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coogar: what's the meaning of "let ba start 20 interrupted games"? a striker has scored just one miserable league goal in 213 mins and you want him to start 20 league goals, at whose expense? dzeko and chicharito shouldn't be scoring at all if "uninterrupted games" are taken into consideration. we have been hearing how ba or any other striker would score 35 goals if they play for chelsea. the proof is right there staring at you - 1 league goal in 213 mins. numbers don't lie.

Torres was given 20 league starts UNINTERRUPTED WHy cant Demba Ba be given same before we compare

jennykadry: Cut to the chase, she is not pregnant now and wants to work. She does not want to be a housewife, what do you suggest she do? Don't you get it? Some people are not happy staying at home and doing nothing? I can't believe you right now, you and coogar argued on that housewife thread. Some people don't work for money, they work to keep themselves busy, so 200k or not means nothing to them.

So you think a woman should conitnue working a 20k a yr job when she can go to school and earn a degree that would earn her 150k and make life better for all Just because she wants to work?

Dont forget her husband is paying for her school, Why do you think he is Paying for her school fees, 80% chance so that she can earn more and contribute more

JK lemme ask you , you are a Doctor in Nigeria, emigrate to Austalia where Docs earn like 300k a yr but you need to read for exams and pass before you can do that which might take 2yrs, but in the meantime you have a babysitting job which wont allow you to read and pay you 15k a yr.

What would you do or suggest your brother in such situation do with his wife?

Its a no brainer in most cases

jennykadry: Then why marry a woman who wouldn't do these things for you in the first place? Why marry a selfish woman who can only give you a pack of Bonds boxers? Why do some Nigerian men spend on their wives regardless

Some men spend on their wives because they know the woman doesnt have if she has she would give equally.

Its not a defect like that. Some people dont joke with their money at all and its not a bad thing you just need to understand her.

If she cant give her pin, she shouldnt expect a blouse. And we are ok with it, I dont give and i dont take.

The bad thing is not giving but expecting and demanding to receive.

Some people can give their last card even when they are starving while some with 1m cant even give a beggar 2kobo

jennykadry: Let her get a job. You were the one bitching about housewives now we have here a woman who hates being a housewife and whose husband has refused her working and All of a sudden, he has become caring? She is not the lazy African magic wife you paint on threads?

She was only sick during pregnancy Dayo.

It would be crazy to insist on a wife who was always sick during pregnancy to continue working. Some women pregnancy is like shedding hair while some its like amputating an arm without pain killers

It also depends on her earning power too. How much would an OND earn in Nigeria lets be realistic? Most OND are offered about 30k a month

If I have a wife who is working as a secretary but can take few yrs off and earn a Medical/Pharmacy degree that would make her earn $200k a yr would I insist she continues earning the 20k a yr job and forfeit the chance of making life better for our family in a few years time?

jennykadry: Why only do things you know your partner would do for you? Is that what marriage is all about?

Yes I would do things for a partner I know would reciprocate if she was in my shoes, I would buy a Buggati for a wife who would buy a Lamborghini if she was in my shoes.

I would give my kidney for a wife who would give her blood for me.

I wont give a TV to a wife who cant share her bottled water with me

Vikin: Am sure the OP mouth too sharp .

But she has to re-evaluate her self worth.

Hubby is also telling me to relax, when the baby arrive he will take care, start up business blah blah blah....until i see the cash deposit for my account, am going back to work. I need to feed my eyes on recent happenings around me Jare. Not sit at home and watch the world pass me by!

Life is short my dear

I agree you wont allow all those years of Dy/Dx, Differential calcualus, Numerical operations to go to waste .

troubledSoul: i was working b4 we got married then i took in n was seriously sick n my company been a private once dropped me n after giving birth my hubby has refused me looking for job. saying he doesnt want me to work.

Is this man not caring enough, He saw his wife was sick and stressed from working a low paying job and he offered to pick bills till she finished her education and possibly get a better and less stressful job

What else should he have done to qualify as a REAL MAN?

jennykadry: Story. Their are other things he could use as collateral. If. You want to buy me a gift do so with my name.

