Really bad.....had I know things....God forbids bad things in our lives o

Unethical!

Na! Muslims in other countries donot follow Saudi; I was talking abt the Religion

jcross19:
if the man is prophet, pastor,evangelist,or apostle what you be seeing on nairaland is allamudulahi or thank allah am muslim or allahu akbr but now the story is other way round and they tend to deny their imam.

Y wont they deny it ? ways and manners to practise the religion have already been stated in Qur'an and Hadith. Any addition or Substraction shall be rejected. Homosexuality isnt part of the religion, Even Allah forbids A man entering his wife from the rectum,ewwwwwwwww(filthy)

chineloSA:


Wait and see the attacks that you may get for being blunt about Saudi princes and Arabs
I still wonder why majority of Muslim community think that if something is done by a Saudi then it's Islamic or acceptable. Why does it seem like Saudi's are held in high regard within the religion. Yes they are probably self appointed custodians of the Mosque or holy land but not of the religion.

The interesting part is that Muslims are the first people to protect anything Arab or Saudi, when ever you state pure facts about them.
No wonder they look down on any Muslim who is not practicing Wahabbi Islam. The are given the crown of being closer to God by their fellow Muslims.

You have no knowledge about what You guys just said. Trust Me

IzonOwei:
My question is:: must they still be pastors or imams after openly acknowledging they are gay....what sort of annoying thing is this...

To tell you they are truly agents of Satan. In his own case, He does not understand an atom abt what Islam preaches. If you Attest & bear witness to oneness of God, you should ready to follow His commandments too, NO DEDUCTION & NO ADDITION

Thanks alot, more tips will be appreciated

Weldone Ted! I av got issue too...There is ds guy that I dated while in sch, he has always had d intention of marrying me cos he introduced me to a member of his family n even wanted to come to my house but i always turned him that but something happen whc lead to breakup. We both moved on. After 2yrs, we started chatting again, and now we both want it to work cos we've sorted out the differences. But the problem now is ....He is not the calling type, always busy n not very romantic and I really want us to start flowing so the marriage can come up soon(like 6months time). What do you think I can do to make himvalways want to speak with him every now n then.
P.S its distance relationship n I understand his nature of work but at d same time, I need him to make time out of his busy schedule to always call or text

Thanks

Accept him back,try meet his mum n let her know your fears.If she assures you of no problem, then use your brain n play the game along

adamshuaib:
First Page tinzz

its SS not SC
Its AA or AS or SS
Noo SC, it doesn't exist
SS can only be given birth by AS + AS soo both ur parents had to be AS to get u

There is SC arising from AC n AS .pls dont confuse people here, ask your Doc n google it

