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lol. the kid in green looking at him like i know hwat you did . dad

proxillin:
Sorry dawg

hi. i hope you do not mind me using this story here
http://daminaija..com/2015/07/juicy-jists-wednesdays-how-i-caught-my.html

When I was born, I guess, my father was not happy about my birth, so he wasn’t there for me. He chose not to be a part of my life; a single mother raised me. She trained me from kindergarten to University. My father was never there. Even though I have an amazing stepfather, I always wished I could have had him in my life. That created a vacuum in my childhood. But I’m grateful that I had my mum and she did all she could to make sure that I lacked nothing."


Did she ever try to reach out to him? She responded:

"I did! Several times. Let me give you some instances. When I was younger, I met him and I told him I wanted a pair of shoes for Christmas and he told me, he was going to buy me three or four pairs. My excitement knew no bounds when he said that. Guess what? He never fulfilled that promise; I waited for those shoes for a very long time, but they never came. At a point I asked my mum, and she said, listen, if he wanted to do as he said, your shoes would have gotten here a long time ago, so better move on. At another time, while he was in London I asked him to take me with him. And he told me not to worry, that he would come for me. I waited and waited, and he never did. The two times he ever promised me something when I was growing up, he failed to fulfill them. That has never left my mind.

While I was in school, I had a brother in my class and I never knew. We both didn’t know, until one day when a teacher told us and then showed us our records as proof.
My dad is not such an amazing person in my life. I don’t have any good memories of him.

The Magazine is on the stands now. Go get yours and enjoy more interesting articles from inside.

Yvonne is on the cover of Genevieve Magazine July Editionand she shared her story and worthy of note is the fact that her father never wanted her or tried to be a part of her life. She was raised by a single mother. she said;

"Because my mum is the one I know. It’s not as if I don’t know my dad, my father is there of course, but he wasn’t really a part of my life and there’s really nothing to say about him. He didn’t make any impact in my life. My mum single-handedly raised me. Big ups to all the single mums out there!

http://daminaija..com/2015/07/yvonne-nelson-my-father-never-wanted-me.html

Cy4praise:
Ask Buhari

He is fasting

any thoughts?

chiiiiiiiiii

he could have turned it around if they arrested someone in the video tho

Deejavuu:
Idris should should be the last person to give advise to the younger generation. Uncle Idris what is "she nor wan gimme ponmo"

I guess he's trying to still be relavant. .

And your black lips what happened? I guess it's natural black lipstick

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lol

looking at what he said. is he in support or against cos i dont get o

Forzap:
Idris pack well Jare,Most of una(artiste)dey do drugs…dey here dey form saint,mtcheeew

lol

softysparky:
Maybe you can cheat if you like.

what is the essence of the relationship in that case

ifeomabernard:
Ladies take note!

#1 Give him space

#2 Be Loyal

#3 Be Patient

#4 Don't ask for things even
Your Father can't afford!

#5 Don't nag

#6 Stalk him

#7 As Far as he doesn't cheat to your face, or take her calls in your present don't complain, Manage it your Next might be worse!

#8 Be Proud of him

#9 Be faithful

#10 Pray for him!

i have a problem with 7 and 9

he can cheat but not to my face but i have to be faithful?

Following reports that the NDLEA is investigating Top Nigerian singer Davido. Edris Abdulkareem have shared his opinion on the issue. While speaking with HIpTV news the former Kennis Music singer expressed disappoint over how musicians nowadays use the platform they have been given. He said


Use your platform for something good. music should not be about shaking bum bum or naked girls all the time. Why should you use cocaine in your video? that is America they can do it here but you do not have to do it here.

He further went on to say that Nigerian musicians should use their platform to educate and inspire the children not promote iprofanity.

i doubt

Cutehector:
Sometimes I ask myself, what will ever make me to raise my hand against a woman.

I know women can be something else.
But please continue this way
Tell yourself you will never do it no matter what and ask God to help

All that glitters they say is not gold.
may God help all young men and woman who are yet to pick a mate.
E no easy o.

Freeze has finally opened up on why his marriage crashed and all the drama that ensued. In an interview with Stella Dimoko. He opened up on what went wrong in the relationship. Read the interview....

http://daminaija..com/2015/07/stella-dimoko-interviews-freeze-over.html


Stella - -Freeze this interview means a lot to me and a lot of other people who used to have a lot of respect for you but lost it becos of your ongoing ISH with your ex Ope...so i am going to ask you questions directly and without mincing words.I would also appreciate direct answers even if you have to cuss me out.

Why have you repeatedly called out your estranged wife Ope via your social media handles?Why Freeze?why?why are you so angry?bitter?Why did you go online to call her an adulteress?Do you have proof of your accusations and if yes can you tell me a little about this proof?

I am not perfect, not even near, but I will not take blame for a crime I didn't commit and won't allow my name to be destroyed by this woman. Ope was raised by a single mother who had seven children from three different fathers. Everyone discouraged the relationship pointing out her mother's situation and warning me that this might lead to a character flaw in Ope but what did I know?
I was in love. By the time I understood the enormity of the damage done to her by her upbringing, it was already too late and she was pregnant with our first child. I decided to get married to Ope turning a deaf ear to numerous warnings of the consequences of such an action.


From the first year of marriage I started seeing her true character. She talked without any respect whatsoever and would fight me and hurl curses like a market woman, while saying to me "it is better I curse you and hit you than for GOD to strike you!" My parents have been married for 40years and I believe that divorce should never be an option. So I endured the violence.


