Romance › Re: The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ? by Davidgrey: 2:15pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
y3mi: Let's shed all the feminism talks aside.
So in order not to loose your manliness how would you channel your anger healthily after seven consecutive jilts, each of which you had invested tremendous amount of time on, the least being three months. Please do tell ? [color=#000050] *If you can, Leave that area for awhile "2weeks"
While away.....
*Accept that the relationship is dead
*Take whatever happened as closure, Don't seek him/her out
*Stand by your decision* Nobody is "Irreplaceable"
Read a good book, focus on hobbies, Go out with friends. [/color] |
Romance › Re: 3 Reasons Why Most Ladies Will Never Locate Mr Right by Davidgrey: 2:11pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Why do you clowns keep pushing "materialism" as one of the reasons why most women are flawed? 
That orientation is motivated by poverty!
Your Thread is a poor-man's plea for empathy. #crap [/color] |
Romance › Re: The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ? by Davidgrey: 2:04pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
y3mi: Feminism isn't a widely accepted ideologue, well so says you. It may be not be called 'feminism' in Kandahar nor was it called so when the British colonialists constantly poured huge amounts of coins on the roads of where Ijebu markets were majored in order to instigate the Ijebu womenfolks who concentrate there for trading to look their husband in the eye being financially equal if not superior, which actually did work. The British knew once the family is weakened, their menfolk would be destabilized socially enabling there colonial missions to proceed unhindered. Point is - for the fact they took those free currencies suggest that - the ideology behind what is termed 'feminism' today already exist globally in several forms albeit dormant and isn't peculiar to just some part of the planet alone such as the western world as you must have meant.
Back to the topic
I don't quite follow as what you seem to be saying is - the accumulation of bottled up emotional hurt without venting not only defines a matured man but also makes a man sissy as soon as he start emanating behaviors which to me is 'attuning' and maybe to others 'retributory' but to you 'comparing'. Even if you do tell me you've managed to be stoical with 19 heartbreaks and counting, I nevertheless will still have to disagree with you on some of the point you've made.
It's being a pleasure discussing with you, David/grey. [color=#000050] Feminism in actual sense is giving women the right to be opinionated and respected, The basic conceptualization of feminism isn't a difficult ideology to accept..... But ignorant understanding by most small-minded women has led to it's abuse and constant public rejection. Empowering women isn't promoting feminism like you were trying to push, feminism is a personal choice, Naturally if you empower an opinionated person his/her opinions gain traction based on social conditioning, that shouldn't be miss-interpreted as feminism. In every relationship women invest more emotionally than the man(from child bearing to family bonding) it's their nature, in few rare cases(courtship) it's the other way around but let's be objective The only kind of analogy that you should draw your conclusions from are standard relationships...that is a relationship wanted by both parties not one wherein the woman was coaxed(money and lies) into the relationship, in such cases(standard relationship) the woman commits so much emotional investment into the relationship as is her nature The social logic is simple as a man no matter how hurt you feel even outside courtship you bottle your emotions, hide any visible sign of weakness, emotional fragility and vulnerability, It's the ultimate insult for a man to appear emotionally weak no matter how hurt you are, You are "Expected" to look for healthy ways to channel out your anger that's why you are a "Man" Having said that .... Your claims Aren't without merit From my 4th paragraph if a woman loves a man and he equally loves her "a standard relationship" the odds of her breaking his heart are very slim, like i said in my previous post it's usually the man that instigates the death of a relationship directly or indirectly The cases you are referring to are situations wherein the woman was never in love or wanted the man in the first place and he made more that the usually reasonable amount of emotional investments into the said relationship to win and keep her, and even relationships like that are rare. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Is It Our Fault That Nairaland Ladies Don't Have Men In Their Lives? by Davidgrey: 10:36pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Dlordsamurai: please defined wallowing.. I stated facts which can not be countered and you are quoting me trying to get some cheap likes , probably from the ladies... Do you think i have time for any Lady in this session? If you know me personally, then you will know that i don't give much attention to ladies offline, not to talk of giving them attention online.. Bro I'm that guy that see pvssiez daily on a plata of gold, yet I'm still selective.. So next time don't quote me and tell me that I'm wallowing over a Lady.. I'm not that guy. [color=#000050] It's define*
Your "facts" were ignorant crap 
@highlighted That is your problem right there "childish sentiments" what has insignificant likes got to do with nous?
