w202 automatic. Is their anyone on ground?
FamilyRe: My Sister In-law Tried To Scam Me. by danny34(m): 11:14pm On Jun 03, 2020
Amya:
I've been looking to get a federal agency job in Abuja for a while now and haven't yet had any reasonable connection.

My sister inlaw ( husband's sister) a lady in her mid 40s who's divorced and a hustler type still trying to find her feet called me up one day and told me a friend of hers had a connection for Civil Defence and i should email my CV right away to her. I have never discussed jobs with her before so the call took me by surprise. I wasnt particular keen on Civil Defence and as a lawyer i had my sights much higher on parastatal or agency jobs. She might have sensed my reluctance on the phone and she went on to say

"I'm just doing you a favour ooo, many people are hoping for opportunities as this"

She had this tone of urgency.

I didnt especially like how she was hurrying me as i never approach anything with desperation and as such, have never been scammed. I told her I'll get back to her. Two hours later, she was messaging me on whatsapp that she hadn't seen my CV on her mailbox. I replied her saying

"Aunty i haven't sent it ooo, is the job slot free because me i don't have money ooo"

This was a very dicey situation for me because this woman is over 10 years my senior and i wanted to be as diplomatic as possible without causing family wahala.

She read my response but didnt reply.

Very early the next morning she called me and when i picked up, she said that the job wasnt free but the price wasnt too much, just N350k. That i shouldn't worry that she'll call my hubby (her brother) and ask him for the money. When i saw she was still pushing, i opened up to her that even if i wanted to pay for a job slot, it definitely wasnt going to be a Civil Defence job as i had my sights set on agencies and parastatals. I knew she was upset by how her voice changed. "Agencies? What's that?" I told her like NNPC, DPR, NCC and the likes
"NNPC? ehnnn.. Okay" She cut the call and i heaved a sigh that it was over. It wasn't.

Two days later, this woman called me again to tell me she has an NNPC job for me.

(you've gat to be kidding me!)

She said that her friend knows the director and he asked for one million but after begging him, he agreed to take 500k she started with her hurrying tactics that i had only 24hrs and if payment wasn't made before then that the offer will be withdrawn. At that time, NNPC were done with their recruitment process and i didnt even apply and knowing how stringent NNPC recruitment was, i knew that offer was impossible. She went on that if I didn't have the cash that she'd call her brother (hubby) to make the transfer immediately. I knew right then without a doubt that this woman wanted to use me to obtain her brother by all means. She can try to scam him directly and if he falls mugu, good for her but why try to use me in the scam? I went further with questioning her on the supposed NNPC job. "Please Aunty the director that is helping, where is he?
" Abuja nau" she replied getting irritated with my questioning.

She was in Lagos and i was in Abuja at the time
so i asked her if i could meet the supposed director one on one and pay him directly and even promised to reward her and her friend handsomely if the deal pulls through.

"No" she said abruptly "you pay the money to my account and ill give it to my friend to make the payment. All you have to do is just hope and pray"

Pray... That word. I knew then without a doubt that this Aunty was trying to scam me.

I told her "Aunty please dont be angry, i know you mean well for my future and want me to get a good job in NNPC but right now I've already paid part payment for another job somewhere and i wouldn't want to invest in two places at once" That wasnt true, i just had to get her off my tail once and for all. She was shocked. She angrily cut the call. She wanted to finesse her brother out of some cash using my future, what happens when the real slot comes around. Would i expect him to pay twice?

Her mum (mil) called me and started blasting me. Saying I'm feeling too big to be helped and her daughter was only trying to help me and now she never wanted to have anything to do with me again. That i should call her daughter and take the offer so that peace would reign. I didnt. Even my hubby blamed me and i couldn't even open my mouth to tell anyone i thought the whole setup was a scam. That's such a big accusation to make. The family dislike for me grew worse because of that incident.

Please did i do wrong?



