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Ringstonermasks:
sch nor be scam o... na sch give me my ghost work with double salary... nd retirement benefits still dey sure

if nor be my degree and license from dat medical sch, I for dey beg ona to visit my office by now... lol

Can you give more info on this bro?
which medical degree and lincese? Was it obtained in Nigeria or elsewhere?

Just curious to know

ThatWriterBoy:
I saw this post on X and it shook me to my bone.
Do you really think that classmates who say "school na Scam" genuinely wish that their fellows who work hard and take their education seriously would end up poor later in life just to prove their point?

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

No words can describe that friend and her actions towards the other classmate.

The truth is that jealousy is the most devilish of of all vices out there. It doesn't take anything for a jealous person to hate you and plan for your downfall....even if you are on a losing streak in your life.

At the end of the day, you got to take adequate care to be safe out there while absolute protection comes from God.

Got nothing else than to keep pushing ahead.

nwadikeokey11:
It should serve them right. I spent over 3.5m for USA tourist visa several times yet they denied me for no reason and no refund. Let them go to hell. Rubbish.

I am not talking about foreigners bro. I am talking about people married to Nigerians with Nigerian kids.

Imagine your own daughter asked to pay money to get visa to visit the country his own father is from?

And after the payment,they don't even care to update? They might even go ahead to reject the child's application.

Such thing don't happen in Europe or America. Showing affiliation between two people (mother and son or father and daughter) fast track the process....especially if one is visa free while the other party need visa.

DaddyCoool:
You nailed it. All this one na wash. Go to passport office, find guys a little something, give them your passport photos, they'll tell you when to come collect your passport

Sad but true

APOPTOSIS:
Exactly
Traveling to Nigeria as a foreigner is almost always frustrating including the trip itself.
People wanna visit Nigeria especially when they get to see how blacks relocate and do so well they wonder the place these brilliance would have migrated from.
Insecurity, warnings from the U.S. Embassies and Visa frustrations remain a fishbone in the throat

Yeah.

We will get there definitely...we may not get there 100 percent but I am certain there will be progress towards a better Nigeria.

APOPTOSIS:
Yeahhhhh.
I spent $600 to procure Nigerian Visa for my daughter to visit Nigeria 2 years ago.
It's herculean. No mercy even for toddlers.

Damn...
Please get her the Nigerian passport. That way, she would not be subjected to this unnecessary stress when she will grow up.

APOPTOSIS:
This one na small.
To even apply 4 Nigerian Visa from United States be like Presidential appointment.
That's the reason many foreigners dey enter Kenya, South Africa and Tanzania not just insecurity alone.

I have always heard this.

And it is even said that Nigeria has one of the most expensive visas fee for tourism among most African countries (with no absolute guarantee of getting it)

If this is true, it definitely looks misogynic to me. Absolute double standards.

The funny thing is that trying to follow legal routes to get this document is cumbersome for most foreigners, but if they follow other routes, they can even enter Nigeria and live permanently for long with no documents or even get this passport if they sort the higher powers in immigration office Abuja.

kodeforce:
(For context: I’m not desperate for a relationship, and I know how to approach women—just feeling a strong vibe with her.)

met this amazing lady (21F) a week ago, and our connection has been solid—great conversations, no dull moments, and she’s mature for her age. I’m (27M) genuinely interested but don’t want to rush things.

Question: Is it too early to ask her to be my girlfriend, or should I give it more time?

As much as you want to maintain sexual purity and build up healthy relationship with her, it doesn't actually works that way in real life for a sexual active lady. ( Only adopt your approach if the lady is a virgin).

Just keep up the talking stage and keep getting to know her better. Do ask her questions like hobbies, religious view, how her academics is going etc. When you build enough trust around you, she will feel comfortable to be around you.

In one of the days you guys will stay together alone (night or in private space, try and steal a KISS from her....very important and watch her reaction.

Then let her know playfully you have always wanted to do that. Her reply will determine where your plans are heading to.

If she was responsive towards your kiss, you have hope. And build from there bro. Also, up your bedroom game (if that department is not too good). Almost all women want a great guy in that department (religious or not).

Double0h7:
1km is far for you? I walk 16km just for exercise daily! But then again I don't live in the desert so I guess it's the heat that hurts more than the milage.

It was under a terrible cold. You will never know how painful it feels to experience such. This is someone that always ask me to reach out should I be stranded rather than keeping it to myself or not talking about my challenges.