The collateral is the husbands name on the job.

The wife most likely might not even know the details of the car purchase, She has a car to drive fine. Would she know the little details that went behind the scene, WHo the guy borrow from and who he didnt?

jennykadry: Couples argue. Arguing is part of a relationship, titi was being panel beated by her husband daily, she would tell her parents about it and each time they sent her back to make the marriage work.

It was some level of argument that must have led to the panel beating abi?

There are arguments and there are argument. I want Egusi you want Okro are arguments too.

And also the type that takes life are also arguments

I can manage the Egusi vs Okro argument but when argument are bordering on safety then its a valid statement to make

jennykadry: How much longer have you got to go with studies? You need your independence first off and secondly, who buys his wife a car in his name? I don't get it.

It depends on the circumstance.I want to buy a car from my wife, Zenith Banks comes to offer a car loan for people working in my job where we pay over 4yrs.

Would Zenith bank allow me to put the car in my wifes name? No they would want it in my name so they can hold me responsible if I default,

No Bank would give such loans with The car title in wifes name

troubledSoul: yea i have kids, 4 n 2 yrs
i do compare him, i love his family n some how love mine
we do have hot quarel but once in a while.
we both tell eachother wat we want to see in the marriage n wat we dont want aswell.

Some people no just like wahala at all Men in particular. If I come from work where I get stressed everytime and welcomed to a hot quarrel with some dose of threats injected into it 3 times a week I might utter the same thing

jennykadry: Dayo we say that when a woman's life is in danger and not the other way round. It's different when its just a mere argument btw husband and wife

A mere argument might be what Titilayo Arowolo might be thinking she was getting into.

Some type of argument when they are recurring every single day can threaten your sanity.

If they are arguing and one party is threatening the other with harm e.g " One day I would just poison you" " One day I would kill you and kill myself" One day I would call police for you and have you locked up in jail"

Those might be considered by one party as I didnt mean it or it was in the heat of the moment. When the did happens wetin we wan yarn

I thought most of the women on this forum also chorus the same thing "Marriage is not a do or die affair" but when its coming from a man its now wahala

And I agree marriage is not a do or die affair. there are things more important than marriage Your life, your health, your sanity, your safety etc. If marriage would jeopardize any of those things then that statement is very valid

Rather than one person kill the other, run the other person mad, land them in jail, mortally injure them I would prefer they both go separate ways.

So it depends on what brings about the disagreement

Juan Mata 1700 minutes 10 goals

Fernandud Torres 1955 mins 7 goals

If Torres had any shame in him, he shoud retire from football this week

coogar: a shot on target and a follow up header that went off target is the reason demba ba was bought? roflmao......so it's no longer about goals or assists, it's now about shots on target? at least torres made 2 assists in the last 2 league games - what has demba ba done in 213 mins? just one solitary goal in the league and i am sure he would have scored at least 3 goals @ newcastle within the same time spent on the pitch. you still think torres is the problem?

Let Demba Ba start 20 uninterupted games like Torres did from August to December and if he would retur the same miserable numbers Fernandu does

7 league goals for a striker who has 22 league start and almost 2,000 minutes 33hours of football 7 goals .

In 33 hours the earth would have rotated on its axis and going for the second lap

coogar: demba ba - 1 goal in 213 league minutes for chelsea.

of course, torres is the reason demba ba has been a flop for chelsea. he has heckled ba's predatory skills or torres has consulted a sorcerer or fuckever excuses you would come up with. ba started against newcastle before he got his own nose broken - he was useless throughout his stay on the pitch.

Demba Ba got a shot on target and a follow up header before he got his nose broken

Torres does not have a shot on target in the league for the last 4 weeks

Let Demba ba have uninterrupted 20 league starts that Torres had and lets see if he returns the miserable 7 goals 50% of Demba Bas league returns in the with Ba playing less minutes

I think Robben would be out in the summer. Pep doesnt work wit divas, remember what happened to Dinho when he came in

4llerbuntu: ironically all these una epistles would be saved if Torres was half decent as a striker.

