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You can no longer see a brand new 12 pm to buy, unless you are sold a packaged ‘brand new’ 12pm

Tenrack:
guy...no lemme vex for you abeg. You have everything people like us dey find even one wey dey loyal. We no see. Na so so agbako Bruhhhh. Where you mount sef

We’re searching for something my friend. No one has it all.

If you seek a genuine love, a genuine love you shall find. The agbakos are just for the meantime😀

Toruibestate:
I remember during my days in the University (Niger Delta University) my lecturer who doubles as my cousin told the class that to him life seems meaningless.
We live, give birth and die, and the circle continues.


That it doesn't have meaning.

Anybody that have contrary view to his thinking should speak up on it.




@General Ditari.

This topic has always interested me a lot. I used to search for an illusory purpose for my existence, but I've come to the conclusion that life itself is meaningless.

Over the years, humans have long sought to know the purpose of our existence here and where we go afterwards. From my point of view, we’re just another creation of the universe to keep her going. And there are so many others out there whom we may never reach until the planet reaches its prime.

Meanwhile, Andromeda is coming.

Tenrack:
this your new friend, describe her body features. Let me check somthing.

Wetin you wan check??
😂😂😂

She's dark, tall, and slim. A typical northern beauty.

In summary, I just cheated on my girl with a new friend who wouldn't let go.

She's aware of my relationship, but carries on regardless. She's a sweet one, but I feel bad for cheating.

Life goes on.

Right now I'm in my bathroom, unclad and looking at the man in front of me. A man who barely labours for anything, yet have many things in abundance. A man that everyone falls in love with, consciously and subconsciously.

I often wondered why I am different from most people. I am accorded respect beyond normal by old & young alike, leaving me speechless what they see in me.

My girlfriend wants us to get married, she's coming back from Europe in few months time, I declined to join her there, and she's returning back home for us, leaving me further speechless.

I've been called a dream, yes I'm a dream for so many, and in reality, I'm a dreamer because I see events in real life before they happen. And these events replayed, I'm always left dumbfounded.

Right now I'm dumbfounded, what shouldn't have happen just happened. My new friend is helplessly lost in me, I tried so hard to avert this one dream, but like others, it happened. I'm hearing her voice singing, she's so happy like she has won a lottery, but here I am ruminating on what I've just done.

I love my girlfriend more than I love her, in honesty, my new friend is the better one, but I can't leave my girl for her or anyone.

OlaOfLagos:
Pick up your piece and move on. Trust me, even in a broken mirror you will still look good. Don’t loose yourself, engaged in something good. Doing this won’t give depre$$ion chance

Thank you🙇🏾‍♂️

labake1:
"Many people are in a situation worst than you"
Stop saying I'm depressed, I'm frustrated ...
And start saying I'm winning, I'm grateful, I'm thriving and I will succeed.
Things you don't have power to change sometimes you just have to let it be.
If you are comparing yourself with your friends, they might be living a fake life and if you checked, your life is probably better than theirs.


Suicide is not an option

I'm not contemplating suicide yet. It's just that my mental health is horribly broken, funnily, I don't even know the problem. Money & love isn't the issue.

Baronthecelebri:
Why don't you give your life to Christ, he'll save you.

Please leave this talk

I've been having a serious mental breakdown. I can't pinpoint the reason for this. But I am slipping, falling & slowly fading away. My heart is heavy & my body is failing, I'm hearing demon whispers.

The end of two decades of exploration of the unseen spheres. In that coma state, he has journeyed to where our techs can't reach. May his path to the afterlife be smooth.

Adios.

You guys are scik.
Only perverts get boners sitting around some random chicks. AG gets doings.

Not all Nigerian girls are materialistic, nor do they all expect you to foot all the bills. I have a friend who has footed many of our outing bills, paid thousands for event tickets, and we've had bills shared. We aren't even dating & she knows that I could afford to pay the bills, but would rather be part of everything.

In all these, I think growing up matters. People tend to get stuck with ideas and ways of life they were exposed to in their earlier years.

For eternity if possible. The only food I can't stay away from for a long time is Bread.

This is a cruise I guessed. This same pic have been repeatedly shared on the internet months back

It's very simple. Before going for any interview calls, make sure you've done some background research, including researching the employees' salary range of the company/organisation you intend to work for.

Going by the above, comparatively, you can give them a figure range.

Thank you so much Nairalanders. May you all continue to increase in wisdom. So much has been learned already.

To the Mod who gave this a wider coverage, may God bless you.

VeryWickedMan:
Package whatever you have and give it to them.

Those type of people don't need your gifts, it's the gesture that matters to them.

Do not gift them something way above your pay grade as they can tell that you are forcing it. They already know your level.

If you're a farmer, package your fruits and vegetables well for them. If you keep poultry, package your birds well for them.
As long as it's well wrapped and presented genuinely.


Again, do not, gift them a car when you are a humble farmer or an iPhone when you use a Tecno.

Thank you so much. This make a lot of sense.

In my own case, I'm a government employee and a programmer/developer, what do you suggest I gift such people?

phorget:
If they can afford whatever you can give them then I'll suggest you look somewhere else. Look for those people that cant afford anything and bless them.

You didn't get my point, but it's okay though.

I can't bless everyone neither can you. I blessed the few I can in my humble capacity without any fanfare.

They're way above my league, but I found favour in their eyes and I was greatly favoured.

I've this class of people in my life; they've rendered help that I often feel like I don't even deserve. There's nothing I can give them in return that would repay them for their deeds.

I've been thinking lately, how do I appreciate these people? Have you been in my shoes before? I need your help!

When you lift someone else's work, always reference them for credit

7/10

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

Pls tell me more..

Thank you, Sir.

But why are we still constructing MAJOR roads in 2025? We’ve really been left behind, no doubt.

Ko ni daa fun gbogbo awon tan ti dari Nigerian seyin🙏🏾

Ordinary LGA Chairman should be ashamed to commission this talk more of a sitting Governor.

Nice gesture from the Adeboyes by the way.

Quite iconic

Man looks so lonely and somber.
Wealth doesn’t necessarily bring happiness—especially when it’s ill-gotten. It can bring something far worse.

The driver should be tried & jailed, and his handlers be made paid for the damages.