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VeryBoi:
I've always dreaded social gatherings, even as a kid. I remember skipping my primary school's end-of-year party, and that was just the beginning. Throughout secondary school, I struggled to do simple tasks, like participating in class or making friends. My mind was always racing, and my body would shake noticeably when I was nervous. This took a toll on my self-esteem.

Despite being a bookworm and exceling academically, I was always quiet and reserved. My teachers recognized my potential, but my classmates thought I was deaf and dumb because of my silence. I recall a humiliating experience where I was asked to draw a skeleton on the board. My fear of being mocked and embarrassed was overwhelming, and, sure enough, my legs shook, and the class laughed at me.

I confided in my dad, but he didn't take my concerns seriously and blamed me instead. Feeling defeated, I passed on the opportunity to attend university and instead worked as a sales boy. However, the constant mockery and ridicule I faced due to my social anxiety made it impossible for me to continue.

Now, at 25 (almost 26!), I feel hopeless and tired. I've tried exercises to manage my anxiety, but nothing seems to work. My legs still shake when I'm standing, and people laugh at me. I'm desperate for help and guidance. Has anyone else experienced something similar? How did you overcome it?

Please share your stories, advice, and support.

I wish I can pass my thoughts into you, I was so self aware growing up that even a smirk is enough to crash my confidence, unfortunately you won't defeat this as long as you believe people can hurt you with their opinion and if you continue caring about other people and what they think of you, non chalance and the subtle art of not giving a F is what you need, force yourself to believe you're in the moment and you're all there is and you're all that matters in your story, if I tell you how I used to be you'll pity me, work on your confidence, work on getting better financially, work on your looks, increase your selling point and prospects, eventually you'll begin to see you're a catch and that would solve your issues.

You raised millions of dollars to race sperm when children are hungry all over the world, these people dey muzz me I swear.

Guestmale:
This is how moral is gradually going down in our society these days, a man plaiting hair and putting on earrings like a woman can certainly not be a good role model to any child in a sane society.

And why did he hate interview,is he not a social media influencer.

And you that is very morally upright like the pope what impact have you made compared to the bad guy who's so bad because he wore ear rings.

Kog45:
A man with plaited hair and earrings and people are following him, believing in him so much,hmmm this country na cruise

holier than though, people like you wey no plait hair bad pass those that do, most of the heinous crimes being committed are committed by people who didn't plait hair, Na hair be your own problem is the hair a reflection of his character.

Baba no wan get carried away and say something they'll misconstrue, cuz he seems to talk alot and loose himself when he's talking.

omotolsy:
There are issues i discovered already.
Its going to be called the poco f7 and it will cone with a lesser processor and battery.
I honestly always prefer a chinese rom to a global because chinese phones are more quality than the provided as global. The only issue with chinese is the network band. Honestly if there is a work around i will proceed to buy the Chinese variant right now.

then they can have their device I'm not settling for the watered down version of crap they send to the African market

omotolsy:
When will we have the Redmi Turbo 4 Pro?

I dey wait for am too, I hope it doesn't come as another poco cuz I hate this poco die, let it be the turbo 4 pro I'm seeing online.

You fit change am for the guy finish only for your sister to turn around and accuse you of trying to sabotage her happy relationship, women are confusing creatures.

Imagine waking up to seeing this face in the morning, I'll have a cardiac arrest.

Elzazzi:
She's not a small fish oo. Did you read where she purposely turned down the role of being mossad director? Instead she chose to be deputy director even to her juniors who became director. Maybe cause she's a woman.

Yea I read everything, she's actually a great woman but I'm saying they're so many stories of other over achievers in Mossad we don't hear of, stories that this woman will pale when compared to, I've seen so many heroic acts of patriotism and professionalism these Mossad guys carry out like it's nothing, you don't see it on the media because they're not allowed to talk about it, but enter Reddit and see things, trust me this woman is little compared to other achievers you never heard of in same Mossad.

jospepper:
Heavy shame... In the GI.ant of Africa soldiers go withdraw, Fulani go attack, kill and destroy. Then the soldiers go return to harass the grieving villagers. SHAME, SHAME, SHAME...

Hmm Wetin man go do.

Small Isreal has a formidable army I shame for my country, I'm sure she's just a small fish when other Mossad bigwigs are mentioned but Wetin the small fish don archive pass Wetin anybody for Nigerian army don achieve, other than oppressing civilians I dunno what these ones do.

