Please don't go about hiding a camera in her room, that will quicken your death. My simple advice for you is that you should start saving your 5k every two weeks plus other logistics and look for another lady to marry. I belt you any relationship that there is no trust kills faster than AIDS. You are going to die if you continue like this.

Regards

Penisinpenisout:


Bro, you should do it if you can
Also post video clip in xvideos and link us.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]lols..bad guy

It's very clear bro. Your girl friend is cheating g and do t be surprised if she born pikin soon.

She is still has an iota of respect for you for switching it off. The chronic cheaters will leave it on so when you ca,one small boy will be drilling her pun any and she will be talking to you with low voice ad when you drop,they will both make gat of you.

When you ask a woman why she even passwords her phone and she turns it I to a fight?mr man. Just keep knacking her and use condom always. Just know u can't spend rest of your life with such woman.

At 32 she is soppose to be open but if she ain't. She got someone knacking her. Happened to me.

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

hgheeng.... am not sure u can handle d out come well. y don't u just go confront her with all this doubt and c if she can convince u. you deserve to be sure of what u know.

dante300:
nanle.

You both need to sit down and iron this out especially without quarrels, there is need for communication and at you various ages, you both are supposed to be too matured not have this flow in this (communication) aspect of relationship.

Please don't go about hiding a camera in her room, that will quicken your death. My simple advice for you is that you should start saving your 5k every two weeks plus other logistics and look for another lady to marry. I belt you any relationship that there is no trust kills faster than AIDS. You are going to die if you continue like this.

Regards

Op, walahi u don late..... Forget all these vocabs here.... Just change gear b4 u start dey regret am.... Bitches have bn disappointing since the time of "Adam".

Bro there's a better woman out there for you, just that guys take good women for granted and end up with the ones that will make them regret, just calm down, everything will be fyn, it is clear that the lady does not love you the way you do, you guys were not meant to be

ronald4lif:
She could be living with some other guy and can't talk with you at night hence switch off her phones. That should be the only reason.

You are the bf during the day
She's got another at night
You supply her needs during the day
Another supplies at night

dante300:

I wish I could turn back the hand of the clock..... This is someone I ve spent well over 2mill supporting her education....

bro u better act fast before u know u re investing for someone else to come and king! Guy act fast no dull abeg!
Dump her ass before she dumps u..prolly she's waiting to get tru wth her masters, when u hv paid all the necesry fees..she will shoot.

Joice21:
Don't wanna discount your arguement..you may b right but not completely accurate.

From a lady's perspective , if a lady is really into a guy she will always make time no matter how busy she is .
I feel she is Into another person ,switching off 3 lines at once says it all
I suggest you let her be .

KINGwax007:
I deliberately quoted u so that u may read this first hand...

I was in the same shoe...kept buying phones and it all happened that she was fuckin her neighbor!

Whenever I want a rational explanation while the phone is switched off in a state that has more than 18hrs power supply, it's all a fight.

Eventually, I found out it was wot i feared. I bolted.

It's better u. end it now.
Mine was also 5yrs. There areare no two way to it!

thatst what am telling the dude mine was for 6yrs wen i gave her unexpected visit i caught her with her
neigbour coming out from a guy house from another compound,God so kind they never knew i have a friend in that compound

Man, you are not as important to her as you should be, if that's what's truly happening. Please don't try to force what is not. Find someone that loves and respects you and marry her.

My advice to all: no woman is doing a man a favour by marrying him and no man is doing a woman a favour by doing same. There are some signs you see in the beginning of a relationship that always ends up causing pain and suffering.

And for the lady that thinks 5 years is too long, some people can marry someone they met last week - their business, while some may have to start as friends and work their way gradually. Different strokes....

Man up and move on with your life.

victorazy:



I saw it on ur face and ur heart.
You don't really have much problem indeed.
U don meet prophet today
U see am a genius!
But not perfect

prophet kor. u just predict and it enter u come dey form prophet. na three games u pick o, come even make am cutting 2. that is, even if two of the options u picked are wrong u still get to win.

oga,i think u shld just pay her a surprise visit. get to her school first and call to tell her you are around. u will get some clarification as regards ur concerns with the way she responds and how the visit ends up. all we could say here is just mere speculations. going to her school unannounced will settle the whole thing. relax bro.i am sure you will be fine regardless of how d situation might be. cheers

surprise visit is the solution bro, kindly appear at night and knock her door. dnt go during d day. anything u see dnt let it come as a surprise to u.

I'm surprised you are not in contact with any of her friends.
What do people do in relationships these days?

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

Oga you be FBI? concentrate on your job and let her be or better still pay her a surprise visit in the evening and get your shocker or joy

The 'Likes' have it.

