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Let's ask our mothers when they got married.. We will be surprised to find out they all married younger.. So what's the fuss about that in our own generation.. We choose to glorify impurity (sexual immorality) rather than what's right (marriage). That explains why you see many unmarried girls in the society these days after having wasted their dignity chasing every dick and Harry. They ll then come back and start making noises that some pple re after them from the village because they can not find a man. #confused generation

Segadem:
op ,can u answer this question on behalf of Sanusi;
Can Sanusi give his daughter in marriage at that age?

I cannot answer that question for sanusi. But I personally dont have problem with giving out my daughter at the age of 18... Its better for me than leaving her out to sleeping around men like most teenage girls do these days.

How come in our generation we see no wrong in teenage girls sleeping around, but when it comes to marriage. We hear noises here and there #hypocrisy at its peak

This Sanusi and his 18 year old bride ...before one talks about its rightness or wrongness, a lot of questions have to be answered. Questions like: 1) Is it legal, moral? 2) Is she mature? 3) Was she forced to marry him? 4) Were you sexually active at 18? 5) Can she vote? 6) Can an 18year old be in love? 7) Can an 18year old handle marriage? Does Omotola who married at 18 have 2 heads? 9) Why are you angry? 10) Do you know Kylie Jenner? 11) Do you know Kylie Jenner is 18, has been dating since 17, is a $ multimillionaire and has her own house? 12) Do you know Jeff who just won Project Fame is 18? 13) Do you know that tech & other factors has ensured kids get mature/wiser earlier? 14) Do you know ManU's Martial is married and has a child? He is 19. How old was he when he got married? How old do you think his wife is? 15) Do you know an 18 year old could be more exposed, intelligent, experienced, and a BETTER spouse thansome 30 year olds? Before you attack Sanusi or scream # ChildNotBride , please ask yourself these15 questions and answer them with the fear of God. Thank you

#copied

abdrazak:
Touching indeed.

If she allows her husband to marry the woman with 4 kids as his second wife, may be he wouldn't have died. Wallahu A'alam.

Allah knows best

Empiree:
^ ladies will be jealous and will not allow it to make fp

I thought as much ...

Hello OAM4J, mukina2, Sissie

Can this grace FP pls?, this is quite inspiring.

airsaylongcon:
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@exxell, the guy's name is slye.. He's the seller you're referring to right?

temitimx19:
No need for argument, u can get your arun power bank here with LCD display. Its just #4000

Tnx bro

“Second wife! The words reverberated through my brain. Why? Am I not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she don’t know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. “Where is their father?” I asked, “Can’t he take care of his own kids? Why do you a strange man have to carry another man’s burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her!

I could not imagine myself in a plural marriage. Sharing my husband with another woman. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fathom him holding her close and whispering loving words in her ears. It was unacceptable. An outrage. After all I have been to him. Wife, lover, mother, doctor, housekeeper. I raised 3 of his beautiful children. How can he insult me by marrying another woman as if I am not good enough? Not pretty enough. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! NO! I could not accept that and I vehemently made my stance clear to him. If she walks in, I walk out! Plain and simple. If he is willing to risk our marriage, our life, our children for another woman, then he must go ahead. I will not stand for it!

It all seems so many years ago now. When I thought that life would last forever and that nothing will ever change. But it did….My husband did not get married to a second wife. After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. I don’t know what happened to the women and children. My guess is that they moved on to another town.
He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. I managed to hang on to my husband but I didn’t know that our time was running out. His last words to me were that he had a headache and is going to lie down till Esha. He never read Esha namaaz that night, because he never woke up. I was devastated by his sudden death. The man whom I have spent my life with, snatched away from me in a second. I mourned him for a long, long time. Neglecting my children and the business. Soon all went to waste and we started losing everything one by one. First the car then the shop, then the house. We moved in with my brother and his family. My 3 children and I crowded the house and my sister in law soon became annoyed by our presence. I needed to get out, to work and find a place of our own instead of living off the leftovers of others. But I had no skill. When my husband was alive we lived comfortably. I had no need to go out and work or equip myself with a skill. Life was very difficult for me and my children and I wasn’t young anymore. I missed him every day with every beat of my heart. How could one’s condition change so drastically? One day my brother told me that someone he knew is looking for a wife. He was a good person, good akhlaq and very pious. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife.