Right, so the democracy that is so good is what we're practicing in Nigeria right? Same democracy where the leader is imposed on the people and our rights and freedom of speech suppressed and stripped we have no voice, we complain bitterly yet we're ignored and the leader imposed on us does what he likes with zero accountability, bleeding us dry with impunity, How's the dictatorship masked as democracy different from whatever you're accusing Traore for, una too like this bondage they put una, so much it's strange when someone does something different, we're in for a long thing in Africa.

Berankis:
That guy thY posted travelling to Cape Verde for holidays with his guys and they were all detained for days and deported for no reason. This is the reason here. Some Nigerians have battered the image of the entire nationality. It will most likely rubb off everyone eventually, whether you are innocent or not.

imagine, it's a crime being Nigerian I swear.

GarkiAccessory:
@Dauntless15

Bro I beg you
Help a brother in need. Money dey yab man.

Supply me with relevant info regarding this hustle, when it starts paying I will reimburse you 🙏🏽

I'm sorry bro I can't, I really wished you'd learn then come back and attest wether you gained or not, I no fit babysit anyone free, it's too valuable for that, I wish you well, let him give you something to do, no be by running your mouth online like a jobless hooligan.

They'll now turn it to a tribal war meanwhile we're all having a bad rep after all we're all the same, e no matter the tribe we're all same to them.

cmoney22222:
Dauntless15 claims he makes so much money from survey. I do not do online survey. But just becareful he doesn’t scam you because he will charge you 15k for this. Pls don’t pay oooo.

Dominique let him prove where I scammed him, it's sad sane person go suffer for sharing the internet with people like this, I don tire for this guy trolling.

GarkiAccessory:
Okay Boss
Thanks alot 🙏🏽

I pity you, you dey even thank am

occfx:
Lol.. Nigeria don deal with am and friends has deserted. However, the apology is full of ego and entitlement. I doubt Akpabio will accept the apology. If na me, I no go accept am unless, they have already settled outside the box.

apparently you missed the point of the whole letter, you don't understand the meaning of the word satirical obviously.

cmoney22222:
You that have sense. With 1.66 lev … 😜


Lamborghini when. RM when? E go tey before you make am ooo.

I’ll advise you to better go back and be hustling how to sell your market direction to dauntless15 and that abokiwam abi nah abokinama boy. Also you can sell to betnaija aka mr Germany .

50$ with 1* Lev . Na till next year you go see 💯 percent

See how you dey behave like a scorned woman like one girl I used and dumped, oga move on with your life, I am not your mate, thankgod nairaland now has a block button, I go just block you and rest.

Goshiii:
Good for you mate. You wan sell am?

no bro Na my office be that

Goshiii:
When you get ya own price am how you like.

I have an rtx laptop calm down

Peppersoup for my household

It's like the name you write on a that record while traveling using public transport, Incase something happened to you they'll know who to contact, I always said this but people dey call me over Sabi, next of kin doesn't mean you get to inherit the kingdom once someone is gone.

Bobxin:
Nailed it! As if a Yahoo boy would come for introduction and tell the girl's parents he's into fraud.

They no question am where he work o, they just concluded, I tire for Nigerians, fraud is wrong, no one is endorsing it, but unless you uav proof such person is into fraud don't conclude based on ur own myopic belief.

I bet he's a yahoo boy because he's young, doing well, has a car and dress a certain way, in Nigeria you must be old, barb molo and dress like old man to not be a yahoo boy, they write am for his forehead abi you dey where he do the yahoo, with your myopic point of view, una Sabi victimize people ehn, in my area I'm also a yahoo boy to them simply because I'm tech savvy, I don't dig holes day and night to make money under the sun and I'm living fine, e dey pain them, na only that tag they get to use against you nothing else, small thing you're a yahoo boy, buy small car you're a yahoo boy, enemies of progress.

Assetosky:
But you can't block killer bandits

Kill any bandit and you go shock how fast DSS will find you, same people that'll take years to respond to fulani herdsmen onslaught, benue people aren't cowards they just know the system isn't on their side, how many people don kill fulani go free.

HolinesstodLord:
I can see from your signature you are not a follower of Jesus Christ. A natural man can’t understand the things beyond his brain, the things of the spirit…

And I can see you're a supernatural man, explanation is your job right? Afterall that's what Christ instructed you to do so explain, you go explain tire no evidence.