#70K is better; You need to improve

madridguy:
There are different habits that may hinder a lady from getting married. But
here, am not going to talk about “Habits”of a lady but rather about “Kinds” of
Ladies, that faces late marriage and most times, No Marriage.
Below are the Four kinds of ladies that faces late marriage and the answers
that works :
1. The Perfect Lady : Here, the Perfect Lady do not imply that the Lady herself
is perfect. But rather, their expectation of their dream man is too high that
they kept being selective on the type of man that they want. Most times, the
person they love may not like them, and the person that likes them, may not
be their love. Those Perfect Ladies always want»»», A Tall, Rich, Caring&
Handsome man and if the lady is spiritual, she will be waiting for “God’s Will”.
Anyman that misses any of the Four qualities ends up being rejected.
Their Problem : The problem such ladies faces is that they end up loving the
“Container” instead of the “Content”.
The Solution : Accommodate a man who posses atleast 50% of the qualities
you desire, the rest will develop with love.
2. The Beautiful Lady : A beautiful lady is attractive to the eye. They are
victims of multiple relationships. Most guys that dates beautiful ladies dates
them for fun. The attractiveness of a Lady makes it difficult for her to keep
herself for a man. This is because of temptation from men, knocking left, right
and centre.
Their Problem : The problem beautiful ladies faces is that no one really loves
them for who they are but likes their beauty period. And men doubts their
ability to make a good home. This poses a threat for them to marry cos most
men considers a beautiful lady as a flirt.
The Solution : Have a picture of the kind of man you really want to marry. You
are lucky that yua beautiful, because you will get proposals from various kinds
of men; so be ready to identify that man whom you like to marry. Be loyal to
him. He will be proud to marry you.
3. The Rich-man’s daughter : The rich man’s daughter bask on the euphoria of
her father’s wealth. As far as she’s concern, her father is her hero and no man
can replace her fathers love and care. She believes that every man that is
running after her is after her fathers wealth. So this makes them unattractive
to men. Men are naturally proud and will not like to muddle their hard earned
reputation on such an insult.
Their Problem : Most rich men’s daughter marry late or marry the wrong man.
4. The Solution : The Humility of a rich man’s daughter is her greatest weapon
to attract men. Men will naturally be drawn to you, if you are humble. Your
beauty is secondary.
4. The Career Woman : These ladies are hardworking, ambitious and
successful in life. They may be feminist. They are the champions of this
saying, “What a man can do, a woman can even do it better”. Marriage is not
their headache but career.
Their Problem : The problem of career women is time management. They run
everything in life like business even relationship. Secondly, they always want
to be the Boss in all things and this poses a threat to men. The more
masculine a lady behaves, the less attractive she is to a man. No man wants
to marry another man.
The Solution : Every Career woman, cries in her closet. She prays for a man
who will love and treat her like a woman. Your cry is over, woman! Simply be
submissive atleast to a man. Avoid arguments with him. And be More feminine
in your outlook. These are what you need to make a man , marry you.

SUBHANALLAH, how did u come abt these? Research or what cos its so true

And what if its because she discovered that you are better than every other guy she has dated

Nice

Can those tricks work with ex(guy) who has another lady already?

God help Nigeria

Nice

God help him

let him go... if he's urs, he will come back as a changed person

God! pls save nija

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Nigeria will be great again

49cents:
We hear Buhari is drwing up a 19 man list for his cabinanet

Can u draw up a list for fun and see how close or whio is closest to the actual list when its available.....portfolio not important

You may list at least 10
Mine

1. Raji Fashola
2. Tam David West
3. Pat Utomi
4. Pastor. Bakare
5. Barth Nnaji
6. Oby ezekwesili
7. Festus Keyamo
8. Emeka Odimegwu
9. Fayemi
10 Mrs Adefuye (outgoing deputy governor).

PROF. ISIAQ OLOYEDE(former VC, University of Ilorin). The Man is Principled
PROF ATTAHIRU JEGA

VickyRotex:

Ouch!!! Sorry Vivah

Thanks dear

VickyRotex:
After seeing the thread about the one chance taxi driver that was caught, I’m sharing a similar experience I had in 2012.


It was on a Saturday afternoon, I boarded a taxi at AYA Abuja, my intention was to alight at Naomi plaza/park (A mini-zoo) but I wasn’t familiar with the place, my friends only told me it’s about #60 to #70 from AYA.


For those who had similar experience, you’ll rememeber that, it’s usually four people in the cab before you get in. i.e the driver, a passenger beside him, and two other passengers behind. Then the victim becomes the fifth/last passenger.

In my own case, there was a man (in white) sitting next to the driver, a dirty looking youth (the "invisible dollar" owner), and a woman (should be in her late-30’s).

I was so comfortable seeing a woman, especially being an elderly woman, I knew I wasn’t in the midst of men alone. Little did I know that comfort would disappear in few minutes


My mistake was telling the driver I don’t know the park (I don’t really see it as a mistake tho, cos I believe it’s a good thing to ask questions when you’re not clear)


The driver and his crew took advantage of that fact, and just about a minute to get to the park, they started their usual story of dollars.

