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go and pick ur chemistry text book.

Steve Bruce is cowering in shame

michelin89:
*yawn* I nor get time for a mummy's boy and will never have. He knows my stand concerning this and still he has told me he'd like to go on. So what? You too David, unsew your trouser from your mama's skirt!

Any man will say anything as long as he gets regular free sex. When he's ready for a serious commitment he will dump you. I'm a guy, we've all strung girls we knew we wont marry along before.

When the time comes, you go get time by force.

Just my 2 cents.

spikedcylinder:
I sensed that letter was to a nairalander. Is he reading all this? Abi na you David?

small mommy's boy like me? haba . . .

michelin89:
Na who talk say i dey jealous?

See these people. As I just comot small una start to dey gossip. Nor make me vex ooo!

UPDATE: we are still together and I have already made my intention known to him; i nor go pretend one day. He don talk him own and me sef talk my own. And i don tell am say he way go cause wahala between hima and any woman wey he go marry tomorrow. he laugh am off but one day one day he go see.

So thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread.

Ok Mich . . . you know me well, i will speak hard truths when they are necessary . . . so here goes -

I think you also need to grow up a bit. That's not the way to endear yourself to a man you think you have a future with. A man's parents are very important to him and the earlier you realise that the better. his mom wont go away so you can have him all to urself.

Being a gf is not just about having "alone time" with your boi, its about family and friends too.

samba123:
DeepZone…my dear… the Jesus you’re calling is not an Aramaic language that this name exist you might misinterpret how you call this name. try to see those alphabet of the Aramaic if you can find the Letter ‘J’ ‘jay’ within among those written letter in Aramaic and figure it out how come that this name Jesus are you calling are not found in Aramaic word. Aramaic is the sister language of Arabic…a little variant in pronunciation you can hear about that as you voice out the name of Isa(Jesus) in Arabic and Isou in Aramaic sound familiarity when you hear about it.

Sharap my friend. when did muslims become authorities on aramaic? You cant even give a correct interpretation of the quran u are busy deciphering aramaic letters.

javalove:
@David

Why are u guys always scared and too bothered about muslims quoting from the bible and talking about Jesus. If we were in a Jewish forum, we would still use the Quran and the OT. Allah did not leave stone unturned in Islam.

I also read in some of ur posts that muslims copied the bible? Ask yourself this simple question: What is in the bible to be copied?

this is a most nonsensical post. Afraid? Scared about muslims quoting from the bible and talking about Jesus?  

The reason i raise the point is because i wonder - - - WHY are muslims SO VERY COMFORTABLE quoting the bible rather than the "complete and last" book of the quran?

Why do muslims find it easier to buttress their points with the very bible they claim is corrupt instead of the quran?

Why do muslims spend WAY TOO MUCH TIME struggling about the correct spelling of the name of Jesus Christ and so little time on mohammad or other "prophets" in the quran?

Why is the bible and Jesus Christ so much the focus of the average muslim? Ever seen christians quoting the quran 24/7?

O boy go and sit down pls. Hypocrites.  

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whatever90:
that boi can't stay away from his mum,because its obvious shes his financial support,infact blood sef is talking here,the OP is just asking for too much from a "boyfriend" and not a 2husband" ,i wonder what will happen when they get married

probably what the guy thought when he heard Mich's request.

KarmaMod:
probably dating a Kenyan

I sure the few pretty ones are mixed with some other country

Kenyans are not that bad . . . _{i hope}

spikedcylinder:
Another question Michelin,

You say you don't live alone, who do you live with? Your parents? Siblings? Would he (your ex) be right to say they should gerrout for a few days so he can spend a few days with you too?

