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Romance / My Short Story Of Dating A Sickler!!! Whats Yours If Any by dante300(m): 7:18am On Apr 16, 2017 |
dating a sickler to me is not only choice but a path and destiny. i was 30 when i started dating her and trust me it was one of the biggest decisions i have ever made. she told me from the start about the condition and ups and downs it comes with. i wasnt claiming to be a hero but all i knew was that i was inlove...few months later she had a crisis and so i was confronted with first hand glance of pain she goes through plus the financial input attached to this type of disease. my friends left me coz they tot i was crazy to date a burden and liability. despite the fact that i hid her genotype from my family,some very potent backstabbers reported me to my family that i was taking a big risk. what motivated me during the relationship was even if we werent married it was a perfect opportunity to practice for better for worse,in sickness and in health. one year into the relationship i realised her been a sickler or what people said wasnt just just the problem...she had other issues that made me investigate further about sickle cell sufferers in africa and these affected our relationship.many people said i was dating an ogbanje and to be frank she possesed some attributes similar to the ones i searched. i dodnt just want to indict her or something i did my investigation with the aim of silencing my doubters..life became hell for me with her insecurities,emotional blackmail,contant crisis..my finance going down south,loosing myself, too much but to mention a few...she falls sick when something important is about to happen.. .. part2 is where i will hit the main jist... |
Health / I Am Addicted To Soft Drink. 3 Bottle A Day I Need Help by dante300(m): 6:18am On Mar 29, 2017 |
i recently got back to site where i work as an operation head in an aspiring construction company. a village in southern kaduna. i do not know how to cook but rely on any food i can get but the food sold in a village like this is worrysome so i have no choice but to manage. in the process i try to neutralise my taste bud by taking soft drink anytime i eat....now its already a habbit from 1 and 2 to 3 bottle a day depending on howmany times i eat. its over few months now and i realised i am addicted. 21 bottles per week and roughly 84 per month.i dont know what to do as i still feel healthy. no pile no diabetes no nothing but i fear for my future. what do i do reverse my situation? |
Romance / Shez 20 And Am 34 Dont Know If The Age Diff Is Bad 4 Marriage by dante300(m): 7:23am On Mar 25, 2017 |
i am inlove with a 20yrs old virgin . she loves me too and willing to marry me while she still studies..problemvis am planing to go see her family but dont know if our age difference will stand as a barrier. we are both christians but trom different cultural group..i needbhonest opinion coz i intend to marry her. i do not intend to have sex with her untill we are married.help a brother. coz i feel no point dating her if it wount lead to marriage coz am ready this year after a bad breakup last year. |
Romance / Can Anybody Explain The Difference Between A Witch And An Ogbanje? by dante300(m): 6:38pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
I am eager to know coz maybe we have one or both in my estate....their characteristics are all I need. just to watch out |
Romance / Re: Remember My Girlfriend Who Doesn't Pick My Calls Every Evenings? I Cut_her by dante300(m): 10:33am On Jul 21, 2016 |
saaedlee:If u were in my shoes all this rubbish u are bodered about wount matter to u....I didn't ask u in person to judge me. U sound more pained than me. My saying she is a msc for phd student is just a mistake all I know is that shez bagged her msc and currently doing her phd. In between the yrs we've dated it was of and on don't u get it. I wount be mad at myslef for making mistakes after all wetin dey my head is biger than this confusion u are trying to cause. Bliv me or not. U get urself thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Remember My Girlfriend Who Doesn't Pick My Calls Every Evenings? I Cut_her by dante300(m): 10:55pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
My last complain about my supposed wife to be which had about 600 comment and 46,000 views need further updates especially those who felt bad about the occurrence. I don't know how to take u back to the previous write up but if u care to know just go to my profile and u will build up from there. Here is the full gist....its not in my making to intrude in someone else's privacy but when its got to do with whom I spend my hard earned money for and whom I have freely given my heart to I think at this juncture my action is justified. For someone I intend to marry that doesn't pick up my calls all evening calls for suspicion isn't it? Well some of those people who commented, asked me to put a hidden camera in her room which i did without thinking twice. To cut long story short,what I saw in the footage is unbelievable.....I took it in good faith because I had already known what I would see even b4 fixing the hidden camera. The powerful question now is...if this girl can cheat on me,every nigerian man better watch his back. The Nigerian young woman have taken over the cheating game. Am not in anyway beefing the Nigerian woman(may God bless them) but what I mean is that the woman is not designed to cheat. Men are polygamous and woman aren't and so when such happens its very weird especially when it happens to someone nice like myself.... . I aint getting younger. The only girl I've had sex with without protection,well am going for a test tomorrow. I have waisted a fortune on her, I wonder what more I could do for a human being again. An msc holder,now phd student.what type of brain does she need to know what she really wants in life? The room I paid the rent for another guy comes to visit? Its so unfair...I do not deserve all of this at all....,now I have trust issues. Someone I am 100% faithful to....I just do not know what next to do...- have dumped her already problem now is telling my immediate family that its over even after preparing for our wedding by december.broken relationship is better than broken marriage right?she so does not deserve me.....sad part is the guy shez cheating on me with knows she's engaged. Wow.its so not good. relationship this days is so not easy. Its no wonder shez always laid back when the issue of me intending to visit her in school comes up..I trusted her so much. I tot her age(32)would make her wiser but no. Some people may think I don't satisfy her. Well truth is any woman who doesn't get satisfied 30min of 1st round up to 3rd round is definitly a nymphh... Or maybe she just doesn't love me or just don't know what she wants.its so sad. Forgive my poor write up..nobe that one dey worry me now. Wetin dey worry me is how to get my waisted time back 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 10:18pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