The dirty guy said he wanted to alight, and told the driver to open the trunk so he could take his “Ghana must go” the driver paused and asked the boy if truly he is the owner of the bags, the boy said yes, and "Boom" the whole arguement started.

(Oh before that day, I only hear of one chance, never heard the full gist from anyone, so I was still enjoying the conversation)

The driver asked how can such a young boy be going about with 100 thousand dollars, ghen ghen, that’s when my eyes opened. I was like 100 thousand dollar in this car? Okay na. Bring it on. (How did the driver get to know the actual amount? I asked myself) Just when I asked myself that question, the woman asked the driver how he got to know the exact amount, then he said, its written on the bags (Kai, they were tryna sell me)


The boy kept begging and crying, defending himself with some fake stories, how he served his boss in kano for 10years and he wasn’t paid well, now the Boss is dead, and he entered one of his rooms, and saw 10 bags filled with dollars, then he carried three of the bags cos he was in a hurry (I was like, if you were not rushing you’d have carried more? Greed!!! And how can you possibly carry 3 bags filled with dollars from kano, and it wasn’t noticed by anyone? All this questions in my mind tho )


The driver still kept saying no, that he has to take him to the police station, all this while I was still mute and my own concern was for him to tell me when we get to the park.

Then the woman started begging saying she has a son like him at home and wouldn’t pray for such a boy to go to jail, the man at the front was still quiet and dint even interfere, he was just looking at his watch. The driver finally said, since the woman has begged, then maybe we should go to a place(his mechanic’s place) to share the money huhh That’s when I knew it was real now, and not an illusion.


I couldn’t pick my calls, I was scared. The driver asked everyone in the car, and they all said they were comfortable with the sharing. They already started discussing who takes the larger part, as the driver kept driving. Then he asked why I haven’t said anything, I was like (oh, I’m not concentrating on their discussion, that I just want to get to the park cos I got people waiting for me) he said okay, that we were almost there (we already passed the place ooo, and I dint know) but that shey I’ll still follow them to have a share ba? I said No. He asked why? I dint reply.


It dawned on me, that we’ve gone too far for such a journey to be #70 Naira like my friends told me. I started crying like a baby inwardly, but I was as bold as a giant outwardly. I told the driver to stop, he asked why, I said I’m not going to the park again, that it’s too far, and I needed to get back home on time. He said he’s not going to stop that he’s suspecting I'm an SSS agent and I might arrest them for knowing their plans about sharing the money. (Even if I’m an SSS agent/police, how can I arrest all of you at same time *in my mind*).

I was calm, dint wanna raise my voice, since I already knew what they were capable of doing. I just kept saying I’m not ready to share any dollar, (I could hear my heart beat, but I was still bold)

All of a sudden the driver stopped, he was about asking me a question ("You mean sey you no wan go share this money"?) as I opened the door, and stepped out. He asked for his money and I gave him 100Naira, (I wasn't bothered about the change), he said No, it’s #250, that we already passed Naomi park since. (Something I already knew)

I didn’t argue, I gave him another #100. Walked away, and the quiet devil at the front started talking and cursing his entire generation (not mine) the woman also joined. The driver called me all sort of names, and said “Na God save you” then zoomed off. (I said before nko, Only God could save me na)

I was on the lonely road, (still afraid, and looking right, left, front and back at same time ) I crossed to the other lane, and a cab stopped, he didn’t even ask what I was doing there, he just said “You don enter their hand abi”? I was surprised.

He offered to help me back to the park and while we were going he was gisting me about those people, saying when you insist on sharing the money with them, they either take you to a quiet place and rob you of everything you’ve got/unclad you, or they use someone for money rituals. He said they usually do the latter. And that they make use of charm/juju. Hmmmm

I got to the Park safe, tho was still in shock, I thanked the driver and alighted. He didn’t even collect a dime. God bless him wherever he is.

Oh, if I was greedy and decided to go with them to see/share their invisible dollars probably I won’t be here sharing this.

