Don't let anybody guilt trip you into marrying her oh, marriage is forever oh, stick to your status.
If you're still looking for ways to break up with her tell her you're a sickle celler... SS or AS Genotype

1st December

MPESA:



This is lies bro , women are the same all-over the world... Infact Nigerians girls better to compare to other Africa counterparts such as South Africa, Kenya, zimbabwe, Ghana etc.

I agree with you here aha, South African and Zimbabwean women are very promiscous

cocolacec:


White ladies are more sexually active than Nigerian women.They fornicate without remorse.
White women will sleep with two brothers or two friends without remorse.

They dont mind if they cause fight among your relatives or friends.Marriages with whites dont last,she might decide to leave you for another man after 10,20 or 30 years.You have to share house chores responsibililties.

Your solution is to look for a woman with good moral principles.Your sisters can recommend girls they know have good morality.Women understand themselves.
Men and women need to employ the service of their family member of the opposite gender to access their intending spouse/girlfriend.

Women are the same worldwide, I agree but the rate of gold digging and promiscuity, in economically disadvantaged countries like Nigeria is alarming.
Concerning white women, I have friends who've either dated or married them and it's all positive reviews.

Bro please don't spend that much on a Gf, una never marry and besides, it's obvious she doesn't like You, talk to her about her behaviour if it turns out fruitless send her packing.

Marvyx:
That number 1 is where so many people miss it. The fear of God in a person will eliminate so many premium tears..

You are In the spirit abeg, I've concluded that the fear of God is the number one thing you should look for when choosing a life partner.

If you follow this advise walai you'll die early, na wetin one of my uncle de suffer now, didn't care too much about the wife's past not knowing she has been in 3 marriages also rendering the men useless, and rippi g them of their wealth, now doing the same to my uncle.

Omo de try know person past oh, decisions made in the past has an effect on the quality of your future.

I just told myself that if my relationship ends, I am going for a white lady, a lot of Nigerian girls are morally debased... if you think I'm lying travel to Europe or other African countries and see the high quality and standards of their women

FreeStuffsNG:
It beats my imagination how the FG sits by with reckless abandon and allow trained hands it trained or substantially subsidise their training to immediately graduate and head overseas to work there leaving their parents behind for others to care and attend to.

If you go overseas, you better take your family along, especially your parents. This is because nobody here will take you serious when you are overseas and start suggesting interventions when your parents get into health crisis. It happened recently with Dr Malaifa. Nigerian health care professionals who stay back mock them with "sebi it is us who can't go overseas to practice too and abandon our parents? ". Even if you are staying far from Nigeria because you are from a dysfunctional family system here at home, to avoid stories that touch, take your parents along or that Nigerian system you cheated will , sadly, consume them. I know few who come home only for funerals and it's sad listening to their accounts of how their parents die without reaping the benefits of having children who are healthcare professionals.

Those who stayed behind to develop and serve their fatherland could as well have left like you too. As we type here, Cuban health care professionals will hardly leave their country and considered one of the least paid in the world but for the love for their country and parents, they stay within their country and serve. Since all these years we have been "exporting " doctors, Pharmacists, Nurses etc overseas, we have never seen any of our 'exports' on Forbes list or rank high among wealthy Nigerians, making one to wonder if they are truly that successful financially overseas. I even see a few do better here than some overseas! So who is NMA fooling?

Honestly, I blame the FG for not putting measures in place to get value for taxpayers who they used their money to train the NMA members. It's completely unacceptable.
All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las, they always lose. God bless Nigeria forever.

Ogbeni na Cuban doctors full USA, especially Miami. Do your home work before talking trash.

Get your international passport first.
U.S is a good option, please don't go to eastern Europe.
Apply for M.Sc in U.S, they are different budgets for different pockets

Before I used to talk a lot, it was so bad that I get up every morning praying the Lord helps me control my tongue. Now I don't talk much and it's because I find people interesting and I want to listen.

