delectablegyal:


i don't like replying you but i will reply this.



These guys are sex maniacs.

Btw, if you are in a no sex relationship and your boyfriend cheats on you with various girls, dat mks him promiscuous. So i'm nt saying girls are sex machines.

If you know me very well, you will know dat i'm an advocate for #weddingnight.

Advocate my foot. Let's face d truth. Ladies tend to be more promiscuous than guys in the sense that several factors come in place.
1. A lady can do anything just to get what she wants even if it means that her body is a means to an end.
2. High sex drive: sexual activity causes the increase in the testosterone. High libido is correlated with the menstrual cycle so that many women experience an increase in sexual desire several days immediately before ovulation. Testosterone level rise gradually on the 24th day of a woman's menstrual cycle until ovulation on abt the 14th day of the next cycle. During this period of high testosterone period,a woman typically feels more attracted to masculine facial features and is more likely to pursue short-term mating. So my dear, women have it on them naturally. If you feel me, u can call me the prof or David.

Carowline:
Hmmmm
Even Soldiers

u have a wrong mindset about them

Carowline:
Hmmmm
Even Soldiers

You re having a wrong mindset about soldiers

Carowline:
Hmmmm
Even Soldiers

I think u re 100 percent wrong

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hmmm

I will say it and still keep on saying it. If you know u re not find, don't live a runs girl life. God after seeing how pure u re will reward u immensely by providing the best husband. If you re beautiful. Blend your beauty with your talent to accomplish several things, and watch how fulfilled you will become. Don't give your glory to a man who is not deserving of such, rather see to it that you purpose for which you re made is accomplished. Moreso i leave you with this: DO SOMETHING TODAY THAT WILL MAKE THE PERSON YOU WILL BECOME 2MORROW PROUD TO HAVE BECOME THE PERSON YOU RE TODAY. And that includes chastity. Be a woman of virtues not a woman who is known for warming the minds of mankind.

This kind kiss no get part 2. Originality.

Laveda:
You'll need to go for training then ..I'll register you in a sêx school

tell me you don't mean it

[quote author=Laveda post=41607387][color=#000099][i]You'll need to go for training then ..I'll register you in a sêx school. Tell me the admission requirement because i really need to enrol

Think abt this, don't you think there re spiritual repercussions as regards being a non virgin. We must align our day to day activities to what our future will bring.

Why is it that after all the mount Zion films or movies being watch. Many re still treading the path of destruction. I wish all individuals are following the way and that way comes thru Christ who is the author and finisher of our faith.

wasak:

I've tried, I've held myself for a whole week without any form of communication with her, but that was d highest I could go, we settled and she promised to adjust, as it is now I perceive she's incorrigible, it's either i accept her that way, or I take a walk. But I'm also scared of her falling into the wrong hands....

Now i know what's wrong, you re on the verge of self destruction if what u re feeling for her is self pity, don't be emotionally overwhelmed with the relationship. What i have to say is at this stage, u still need to be enlightened and re-oriented on the scope of what relationship is all abt. Just think thru, will this relationship add value and savor to you or it will devastate u emotionally, drain you psychologically and leave you depressed and frustrated. This problem is prevalent and sometimes it leads to suicide. My advice is a relationship not build on a solid foundation not only is on the verge of destroying, it comes with calamity and problems. So don't stay in a relationship just for pity rather reside in a one that will benefit you both which is called symbolism relationship.

chymystique:


Change?? Please what kind of Change? Him collecting the petition changes nothing cause we all know Saraki aint going to do anything concerning the petiton so as to be in PMB's good book and Change with this govt is pure Fallacy.... #FakeChange

you re being sentimental, that change has come and we must experience it with or without you.

denko:
IF THIS TRUE THEN SARAKI IS THE EPITOME OF CHANGE

I think he is not meant to pass through any scrutiny of corruption because for a man who is bent on scrapping corruption and who just shut down senators in support of amaechi deserves nothing but wholehearted support to him and our anti corruption propaganda. I applaud your alacrity and candour.

MadCow1:
Interesting Point to Note:: The Man has 2 wives.. So its okay for him to cheat and marry as many as he pleases but his Boo cannot have a Boo..






When that Man is caught, he should be tied up, and a hot Iron rod laced with Salt And Pepper inserted into his Anus.

Then a long hot needle also laced with pepper should be inserted into his penile cavity and then he should be shot in the shoulder and jailed for 10 years.

