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Just got confirmation from a friend in Unity Bank that the first batch (without experience) has gone for training at Kano and Benin and that there will be a second batch. How soon? I dont know! Will it be the last batch? I dont know. But atleast we know there will be a second batch. So u guys should keep ur fingers crossed!

dayokanu:
He is not a saint, He has his own shortcomings, blah blah blah Can we apply this excuses to Abacha too at least he tried so failed bank executives.

How come EFCC picked and dropped Bode George, did not get Andy Uba even cleared him for Governorship, Iyabo Obasanjo, Gbenga Obasanjo and Olusegun Ubasanjo himself.

Please read my earlier reply. IT'S FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU!

@All those calling Ribadu "Villian" and all sort of names; what would u do if given his position? I'm sure all of u will shrink and run away like sissies! All what u guys are good at is opening ur rotten mouths and pouring out polluted words.

Ribadu did what most of us cant even think of doing! He took the bulls by their horns and dragged them to the slaughter. Lets be frank, the man is a HERO.

with all due respect to poster and dos concerned, unity bank is not just one person or even a group of people called the HR. A bank dat could survive the 25b capitalisation is not a useless bank.

I dont bank with them; dont work there but do feel some of the comments directed to them have been harsh.
Also the targetted words to Edoka were kind of harsh too. I know wat Hr guys pass thru and the pressure as well.

Bblak:
Nice thread!
Won't mind joining the prayer warriors in the house.i hope i'm welcome

welcome on board the praying cruise. U are highly and joyously welcome!

its so unfortunate that you experienced dat, but must confess that all advice given had not been GOOD! You know the reason i said so? Good, just listen. I cant remember the poster saying anything about finding out the reason behind the girl's behaviour. For all i care, this could be a communication problem! She might have heard something about him (which ofcourse she didnt confirm) and he has heard too that she is going out with someone else (of which he didnt make any confrontation- I am drawing my conclusion from his post).

In all, i believe both parties should come to a "square" table and talk (i.e. if its not too late already), then Mr. Poster will have a clue, if not outrightly know, the reason the girl doesnt want him anymore. I believe after this has been "successfully" done without any "success", then all the advice of my fellow nairalanders can be very valid and useful. Otherwise, you may be crucifying her for what you caused yourself!

Its possible you didnt even know and understand who she was and what she wants in life. And dats the major reason why we have so many broken relationships every where, we dont communicate our true feelings, wants, dislikes and likes. We assume "dis is what this person likes and wants" without asking or finding out what he or she really wants. And what do u have after that? A DISSATISFIED AND IRRITATED SPOUSE/PARTNER.

My brother, if its still possible, try and find out the main reasons she left you but if they are stupid reasons "BONE THE CHICKEN" Its not worth killing urself about (except sey u wowo like OB,  ). Just an advice from a bro who knows what you are going through.

I thank all of u 4 prayin 4 me. i know god has started changing me. all d advices i ll adhere to and i promise to stand strong. thanks so much. and 4 hambra, i know things happen 4 reasons. if its god's will 4 u to get back that money, u will get it no matter wat. just believe in god and he ll give u much more than what u gav dat person. i will pray 4 u.

@poster

I'm not God to know if u are lying or not but all I want to say is this: don't kill yourself. I have alot of friends living with the virus and they are healthy. Its just a virus! if u can control it, there is no problem. Magic Johnson have been living with it for over 12-13yrs and the guy looks like a horse, so strong and fine. And who told u u can't have kids?if u get married to someone positive like u, and she gets pregnant, the doctors will give her some injections and drugs that will protect the child from the virus and when she delivers the child will be negative. so u can get married and live your normal life. and do u know what? the drugs are now absolutely free of charge. without a kobo! just mail me at lets talk better. B4 i forget, don't hate or kill your girl, u don't know how she got it herself.

hi bros/sis. decided to com to this section for spiritual growth &saw this thread. kind of new to nairaland but have spent

most times on sections that are not beneficial. please i nid your help. i was bisexual and kind of still have the feelings of meeting gays but i want to stop these feelings and really be changed. have tried so many times with prayas/fasting but

it still does not go. please i nid you guys to pray for me. this is not my real name but i no god will understand if u mention it. please help.

@drrionelli

have successfully deleted/modified my replies dat may promote the act. pls notify me if u see any i havent modified. Thanks

@drrionelli
its nice to hear from u again. actually dear friend (if i can call u dat), its been a war for me. Fine, i say one tin in this thread and say sometin else in the other but its not easy for me. let me explain better. a habit doesnt just pop out of the blues and becoms a habit: it is gradually developed with or without the knowledge of the person involved. and wen it becoms a big habit and that person wants to pull out or stop it; it becoms very difficult if not impossible.

my love for the same sex has come a long way (yrs) and without actually knowing wat i will be facin now, nurtured and fed this feeling to its fatness. I want to stop it (and even find myself telling off gay friends, relationships and all) but see myself comin back to the same old tin a few days later. That explains why u see me talking about it (homosexuality) being bad today and tomorrow i say i need som. Its been hard really and have tried all tins including prayers and fasting (honestly). Dont be angry or comfused, i beliv i will overcom it wit time. and to prove I'm serious, I ll look for and delete any post of mine relating or promoting it.

so u see GAYMAN, my mail to ur box yesterday still stands. I'm quitting this stuff and hope its forever.

:-x