A friend told me, even if she feels the dollar is not there, she’d still go with them to be 100% sure. Hmmmm okay

Nairalanders, One chance is real. It's a day I can't forget too easily. I kept wondering what would have happened to me if the driver didn't stop or if their juju had worked.

I hope someone learns from this. Be careful and vigilant. I learnt they've got new strategies they use to get at their victims, but I pray they don't succeed as much as they try to.

In all, I give thanks to God!!!


cc: DragonKing

there you go

Onw chqnced! I was a victim, I was robbed off of 25k but learnt my lesson

Nigeria go better

sirr:
We can also tag this topic: "Saying NO to sex makes you more "Killing", or "More Valuable", or "More Classical". Etc. But that's by the way.
(Before you start, this write up is not for lazy people who can't read all through).
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I know many ladies are wondering what does this article hold or how possible this is, but let me start by letting you know that this is a "BOYS-THING", so you are not meant to understand fully, but believe me when I say, as a young man or should I say "boy" who has many friends, (the good, bad and handsome), I know things about boys and girls, and this is something about boys I think ladies don't know...
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And this is it; A "No-To-Sex" Lady is the only type of girl Guys Respect and Want the most. If I were talking to my sister, this is truth I will make her understand...
As a guy, as a man, whenever we hear a lady says "NO-to-sex" in a r-ship, we go 'GAGA' for that lady. I don't mean lesbians or girls who are forming hard to get, believe me, guys know all those tricks when ladies are forming "hard-to-get". I'm talking about single ladies hoping for a good future husband, or hoping to be appreciated more by their Bfs or guy friends. Now listen, When a guy hears a pretty and well endowed lady say "NO-to-sex till marriage", That lady only stepped up her game, and the first thing that comes to the guy's mind is "did I hear that correct?", and this is what attracts us to such ladies. (You mustn't know about this, because no Predator tells his Prey about his plans). To Reasonable guys with focus and ambition, the feeling of "SHE'S BIGGER THAN WHAT I THOUGHT" starts growing in the their minds. Mind you, 70% of guys are reasonable, they are only being greedy. (My Reason): When you portray yourself as a "Cheap" material, a guy will always want to take advantage of you, not because he wanted you totally, but because he sees another girl in you that he can make us of, maybe for the next couple of months.
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Now lemme tell you a short story about a lady friend of mine back then in the University. Her name was Susan. (BBM: The Virtuous lady)
Susan was not the most beautiful lady in campus, nor in the department, but when Susan walks, everyone stops and looks, When she comes around, everyone wants to know what she has to say, When she talks to a guy, the world sees that guy like "Obama" for the day, her composure makes most guys in the class want to say "Hi" to her, remember, she wasn't the most beautiful girl in campus, yet she was the most attractive to all of us guys, she was friendly, She was neat, when I say neat, I mean NEAT, she dressed very clean and CLASSIC, yet, guys were not able to approach her even for laughter. And why was this? She created a standard, she had a class, she made it so, and only the brains and gurus in the class could approach her for anything casual or crucial. The news alone about the neatest and highly esteemed susan with a "NO to sex" r-ship till marriage made her Queen Elizabeth of our dept.
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Now, I want to ask you ladies a question, #how many of you are using an "i-phone 6 now#, Few I guess, but tecno reaches your hand almost everyday, right?. Now that is what VALUE has caused. Ladies, its true that "Body No Be Wood", but that is why oneday, you'll get married. The truth still remains this way: A Girl is like a Product, you have to have a Class, Dignity, standard, Self respect, before you can be Attractive to EVERY GUY. Value yourself, and guys will value you.
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When you, as a lady regard yourself as someone above "Sex B4 marriage", you only place yourself above every other girl, other girls of "Boyfriend today---Fast food tomorrow----sex next tomorrow". (Believe me, boys are already used to this type of ladies and are tired of seeing them, they are only being greedy). You have to stand out from the crowd, beat the imagination of every guy about ladies and sex.
