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Davidnilla:
The second paragraph, yes, relocating was already part of my plans before it happened. I just had include her in the plans.

The third paragraph, yes, but i’d be able to do that when i pay her bride or do the necessary. Then I know say, na woman i don pay for.

Okay bro.

As for the third paragraph of mine,you don't need to marry her to do that. Just throw it to her as suggestions and see if she will do it herself.

That it is to cut her off from situations that will tempt her back to those lifestyle she is planning to leave. It may only takes a hi, and maybe old picture of them together (she and ex together) to re-kindle the old flame between them. She shutting them off completely seems practical and logical

Davidnilla:
Useless immorality? You don’t need to be rude. No body wey no dey bang woman wey e never marry, e dey very for guys in a particular age set. Lets be realistic, na only online everyone be saint

Leave those acting like saint on the forum. Reality out there is different from fantasy and wishful thinking.

Some men married their women because she got pregnant. And everything turns out good for them. Others marry virgin, and they become wayward later in life.

There is no formula to these things.

NB: I am not saying you should marry her. Just be responsible for the pregnancy since it is yours according to you, and observe her. Other things can come later (2 years , 5 years or even 10 years later). Your obligation lies to the child for now and most probably to offer her all the support she will need while pregnant.

Davidnilla:
The second option doesn’t sound easy bro. I really need custody of my child.

I’ve told her a little about this, and in return, she said that if she stays loyal and i cheat, she’ll just run away with my baby.

Thanks alot for your input. Its one of the most helpful so far.

I’ve decided to take her to a new state, new people, new life. Then watch her closely for a year.

Though your last paragraph seems noble, but I do hope it will not affect your source of income?

You don't have to relocate to a new state with her if your business or work is there where both of you are currently. You can simply change your house address, street or town where you guys will be new faces in the community and start afresh together.

In addition,get a new sim card, and give to her (then destroy the one she has after she gets her parents and important contact out. Also shut down her social media platforms (deactivate it completely including her WhatsApp)....I mean everything. After giving birth,she can set up one to document her new status as a mother.

These are practical steps to cut her off the old beastie or ex that don't add meaningful thing to her life. If she is intelligent,she will never protest against this approach because she will know it is for her own good.

9free:
Nigerian women are like activists in marriage. They act like media figures - VeryDarkMan, Deji Adeyanju and Omoyele Sowore. They are always fighting for something. Their propensity for fomenting trouble needs to be studied by clinical psychologists.

As the Zim women are moving into Nigerian homes in marriage, the Nigerian women are heading to prayer grounds like NSPPD, Shiloh and Hallelujah challenge for spiritual intervention.

Chai! Chai!!
Remove his name from the book of life.

😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😅

Honestly, the person that worded that statement about Nigerian women and other African women (Zimbabweans ) will never make heaven😂😂

Davidnilla:
can u throw more light to why you advised so?

Forget about that unfortunate guy's suggestion. Bro, most women do change after pregnancy....they may change for good or for bad.

Example, eleganza company owner, heard the woman was an Ashh..wow before she married the old man (allegedly). But now she is sitting tight in the marriage. Same with other young ladies or people out there (hence it is called a hoe phase).

My personal advice, sit her down and have heart to heart discussion with her on the need to cut off all relationships or friendships with her male besties and exs. (She can make new ones within your circle of friends). That you are willing to give her permanent contract (marriage) only if she will be willing to be committed to you and you alone.

Any form of cheating (not necessarily sex, but sex chatting with an ex or bestie, you will check out of the relationship and send her packing....you don't care how long you guys are married). In general, just let her know your deal breaker in the relationship with having sex with another person once you become an item is non-negotiable. Also let her tell you her own deal breaker and see if it is what you can keep to (you know some women will tell you no form of female friends even when they know you will never cheat with the said lady).

Once this has been sorted out, be with her till she give birth, observe her during nursing child stage for at least 1 year before you can finally talk about doing wedding with her. If her culture or family members don't support her having child outside of wedlock,you can take the gamble and go ahead with it.

Just make sure she knows she will lose you in a jiffy once she messes up. It will keep her on her toes.

Second option and the easiest
Be a deadbeat dad and forget about her and the pregnancy

I can relate fully. You would not know how terrible it is till you experience it. The worst thing worse than death is for a woman to cook dangerous lies against you.

It is well.

MrSamsung:
And the bolded is a straight and bold move no beating around or bullshitting. Na real OG

Yeah 🙌😂

LoveJesus87:
senior man. I greet sir

And you too sir.
But honestly, that is another way to make new friends. Meet on anonymous forum, become friends online, meet offline and take it up from there.

Anything can happen from there on.

LoveJesus87:
Go out nw. And be nice to strangers. And if any guy approach u and ask for ur number, no do shakara. Give am.