Modified: For those asking me to talk to hubby, ofcourse i did but he genuinely believes his sister was trying to help and since i couldnt point out outright that the whole thing smelt of scam, hr thinks i rejected the offer because of pride. But i know better. It didnt cause serious issue between us though.
You did wrong. You disobeyed and disrespected your husband. Just because you feel she wants to scam you.
AutosRe: Naija Dealers Thread...............pre-order From Germany @ 450k by danny34(m): 10:17am On Jun 02, 2020
lade007:
If it's a very clean one 1mil to Lagos port
What of the 1997 model posted above? It is cheaper? And what is the estimated clearing cost?
AutosRe: Sold!!! Reg! Mercedes Benz C180 going for 350k by danny34(m): 2:17pm On May 29, 2020
donkoto:
Available
Bros 270? Make e fly
AutosRe: Direct Tokunbo Cars 1m And Above. by danny34(m): 3:59pm On May 28, 2020
How much is C180 Auto?
AutosRe: Gl 450 2008 for 2.5 by danny34(m): 11:29am On May 25, 2020
Location? Still unsold?
BusinessRe: What Business Can I Start With 1 Million To Make 5k Daily? by danny34(m): 8:04pm On May 24, 2020
Mariantus:
I earn 15k daily I try not to make too much ..... And have also assist people.... All u need for a good start is 35k if u are okay with 5k income daily... It will definitely grow bigger as you master how it works.. go online... Check for groups that share binary signals... With 35k investment.. u are sure to get that 5k daily... I personally trade on binary with IQOptions... Go to leader board n chk Nigeria... U will see an average of what people earn weekly.. with 1 million 100k sure for you on that platform... Do more research on google... You will make a lot of money if you are not greedy...
I am very much interested. How do I go about it?
AutosRe: A Good Car For 400k? by danny34(m): 9:19pm On May 21, 2020
victoreyefia:
there's a Toyota Camry drop light. for 550k.
Pictures please?
RomanceRe: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by danny34(m): 10:52am On May 18, 2020
funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
That's how w cause trouble for ourselves. Y would you scold your mom for a 22 year old girl who have not seen life. She should apologize to your mom and you should do the same for not being man enough to scold your girlfriend.

Just imagine, she expected you to scold your mom immediately and you still have time to type this and post for us. She will do worse when she is married. Better find someone older who have seen life, not a child who thinks she is been caged from freedom.
AutosRe: Gl 450 2008 for 2.5 by danny34(m): 3:04pm On May 17, 2020
350? What are the issues with the car?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Hunting At An Estate Firm: My Experience by danny34(m): 3:29pm On May 16, 2020
Run from people who try to run down your self esteem. Its is intentional, they get you to think that you are never good at anything you do or can never do anything go. You never get to grow under them. Flee from that woman!
AutosRe: For Lovers Of Mercedes Benz C Class by danny34(m): 12:34pm On May 16, 2020
honeymix77:
for the love of benz
How much can I get this baby? Still available?
AutosRe: For Lovers Of Mercedes Benz C Class by danny34(m): 12:31pm On May 16, 2020
honeymix77:
new stock available
Hey, how much can I get mercedes benz W202 C 180 1999?
AutosRe: Gl 450 2008 for 2.5 by danny34(m): 12:20pm On May 16, 2020
300? Let's deal!
AutosRe: Toyota Camry (fish) For Sale 400k Negotiable by danny34(m): 12:15pm On May 16, 2020
Please send me more pictures on Whatsapp. Let's talk 07039650495
FamilyRe: I Don’t Know Why My Dad Doesn’t Like Me by danny34(m): 7:48am On May 16, 2020
LOVE NEVER FAILS DESPITE …… A LOVELESS UPBRINGING

[b]Have you have ever been mistreated? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you have to endure a severe trial? Well, most of you dear brothers and sisters have, you have gone through difficult trials. Some of you have endured worse things, things that are horrendous even from the world stand point. Things that could have eroded your love, not only for other people, but even for Jehovah.

This is the situation for a number of people today. The book family violence makes this comment… “Evidence suggests that people are more likely to be killed, physically assaulted, or emotionally or sexually abused by other family members more than by anyone else. It even goes on to say “The place where people should be loved and feel safe is, for some adults and children, the most dangerous place of all.” Some of our friends here have experienced that unfortunately, at the same time as Christians, we cannot allow such experiences to erode our love. We must continue to show love, display it and even have love for Jehovah.

This article will help u to continue showing unwavering love despite difficult circumstances (1Co 13:cool. One of those circumstances is in upbringing where there is no love in the family, where there is no love in the house, some have endured these things. We want everyone who has endured these things to know that Jehovah loves you, we love you and Satan cannot break our love. When we look at circumstances that some have gone through, we know that Jehovah loves us because he has given us his word the bible. And in his word we gain comfort from Jehovah and his son and we find individuals who have gone through something similar. One example is king Hezekiah.

We know he is a faithful and strong king, yet at the same time let’s consider what he went through even as a youth. What did Hezekiah go through as a child? What did he have to endure that was similar to some of the things we mentioned earlier?

