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He died for what he loves

You didn't have to put up pictures of his mutilated body�

Good for him

Dekmankind:
Simple English, and she acted accordingly. This girl will pass all her English exams with AAs all the way.
Thumbs up..

Amen

MizTyna:
Akpbabio's pic on nairaland

Na so i see am o

don't mind the nonsense guy

But that's a picture of me in bra na.The guy said I'm disrespectful. So who brought this to nairaland?

She's a yaba left patient.Shame on her

Why must it be Madonna?Please show her face,i might know her.

Fulls you mean or fools?Before you insult people,try to get your spellings correct.

You sound really frustrated.Is it the hard times or you're just a sadist?

That dress is hideous,even ancient Egyptians won't wear that.There's nothing wrong in accepting positive criticisms.The other time she copied Lupita's dress and ended up looking like Batman's wife.Get a good stylist and stop getting angry when the same fans who put you where you are criticize you.What were you expecting as a public figure mma?

I want to believe all these people lashing her ain't women or have never been pregnant. In almost every pregnant woman,the lower abdomen is usually darker than the rest of her body especially towards the last trimester.Her own even looks smooth,you need yo see the wrinkled and stretch marks on other pregnant women.I feel it's the price we have to pay for these previous gifts called children.

Just one question op,have you ever been to the four walls of a school? Secondary or even primary because i feel that's even where we get the basic training.

I hope this is for a movie,i refuse to believe she did this,took a picture and uploaded online.See brow na,and I'm here killing myself.Chei, this shouldn't be the last thing i see before going to bed.

I think she's mentally unstable.No sane woman would do this to her own children. Ah,twin babies at that?

Toke is becoming whiter.Soon,she lost for pictures just like negative

I'm not hating but warrisdis? Trip for what,this one I'm seeing on the picture or is there another coming?The lips nor pink,looks more like vitamin C to me.It's not something to throw anyone off balance.
Well,i admire your confidence.

lol... some people have no chill

Aba,with her uneven brows

She's so beautiful

Makes no sense traveling to see a guy you don't even know.Even the ones you think you know are turning tigers overnight, how much more a total stranger.I don't know what happened to public places that she had to succumb to using back door into the hotel.I don't trust any of them.

Rape stories everyday.But which decent woman travels to see a guy she knows nothing about? If he desperately wants to meet with you, he should find you.And i still don't get why people can't hang out in public places

lol..he needs the prayers

If your story is true,then you're just lucky.Not everyone would get a chance to actually narrate what happened. Be thankful to God and let go of everything that doesn't please him,not just sex tho.I'm pretty sure you've learnt a great lesson.

So her name is spelt "Zahara" ? where did "Zahra"come from? Happy birthday to her,the cake is really nice.

People still fall for this crap in 2015? #smh

This is pure wickedness. Looks like they were even praying for the bridge of contract so they can take laws into their hands.

Dude should be castrated and his gang too.They must be really mad. Nonsense!

Serves him right.He should face the law.Rapist should be castrated immediately. NONSENSE!

Finding a good woman(vice-versa) in 2015 is like trying to eliminate boko haram completely.This your post is annoying me especially the part of "abusing her". Some people are slow learners and might never catch up with your expectations. If you can't cope with her shortcomings, just let her go.If you eventually marry her,will you be proud of her or you'd just keep her in the house.If you can't cope with it,just let her go.If u marry her now,and she doesn't come up with your expectations u might start abusing her physically and you'll even hate her.About the bloated tummy,nobody loves to look like a pregnant woman when you're actually not.If her tummy is that obvious without any issue,what will happen after 3-4 kids? Will u still love her and happily flaunt her? On the other hand, believe me or not she's not comfortable being with you, they'll definitely be this low self esteem thingy.As partners,u should grow together intellectually and otherwise. If u can't live with all these flaws, just let her go,I'm sure you want a happy marriage.I can really relate with your problem because i once dated a nigga like that who kept mixing past and present tense and we both graduated from a private uni so what's his excuse? He'd say stuffs like" Have you guys through" "Did she came" "I'm in the pack". It was difficult having a conversation with him,i kept correcting till i felt it was too much.If you can live with her happily with the flaws,marry her.If you feel you cannot cope with all of these, call it quits.They're lots of sophisticated ladies with very good speech mannerisms who are really good with domestic chores.Love is never enough reasons to marry.
Moreover, our former president didn't marry a literate woman.She made lots of unforgivable grammatical errors but he loved her however.I'm giving you my opinion like I'd give my own brother.Nairalanders will not live with you in the house,you wear the shoes and you know exactly how you feel about it's inconveniences. Best of luck.