OhMyG0d:
And that should happen EVERY EVENING or you didn't read what the OP said??

If you believe that Girl has a Cockroach in her wardrope, a dead fly in her tea, a paste in her butter, Hit LIKE.
If you believe she's not "co-habiting" or using OP as a "maga", make you press SHARE.

pcguru1:
Could be the stress of PHD or she might just want personal time, during my time in school , I switched off my devices because I really wanted no calls and just alone time, maybe you need to take your attention, at 32 I sincerely doubt she's gonna start playing games.

Doing a real PhD is like having a husband or a wife and you will need to devote time -24/7 to it. You dream it, you drink it, you eat it, you bathe it, and you sleep with it. You are lucky both of you are not married yet, the next you would have thought of is divorce. So have patience until she is [b]P[/b]hinally [b]D[/b]one. Good Luck!

What stops you from going to visit?
that way,i think you will have all the ans to the qus you seek

olubenjazzy:
Bros. I tink only she has d best reason (or shud I say only she can choose to tell what's wrong with her phone being switched off every evening)

But my best advice for u is that PLEASE IN D NAME OF GOD TRY AND TAKE D WORRIES OF HER NUMBER NOT GOING TRU @ NIGHT OFF FROM UR MIND. because it will keep bordering u and won't even stop and d more u want to know why d more she keep ignoring nt giving u any reason. Have been in dat shoe b4.... SO D TIN I DO IS IGNORE IT WHENEVER D THOUGHT WANT TO COME TO MY HEAD I WILL JUST TAKE IT OFF AND BE POSITIVE (later I knw d reason without asking)

So just stop asking her. And don't bother in dailing her number from 2pm till d next day. Practice and master it 4 few weeks or even months. U can even try and continue it till she finish her PhD prog. Stop calling her every evening and bet IT, SHE WILL START TO BE D WORRIED PERSON. because there will b a time when she will start turning on her phone in d evening and she doesn't see ur call or chats arnd evening time. She will want to know why u stop dailing her lines in d evening or @nyt b4 she go 2 bed and den d matter will be settled.

GOD WILL RESTORE UR RELATIONSHIP BACK IJN (because if u don't like her____her forming/shakara won't bother ur mind)

Take care o

I like ur suggestion but I still think he shld pay her a surprise visit.

ronald4lif:
She could be living with some other guy and can't talk with you at night hence switch off her phones. That should be the only reason.

you make some sense

Cutehector:
so after satisfying your curiosity, i hope u wont commit suicide? Cuz what u may see will be really shocking..

A colleague of mining is planning to fix a spy camera to monitor her nanny and child, i told her ensure you inform your husband, where the on and off switch of the spy camera is located!

Ishilove:

Which yeye stress of PHD? Is it not the same PHD which I'm familiar with?

Abegi, the girl's ways are not pure jare.

Look am just giving my opinion, there's always two sides to a story just giving an alternative rather than accusing someone i don't know

chachanga:
All dis kain "Suegbe" muguns with their ajebo threads sef.

U betterngo and install d cams in her flat and get ur customised heart-attack; the type coming for you will only happen once.

It will tske u a decade to get over it but, trust me, ur brain memory card will format @nd reload necessary data by itself .

Shioor, e pele 4 u

Thanx for that prayer,I wish u the same and even much more.

omobaekiti:
very comforting

hehehe i don't give people hope most times esp in relationship advice, i prepare them for the worst, too much hope breeds dissappointments

Sparkles003:

bros please help me clap for your self.you try well well.i hope when your own babe begin manifest this kind rubbish attitude you no go open thread dey condem the women race.
op,no matter how busy you are you cannot be busy every night and not expecially to someone you love enough to want to be with forever.trust is a very very essential most expecially in a distance relationship as the mind tends to play pranks on one so it is left for both parties tru effective communication to remove those thoughts of the mind
so my advice.shine your eyes very very well to avoid stories.

During my time, i never picked my calls, by nature am not a friendly person i still have pings that i haven't read in months, and that's just me, though sacrifices must be made which i understand, so i understand that she must at least try to communicate

Her age has notin to do wit dis.she may be cheating on u ,she may not. Left alone to me, bros if u cant get urself to spy on her or find out wats going on by giving someone a tip off or confronting her in school one evening unannounced then take a very long walk from her life and save urself d stress and heart break cos u may end up hurting more than u expected.

Greenbullet:
op,I wished u were like me .kia no gal has messed with my heart. or. emotions before anytime I notice a strange behaviour ,I just end the relationship .
let me remind you the. ratio of men to women in Nigeria 1-8 .
PS: I have never spent more than 1k on any gal.

baba, I gree with you till I saw the part of "I never spend pass 1k ontop gal" its either u still dey secondary skul or you are a liar....