Grow up and spare me the sob tale about your personality, i have neither the time or patience to prolong this conversation beyond this reply
Feel free to reply, I wouldn't read or reply, Goodnight. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Ever Been In A Relationship Or Work Under A Perfectionist? Share Your Experience by Davidgrey: 10:28pm On Jun 20, 2017*. Modified: 10:48pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
[color=#000050]I'm a perfectionist(not the narcissistic kind) but i try to be open-minded most times and it's mentally demanding
Personally i would advice anyone dealing with a perfectionist to not take his/her outrageous personality personal
Always communicate your feelings, stand your ground
As much as i love having things my way, I still listen and show empathy. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Is It Our Fault That Nairaland Ladies Don't Have Men In Their Lives? by Davidgrey: 10:18pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Abbeycharles: With the way these ladies parade the section and litter the whole place with irrelevant threads, one can deduce that they don't have men in their lives. Or permit me to say that fcck boys have mercilessly robbed them of their dignity, therefore, they parade the section venting their frustration on guys here 
If a lady is happy with her man, it will surely reflect in her comments and you will never find her in the romance joining "whatsapp bashing group" just to bash men in the romance section. In fact, they have even turned a lady to their enemy just because she has chosen to be different from them
Is it really our fault that men have shined their congo and have dumped them?  Dlordsamurai: most of the ladies that bashes guys online are ladies that still answer to their parents, they still stay with their parents and some are students that have much time to come online to bash guys.. You will never see a working class and mature Lady fighting with guys online, some litter the romance session by 5 to 8 pm every evening, searching for gossips.. A time when a working class Lady is suppose to return from work and get settled down.. Go to family season by 7 in the evening and you will discover that the ladies present are not more than three to five. This tells you that, they are yet to return from work or they are busy at home... But come to romance session and see secondary school girls insulting guys online.. No respect at all. [color=#000050] What now!
I want to believe that you both have sisters like the girls you are condemning 
Tell me this.... What kind of man spends his time wallowing over girls he terms as small?
You both need to grow up fast and stop acting like depraved grudge-festering cheap Internet clowns. [/color] |
Romance › Re: The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ? by Davidgrey: 10:10pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
y3mi: Let's be rational here bro...what makes that social logic valid ? If society demands it from us as males to be impassive when hurt by females for being more emotionally matured than them then why does the same society provides leeway for the feminists to agitate for gender equality in every context but when it comes down to being emotionally abused and destroyed, the male should soak it up for being emotionally stronger while the female reserves the privilege to unleash her demons when emotionally hurt if decide to. I don't hate females neither have I suggested women/babes should be attacked when ever they hurt men/guys, I just want that recurring proverb to be examined much deeper. [color=#000050]Feminism isn't a widely accepted ideologue
Besides that cogent arguments about gender equality are usually one sided and laced with so much bias by both parties
Like i said earlier a man is "expected" to be more matured "emotionally" than a woman
Comparing yourself to women and demanding equality for insignificant things is plain silly. [/color] |
Romance › Re: The Big Question: Why Is The Male Expected To Suffer In Silence When Jilted ? by Davidgrey: 1:36pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Society demands it from you
The social logic that "Men are emotionally more matured than women" Certain things aren't "expected" of you as a man
Attacking a woman that hurts you is a sign of weakness
Besides most times the death of a relationship is instigated by the man. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Reasons Why Many Of Our Young Girls Are Going Into Slay Queens And Babymama by Davidgrey: 1:07pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
[color=#000050] "Ignorance" 
You clowns term a "slay queen" as a girl being beautiful and confident (wanting and demanding the best)
I don't see anything wrong in a woman wanting to be confident it's suppose to be sexy to men, only small minded insecure clowns like you have issues with it
The desire for material things is "Imbedded" in all of us
The fact that you can't afford to give a lady something Doesn't make her desire for material things an offense
Grow up please, pick up a book and educate yourself, ignorance is not attractive. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Should I Cheat Or Masturbate? by Davidgrey: 12:57pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
HelenBee: Just give your life to Christ. [color=#000050]What now!
