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SmellingAnus:
God .... How did you create some

[color=#000050] Still waiting for that invitation card. [/color]

Dimples182:
I'm guilty of writing in paragraphs

David/grey is guilty of one word replies to said paragraphs

Dimples182:
That's an incredible father, the children are very lucky. It's done everyday here so nothing out of the ordinary to see a father bath, feed and carry his children. It's a shame that it's so shocking to many men.

Dimples182:
Davidgrey

[color=#000050] Dimples [/color]

RuthDaniels:
Sapiosexuality is yet another sexual orientation like asexual, pansexual amidst others. The fact that the terminology is new doesn't mean the act is too. It is not an illusion rather another sexual abnormality. Some ladies get wet seeing a nerd, while some guys get turned on listening to an intelligent lady. it's all in the brain! We tend to fight something we don't understand!

Getting attracted to someone base on physical attributes isn't vanity either!. It is how humans are wired, we are formed to be moved by what we see.The diversity is an outcome of our experiences, environments , backgrounds and social influences.

Do we pick whom to get attracted to? The blinded just like the unblinded have no power to choose who he gets attracted too. He has the power only to curb or control unwanted attractions. People who see too sometimes act blind to physical attributes to know who the person really is.

The point is, to say attraction is based on physical attributes is totally wrong! Some people get to like someone online without seeing them !.

RuthDaniels:
It all boils down to your "victim's" personality . I used "victim" because of the act of manipulation involved! why force / manipulate a person to like you? . Back to my point, Humans are different, what moves us, what makes us, our personalities are not the same. Some people are visual in nature( they are moved by what they see) while some people are auditory ( move by what they hear).

A sapiosexual for example will place intelligence above physical features if he or she is to choose a partner. "Attraction goes beyond the physical" ! . That is why even the blinds fall in love. The phrases " I fell in love with her voice" , "Her intelligence attracted me to her" etc have been used several times by people. That suggests you don't have to meet someone to like someone. Some people get attracted without meeting.

I think the first step in this art of seduction should be knowing who your " prey" is . Then other things follows suit !

cc Kim/bra
David/grey!

kimbra:
I remember saying what he mentioned is the superficial. But, in order to have a lasting bond with anyone "Character" and one's "Mindset" to things comes into play. So tell me what's naive about what I said?.

kimbra:
All you just mentioned is about the superficial. Getting someone to like you goes beyond the physical

[color=#000050] That's a very naive thing to say!

When you meet/come across a person the only things that spike your interest are the person's physical attributes

What you said isn't socially practical! [/color]

HerPov:
Honestly, there is nothing I can do but let fate take it's cause. I wish him love and happiness.

Alesandese:
Mtcheeewwwww yeye girl iyaff make me loose interest.


Berl just create another thread jare

[color=#000050] lolll! #playful [/color]

professorfal:
stupidity now come in episodes.

Alondrah:
You are right op! In a relationship, you have to think about your partner's feelings before doing some things. You may have a platonic friendship with your ex but does your partner see it that way?. To avoid contentions, some things / people are best left in the past or at arm's length

David/grey, Vor/pal, Fitness/doctor . What do you all think about this write up

Leriebloom:
Excuse me? I am talking about both genders. Not just the ladies. Next time, read properly.