These re the kind of people buhari should have nominated for ministerial post, people who aren't afraid of popular figures but give out punishment where deemed fit necessary. I applaud your alacrity in stamping out injustice and your effort towards revamping nairaland.

MadCow1:
[b]Interesting Point to Note:: The Man has 2 wives.. So its okay for him to cheat and marry as many as he pleases but his Boo cannot have a Boo..






When that Man is caught, he should be tied up, and a hot Iron rod laced with Salt And Pepper inserted into his Anus.

Then a long hot needle also laced with pepper should be inserted into his penile cavity and then he should be shot in the shoulder and jailed for 10 years.

These re the kind of people buhari should have nominated for ministerial post, people who aren't afraid of popular figures but give out punishment where deemed fit necessary. I applaud your alacrity in stamping out injustice and your effort towards revamping nairaland.[/b]

MadCow1:
Interesting Point to Note:: The Man has 2 wives.. So its okay for him to cheat and marry as many as he pleases but his Boo cannot have a Boo..






When that Man is caught, he should be tied up, and a hot Iron rod laced with Salt And Pepper inserted into his Anus.

Then a long hot needle also laced with pepper should be inserted into his penile cavity and then he should be shot in the shoulder and jailed for 10 years.

These re the kind of people buhari should have nominated for ministerial post, people who aren't afraid of popular figures but give out punishment where deemed fit necessary. I applaud your alacrity in stamping out injustice and your effort towards revamping nairaland.

Feranchek:


Ode.

BTW, you just lost your mind, so I'll understand

yes oooooooooooooooooo u re right. People like this re the type that castigate or criticizepeople but re indirectly committing that same crime. These re the category of sadducces and pharisees our lord Jesus was talking abt...... HYPOCRITES

The solution isnt about castrating or flogging them or sending them to jail, when they come out of jail, it won't stop them and their punishment won't serve as a deterrent to others, rather it will bee from fry pan to fire. They need psychiatric re-evaluation, orientation and enlightenment and majorly God's divine touch on their life because it might be they have been cursed.

To me it seems they swear for her ooo, i can't imagine a lady getting old by day rejecting series of marriage advances from men capable of being perfect. This curse is from her village, am sure of it.

raayah:
Look how unhappy and unaccomplished she looks. I bet its because she isn't married.

We know that all women above 30 are unhappy and looking for husbands!

Poor Genevieve..

With the way you re talking, you re in love with her, don't use indirect way of proclaiming love to her.

irunooboo:
this yeye aunty jos dey fork dick all over lagos when all her mates don marry finish. I pity her mama

you need a new life because the one u have is in a rotten form

irunooboo:
this yeye aunty jos dey fork dick all over lagos when all her mates don marry finish. I pity her mama

u talk as if you don have brain, i recommend psychiatric re-evaluation for you.

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

your sarcastic way of thinking is overwhelming. You should be courteous at least.

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

your sarcastic way of thinking is overwhelming. You should be courteous at least.

Rilamaka:


In as much as I do not support or applaud homosexuality. What you have just written be it an actual event or figment of fantasy illustrates your sociopathic tendency. I cannot believe that an average Nigerian will watch a human being gay or not "bleed to death" without attempting to save the person. Homosexuals are human beings first before anything and for you to gloat about watching a human being die without any trace of emotion indicates that you as a matter of fact are a killing machine who is in a wrong profession. I'm sorry but any medical profession is about saving lives and what you posted is simply evil.

i hail you for your meticulous and you pragmatic demeanour or disposition, you explain it well. Kudos to you.

awesomesossy:
Tah common gererahere....u no de shame

are you sure u know what u re saying because to me u need psychiatric re-evaluation and mental re- examination.

djcliff:





if ur mama dey alive may she curse you! if she Don die may she slap u. idiot! we are not free to myk choices if we are we should be free to choose were we work, live etc. myk them come Kano come protest now. Nigeria and Nigerians detest this madness. in absence of religion we have culture, abi oyibo pple get? abi na gay born you? u no fit differenciate papa from mama?



it won't come to that! because Muslims are not as foolish and tolerating as Christians, leave them for God no dey their dictionary! if Bologna boy and Isis decide to wage war war against this insane pple iam a volunteer

don be a sentimental and a tribalistic oriented human. If you like join the devil and its likes