What has "Christ" got to do with anything? [/color]Mysteriouz: Please guys, i only want serious advice. [color=#000050] Use the time to learn something new, Commit yourself the process and you would be fine.[/color] |
Romance › Re: Words You Will Never Hear From A Guy by Davidgrey: 12:51pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
iamDaisy: David/grey are u in a relationship? Kikikiki  [color=#000050] Yes!! [/color] |
Romance › Re: What Happens To The Sexual Urge Of Mad Men??? by Davidgrey: 8:48pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
[color=#000050] What now! 
This is disgusting to read and ponder
You are a disturbed "Empty minded" clown. #ignoramus [/color] |
Romance › Re: What Is Not Important In Life? by Davidgrey: 8:30pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
iamadonis2: Hard to see how this post isn't important when it has revealed how important going back to primary school will be to your life now. [color=#000050] My Thoughts exactly! [/color]
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Christianity Etc › Re: Atheists With Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) . They Are Here On Nairaland by Davidgrey: 8:18pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Shallow crap!
I'm an agnostic atheist and open to the idea of a "God" but more as an abstract being/entity that may have sparked the beginning of the universe and that is as far as i am willing to accept.
I'm not a fan of organized religion. [/color] |
Family › Re: People Do White Wedding Out Of Ignorance And Take Oaths. Unlike Traditional by Davidgrey: 8:04pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Ignorant Crap! [/color] |
Romance › Re: We So "Dope" In Our Family (photos) by Davidgrey: 7:57pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
[color=#000050]Childish Crap! [/color] |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Simple Rebuttal To One Very Common Argument Made By Atheists . by Davidgrey: 2:55pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
felixomor: Who was the first person to invent the "scam" please? If I may ask. Please answer with proof and evidence. [color=#000050] The Catholics in the 1300's
They were the sole enforcers of Christianity then long before the petty scammers we have today
They collected payments for confessionals and absolution
The Catholic church made so much money feeding off the ignorance of man
Their constant interference in Political/civil affairs led to the translation of the bible and the break up of Christianity into what it is today. [/color] |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Simple Rebuttal To One Very Common Argument Made By Atheists . by Davidgrey: 2:31pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
KingEbukasBlog: Says the atheist who believes there is no God . Has that belief been proven ?
There is no correlation between the two .
Nonsense . There are various interpretations of stories in the bible especially allegorical or metaphorical interpretations of the creation story , Tower of Babel , Noah and the Ark . What about the archaeological evidences of the biblical places and historical evidence of the figures and events in the Bible ?
The deists use logic , reason , science and observation of nature to prove the existence of God . Rejection religion as the deists do is not tantamount to questioning God's existence .