It’s the second time in my life that the word second wife was mentioned to me. But how different the circumstances. He came to my brother’s house to see me. There was an immediate connection between us. I liked him and I liked everything about him. He told me that his first wife knows that he is intending to marry again but that she is obviously not supportive of the idea and that he doesn’t know what her reaction will be when he tells her that he had found someone. His answer he said, will be dependent on her acceptance of Polygamy. I started praying Istikhara that night. I so desperately wanted it to work out. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. I felt contrite, I felt that because I did not give another woman a chance, a space in my life, that Allah will punish me this time around.

I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. I only protected what was mine. Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. I prayed that she will accept me. He phoned me a few days later telling me that his wife is having a hard time accepting it but that she is willing to meet me. I was nervous the day of the meeting. I prayed a lot the day before and asked Allah to help me. When I met her, she was a person, a woman like me. A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him. She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: “This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters” her words broke my heart. All I needed in these dark days was a hand reaching out to me and embracing me, giving me hope and the will to carry on. His wife was to me, the woman that I could not be and I will be forever grateful for that. I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love.

You never know a person’s situation until you are in it.
Judge by what is right according to Qu’ran and you will see how Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala will sent double fold of blessings your way.”

Culled from : http://muslimvillage.com/2014/12/09/60243/second-wife-a-sisters-story/

temitemi1:
What kind of change oooo. GEJ my HERO! FAYOSE my ROLE MODEL!!

And naa person born you o...

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johndwayy:
...@op, u re jst sounding as if dis lumsing power bank is sooo special.....normal story
My injoo power bank 10000 mAh does beta sef. It can charge my fone (BlackBerry z30, 2880mAh) for almost five times..so nothin special abt lumsing power bank, except u re tryin to do a marketing job.

5 X 2880mAh = 10000
You can lie o

Exactly bro!

I once wrote a review on this power bank too... Its one of the best deal out there
https://www.nairaland.com/1920876/nairalanders-experience-power-banks

What sort of content is inside

goodmother:
chibok girls na scam abeg

Yes it is scam because your sisters aint part of the list kidnapped...
See as i dey look you...

Teddyg2:
Where unaaaaaaa keep Delta ooooooooooooo

RELAX, ITS INSIGNIFICANT

mbulela:
ma formal v.c....
they should withdraw your certificate.

lol...I agree

Opinedecandid:
Nonsense!

Eeya, you guys are crooks...i know Truth is difficult to accept

henryangelo:
Liars,propaganda, APC did that theirselves just to blackmail PDP,is no longer a news that APC and it's members are only interested in blackmail

see as i dey look you...

Just a little more time and this mess is buried

Change is imminent!

Buhari 2019 is imminent!!

TS2:
Thats why I laugh when GEJ boasts about opening new Universities.

Fund the existing ones.

Thank you jare

sidwell:
My romoss sense 4s 11000mah power bank delivered to me today.will keep you guys posted

Still waiting for your reviews sir

Kevkain:
I still do not completely agree with your opinion because I bought a power Bank of 30k man unbranched... and it works pretty well last long.

How many charge cycle are you getting and what re you charging

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Muhammadu Buhari with a Catholic Bishop during a recent meeting with catholics in Abuja



It was Mahatma Gandhi who said he admired Christ not Christians. I guess he said this to remind people that most Christians are definitely not Christ-like. One cannot claim to be a Christian when his attitude is opposite of the principle that we are called to live by. There is no middle ground in this race. It is either you are living like Christ or you are a pretender. People like pretending to be what they are not. It is for this reason that one writer defined hypocrisy as a tribute that vice pays to virtue.