Adultery is one of the most difficult things to prove but if a married woman keeps late nights, has unwholesome friends, comes home tipsy regularly and she makes calls to strange men at ungodly hours within her husbands home eyebrows will definitely be raised. There was this one time I went to the UK for work. I sent my assistant with a cheque to my house at midnight and she wasn't home,she had dropped the kids with my sister and disappeared into the night!

What about the time she saved a mans number under her female friends name sometime in 2007 and we had a huge fight about it, leading me to almost end the marriage at that time. It has never been my intention to call her out on social media and if you remember clearly I avoided making any comment initially since it's an embarrassing situation for both of us and the children already, however she is hellbent on destroying everything I stand for just to make herself look good. This has left me with no other option than to speak the truth!



Stella - I saw the pictures you released online yesterday of your bloodied face,what happened?who beat you up blue black and why?

Ope beat me up black and blue. I have received beatings from someone who was supposed to be my better half and a weaker vessel for little or no provocation. I was once attacked physically while on the phone with one of my biggest clients and the client listened through the attack that left me badly injured.
Several of my friend have witnessed her attacks. She is a very jealous and possessive person and believes the best way to stop a man from cheating is to embarrass him before any potential threat.

She is also very insecure as a result of her upbringing and is suspicious of everyone and everything.



Stella -We read a lot from comment sections where stories of both of you are posted but i am asking you directly now,why did your marriage crash and why couldn't you as a man save it?

My marriage crashed like 6 or 7 years ago. In her bid to have absolute control Ope severed ties with my family. She created such a hostile environment that my family avoided visiting as much as possible. In order for me to have a happy home I had to do as she pleased or else all hell would be let loose. I wasn't the perfect husband myself making a few mistakes here and there but I always believed we could work on our issues if we stuck together.

The straw that finally broke the camels back for me was when she lashed out at my mother, attempting to slap her in the presence of my father and I because my mother dared question her coming home at 11.30pm leaving the children without dinner.

To me that was the highest form of insult a man could ever take and I felt I had failed my family if that was the best daughter-in-law I could provide for them. I still stayed on in the marriage for the sake of the kids but my heart and soul had departed.

Even after she packed out of our matrimonial home I tried to send my sister after her to plead with her just for the sake of the children but she refused. Like 6months before she packed out she changed jobs to her present company Seadrill limited without even informing me. I found out because her ID changed and up until today I don't know where that company is.


Stella - It is alleged that you have a new family...a baby mama who is still married with four other children who happens to have contributed to your marriage crash....If it is not too much to ask can you please explain this?And please while you are at it,tell me when you saw your kids last.

Yes I am in a relationship but let me squash the rumor. she is not an older woman, she is a lot younger than I am and she does not have four children. I didn't start dating her until three or four months after Ope deserted our matrimonial home leaving me in a severe state of depression. She has been wonderful to me, gave me a shoulder to cry on and picked me up from the mess I was in.

My family adore her and her family is really cool with me and I am praying to GOD that she will be my last bus stop. Ope has prevented me from seeing my kids for over a year now. I remember picking my son up from school last year and she drove to my house with thugs in her car, barricaded my gate and started screaming to attract the neighbours that I wanted to kidnap her son.


Stella- I am sure that at one point you must have loved your wife dearly.I don't know how you feel about her right now and i wont ask but i need to know if you are looking for closure and if you need counselling?

Yes, I loved her but that was a very long time ago. Her destructive spirit killed the love a long time ago. It grew to anger, hatred, bitterness and my current state of indifference towards her. She had a friend that was kicked out of her marriage because she was caught with juju.

This same friend made sure that she ended OPE'S marriage and I am leaving that friend to GOD! I suffered so much in the hands of this woman I was so depressed that I was almost suicidal. A friend of mine advised me to go into sports to maintain my sanity but I absolutely detest sports.

The only sport I can tolerate is Formula1. I went to watch a race and Oris watches were advertised so I bought one. I had always loved watches but on a much smaller scale. I started with brands like Oris, Tissot, Rado and Raymond Weil then I graduated to the bigger dogs. I used to stay up all night researching on wristwatches and searching for the best service centre etc What started as a hobby to battle my depression has fast become my greatest passion!

I am over this relationship with Ope, I wish her all the best in life as I have long moved on. I have an amazing woman in my life and a couple of weeks ago we were blessed with an adorable son!

I use this as a medium to beg her to allow me access to our children something she has totally denied me for over one year! She should be advised to be careful with the kind of accusations she makes because they could ultimately be damaging to the reputation of her children's father. I never draw first blood, I have always reacted to what she did never the other way round.
This is my closure,i don't need any counselling.

lol

definitely dencia

he called her current boyfriend a fool tho.

Mean kor. Mean, median , Mode ni

tanaadelana

This is what I saw this morning.. Sigh* when will people learn that domestic violence doesn't stop a thing?! That's the man walking away from the camera, he knocked out two teeth from his baby mama because she refused to allow him see the child he supposedly can't/doesn't feed. He is a driver named Dominic Akpan popularly called Archibong and she is Cecilia Etim (a domestic worker), both live in ajah. I don't care what she did and trust me man, no one will ever pay attention to you again, not after what you have done to this girl! I will follow this matter up. His boss took her away, I'm guessing to the police station and then to a dentist/hospital as the driver is on the run. #SAYNOTODOMESTICVIOLENCE #ITKILLS

Nollywood ActressTana Adelana took to her Instagram page some minutes ago to share photos from a domestic violence incident she witnessed. She even captured a photo of the man who knocked out two teeth from his baby mama's mouth.

Awwww. RIP Ma

We remember you today with love in our heart.
for a woman who stood against all odds to make an impact in our country