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Would Barcelona be buying Marc Andre ter Stergen like I predicted months ago?

Buhari Fashola ticket

Buhari for the anti corruption and Fashola for Development

By 2019 after first term he would be 77yrs old and Fashola would go for President

Retardeen don dey panic?

DPP the party of Great ogboru to wrestle power from PDP in 2015

PrettyCindy: What didnt i do for this man? Washed his clothes, cooked exremely delicious meal for him (my mama thot me well....lol), respected him, even referred to him as 'sir', cleaned the house and i am very good at that other department hehehe*winks* etc etc. But he say na bachelor life na im he wan live, na im i com leave am now.

How are you sure the Kongo was good hmmm. I just dey "axe" innocent kweshon oo

Congrats on leaving with your life Many didnt leave such unions alive

ACM10: The reason why the eastern leadership escaped the coup had been overflogged. The coupist did a poor job in the east and lost their element of surprise. I'm surprised that this so-called Damola is indirectly branding the coup an Igbo agenda.

The coupist who were so on point in every other region suddenly lost their marksmanship and bungled it when in their own region.

Im sure a 5yr old can call bullshiit on that statement

debosky: No vex - I dey busy these past few days - we go yarn later today.

Loni ni koni dola Hennesey for sure, Loni ni ko ni dola Bacard for sure

17, 18 ko ma lo, Broda sista ko ma lo

folahann: Dayokanu pls accept this offer. Promise not visit this thread for a year if Arsenal eliminates Bayern.

Na money I want You mean una no fit raise $1,000 on this thread?

If Arsenal win now some people go come back say they were not aware a bet was on

GOALLLLLL

HUMELLSSSSSSSSssss

Save on Coentrao

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Lol. Your opinion man.


They do get judged

A lot of women are comfortably Lesbians and proud. EVen Oprah one of the most popular American women isnt married to the best of my knowledge

Roland17: oo pleaseeee, Ur boys my foot

BvB are my boyz every German team na my boyz,

Meanwhile shey na EPL table toppers the 3rd team for la Liga dey molest like this?

Roland17: Where is Dayo when German teams need him?

I dey here dey watch my Dortmund boyz

Ronaldooooo

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What do you mean even when they are nbot bound by any conservative culture? Marriage is still something that is expected of young women in the US. It is still regarded as the norm by the majority of people there.

No one expects it of them, Its the female that desires it

In the US, women dont get judged for being single or even lesbians but women still long for marriage

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Marriage is still a norm in the US.
Many women are expected to be married at a certain age. Regardless of the cohabitation before marriage and what not, marriage is still something they cling to religiously.

That shows Marriage is still desired even by people who are not bound by any conservative culture. This show women desire marriage regardless of culture, religion or whatever much more than men

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The US is a majorly theist country, pressure on women to marry is still there.

You mean the US where cohabitation is common place, Where divorce is normal, Where GAYY unions are seen as Okay and even Marijuana has been legalised

All these things that normal theists would frown at are seen as ok

Sincere 9gerian: ..."Fashola has been Governor for 5 years and 8 months whereas Goodluck was sworn in as substantive President on 06/05/2010 whichmeans he has been President for 2 years and 9 months"

Interesting! You may as well have expressed their duration in office more precisely by stating the days, hours, minutes, seconds and milliseconds?

If Fasholas can be rounded to 6yrs then Retardeen jonathan can also be said to be 3 yrs.

BTW what did he achieve in Bayelsa as governor

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Not really. I know how to fix my car (to a certain extent), and most of the time the car breaks down a long distance from home where the man cannot be called to check on it and a mechanic is called instead.
Look, I am not saying men should be domesticated or whatever, I am only saying that they should try to assist in the house and stop considering doing housework a taboo. Fine, traditionally women are meant to take care of the house, but that does not mean that the man should not do anything at all in the house even when his wife needs help.
He can still assist her with her work the same way she can assist him when he needs help with his 'manly' chores, she could help him do these mechanical or electrical stuff by maybe fetching the spanner of directing the flashlight at him when he does the electrical work in the dark.

He could also help her by gisting with her while she does the house work

If its too much hire a maid simple

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You know what? Since you mentioned that women desire marriage more in western countries that don't put pressure on women to get married, you should be specific and mention which western country and also mention which statistics show that women desire marriage more in these countries.

Just google it

The battle of the sexes is alive and well. According to Pew Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in their lives rose nine percentage points since 1997 – from 28 percent to 37 percent. For men, the opposite occurred. The share voicing this opinion dropped, from 35 percent to 29 percent.
Believe it or not, modern women want to get married. Trouble is, men don’t.

