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chic2pimp:
Abeg when did Edoyad upgrade from dayo to toba?

Tgirl4real:
I'm loving the thread. . .

@ Dayokanu n others of like minds,

Love is sacrificial. It takes a lot of sacrifice, patience and perseverance. Marriage is for matured people. Though it doesn't mean it won't have its challenges.

The thread is meant to be an interactive one. It's also to help those that are having challenges.

Letz take it to another angle. For those that says it worth it,

How long should one persevere when the marriage is not working (not referring to physical assault)?
To what length should one sacrifice?

Swift SMS:
@ dayokanu
. You got me laughing @ brain power diminishing cos of Kardashians, Wendy Williams and other shows. In fact your entire response had me laughing real hard.

@ Topic

I am single and I have mixed feelings about the institution called marriage. To answer your questions

Yes I want to get married because:
I want to be intimate in an approved way and manner, thus not violating God's law.
I would like a really good companion to share things with like stress at work, my hopes, fears etc
I want children within wedlock not outside of it.

No I don't want to get married because:
Like some men I am afraid of losing my freedom, freedom to go and come as I please, cook or not, and generally do things the way I want.
I am to a large extent self reliant and independent so sharing the rest of my life with another won't come easy for me.

I am also financially independent and most imporatntly I have a life. I've built and created one so I won't be attaching myself to a man 24/7, while he is doing his own thing I'll be going about my own activities, hobbies and interests, not expecting him to spend every passing moment with me in the name of Mr and Mrs. that will simply wear me out

ronkebp:
^^^^^ SwiftSMS if you so much feel this hatred about men and marraige, then it is best you stick to your (girls) and marry them, instead of just using the women to satisfy your intimate needs, because i see that is all you need them for.

ronkebp:
REASON : I have this wonderful child/ (more children to come) that i love so much with all my heart. and with the type of culture we have that frowns at children out of wedlock, marraige is worth it.

Secondly, i can Be Intimate whenever and wherever, without feeling guilty.

coolestboy:
Most of these recruiting firms dont look @ that instead, u see them saying for first class and second class upper, i hope they will gear up and realise that most of these 2-2 graduates are far better than some 1st class holder.

armyofone:
when you order wings, it is served with drumstick now abi?

rasputinn:
I dont care about drum sticks and bosoms,better dont mess with my chicken wings,mmmm yum yummy.

Please open the restaurant and lets have the addy,only ensure have your first outlet on the Island

Mmmm,I love me some chicken wings

If Arsenal had any sense they'd have backed out of it.

so the powers that be at arsenal are stupid enough to confuse a hat shop called arsnale with their football team called arsenal. I think they need to get new management with an IQ higher than 1

What a collection of m0r0ns the Arsenal Football Club are, pratts, perhaps they should concentrate on playing ball instead of harrassing hat shop owners, pricks! This is the club with a manager called Arsenhole Venger.

Confusion? Between a hat shop and a football team? Arsenal supporters are Londoners admittedly, but they can't be that thick. Can they?

Hard to imagine such pettiness. It will be the only thing the Arsenhole will win this season.

They'll want to copyrights to the word A*se next! Well they are welcome to it.

@malcolm.julie - that made me giggle! Isn't there an Arsenal football club in Brazil?? How ridiculous. It's obviously pronounced "Arse-nar-lay" whereas Arsenal is just pronounced "@#$%"!!

What absolute C**Ts, what a waste of money, time effort etc, I reckon Arsenal need to change their name instead to A*seholes Football club

Confusion between Arsenal and a hat shop,how can this be possible,the hat shop is obviously successfull and moving forward while they are utter failures.