dante300:Wish u were seriuos. |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 2:27pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
RUBYRUBY:Lol @ ruby... 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 8:47am On Jun 09, 2016 |
chachanga:Thanx for that prayer,I wish u the same and even much more. |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:26pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
MULLAH123:Thanx for the epic prayer...I have nothing to say to u than to wish u the same and even much more. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 8:03am On Jun 08, 2016 |
sashishalom:Thank u so much u are so sweet. Appreciate 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:36am On Jun 08, 2016 |
adewumiopeyemi:Whenever I ask why she will turn the issue upside down...she will start saying I am a complain box...it is out of respect that I haven't fixed a hidden camera in her crib or pay someone to study her movement. Don't just know what to do. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:33am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Babzilla:I wish I could turn back the hand of the clock..... This is someone I ve spent well over 2mill supporting her education.... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:30am On Jun 08, 2016 |
BrideOfDracula:Yes I still got it...thank u so much.....gracias 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:15am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Gliterrati:From my own side I doubt if I have issues with her. Except she is the one having issues with me. Just can't understand why I can't trust som1 I intend to settle with. Couldthis be the reason why most handsome men marry ugly woman just to have rest of mind.... 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:12am On Jun 08, 2016 |
fabulous85:What do u advice....@35do I actually stop and solve my problem or I should walk away and start a whole new relationship that could be worse? |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 7:08am On Jun 08, 2016 |
BrideOfDracula:I feel ur advice |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 6:55am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Gliterrati:Let's say 5days out of every week idont get to speak with her...bought her 2 smartphones plus one other touchlite phone that the battery last longer but yet new stories everyday.... |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 6:53am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Jorussia:At this stage it isn't a concrete evidence yet...just suspicion....remember am still human at 35 and I have to takethings stepby step... I appreciate uthanx |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 6:39am On Jun 08, 2016 |
bedford101:Will do just that 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 6:38am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Jorussia:Bin 35 doesn't make me a magician 23 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:46pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
4reala:Her reason is she has not charged her phone or she left her phone in a neighbors room charging....haba 3 phones chargingat the same time....why is it only when she goes back to school...I agree that I am inlove and I don't have apology for that I am only human...if she is actualy cheating on me her and the other guy are the loosers not me...she will only loose a blessing like me.... 34 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:41pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
pcguru1:If I was 25 I for no boder if woman cheat on me......dude I am 35 and if I getwoman wit such potential my case is as good as LVG. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:38pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
iAmCharis:I told her to cut the hair she said I am stingy...I said ok let's make it 5k monthly...I still stingy....women...ok 9 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:30pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Cutehector:Suicide is the last thing on my mind....my football team keeps me happy whenever my relationship is haulted...its just to port...but on a serious note. I wount commit suicide for a woman 24 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:26pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
pcguru1:I wasn't drunk when I clearly wrote every evening....when she is with me in her 4lines are consistently active like cr7 but when she returns to school her line is inconsistent like memphis depay. 226 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:24pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
ronald4lif:I hardlygo to her school coz am alwaysbusy with work....uknow na I have to hustle...5k every 2weeks for just hairstyle no be akara....I need to get a tip off or something...truth is I nolonger trust her. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:17pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
ronald4lif:I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:09pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
ronald4lif:Damn.....oh my God....I hope not ....hmmm. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:07pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
pcguru1:Thank u so much..God bless. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Her Phone Is Always Switched Off Every Evening by dante300(m): 11:01pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Dating her for 5years now..contemplating marrying her..currently doing her phd..she's just 32yrs ,am 35 .I love her so much....no longer sure if all this will work out....she schools in a neighboring state and every God given evening her cell is swicthed off. Wenever I ask why, we end up quarelling. I don't know how long all this will end. Almost thinking of joining that school of thought where I will just have children and forget marriage. I haven't made up my mind though. Just thinking. Trust issue is choking me. I don't care if people think am insecure but I have bought her 3 different phones, powerbank etc just so I can get her on atleast one of her 4lines....all switched off....maybe I am crazy....I don't know I need advice....castigate me or abuse me nairalanders I don't care...coz trolls nogo do me anything....n my relationship matter to me now but I know better people go answer me wisely...sorry for the typing error...I dey vex. P.s_ I am using a friends nairaland acc in my quaters...call me....nanle. 47 Likes 6 Shares |
Politics / Re: Jonathan Opens Up: I’m Being Investigated For Corruption By Buhari by dante300(m): 10:33pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
kaffy4tope: I don't mean to insult u but my opinion is simple and direct.....U NOGET SENSE AT ALL |
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