When I finally did, and honestly needed it most, she ghosted me. The money is nothing as I am capable of doubling it and paying her off later as my request to her was for a loan.

Jamal77:
Hello guys, good afternoon and happy Eid-ul-fitri to the Muslims faithful, I need an advice from this great family.
I have changed the names of the people involved for some reasons, I(Tunde) served in Lagos with my now ex-girlfriend(kemi), kemi was a primary school teacher close to her house.....

Ghost her too. The earlier you get that experience that majority of women are ruthless, the better for you.

I reached out to a female friend about little loan to help me get transport back to home. She ghosted me from 6am till 2pm. I ended up trekking over 1km back to home (Thank God for good health and strength).

I picked my L in peace and move on.

NB: This is someone I have helped alot in my own little way when help was needed by her.

christejames:
Yes ooo 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂


Seyi Tinubu dey learn where I dey!

Enjoy bro as life favour you 💯👌

For those of us that attended Ajekpako school, no stress your life. All fingers are not equal out there.

christejames:
Loyola Jesuit College, Abuja




As a passive student

Rich kid from rich family. I guess your parents are politicians😅

Olachase:
I represent Ikeja senior Grammar school

2013 set

I don't know how to tell my classmates then that after our secondary school I was at home for like years 5+

Well to God be the glory I am in my final year already by this time next year I should be out of higher institution

Dear class mate 2013 was the last time we saw eachother last, and I hope life is cool at your End

It is well bro. Don't put lots of pressure on yourself about that setback. Most important thing is that you will be a graduate by this time next year irrespective of when you started your studies.

Your experience is just like two new born babies out there. One will crawl only few weeks before the baby start walking while the other will crawl for minimum of 5 months before making attempt to walk.

At the end of the whole process, both will definitely walk with their two feet💯

Davidnilla:
She is, and she quoted to me before, that a pregnant lady can’t possibly be having affair with a different man, only the man who got her pregnant.

I guess it was all a cap. Cause for a girl wey just discover say she dey pregnant, normal girls would be scared and be thinking, or even depressed. But this one is already screwing around just 1 week later she found out.

When ever we just issues, she dey always threaten say if i commot, she go remove the belle. Na why i just park, I don’t know if its worth it or not

Just think it through bro and do what you think is best for you.

Davidnilla:
I tell am make we go traditional way, that it is the only way i can trust her. And i meant it

Na so this girl begin tell me say that after a week she found out she was pregnant, she cheated (affair) with 3 times, twice with a work mate and once with a friend.

Like bro, a pregnant woman still screwing around? She said its cause we havent gotten close then

Omo eh, i no say na red flag, but the pregnancy nko?

Yes i will take responsibility, but these kind things dey pain sha. Even if you no send the girl, the fact she is carrying your baby will make u wanna be protective

That is a big red flag bro. You still sure you want to put her in plans about your relocation?

For now focus on seeing the safe delivery of the pregnancy and please due try and save money to run DNA on the child when born (To be actually sure it is yours bro).

After confirmation of the ownership of the baby, you can decide on what next to do.

Another point you might be missing is that, your lady might actually be a Nymphomanic
. A dangerous situation if you are not one cause you can't keep up. Try and watch the movie on that bolded name to understand better.

NB: Though not an excuse, and I am not holding any brief for her, but I have been told by a woman (an ex), that pregnant woman are the horniest (most sexually active and dripping wet women).

She joking told me she will demand my magic dick multiple times in a day whenever she want. 😅😅😅😅

She is stupid to suggest Nigerian men to stoop so low.

And more unfortunate to think Nigerian men don't have options out there.

Shout out to all Nigerian men whose magic stick has mended more broken relationships between father and daughter (simply because of fact that they no how to part the red sea and make it overflow in a woman sanctuary)😂😂😅😋

NB: A good magic stick is far going to keep a woman going despite all your Bleep ups than a good swimmer will ever do #💯Facts.

Universal motto out there which I hold unto BONUS PENIS PAX IN DOMUS

turkeyman:
Please how is this sir?

where you able to get the price of this?

Thomthom:
Na Nigeria citizens them tie put for ground so.

Like Christmas Ram about to be slaughtered 😂😂😂

Opistorincos:
Why not buy SMS inverter that is already in Lagos for 350k. Same 48v 6.2kva

If an inverter has higher voltage, can it be used with a battery with let say, 12V or 25V?