Being Omnipresent means being present in all places at all times . So yes , God is present in both Heaven and Hell . [color=#000050] Times and times again, it has been proven that certain phenomenons are man made illusions designed to subject man to mental slavery, If you believe that water is made up of hydrogen and oxygen and yet you doubt scientific "facts" that have proven that man is the evolution of organisms then you are suffering from cognitive bias @highlighted There are no archeological evidences of "events", there are evidences of places but that Doesn't negate the fact that the bible isn't accurate The bible is full of stories written by men(opinionated and highly subjective) most of the stories were passed down orally(subjected to personal alterations and changes) Have you read the history of the bible? Its formation, its translation or even the purpose why it was written? Do yourself a favor and google "John Wycliffe" and feed yourself some knowledge Observations of nature? Rainbows have been debunked The sun orbiting around the earth has been debunked Tower of babel (language tale) has been debunked An omnipresence being Doesn't need a home/base, There is a reason why its termed "Omnipresence" besides that Jesus said "Our father IN heaven" Religion is a scam that was used in the past to enslave man mentally. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Photographer Documents In Touching Images Her Parents' Struggle With Cancer 4. by Davidgrey: 11:37am On Jun 19, 2017 |
sisisioge: Davidi...look at the greater picture... think outside economy . In fact, read the photographer's last post. It wasn't about her ability as a photographer, it was all about the little things we take for granted. Can you imagine how much it means to document vividly every moment till the last moment? Whew...we tend to take moments/things for granted, just as you are taking your ability to read and understand for granted now baby... It is well. [color=#000050] "Cause and Effect"
The fact that each photograph looked planned and choreographed dignifies my perspective. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Photographer Documents In Touching Images Her Parents' Struggle With Cancer 4. by Davidgrey: 11:29am On Jun 19, 2017*. Modified: 11:44am On Jun 19, 2017 |
oz4real83: this isnt about furthering a career. It shows love in a deepest form. It makes me to be more diligent and prayerful in my quest for a good life partner. Not all about having a slay queen. It takes a good partner to be always there when the need arises. How many slay queens or guys will be there for each other like this couple? It just made be sober [color=#000050] What now! 
Love at its "deepest form" they were both old and both suffered from a terminal disease the same time
What has love got to do with anything?
Please!!!!! Don't mention me again with more ignorant rubbish #fish tank brain [/color] |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Simple Rebuttal To One Very Common Argument Made By Atheists . by Davidgrey: 11:23am On Jun 19, 2017 |
KingEbukasBlog: Some atheists say that it is petty . Some of them say that it disproves the existence of God . Only if they could just relax and try to understand who God is or what His attributes are ? You may be wondering what this argument is . Its pretty funny . The small-minded atheist cannot fathom why God is so concerned with what humans who dwell in a 'little speck of cosmic dust' do . It only makes God petty and shallow-minded they claim.
I'm gona make this pretty lucid since its not a strong or good argument . So here it is :
God is so meticulous with what goes on in this little speck of cosmic dust because of His attributes . They are :
1. God is omnipresent . Being omnipresent means that God is everywhere at the same time . He is not confined to a temporal location . God is everywhere . He is conscious and observes even the most picayune activity that occurs inside and outside our universe . God knows what is going on in Jupiter , in Saturn , in the Andromeda galaxy , in the ring galaxy , tadpole or whirlpool galaxy because of His omnipresence. He has knowledge of the behaviors of even the tiniest molecules in the farthest galaxies .
2. God is omnipotent . God is powerful enough to do anything logically possible in accordance to His nature . And paying so close attention to how we live our lives is one of the millions of logically possible ways He proves his omnipotence .
3. God is the pinnacle of moral perfection : God is good . God is the source of moral goodness . And since God is good , evil which is the departure from good is despised by Him .
4. God has the Freedom of Will . Yes , God can will anything and it will be so . And since this epitome of moral goodness , the omnipotent and omnipresent God has decided to be so punctilious about the morality of humans who live in this little speck of cosmic dust - our abode , earth - then who are we whom He created to describe it as 'petty' and 'shallow-minded' ?
So there you have it folks . It is not petty or shallow-minded for God to be so meticulous about what we do with our lives even to the most insignificant things we do . God's aforementioned attributes make it possible for such to be so . That's His nature . Those attributes are simply identical to his being and there's nothing you can do about it . Wailing and complaining won't stop God from being God . [color=#000050] I see! 
All your claims are assumptions that have never been proven
If a thing like "free will" exist, Why are people aware of the existence of heaven and hell?
Science is "practical knowledge" Science has proven over the years that the bible is not accurate(Dinosaurs, Planets, The Sun, Creation of man, Tower of babel.........)