Oya for example now, gimme ur number

😅😅😅

OG on the beat based on the bolded 😋😋😋

decargne:
Hello house, please i got an offer of 189 days Treasury bills at 15% in first bank today for secondry market.
I think its too low. What do you think please

Don't you know that rate has fallen like an flat breast sucked aggressively by a new born baby?😋

NB: Rate is hovering around 17percent in most places irrespective of the market.

meobizy:
I don’t know him. Person use him money wan buy death. He won’t learn from this experience. Back in the day, I used to scare my power bike-owning friends into caution by showing videos of first responders scraping brains off pavements. It used to work. This one didn’t have any friend to do so for him.

You are very wicked and ruthless with this your method 😂😂😂😂

If I was the one, after seeing the video, I will go and sale the power bike 😋😅

noobody:
100% active boss,


These days na speedaf

Or it depends on what we are buying

Come to Whatsapp

Okay boss.
To chat you up later

noobody:
Active

Hello bro
Do you still offer this service?
And most importantly, do you assist to get it to Nigeria? for onward delivery to final destination?

Na nipost or issues with DHL I dey try avoid. AliExpress

Lindachiamaka:
I have applied to the school without legalization and I have made my payment I just hope for the best

which schools did you apply?

Need to check it out for someone who is interested.

I love the way you arrange this story in bullets and points. Far better than most which appear on front page showing copy and paste system (multiple paragraphs saying same exact thing)

Though you can do better by making it shorter on the long run.

Aggroundnut:
Adamawa ,but corn now is now 57k

Too far. Any lorry going to East from there?

Aggroundnut:
Groundnut 170k 100kg

Rice 94k- 55k 50kg
Depends on the brand

Corn 100kg 50k

Beans white ss potasco 90k

which state bro?

shariff84:
ok search no more, i will get you original oloka beans. I can also get you the kampala(honey beans).

Bro
No update again from you? I am seeing online on threading that prices of commodity has crashed by over 50 percent?

Please try and give updated info on the price of commodities over there including rice.

expoguru:
Hi I'm willing to sell my 5g airtel router if you're still interested. Location: Abuleegba Lagos State.

unfortunately, no longer need it

Myrepublic:
She no like you. But I hope you don't force her to nack you.. Abi water no dey her body ni?

So many questions sha. Na only OS no dey wet that time.. if she even like you sef,she go wet .. most expecially those coded types ,when dey form holy holy ,still dey run OS enterprise as side hustle..

which one is os enterprise kwa?™️😂

HeatSeeker:
trump na werey! Serious one.

Serious one.😂😂😂😂

The alacrity of him declaring JOE you are fired as if he was one of his worker😅😅

Who will help you will help you. You don't need to prostrate on the floor or beg the person as if you are begging God for a little help.

It takes lots of courage to beg especially if you are a man. My brother look unto God. I have been in situations like this I needed help most (and those guys are more than capable of doing it), but they decided to sit on it.

He may not give you millions, but at least little something to buy even if I cup of rice and pepper and oil. No lose hope bro, and keep pushing.

xpressionx:
Very irresponsible man he went and had as inlaw

Yeah bro
I remembered this man that once posted the names of all the ladies he has slept with. Even went to post back view of a lady he plans to sleep with.

This dead guy definitely married into a wrong family.

Allboiz:
I had to copy CBN in my mail today and they started calling me. My money is back. Very wicked people using our money for their needs.

Drop the cbn mail for knowledge purpose. Might come handy in the future over certain issues with bank.

Olokobintin:
Loving a woman, treating her right and showing so much care to her is now a forbidden thing to do nowadays. It is like the more the economy hardship, the more our love life in this country dwindling. May God help us.

If loving my lady and taking good care of her will make me a simp, I am gladly a simp and more. I am going to do every thing in this life to make sure that my woman won't regret the day she met me. Even if I have to stop taking care of myself.

The first paragraph is good. But your last paragraph especially the last statement is totally uncalled for. An average Nigerian takes good care of women in his life especially if the little resources is there.

Those that don't are outliners

RGRNetwork:
I think there is a group for Austria study route here. Search for it in the travel section

Okay

12inchess:
Part of the health issues I am having is fertility issues.

Do IVF. It should be affordable to do since you are in 1st world country.

RGRNetwork:
Write me here please

Okay.

It is about vocational school or bsc program over there. Planning to gather info on how to proceed about it.

The other picture that shows he is done playing it nice.

Now it is FAFO

Credit @Omoawoke
Nairalander

Fapemz:
we remain one of your best option as far as laptop powerbank is concerned!

I saw your solar generator picture attached? How many kwh is it? Is there any dedicated thread where all you offer and their prices are listed?

That will help someone to make informed decision before reaching out to you directly on call.