The problem is that you think about not making a fool of yourself by talking but I'll advice you to go out and deliberately meet people especially females, be a good listener from their you can start talking by giving your input.

Bro no be God leave You, you will be fine though it will take time but let her go, she's made up her mind up.
This kind thing de pain sha.

There's nothing you can do about it unless you wan make she the wear mask for public, people will always chase her, after all she's beautiful.
As far As she respects you and the relationship you're fine and be pls be confident in yourself you equally have special qualities.

Ah swear this thing do me once, I had to walk with my leg wide open, if my balls mistakenly hit my laps na die

This is about the mindset a lot of folks carry, thinking all girls are the same or want the same thing.
I hear people say stuff like all a woman wants is money, love, attention and care and she'll like You, in as much it is good to show a woman love, you'll attest to the face that there are girls you showered so much love and attention and they still left you...

People interpret love in different ways, I have met girls who will not feel worthy of your love until you are disdainful and show disaffection towards them. same applicable to men, I've seen men who do not feel worthy of a woman's love till she disrespects him or show no concern towards his advances.

So do away with your generalizations of all women want love or all men want respect bla bla, some people don't need none if those. The more you show them love or respect the more they'll drift far from you.

Treat everybody as you'll treat yourself and how they want to be treated, it is not right to throw the children's bread to dogs.
Remember that God created 7 billion humans in 7 billion ways we are not all the same.

Finally remember to love yourself and love God that's where true self esteem lies.

You don't even know somebody well you want to marry her, 2 months after wedding you'll come to nairaland looking for advice.

This guy is so funny, congrats to investor sabinus

Your analysis of the black race is extremely shallow, in as much we have pimps, ho's and gangsters amongst the black race, they are millions of black people doing very well and excelling in their respective fields.

Redbone, pinkbone or blaqbonez bla bla, black is black irrespective of the shade of your black.
Anyways Death to Racism and the racist.

Nice write up bro

Willmichael:


Hola, about this, can I have a word or two with you??

I've sent you a mail

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While I'm waiting for service I'm trying to put my hands on a couple of activities as I'm currently available for hire.
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I'm also a good tutor as I'm knowledgeable in the areas of mathematics, English, Economics and of course Accounting.
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As much as I'm not proud of this I came across my first porn video at the age of 8.
God forgive me... but I remember using knife to remove the disc from the DVD when NEPA off light.

Who ever you are I like you already, Distant Relatives is one of my best albums... I love Damian marley bro

That is why it is called comedy/jokes, it can't always be true and it's just like writing a book it can't always be true, that's why there's fiction and non fiction... Will you now say fiction books are sinful because they are not reality.
Comedians should not even be allowed on the altar anyways. I love pastor enenche but I don't agree with this.

I like Davido I oh but if e tell me ser make I come work na to run oh...
Something fishy is going down

I swear womanizing won't pay you a dime, I had to leave it seeing that following multiple women is a fools game and also thanks to the help of the holy spirit

She is sowing a seed of immorality in your mind, when you are alone this lesbian thoughts might start manifesting, don't let it take hold of your mind.

Also you seem like a passive person, stop flirting with the devil.

Ever since he had an affair with Tega, I just de look am differently, like him na mumu man.

This is a direct appeal to seun or any developer on this platform, please change the design and user interface/experience of nairaland.

The current design is a sore to the eyes, the colours are so dull, in fact nairaland looks like a throwback website. The same design yesterday, today and forever... like damn it even Instagram the change their interface once once na, haba
This site looks like the flag of Nigeria if rumpled, or if NTA was a website, it'll look exactly like this.

Please update and redesign this website thanks.

I understand the pains bro, never assume a person is totally yours, human nature is dynamic not static... have it in mind that if she loves you or hate you it doesn't change anything about you.

Please don't accept her back... thanks

Never pretend to be rich, trust me on this

Please I need friends oh...
If your cool with meeting new peeps this is my number 07018752741, Dante Moreira