Think of Hezekiah’s father, his father was Ahaz, a wicked king who did not love Jehovah. Instead he loved false god’s, so much to the extent that he sacrificed his own sons - Hezekiah’s siblings to these gods, having them burnt alive. If you were Hezekiah growing up in that family where your father, your closet family member hated Jehovah, having your own brothers put to death, perhaps at some point, you may have wondered if you would be next. It could have caused Hezekiah to lose his love for Jehovah and for others. Yet Jehovah’s love was very evident to him. He was surrounded by individuals who helped him to develop and learn to love Jehovah. If you look in your bible in the Appendix A6, the second charts of kings and prophet, one of the things it points out is that the prophets who served in the time of Ahaz were Isaiah, Hosea and Micah. These were faithful prophets, ones who no doubt helped Hezekiah strengthened his love for Jehovah despite what was going on around him. Despite the fear he has about his father, Hezekiah was able to develop love and Jehovah strengthened him too.

If you were not surrounded by good examples of love as a youth, how might you imitate Hezekiah? Believe that Jehovah’s love for you is real; learn to love by imitating Him. Jehovah’s love exceeds that of any human. We find this assurance in Psalms 27:10. ‘Even if my own father and mother abandon me, Jehovah himself will take me in’

How comforting to know that Jehovah’s love exceeds that of any human parent! As painful as rejection, mistreatment, or abandonment by a parent may be, it has no bearing on how much Jehovah cares for you. (Romans 8:38, 39) Remember that God draws those whom he loves. (John 3:16; 6:44) Regardless of how you have been treated by humans, you are loved by your heavenly Father! And it helps not only us but also others who may go through the same thing. In the case of Hezekiah, He found this inspired words to be true. He was aware that Jehovah had taken him in and it was reassuring for him. That is why he learned to trust in Jehovah and that trust helped him to become a very faithful king.

That means that despite whatever we may go through in life, we can cultivate love for Jehovah and for our brothers, we can allow Jehovah to mold us and not allow Satan to break us with what we may go through. We know that Satan’s world tries to break us, but we will not allow that to happen. Like Hezekiah, trust in your heavenly Father unreservedly, and do as he instructs. Accept the love of other faithful servants of Jehovah; benefit from their example.

The world likes to think that ones who have gone through things like we have described are broken. But really once we have been drawn by Jehovah into his love we are not broken, we are loved, loved by Jehovah and loved by his people.

For us who may not have experienced such upbringing, we have to remember that others have, and we have to be patient with ones who may not have trust in us right away, and as we befriend them and show them our love , no doubt they will open up and show love as well.

Jehovah has certainly provided us wonderful examples both ancient and modern of ones who have grown in their love. As we keep this in mind, let us remember that we cannot change our past, nor do we allow our past to define us, to determine who we are. And we are not doomed to failure because of our upbringing. Remember Hezekiah became one of the most faithful kings in Judah, According to 2Ki 18: 5, there was no one like him among all the kings of Judah after him nor among those prior to him. He trusted in the God of Israel setting an example for us today to do the same.
While family love may fail, we remember that Jehovah’s love will never ever fail us. That is Jehovah’s assurance, we find this at (Read Isa 49:15) describing the depth of Jehovah’s compassion for his people, Isa 49:15 paints a picture of a love that will never ever fail. ‘Can a woman forget her nursing child Or have no compassion for the son of her womb? Even if these women forget, I would never forget you’

The tender compassion that Jehovah has for his servants is unfailing. It is immeasurably stronger than the most tender natural feeling that we can imagine—the compassion that a mother normally feels for her infant child.

And as you read the description of love in this bible verse, did your heart yearn to have someone show you that type of love? Jehovah will never forget to show love and compassion for you. It is only natural that you should feel such a longing. After all, The God of love designed us to love and to be loved, we are created in his image and that is the most important quality that we are created with. So imitate Jehovah’s love, love your brothers and you too can overcome a loveless upbringing.

If you want to reach out and seek someone to talk to, check out contact, email or Whatsapp![/b]
AutosRe: Ad Renewed by danny34(m): 2:28pm On May 15, 2020
Oga, post the cars here. It will generate traffic for you. Instead of saying contact me. A car that is posted here ensures many people will look at it.
FamilyRe: FREE ! Poultry Farm Practical Training Info And Adequate Technical Knowledge by danny34(m): 4:41pm On May 14, 2020
Have sent you a mail.

Waiting for my copy!

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