There is absolutely nothing Christ-like in President Goodluck Jonathan’s administration. His policies are harsh towards the common man. He has done absolutely nothing for the poor of the land. Rather, he has done a lot to favour the rich and eminent personalities. Any true Christian knows that God loves the poor and is earnestly seeking to do them good. He is seriously looking for those to use to render service to the poor. It can only take a wicked man to increase the prices of petroleum products on a New Year day thereby causing immense hardship to numerous poverty stricken citizens. Any government that is anti poor is anti God.

Jonathan has refused to go after those who are squandering our patrimony. Corruption is rampant and he is pretending that all is well. You cannot be a follower of Christ and allow evil to run rampant around you. How long can we continue this dance of death? How long are we going to allow these men from the forest of thousand demons to continue to desecrate our land? It is about time we chased them away. We need discipline and decorum in governance. And that is what Muhammadu Buhari is about.

Buhari is everything that Jonathan is not. He is disciplined, painstaking and has a visceral dislike for corruption. He has promised to confront corruption and he is just about the only politician that has the credential to do that. He has done it before and he will do it again. The man cares passionately for the poor of the land and wants to do his bit to help them. Buhari is not a drunk and he is not in the business of running around with other people’s wives. As a Head of State, 11 out of 19 Ministers appointed by him were Christians.

Buhari showed leadership when a dangerous Islamic sect known as Maitatsine threatened our peace. He refused to register Nigeria as a member of the Organization of Islamic Countries and banned government sponsorship of pilgrimages to Mecca. It is a well- known fact that his personal aides and domestic workers are mostly Christians and under him no one was victimized on the basis of religion. It is on record that Jonathan is the first President to lead Nigerian delegation to the Organization of Islamic Countries in February 2013. He has spent an average of $14 billion on 26, 000 Haji pilgrims annually from 2010. From all ramifications, Buhari has more Christian qualities than Jonathan.

Buhari’s government will focus on building a society that would begin to move the powers of a smothering federal government back to states and local government. Government will be closer to the people and better aware of their real needs and wants. APC as party is open and beckoning to a majority of Nigerians not because we are handing out goodies to people but because we have a better proposal for them and their families.

As a transformational leader, Buhari is sure of what he wants happen and is extraordinarily strong-willed about it. He has one thing in mind instead of a variety of passing impulses. He wants a society full of opportunities. In short, the key to a successful transformational leader is to keep your eyes focused on your goals. And the people’s general has a knack for ignoring unproductive criticism and feels neither threatened nor moved by it. He is not one of such politicians that display so much pettiness and hostility that is simply not productive. Surely, Nigeria will be better under him.

Ikechukwu Orji

ikechukwuorji@yahoo.com

People deceiving themselves since time immemorial. ..
All of you pple bashing the OP. .Take a non-virgin and a virgin home to your parents and ask them to pick one for you... I'm pretty sure you'll realise you all re not making any sense!

seggzz:
can you just be looking at your brother to be cooking for his wife? The virginity here is for more att**tion. This is what I found in my brother's family.

I'm sorry to tell you that you're not thinking straight.. .Yes she cannot cook but she can still learn it.. So ain't that enuff to solve it?

seggzz:
I have a very beautiful virgin girl but cannot cook as I do. There was a time I asked her to prepare a pepper soup meal. She didn't know the procedures and she had to ask me the cooking procedures. And I was ashamed with the way she wanted to prepare the meal. I pushed her away and I prepared it myself. She was surprised that I can cook that good after she tasted it.

Moreover, I still asked her to cook egusi soup and stew with turkey differently. She couldn't cook it well even after some assistance, the egusi soup tasted salty. And now, I do most of the cooking anytime she visits me. She confessed that she usually enjoy my food, but I'm not happy with her.

Ladies and gentlemen, what should I do to this virgin lady?

Virginity status is off topic here and besides Are you romantic at all? Or don't you realize how romantic it'll be to teach other stuffs and be humorous.. Why re men so rigid nowadays