Of course not. What's good for girls isnt good for boys. I'm surprised Mich didnt think about this aspect.

whatever90:
i like ur honesty jare

yea babes can be unnnecessarily jealous,that one is a fact,because ive been reading michelins posts and she said d woman is not rude or harsh to her,then wats her problem,no honestly wats her problem,its just jealousy i think,because d guy showers his mum wt so much attention,and d mum gets to spend more time wt him dan her wt him

michelin sorry if I'm rude,i really am,but blive me or blive it or not ,look deep down inside of u,if u be truthful enough,u'd tell us that its all jealousy ,nothing else

you've said it all.

Murray will beat Fed . . . i think Fed's time has run out

whatever90:
seriously michelin i think u r exagerating ,because d mum can't be there all d time,i mean every single time u visit

sorry but [b]i think its not d visit that is ur only prob,u r jealous of d guys feelings for his mum and d attention,[/b]shes his mum,he has d right to give her d attention and love hes giving to her now,c'mon don't give yourself unnecessary headache over one woman

Mich, is this true?

maybe because the school is a joke

michelin89:
so all is really lost??

All hope is lost o . . . the guy isnt ever going to change for you. Either accept his mother or delete him from your life.

tope2000:
@michelin89
I suggest you move on with your life because that boy is certified Mama' boy and you will be always be second even if you guys get married and have zillion kids together.
Living just 30mins away from his mum says it all

it doesnt say anything. Some men live with their mothers and still have plenty of "us" time with their girlfriends. the guy is just not that committed to her.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=194307.msg3072328#msg3072328 date=1226423923]Thats not independence, Thats called being stubborn.[/quote]lol true.

Michelin the guy is now an ex . . . find another guy who doesnt have his mom around 24/7. I also dont agree that he cant leave the house with you when his mum is there . . . he just doesnt want to.

I'll make sure to look next time

Pastor AIO:
A while back when I had just joined this forum there was a thread about Evolution (one of many) which I contributed to. Now, it is my position that evolution is undeniable. I wrote a post stating that those who deny evolution should not be given the flu vaccine which is renewed every year. Why? Because the flu vaccine has to be renewed every year for the simply reason that the flu virus evolves, so it changes from year to year. If evolution did not occur then there should be no need for a new vaccine. There should also be no need for new pesticides to get rid of mosquitos. So those that deny evolution should be denied the latest antibiotics and the latest insecticides.

this is funny.

1. the flu virus DOES NOT EVOLVE . . . it MUTATES. Those terms cannot be used interchangeably and a mutation cannot be said to be similar to evolution.

2. Producing new pesticides to get rid of mosquitoes is simply because insects can and do develop tolerance to certain toxins.

Based on these 2 weak cases you brought up in support of evolution, would you then admit that man is still evolving? For example we know that Down's syndrome is as a result of genetic mutation, we also know that man develops resistance to antibiotics which is the reason you are strongly advised never to stop ur antibiotic regimen midway . . .

michelin89:
Exactly! I don't know how to behave or what to do around her. Should i ask her if she wants something to drink? She might think I am living there while I am just on a visit. Goshhhhhhh! Somebody help meeee!

Its not your house so sit down quietly, be respectful to her and leave her son to handle any issues if he's really serious about you. My mom would always ask me if i felt she should leave . . . of course i said yes!  

Tell your boy to grow up quickly if you still like him.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=194307.msg3072119#msg3072119 date=1226422167]Why can't your guy come and visit you? Why do you have to be the one going there all the time if his mum is always around him?[/quote]Good point for you to think about Mich.

KarmaMod:
I don't think that's what she meant.

More like give her a time when it's just them

I understand, but she mentioned the guy is in his early 20s.

- first off, it seems he's too young, is not mature enough for the kind of relationship she wants and still depends on his mother to do a lot of thinking for him.

- The mother is obviously not convinced her son is ready for a committed relationship yet.

michelin89:
no no! I meant as in engaged. His mum knows I am his girlfriend. Even his friends does. The first time I visited him he introduced me as his girl so that's not the issue. What I am talking about, when I say official, I mean being engaged.

