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Schalkes defence is way better than Bayern

Neuer, Metzelder and Howedes are way better than what we have in that position.

Also I doubt if Raul and Huntelaar would miss chances like Gomez and Muller

Schalkes problem is in the midfield with Jurado, Joel matip, Farfan etc not solid enough for the long haul

This was the same Inter that was randomly molested by Tottenham.

Inter is not special, Bayern just messed up big time. In the Tuesday game anyone that watched it would know Bayern could have easily gone 5-1 up in the first half alone

chaircover:
Dayo regardless of the sex, a sick person should be at home resting; certainly someone with a heart problem.

And in response to your comment, working a 7 day week cannot be good for health and even for the family and that is why the wife has to find a job to help relieve the stress off the man and so rather than these petty squabbles they should be focusing on how to start a business/get a job etc

Chaircover,

There are situations where a sick person still has to go to work. It happens everytime.

Especially as the man is the only one bringing money home. Any day he doesnt work means no income. And there are situations when you have exhausted all your allowed sick days off at work.

I ask again

[size=14pt]Lets assume the reverse scenario, The wife is sick and needs to go to work and requested the husband to go with her but the husband said his mother was coming to visit and he would rather stay at home to wait for his mother.[/size]

What would have been your response? I hope a few weeks from now a man would post a situation like I stated above and lets see what the responses of the womenfolk here would be.

jennykadry:
@dayo
True,if reverse was the case alot of women including me will call the man selfish . One thing i have noticed on this forum is that people post based on whatever they think it's true without actually wearing the shoe and knwoing where/how it hurts. You have to imagine yourself in the situation to be able to give a honest reply,you cannot give replies based on ''what you think is going to work''.

Thank God say no be me talk am dem for say na me get wahala

chaircover:
How on earth  can a 7 day working week be healthy for  anyone?

Thats the reality of the world we live in. Some Nurses work 24hrs shift for like 4-5 days at a stretch just to make ends meet.

[size=18pt]Lets assume the reverse scenario, The wife is sick and needs to go to work and requested the husband to go with her but the husband said his mother was coming to visit and he would rather stay at home to wait for his mother.[/size]

Now lets hear responses to this

We need airport in Kebbi State to transport our cattles to grazing field

ANd other naija gals would come and say naija guys are stingy.

Good thing that foreigners are appreciating our worth

Why not Terry G

Really sucks watching the CL draws and not in it.

Chelsea vs Man Utd = Chelsea

Inter vs Schalke = Schalke

Barca vs Shaktar = Barca

Real vs Spurs = Real

[size=18pt]Semis[/size]

Chelsea vs Schalke = Schalke

Barca vs Real =

[size=18pt]Finals[/size]

Schalke vs

The oracle has spoken

Alj Uche:
because we need change, in lagos roads are bad, touts everywhere etc

i was in lagos 2 months ago and when election is near i would be back in lagos to cast my vote. my vote in lagos is for PDP

And we can see how the roads in PDP controlled states are in perfect condition

lalaboi:
Good thing we let Joe cole leave. . Dude is finished!

Someone compare him to Schweinsteiger on this same thread not too long ago

jennykadry:
^^lol and they come home with one silly painting ,mine drew one terribly-looking-pink-faced witch and underneath the drawing was written "My beautiful mummy" when the teacher showed me the drawing na so I talk for my mind "Your father" nansense, you had to disfigure the pretty face oam4jenny dies for.

Yes in bed

So the small boy sef don know as your face be?

SMH at all these women that want to corrupt me. God no go gree una

[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=624227.msg7934207#msg7934207 date=1300399246]not sure why this is a problem but i guess you're upset he didnt reveal this aspect of his ancestry beforehand. . . . . . . . . .


as per the rest, dont forget to pray well.

and please do not bring a story of how you met your former boyfriend who mysteriously travelled overseas before your wedding but is now around and wants you back. . . . . . . . . . . . . [/quote]Lets pretend we dont know thats where the story is heading

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=624227.msg7934016#msg7934016 date=1300397203]And IMHO i think what the OP is driving at with the nightly bathing is she suspects he is cheating but has not clue or lead to work on. I don't think the OP or anyone could be that nitpicky otherwise to complain someone only baths at certain times jare. And her other reasons are valid reasons to give anyone heart attack inducing concern jare.[/quote]Especially not clapping in church

lola sammy:
At twenty four I met this guy who was 8 years older than I do, we dated for a year and he proposed marriage which I said yes but the only reason was because I saw a sense of seriousness in him and I felt it pays to settle down than to be jumping from one mans bed to another. So I got pregnant,

Which part of this statement suggests that she was forced into getting pregnant?

During this time I had an opportunity to do a test run of the marriage, there and there I knew this will not work. I spoke to him and my parents about the need to go our separate ways than having a filed marriage after all but they insisted we give it a trail instead of assumption but I know how important this is to my future I stood on my ground I was making arrangement to move out of his house when he informed my parents.

At this point what should the guy have done, You have a woman at home and mother of your baby, She said she wants to move out?

