₦airaland Forum

chyckxx:
I think it's wrong to be friends with other guys if you're in a serious relationship. I can't stand my girl having guys around her all in the name of "just being friends".

mmachi96:
My dear David/grey, have it not bothered u how science came about with sleeping pills but no wakig up pills yet? ...have u not taking time to wonder on the mystery of life .....how today someone is alive and the next day, the same person is dead.can u categorically explain thw mystery behind life and death or give a real explanation on the complex being called man?? How ur body is wired to function the way it does. Maybe u can carry out a research on the wonderful work of creation...how the trees , the rivers, the birds etc come to be. Until u come up with a resonable answer, God is still God.

thepussyhunter:
true @bolded but does it mean ladies are entitled and free to exploit that default setting in man..........................

Do you mean because men care and provide dem ladies should become reciever alone

And i think what you meant to wrrite there is
"a woman who is INDEPENDENT and can stand on her own will never take the man she loves as her fiurative "golden goose"...


Personally i dont see anything wrong in guys taking care of and provuiding for their relationship mates but i get pissed when i see ladies demanding and demanding things that even their parents cant provide for them.........are we married?
Am i your husband?

mmachi96:
If anyone need waking up, it's you dear so that you will not wake up when u can no longer find mercy before God Almighty. God is God and everything under the sun points to the existence of God...the Bible said that it's only a fool that says there is no God. Don't be among those the Bible to referred to as fools. remain blessed.

Baawaa:
The Alpha and Omega,He knows you before you born,He will deliver you from total destruction

omusiliyu:
Sex addiction if not treated on time can lead to dangerous things. It may lead to violence or blackmailing . If you find all these or most of these signs in your partner, get them help. Because that is all that you can do else you will have to keep giving in to his sex demands all the time.

optional1:
I guess they found what they are looking for.

God has prove science wrong again..





Don't find me, am in my house in sambisa forest chilling with our big brother Shekue.

[color=#000050]Highlighted point is shallow!

This was all about science! | Why do you clowns feel the need to bring religion into basic issues?

The notion that what man doesn't understand is "god's doing" is amplified foolishness

Basically, Religion makes you(clowns) give up trying to solve problems "I can't solve this, so god"

Having said that..... Do I need to reiterate that irrespective of the pains involved, Women were "designed" to bear and survive the pains involved, This argument is baseless. [/color]

Tiny23:
Money ,hahahaha

jashar:
Pay the bride price then go to court to have the union legalised If you're a Christian, go to church on Sunday for church blessing.

No need for reception. Costs saved.

[color=#000050] legalized*

That is the most silly thing i have read all year, So much naivety backed with mentally cultured destitution

Shamefully your egregious understanding of the law is as poor as your understanding of basic civil practices. #Parsimonious [/color]

Zinny25:
I agree with you to some extent... What if there's nothing that makes u happy?

Benita27:
Like I said, it's a personal decision which has absolutely nothing to do with Mr right. Btw, I'm in a relationship.

Benita27:
Have been celibating for a year plus now, have got all the sexual knowledge cum exposure. It's a personal decision, and there's nothing wrong in starving one's flesh of some desires. Once in a while as humans one is bound to desire for sex, but self control is key.

[color=#000050]That's why i said that it's "plausible"

That being said, I wouldn't classify what you are doing as celibacy by definition, You are simply "biding" your time waiting for Mr right that can do no wrong. [/color]

FortuneTeller:
Of course there will. As long as there is sex and sperm banks, there will be children. The more a country industrializes, the less people get married. Marriage doesn't offer much benefit to women unless there it adds a financial need. Otherwise there really isn't a reason for men. Let's go back to when women lived in their own homes and the man just visited each "hut". It's the way of Iceland now and they are very happy there.

FortuneTeller:
Plenty of women are doing it. Don't even talk of the US or UK. Just look at Iceland. Women enjoy themselves and don't worry about marriage. Men are no longer needed, they are just enjoyed.

Fakemumu:
Am using my friends moniker without him knowing...will love to get ur advise as quick as possible.
am a married lady and I have dis feeling that my husband is not d man for me..
. Am not just free with him...more like we r not best of friends,we argue ,querel and our ideas to life ain't dsame.

am less than 23 and am yet to do my white wedding,he just paid my bride price n we have a daughter...
pls wats ur advise,if I were to be ur sister wat will u advise me to do?

plentyme:
Good evening Nairalander.
There is something bothering my mind and giving me sleepless night which I will like you to help me out................
I have been married for a year and half now without any issue though my hubby did not give me any problem or complained about it.
But the problem is that......my in-laws has never asked me anything about it or even call to give me any advice concerning it.
My question is...................Is it normal or proper for them not to ask me or is it too early for them to show concern?