Take away this ball and chain around chelsea manager's neck and i daresay things would be different.

at least 2-3 matches could have been wins if he had been half a striker. thats 9 points

Y'all would be singing RB praises instead. SMH

I agree. Now the Torres coach Benitez still cant get him to do zilch. WHen Benitez gets sacked that would be how many coaches who have lost their jobs due to Fernaduds cluelessness

Abeg how many yrs contract did he sign?

Like Fashola said :[size=14pt] MUST WE DO EVERY "BUSINESS"[/size]

Pataki: So sweet to see you eating your own sheeeeeet on the Arsenal thread! PoGOALski is showing his true class which Bayern Munsheeeeeet could never bring out in him!

Relatively easy PL? This dude must be having a laugh! A BurnThisLeagueDown that comprises of useless 18 teams all bullied by Bayern Munsheeeet compared to a Premier league comprised of 20 teams. This is what you call relatively easy?!

One of the Bundesliga teams who couldnt win the league for over 50yrs came to the Emirate and shyted all over you.

Not forgetting the current BL champions who molested the PL champs without condoms

Podudski cant get a team in Germany he had to come and chance mumus at Emirates

revolt: so I guess tht shows the igbos drew 1st blood? U guys and ure esatz intellect and sentiments! Whether u like it or not there was injustice in nigeria and igbos were massacred out of envy and awo n his cohorts aided tht

Hausa drew the first blood, Ibos drew theirs on January 15 1966

is that what you are telling us?

debosky: Ol boy no be small thing oh. . . .I dey do thanksgiving everyday say I no dey around when the thing kicked off.

Wow So those boyz I sent to Amenas to kidnap you missed?

I should have engaged competent MEND hands from Ibime

coogar: ibime is a complete bellend......

alex ferguson/arsene wenger would win the league at a canter with the same crop of players. no strength in midfield? chelsea's midfield is stronger than united's midfield.

Are you now backtracking that benitez is a useless manager?

The guy pet am what else does she want. Money ole

U1: Yes, if your team na Kaiser Panzers.

So na you I beat ?

The guy already showed empathy but the girl wants monetary compensation.
She said the bf pet am but her leechy greedy asss wants money

slimyem: Where did she ask for money?
One of the principles that should apply in relationship is being unselfish and having the interests of your partner at heart which is lacking in this relationship and is the op's concern.
What's with the aristo part?

See the bolded

bizgirl: Hello my family member kindly put me through in case i am wrong. I am in a relationship for over 4 years now ãn̶̲̥̅̊đ if based on my fiance's plan we should have been married by now but somethings are not really so clear to me hence this thread. i observe that my finace is so stingy.let me be briefed,i was robbed in may last year in which i lost almost 80k including my phone of 20k.this man just pet me ãn̶̲̥̅̊đ leave me to myself after which he bought his own BB.i have to buy a BB torch 1 by myself ãn̶̲̥̅̊đ when i challenged him he gave flimsy excuses. Now a month after my new BB was also stolen ãn̶̲̥̅̊đ i was forced to still go for another one without his dime again but today i saw my guy with a new i-pad worth 40k ãn̶̲̥̅̊đ since then i have been crying cos i feel so cheated. My annoyance is that his salary is abt 8 times mine. I have decided not to tell him my grievinces again because it might be termed as being nagging. Pls What do i do again.

Aristo is a man who doles out money in return for sexual favours

Since the girl wants money as a show of love and concern then thats the way to go

QUESTION : Nigeria vs Mali who would win?

ANSWER: COTE D VOIRE
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I would have preferred a draw though

Now lets beat Schalke next week

Where are the Benitez advocates on this thread some weeks ago?

And hows fernadud doing so far

Contender for game of the season

slimyem: Wrong choice of words by the op.Scratch that.
If she has said "I feel unloved",what would your reaction be?

Unloved how? Is money the show of love? then she needs an Aristo who would give her "love" her not a BF