I think any reasonable man would like her man inform her parents so what did he do wrong?

A man who was born in osun State, grew up there, His family house is in Osun State so what link does he have with Ogun State as much as to be a reason for divorce?

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=624227.msg7933595#msg7933595 date=1300392156]We are not privy to the first story of the Ex so who knows whether this man loves her too and she ain't a rebound or baby mama number 2. And if he is constantly without fail going to mark register elsewhere during weekends, who knows if he is shacking up with baby mama number 1 or a potential baby mama 3 [/quote]We can only work with what we are given, we cant turn ourselves to emergency sootsayers and fortune tellers when we dont know.

Since you can read the future, So Iyalode tell us which of ifyalways, Jennykadry, Ujujoan or Mukina2 would grace my bed tonight?

And if she had gone straight to the point instead of complaining about all and sundry, we will not have initially tembelu'd her matter, which is a serious case

She has told us the things that are of major concern to her or you want her to change it?  She said she wants divorce because the man bath at night and also failed bible school.

ifyalways:
^I don't believe I missed those details.wow
@OP,If he was born and bred he Osun then he ain't lying entirely If he told u he is from Osun.Perhaps he prefers to be seen as an Osun man.
The church scenario IMO is nothing.If however u are bothered abt his spiritual welfare and growth.try praying earnestly for him,prayer works.Do u organise and observe daily devotions in your home?it wud also help.
I find it hard to swallow the child abuse part but giving u benefit of doubt sha,how do u mean,"he beats the child like an adult"?Do u know abt his own background,was he abused as a child?how do u correct the child and is your method effective?
When u got pregnant ie the one that finally lead to the marriage was he skeptical abt your keeping the pregnancy?
na wao,im gradually going blind.

How woud you notice when you are busy admiring my crotch?

He claims Osun instead of Ogun Is now an excuse for breakup, I am sure Igbo people who claim Lagos must have been lying too despite that the guy was born bred in Osun and even has all Osun documentation.

What an excuse!!!

lola sammy:
2. I got to know the truth from his younger brother he lied about his state of origin to me claiming he is from Osun instead
of Ogun though he was born and bread in Osun they even have a family house there and all his certificates is shown
Osun.

Ify,

I dont believe there is any child abuse going on Look at what she said in her own words

- [size=18pt]In cases where a child misbehave and his parents is expected to correct him, he ignore that[/size], and when he does thing
that normally you as a parent is to ignore he beat the boy almost in to coma.

Does the item in bold look like child abuse to you? isnt that what a lot of parents do? Ignore some obvious offence and punish "trivial offences. How many here would say that is strange to them

lola sammy:
Thanks for your contribution.

[size=18pt]1st and for most I admit I did not love him in the first place,[/size] but I respect the fact that he was willing to share his life with me.

Thank you for that, May God also provide another man who doesnt love you but just agrees to marry you because he respects that you are willing to share your life.

Can I hear a AMEN to that?

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=624227.msg7933270#msg7933270 date=1300388357]How is she evil and wicked? Didn't she explain her misgivings to the dude whose solution was to knock her up? Abi she tie rope around his neck marry am ni? He was even the one who made her Mum travel from the village and used to emotionally blackmail daughter into going ahead with the wedding nau

This is what people get when they come and post their story warts all. If she had left some details out, some people would have been calling her out as a liar or as someone holding back, now she'd told all including the few niggling bits and she is being hung out to dry Na wa oh.

Her only crime here is adding the important bits to the non-important issues, IF SHE HAD ONLY COME TO POST THAT SHE WANTED OUT COS HER HUSBAND KEPT THE FACT THAT HE HAD A CHILD OUTSIDE FROM HER UNTIL AFTER, 80% OF RESPONDENTS WOULD HAVE BEEN BEEN ON HER SIDE. And i bet this figure would be higher if it was a guy posing this question

Oga o.[/quote]The guy told her he wanted to marry her and she deviously agreed when she knew she didnt love the guy what more could be worse?


The guy knocked her up? Did he rape her? Wasnt it a mutual agreement? The guy thought he was sleeping with someone who loved him not knowing it was actually a snake in human clothing.

She could choose not to give the whole detail and she would get advice based on what she says, But to her she would know she is just deceiving herself and would never get to the root of her problems.

She can come and tell us the husband attempted to kill her she would get responses based on nthat? is she doing anyone a favour by telling her story the way it is?

My huband is from osun State instead of Ogun, He baths in the night instead of morning, He sleeps on the left side instead of right, He sits down in church instead of standing, His shyt is black instead of brown

What more ridiculous excuse can one hear.

Abeg leave the man alone and go find someone who baths in the morning, Stands up in church, Got a PhD and distiction in bible class

-   In cases where a child misbehave and his parents is expected to correct him, he ignore that, and when he does thing
that normally you as a parent is to ignore he beat the boy almost in to coma.

Is this what is abnormal about your husband? havent we seen several parents who beat children at the slightest reasons yet pardon them for bigger errors?

Just leave the guy and let him be. God would provide a man who uses iphone instead of Blackberry that you want

Then why did she deceive the unsuspecting man into marriage?