For this quoted inverter, can you drop more information on it? Store address or seller location?

Maitunbi:
This advice sounds so out of touch with reality and it shows the state of mind of the person giving it.
Essentially you're advising this man to subject a woman to all these extreme measures just because she is pregnant for him?
You people are something else.

As for the silly poster,
The woman that serially cheats on her love interests with you and you enjoy it. Now the tables have turned and you're suddenly scared that she might also cheat on you. With all due respect sir, you're just dumb. What makes you think you're so special?
If you were smart, you would handle your business with your full chest and not run to this place and start whining.
Let me shock you; there is no type of advice anyone gives you here that would save you from the consequences of your action. So just zero your mind on that. Good luck

That is one unfortunate problem with the people on this forum, and reason I hardly comment. You cannot state your opinion without first of all insulting everyone.

You have a contrary opinion,....okay state it so we all learn. But you simply go about insulting me because I gave a realistic approach to a problem.

Anyway, peace upon you. I already got a lot on my plate. See no reason to add extra drama from you on mine.

Davidnilla:
Thats very true. Cause last time she posted a twerking butt video, the replies to the status were all related to her “coming over”. You have strong point here.

Thanks alot bro. Just trying to take it slow, to avoid her aborting it

Yeah bro,

I am team pro-life. If a guy is not ready to shoulder responsibilities of having a child, the said person can avoid sex altogether or at minimal level, use protection.

So, abortion is out. And I am happy you share similar views about pregnancy or child.

Goodmarlian:
Konji no mind location

That girl must definitely come from South South😂😂😂

Maybe Akwa Ibom 😋

Davidnilla:
The second paragraph, yes, relocating was already part of my plans before it happened. I just had include her in the plans.

The third paragraph, yes, but i’d be able to do that when i pay her bride or do the necessary. Then I know say, na woman i don pay for.

Okay bro.

As for the third paragraph of mine,you don't need to marry her to do that. Just throw it to her as suggestions and see if she will do it herself.

That it is to cut her off from situations that will tempt her back to those lifestyle she is planning to leave. It may only takes a hi, and maybe old picture of them together (she and ex together) to re-kindle the old flame between them. She shutting them off completely seems practical and logical

Davidnilla:
Useless immorality? You don’t need to be rude. No body wey no dey bang woman wey e never marry, e dey very for guys in a particular age set. Lets be realistic, na only online everyone be saint

Leave those acting like saint on the forum. Reality out there is different from fantasy and wishful thinking.

Some men married their women because she got pregnant. And everything turns out good for them. Others marry virgin, and they become wayward later in life.

There is no formula to these things.

NB: I am not saying you should marry her. Just be responsible for the pregnancy since it is yours according to you, and observe her. Other things can come later (2 years , 5 years or even 10 years later). Your obligation lies to the child for now and most probably to offer her all the support she will need while pregnant.

Davidnilla:
The second option doesn’t sound easy bro. I really need custody of my child.

I’ve told her a little about this, and in return, she said that if she stays loyal and i cheat, she’ll just run away with my baby.

Thanks alot for your input. Its one of the most helpful so far.

I’ve decided to take her to a new state, new people, new life. Then watch her closely for a year.

Though your last paragraph seems noble, but I do hope it will not affect your source of income?

You don't have to relocate to a new state with her if your business or work is there where both of you are currently. You can simply change your house address, street or town where you guys will be new faces in the community and start afresh together.

In addition,get a new sim card, and give to her (then destroy the one she has after she gets her parents and important contact out. Also shut down her social media platforms (deactivate it completely including her WhatsApp)....I mean everything. After giving birth,she can set up one to document her new status as a mother.

These are practical steps to cut her off the old beastie or ex that don't add meaningful thing to her life. If she is intelligent,she will never protest against this approach because she will know it is for her own good.

9free:
Nigerian women are like activists in marriage. They act like media figures - VeryDarkMan, Deji Adeyanju and Omoyele Sowore. They are always fighting for something. Their propensity for fomenting trouble needs to be studied by clinical psychologists.

As the Zim women are moving into Nigerian homes in marriage, the Nigerian women are heading to prayer grounds like NSPPD, Shiloh and Hallelujah challenge for spiritual intervention.

Chai! Chai!!
Remove his name from the book of life.

😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😅

Honestly, the person that worded that statement about Nigerian women and other African women (Zimbabweans ) will never make heaven😂😂