If God is omnipresence then the concept of heaven is flawed. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Photographer Documents In Touching Images Her Parents' Struggle With Cancer 4. by Davidgrey: 2:53pm On Jun 18, 2017 |
[color=#000050] I see! 
What's the lesson to be learned here?
These still-shot "cleverly taken" pictures wouldn't make living with cancer easier for the next person neither does it give cancer patients something to aspire for 
What i see, Is a photographer using her parents terminal disease to further her career. [/color] |
Romance › Re: GUYS, Why Don't You Moan During Sex? by Davidgrey: 9:31pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Dimples129: I've wondered why too! Guys come and explain yourself! David/grey, do you moan and groan during sex?  [color=#000050] lol!!!!! [/color] |
Romance › Re: Female Fan To Davido - I Will Bang You Morning, Afternoon And Night by Davidgrey: 10:58am On Jun 15, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:

She is very stingy... Only three times in a day  [color=#000050]I see no difference between you and the deranged clown that made that proposition. #simpleton [/color] |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Dad Did When A Pastor Told Him To Sow His Car Key Into His Life - Yomi Fash by Davidgrey: 10:38pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
[color=#000050]Tales!!!! [/color] |
Romance › Re: Guy Devastated After Gf Cheated, Dumped Him 'cos He Always Talked About God by Davidgrey: 10:24pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Bossontop: She must av told him she wanted a God fearing man frim the onset......LOL [color=#000050] "God Fearing Man" Doesn't mean that he shouldn't socialize! [/color] |
Romance › Re: Guy Devastated After Gf Cheated, Dumped Him 'cos He Always Talked About God by Davidgrey: 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Tahrah: Funny.Why did he try to serve two masters?Now his relationship with God would also suffer. [color=#000050] Ignorant utterance! [/color] |
Romance › Re: Can You Make An Opposite Sex Your Best Friend ?? by Davidgrey: 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2017*. Modified: 10:34pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Yes it's possible, but it's solely depends on the individuals
And the Genesis of the said friendship
People will naturally find it difficult being friends with folks they're attracted to
So obviously trying to be friends with someone you are attracted to is doomed to failed
Having said that.....Anyone that understands that attraction in one person's part does not constitute an obligation on another person's part, Become amazing friends irrespective of the genesis of the relationship. [/color] |
Romance › Re: Bae Just Broke Up With Me, See Her Reason.. by Davidgrey: 9:51pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Frozeen: She said my d!ck is too big and i always stay longer during sex,..
Now my heart is broken
Who will love me now that im 42yrs old  [color=#000050] "Stay" is your definition of sexual endurance? #Naive clown [/color] |
Romance › Re: 7 Common Mistakes Couples Make On Their Wedding Day by Davidgrey: 9:47pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
[color=#000050] I see! 
You itemize "Common knowledge" and present it as bullet points. #Naive crap [/color] |
Romance › Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Davidgrey: 8:22pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
1bkaye: Lol well it helps to have it, but it definitely isn’t sufficient enough on its own, plus it can be too much of a fleeting emotion to be getting married just because of it. Standard things to have in addition are financial stability, personalities that aren’t necessarily the same but work well with each other, a willingness to compromise and a level of respect and trust for one another, in my opinion [color=#000050] Take away "love" from your ideal equation(your opinion) and you have a purposeless union
Asides procreation the basic reason why people come together and bond is "love"
Love is not an optional element, it's the core element of any union
Financial stability, Personality, Respect, Trust are necessary but people tend "choose their importance" to their relationships at varying values
There is nothing(Financial stability, Personality, Respect, Trust) that love cant overcome and this has been proven over centuries with factual "social evidences" [/color] |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How She Saved Cheating Boss From Being Caught By Husband by Davidgrey: 8:06pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Emenandez4lyf: Wetin concern me but I noticed that if u bite ur tongue accidentally then it hurts but if u bite it on purpose then it wont hurt... and u bite ur tongue didnt u? #IwantMyLike [color=#000050] "Shock and Bite Force" #Naive Myth[/color] |