Iamthewatcher:
I met my fiancee some few yrs ago. I've agreed to marry her but there are factors I still want to give a final consideration before signing the dotted lines. These are:

1. She is not literate but willing to go to school. I never dreamt of marrying an illiterate when I, myself is a graduate. Her waec result is nothing to write home about. In fact she wasted her time in secondary school as far as I'm concerned and when I asked her why she was such an olodo, she quickly blamed those she lived with. She said because she was more or less a maid then, she hadn't much time for her studies and that's why she failed woefully. When I met her, her use of english was zero and I had to exert much effort to bring her to the level where she could converse freely with me at least in english. She retook her ssce and credited all subjects except math.

2. She's 2yrs and 3months older than me. Some argue that a woman will age first when older and that's the reason men go for younger women or at worst, their age mates.

3: She sometimes feel inferior to me cos' of my literacy and polished way of going about my stuff.

4. She has a fat tummy. This I perceived to be an upshot of her eating habit before I met her. Can you believe that it was when I started staying close to her that I discovered that she doesn't drink water after eating. Maybe she does that very much later. She was an expert in devouring meat with her friends and never exercised. I also had to teach her to drink water first thing in the morning before taking breakfast. I discovered that her mouth was always dry as a result of this disgusting lifestyle. If she wants to have a word with me in low tone, I do perceive some offensive odours from the mouth sometimes. All this are changing slowly now cos' a damage of so many years can't just be corrected overnight. I'm putting much effort into rearing her cos' she's a wife material.

There are one or two other drawbacks I won't like to go into now as the aforementioned factors are the ones that baffle me the most. I sometimes get so annoyed and start abusing her. But she also has her good sides that even attracted me to her which are:

1. She is well-mannered.
2. She can cook very well.
3. She is very hospitable.
4. She's very respectful.
5: She's pretty and fair.
6. She's a wife material.
7. She's reserved.

The crux here is that we are presently, not on the same page as far as being learned and refined is concerned and I want to marry someone who'll be very refined as well. Though we stay as friends but I feel she doesn't measure up.
So my people, if you were in my shoes, can you go ahead and marry her despite these bad sides??
Pls and pls, helpful comments will suffice.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Finding a good woman(vise-versa) in 2015 is as difficult as eliminating boko haram.There's no point marrying a woman you're not proud of.Some people are very slow learners and might never catch up with your expectations.This your write up is annoying me especially the part of "abusing her".Nobody is ever perfect, you cannot have it all.With all these skepticisms about her, i suggest you just let her go.She might never measure up with you and later in marriage you'll begin to hate her which might even lead to physical abuse because presently you're verbally abusing her.Your kind of man wants a woman he can flaunt very well.They're lots of sophisticated ladies who are well domesticated. Never marry someone who's far below your standard, it just won't work.I once dated a guy who was far below average in terms of intelligence, morals,reasoning, verbal communication skills and every other thing u could think of. I had really hard times conversing with him.He usually mixed past and present tense. And we both graduated from a private uni and he was like two years ahead.He'd say stuffs like" Have you guys through " "Did she came" " I'm at the pack".I had to let go because love is never enough. If you can cope with these shortcomings of hers then marry her. About the bloated tummy; no man likes that.If her tummy is obviously fat without an issue, what will happen after 3 kids? If u can live happily married with these bad sides,marry her.After all our former president didn't marry a sophisticated woman,she made lots of grammatical blunders but he still loved her.If you can't cope,please drop her number i go give my brother.Best of luck Sir.