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You don't have be a "Reverend Sister" to make this happen. Be beautiful, Dress neatly, look amazing, bold and charming, you are a young lady I guess, and you'll see that "A Gold fish has no hiding Place". Look presentable and step up your life value by saying NO-to-Sex, you'll only make men fall in love with you the more. When I say "Men", I don't mean small boys with Big bodies who chase girls because of what's under the skirts. I mean "MEN", Guys with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility. Though Its unfortunate how many girls of today will throw away "CLASS for SWAG" all in the name of BIGGER BOYS IN TOWN, in 10 years time, watch where you'll be with those "Bigger boys in town".
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Now ladies, remember this, It takes a MAGNET to attract another MAGNET, you CANNOT attract a man of substance and value when you are VALUELESS. Among 100 girls, you cannot be ATTRACTIVE, or highly esteemed or regarded by Guys/Men when you are like every other girl out there, every other girl they've met before.
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To be Attractive/highly placed, you have to be different from others, matured in your dressing, clean and neat, principled, friendly, and to crown it all, be a VIRTEOUS LADY, (too classic to be slept with by any man), be ABOVE what others cannot control..."Premarital Sex". This alone makes you "Miss Independent", and nothing kills a guy FASTER than seeing a good-looking woman with Self Esteem and Regard.
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Forget what some boys will say or do when ladies are around, guys who pretend they don't care when a girl says "NO" always feel belittled by their actions, and its always worse when the lady is Good looking or very Presentable. (your dressing ALWAYS matters). Its just the fact. Guys can go crazy when they see a girl who thinks her body worth more than gold, and yes, who wouldn't want to own a "Valuable Asset", and this alone makes her more attractive, even without make ups.
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Ladies, to attract that guy or man who you think has a class beyond you, or is a king, or a "High Standard Gentleman", to make him fall on his knees wanting you to himself, OR to find a perfect R-ship where the man will value you totally, YOU MUST NOT POUT YOUR MOUTH, POUTING MAKES YOU LOOK "STUPID"(sorry to say, but this would be a topic for another day), you should be like Susan, you must be a VIRTEOUS WOMAN, good looking and principled, you must be the kind of woman every man wants.
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Now NOTE these 2 things..
1. Being ATTRACTIVE isn't about make-ups, you only look good with make ups, but when your personality is High, you become attractive. Guys will only come for you with rubbish reasons when all you have is Nice MakeUps. Your attraction catches a man's heart when you have a reputation and ego, and not your Marykay.
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2. Being a virtuous woman doesn't mean you should start dressing like -Mary Amaka, or carrying bibles left-and-right, NO, its not all that.
Being a Virtuous woman means being principled, Neat, Dressing fashionably, creating a standard, bigger than "what-any-boy-can-just-have", bigger than Sex, and believe me, NOT ONLY WILL GUYS GO 'GAGA', EVEN GOD GETS ATTRACTED TO YOU, And you know what that means!!!.
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Ladies, Make up your minds today, and step up your game,
Re-brand yourself, No guy is worth your body except your husband, except you want a ---"Time No Dey, Make We Just Marry" Husband. MAGNET ATTRACTS ONLY MAGNET and this alone has made you "More attractive",
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Too all the beautiful African Queens reading this, God bless you.

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I hope this would make front page for my other sisters to see too.

please Share the news---CastingCrowns, RomanZeus, nnemuka, zealot4me, remsonik, vhickky, an2elect2, slimzypink, lepasharon, BecaciaBarbie, pretydiva, Amen
Seun , lalasticlala

Thank you so much....So....
not all guys are corrupt

MrsChima:


Where is it in the bible that say a woman must take the man's surname because she left her patwnt's home. There is no such thing as modern trend marriage. Marriage is marriage regardless of the season. If it is not a big deal for a woman to take the man's bame....then it shouldn't be a big deal for a man to take the woman's ,name. Simple.

Thank you ma'am, even in Islam, a muslim lady is allowed to retain her father's name

does set of teeth matter while kissing? scattered or aligned