Yes I agree. bayern cant stand that kind of BS. Thats why he was sacked

OP,

I think you are a wicked and evil person.

Reason you deceived an unsuspecting man into marrying you when you did not love him, He loved you and offered marriage, You didnt love him, Infact you cant stand him but you still married him to now shatter him 4yrs down the line.

May God save us from desperate women like you who would go to any lenght to marry.


People you think say i harsh. Imagine see excuses she gave below. I am tempted you think either a teenager is making this up or you are actually 12yrs old.

He said he is from Osun while he is from Ogun Imagine!!

2. I got to know the truth from his younger brother he lied about his state of origin to me claiming he is from Osun instead
of Ogun though he was born and bread in Osun they even have a family house there and all his certificates is shown
Osun.

he would say things like “Are you not tried of talking” or sometime for almost an hour discussion with him he would not even give a response until I ask if he was listening and all I will get is “yes /ok”

- Most time he will rather have his bath at night that morning
- He doesn’t stay home at weekend
- In cases where a child misbehave and his parents is expected to correct him, he ignore that, and when he does thing
that normally you as a parent is to ignore he beat the boy almost in to coma.
- His spiritual life is as stagnant as ever, in fact we don’t sit together in the church as he would not clap, sit while other are
standing , ever since I know him has being in a bible class where is he expected to be promoted every year ; and he is
not bothered it.


See excuses for Gods sake

He takes his bath at night, He doesnt stand up in church, He hasnt been promoted in bible class, He is from osun and not Ogun Jesus Chris. I thought I have heard it all

Just get out of his house and stop making the guys life miserable. I really pity the man who unknowingly married a deceitful snake like you.

Just tell us you are already cheating on him and we would understand better instead of these useless excuses

Selling Hummels is definitely a bad decision, No two ways about it.

Moreover he just extended his contract with Dortmund this week

We can all see the fraud called Jonathan

armyofone:
were you visiting when it happened?

i dey ya side, not a fan of nigeria. NL is the nearest nigeria i will travel to at least till fowl grow tail.

Have you forgotten we would be going for our traditional wedding soon?

noblezone:
@Poster

The threats of violence in the North, stoning of the Presidential convoy and the shouts of "Sai Buhari" has nothing to do with politics of idealogy. It is rather religious and ethinic politics taking to a new height. The Northern political leaders have played the devils advocate; that Jonathan has "taken" what belongs to them and therefore must pay. Then enters Buhari.

[size=18pt]"Buhari is seen by the the Northerners as their "Messiah" who will wrestle the power from the infidel back to the "believers". It is actually an insult for an infidel to rule over them[/size]. I am really suprised that many are carried away by the "Sai Buhari" chants as if it is prgressive".

Whether we like it or not, Nigeria is too complex a country; Religion and ethinic sentiments are the highest points of our politicing. We are actually wasting our time thinking that Nigeria will move forward. We are only postponing the evil day. Nigeria is not one country, has never been one and will never be one.

The Northern minorities and northern residents from other regions are going to vote for Jonathan. The same thing will happen in the West.Now, despite the "Sai Buhari" chants, Mr President will still win this election, free and fair and the "Sai Buhari" movement will maim, kill, burn, loot, etc. Maybe, the military will take over, maybe Jonathan will be killed, maybe Nigeria will really burn, maybe Biafra will rise to fall no more.

My advice is this: Southerneres in the North, please be vigilant.

Why are Jonathans supporters such blatant liars?

Didnt the north vote for an infidel in OBJ in 1999 and 2003?

Didnt the North and especially Kano State for for MKO over Tofa?

GEJ's supporters cant just argue based on merit, they have to inject the tribal card.

@OP,

Did you complain about the Mods or nairaland when the forum seemed Pro-Jonathan a year ago?

vote out PDP

LvG is too idealistic in his approach. That was the same thing that happened in Barcelona he claimed he would win the CL with 11 youth team players. When their management couldnt take it any more they fired him.

He has the reputation and pedigree but I dont think he can work in a Big club like Bayern that demands instant result.

There was a reason he was at AZ Alkmaar.

When he was almost winning the treble last yr the management gave him the benefit of doubt that he probably knew what he was doing.

Several times he had been on a collision course with Ulli Hoeness. At Bayern, Our Management comes first

Emancipation means blowing oil pipelines?

You mean they ommited RETARDeen, ABDUL-clueless, Ade-mumu ODEchukwu from the list?

@Hustler,

Magath and bayern management are not in good terms based on the way he left. I felt Bayern management were not fair to Magath.

Given the resources he had to work with and he was able to win back to back doubles.

In the 2005 CL He molested WenGAY and his invincibles before losing to Mourinhos Chelsea in an epic encounter.

In 2006 he lost to Milan.

Magath is rumoured to be wanted by Red Bull Salzburg for an Annual fee in the region of 8million.

Ifyalways, Why be say na anytime dem dey talk na sex your mind dey go?

Anywhere dem dey discuss phock matter, Ifyalways go show face