It doesnt matter . . . you know how many "girlfriends" a man will introduce to his mother before he finally decides on "The One"?

Mothers are not stupid, they can tell when a man is serious about a woman or not. The "girlfriend" tag is no longer anything to take seriously.

JustGood:
na the time wey the thing dey sweet the guy. me sef don tell woman say make we go marry before when I dey young. na the "something" dey sweet me too that time but pikin no fit sabi

I like the guy, who no like free cow?  

JustGood:
Na you sabi maturity abi? The person wey born pikin no sabi maturity.

My brother i tire!

michelin89:
He has asked me and we were even discussing going to live together when I start university but for some reasons I decided we weren't matured enough. I was the one who personally asked him not to speak to any body about it. Even my friends and family didn't know we had such plans I thought making it official would have caused even more concern by the family and possibly riun things.

You guys were putting the cart before the horse . . . infact you didnt even have a horse and you were polishing your cart.

Why discussing going to live together with a man when he hasnt officially declared you a couple to his friends and family? Na wa o.

iceblue:
sorry o! no wonder! mumsie won't let him go that easily. forget about him. i no dey like date first born sef. too much pressure on him, and it gets transferred to you.

maybe the first borns' you know.  

michelin89:
I have always greeted (knelt down) her whenever I saw her. I can't just go and visit her because since he has not made it official that he wants to get serious with me, i don't want to act desperate by licking his mum's ass to get her approval. Afterall he is supposed to make an effort to make things easier between us but just because we have got to meet each other, he thinks he has done even too much.

then why do you expect his mom to leave the house for you? As far as she's concerned you're no different from the several girls her son just plays around with.

michelin89:
Have you taken your time to read the thread? So David are you telling me that whenever you asked your girlfriend to come over, your mum always happened to be around? This is not just a whim, this is using common sense. How do you think a possibly future wife would feel if she is constantly under her inlaw's eyes? Please, give some breathing space.

My mom knows i don't just entertain any woman . . . when she happens to see one she knows i must be serious about her and will do her best to give us our space even though she's literarily dying to find out what is going on. you say this guy is in his early 20s, i'll wager 22-23 . . . his mother still considers him a kid and you a distraction.

whatever90:
thank God hes now a ex

Like the next one wont also have a mother?

It all depends on the approach of the girl to be honest. the guy isnt in the wrong at all . . .

KarmaMod:
Allison wins.

you have good taste.

na so woman full here.  

Mich, too bad you got stuck with a man who is tied to his mother's apron strings. But to be honest if i were in the guy's shoes i'd probably react the same way.

- Did you take ANY opportunity to get close to his mother? If you did, the mom herself will be the one to ask when you'll be coming so she can give you some space with her son.
- Women expect that men should simply dispense with their mothers as soon as they show up . . . not ever gonna happen.

My mom didnt initially like my ex when i introduced them to each other but the chic played a smart move . . . she would occassionally visit my mom in my absence, both would call each other at least 3 times a week . . . within 2 months my mom was begging me to marry her.

What do you mean by a "typical african relationship" anyway? I find that amusing . . . you think foreign men will send their mothers away for you?  

bawomolo:
what's the difference, people disagreed with it along ago. discrimination is discrimination

We are going fast down a slippery slope where the views of a minority will be forced on the state. If the electorate voted to ban gay marriage, why are we turning to the courts to overturn it? What then is the definition of democracy?

Very soon some will be going to court to overturn presidential elections. The idea that gay rights MUST be foisted on the state BY FORCE is alarming.

Form a government of National Unity; northern elders urge Obama - Punch

MrCrackles:
Mrs Bush is fugly

And why is Michelle wearing a credit crunch dress? c'mon ma, u can do berra!

you need glasses. that woman is cute.

lucabrasi:
if you think the girls are ugly then post your pics for comparison to see if you r better than them, pot calling the kettle,

no be lie my brother . . .

Bush don old o! See what sinking poll ratings can do.