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2012/11/24/war-on-men/

http://www.self.com/blogs/flash/2012/08/survey-most-college-women-want.html

JallowBah: ...not in all houses, no. If our car fails to start, I am the one who knows how to fix it, not him. He grew up in the bush with cows and dust, you think he knows cars?
If I hear sounds downstairs, I am not afraid to go look myself. I grew up in the bush, I know how to handle a knife.

Maybe your household is unique where you are the more tech savvy, the stronger physically, the more knowledgeable in everything but in 70% of households its not like that

JallowBah: Uhm..I do not have any problem with lifting heavy things. If I am strong enough to lift it, why should I ask my husband to do it for me? Where is the logic?
Before he met me, he cooked and cleaned himself. So there is no reason for him to stop absolutely just because he got a ring on his finger, no. And he do not wish to stop completely either.

You might do it but most women over 80% of women would call up their husband when there is something very heavy to be lifted because men are naturally stronger than women

He was eating before he got married same way you were getting along before you get married

Its natural in life for roles to be defined along sexual lines

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@bold. In many households, men don't have the know-how to handle complicated electrical and mechanical work so a professional is called. Infact many people prefer to call an electrician for things like electrical installations because faulty electrical installatins could proove to be fatal.
Also, these things are stuff that come up once in a long while unlike cooking and cleaning and taking care of children that are an everyday affair.
Women are not typically as physically strong as men. Why do men expect them to do more work than their husbands?

In most household before a professional is called you first call on the man to come look it up.

If your car fails to start the first person you call even before a mechanic is your husband to look at it.

if you hear sound downstairs before you call the cops the husband is the first person you call to go check it

JallowBah: ..and you feel they should not be respected, or am I misunderstanding you?



That is not how it is everywhere. My husband learned the "man-things" growing up as well as how to clean and cook with his mother.
I know how to cut grass, fix a car ( oil, change of tires, changing small spareparts, lights, checking oil, gas, air, etc etc ), change the floor in a house, build up furniture, etc.
I also know how to cook and clean, and fix a clogged up toilet, change a diaper, put down a fire, change a window for that matter.

I love the fact that my parents taught me all, so I could survive on my own. But then again, in my country it is normal to move out on your own before meeting a spouse, some go to live alone because of school at the age of 16. Who was supposed to go and check noises in the apartment when I was living alone? Who was supposed to cook and clean for my hubby when he was living alone?
Why should all of that be forgotten, just because we got married..?

Just the same way your husband was cooking and cleaning for himself when he was single and living alone. Or before he met you was he starving?

When you get married you wont be doing heavy lifting again but would expect the man to do it. If you are out and you are lifting heavy stuff how would it look?

The same way it would be if your man is cooking

Omexonomy: that was exactly my advice to them that they should stop drinking raw enthanol and smoking cheap weed before posting on this forum and i got a ban for one month by the moderators.

Whats that in bold.

Moderators probably banned you for trying to propagate illiteracy

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What I want to know is why many men consider doing housework an abomination.
Does this mean you look down on women for doing chores?

Its a division of roles in any family.

When growing up if you need to cut the grass, fix the car, do heavy lifting its the boys that get called up, When its cleaning and cooking its the women

Why do most women leave heavy work for the men to do, When theres electrical, mechanical work to be done at home mostly its the man, when you are asleep at night and hear sounds downstairs its the man that wakes up to go check wassup

Is it that the women look down on men as the beast of burden for doing such heavy lifting and energy sapping duties

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lol . Big lie. There is pressure on women in western countries to get married. Don't forget that majority of the people there are theists and marriage is something they are obligated to enter into by their religions, before they can have intimate relations or have kids.

I disagree the majority of the people are theists. Most are theist by birth but atheists by belief thats why majority of them think its ok to be openly GAYY and gayy people should get married

Which serious theist would support GAYY marriages, Legalize weed etc

Most Westerners don't see any big deal with cohabitation before marriage, living with BF, divorce etc Things regular theists would frown at

Odunnu: See you! Are you trying to trade places? Nah! I wont let you. You are the one on the spotlight now. Enjoy it.
So, you know he is endowed and talented? Hmmm. Any more?

I know say you don dey eye walestar and Mr Cork tay tay dont even try to deny lets just hear wedding bells this yr.

If the work gets too much how about getting a domestic help and everyone is happy

Odunnu: So his braggings equals his truthfulness? C'mon DK. Bragging about exploits and having a heavy bandoka are two different things.

Have you sampled his bandoka before to know he is lying about it

odunnu, I dey suspect you these days oo

I am supporting Man Utd for this

because a firing Man utd would be easier for Bayern to beat than a firing madrid