₦airaland Forum

mployer:
Fake story.
Babies are humans, they don't see spirits.
Only dogs do.

. children see

In times like this we need a savior, that is JESUS CHRIST

stewatt:
Just like the bible story.

. GOD IS NOT DEAD.

doggedfighter:
How come this old man is still involved in cult activities?

See the surprised look on his face at death

It's only in Nigeria that bullet pulls people's trousers

His community can sleep peacefully now

Because the belt Never holds it down

Let the doctor speak

[quote author=AnonymousXYZ post=76790447]Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you. go to the hospital

[quote author=dainformant post=65395255]A doctor at Federal Medical Center,Ebute Meta Lagos - has got herself trending online for urging Nigerian husbands to marry a second wife or an extra wife (as the case may be) if they have the resources. According to her, marrying more wives is better than the irresponsible act of cheating on their wives with other ladies.

Below is what Hauwa Ibrahim shared on Facebook;

[i]Dear men after being a responsible Husband, try marrying a second wife if you have the means, those with two should marry three and those with three should marry four! Thats a great Sunnah and its better than irresponsible act of chasing young girls out there..... And who say after marrying the 2nd one they will not still cheat

What nonsense, so everyone go must go church go claim their loss. It called in Account bad debt

Nerdg:
I don't think she's trying to test me



My worry is why she had always refused me sex whereas she's this exposed. Could it be because of this she accepted my proposal?

i think she refused u sex becos she is scared well according to u, u new her from Ur teenage age, and probably after gaining admission she felt she can try a relationship it happen u were not close to her, mind u a still birth not an abortion (TOP), she was courageous enough to keep the pregnancy . If u truly love her that shouldn't be a problem .

cristianisraeli:
i hate those pastors and men of God with private jets and private everything.yes am talking to ur pastors..i dont need to go thru any pastor i can pray to God anywhere..i tot they are supposed to be following the foot steps of our lord jesus..but no they want to enjoy on earth because they know they cant use jets in heaven,and please dont tell me this isnt medieval ages..at least live a modest life like the current pope..they keep milking the poor..pope day for rome,imam they for mecca and archbishop they for london.FELA

Is there any verse in the bible that state that Christ gave money to his disciples to go into mission?

[quote author=Evaberry post=58527356]you are a MAn who is wicked and selfish

just because she refused to become your slave you tag her lazy.. you don't deserve her.
you even slapped her yet she didn't leave you.



you complain too much!!!!

your marriage palava is not our business or wahala.
.
we didn't fuvk her with you!!!! I think u re more like this man wife, or u lack comprehension, he said slow, is bound to happen when u re lost in anger, a wife has a duty in her home so if a man decide to assist don't take it as a right but be grateful and show gratitude. The Bible says man love ur wife , wife respect ur husband but that u became pregnant is not an excuse to quit ur job knowing that things are not settled yet. Bro ve a talk with ur wife, if no changes, talk to some one she respect.

mamato:
This is bullshit!!!!!!!. I was a full blooded Catholic before I married my husband, an Anglican.My parents are are of the noble order of St John's international (knights) my elder brother is a Catholic priest. My mum was buried 4months ago, priests and the Bishop attended. That you are now an Anglican does not give you the effrontery to start talking bad about the Catholic church.

u re not helping if it is, not Catholic Church practice, advice heron what to do she did not say anything wrong, she only ask for help.if u can't help her abeg wake pass. If u did not experienced it does not mean it is not happening. I remember when my father in law died the children where ask to pay #10,000 by the Father in charge before he will come for the burial, what u should know is it might be peculiar to individual father s

Kamxin:
BTW, Faith and marriage which one is important to you? Your write up is a piece of paradox.

I think you need a tutorial on logic, this is the problem I notice always with some women.
Computer or maths graduate can help on this, I think it will help you sustain your marriage

she did not complain about her marriage but on how a church is treating her parent because she got married to a man in other ministry, pls my advice tell ur parent to start another church.

Be careful not to reveal your ATM serial number.

Hernyolar:
Good day familylanders.
I come here to air my current dilemma and ask for a way out.
I'm married with a kid, got separated with my husband last year Jan due to some little issues that weren't managed properly and got escalated..
We stayed in touch for A year cos of child welfare and the rest. He obviously had a relationship with another lady in his base, while I remain single
Sometimes this year, we started talking about reconciliation and the talks went well, we've seen our mistakes and accepted to work on the marriage.
He confessed to me he had a relationship with a lady but he told he was married with a child and he wasn't going to divorce his wife neither marry her (the lady) so twas a deal sort of and he has broken up with her ( which she confirmed)

He's come to see me in my place and I got posted for an official assignment to his state..He told me the girl has refused to leave even after he told her he has reconciled with his wife and the rest.

I got in yesterday and all hell was let loose, the lady was so violent and was saying all manner of trash,threatening fire and hailstone..
I simply asked her, do you know he was married? Did he tell you we were divorced?? Did you see my things in the house? She answered "yes". She said she has no place to go..I was even willing to give her something to take care of herself but she said " no", she wanted my husband and I should start realising she will become a second wife..

My husband in all this have been calling people to talk to her and go without violence..She's called my in-laws to curse(dunno how she got their numbers)... calling friends to tell them she isn't moving out of the house

It's really messy here and I don't want to create a scene..someone advised me I should involve the Civil defence authority.

I really dunno what to do

Please advise me

Royalroy

Are you a FIN sister if not join that group on face book they really will help u with all that u need

Please , I need answer I entered my kitchen in a dream and I saw palm core with ripe fruits at the middle, the fruits were fully ripe.

I bow for APC , when we should be praying for the President to get better, some people are busy planning on returning him to power come 2019. Haba some times I wonder if this people ve conscience at all.power or life which should we ask from God?

redbeans:
1. Tailoring/fashion designing - the rate i see pretty tailors make me wonder if their beautiful nature aids their sewing. I'm bewildered by the fact that all the girls [about 8 of them] working in a tailoring shop near my house are pretty.

2. Hairdressing salon - just like those in no1, when you view the hairdressers, all you see is a slim fine girl with a nice physique. No doubt, God also 'dressed' them well.

3. Eateries/hypermarkets - be it shoprite, A. J fast food, chicken republic, gem stone etc, you will find pretty girls with an 'iboitic' touch. Makes me wonder if beauty is a criteria for getting the job.

u only mentioned 3, I suppose u live in warri. u might not be wrong but I guess u still need to go out

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

fall in love with her again

[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=56173680]


The only solution here is when the baby comes and if ur willing to have a DNA test juz to make sure that the baby is yours...[/quote ]u can ve DNA test even b4 she deliver

ellagabs:
first of all, change dat ya topic, hw cn u "MISTAKENLY" giv her belle.
was she pasin by wen u wia abt to trow ur spam over d fence n it mistakenly pour on her?

stupid in sagars voice

Johnsown1:
Ok, i do brush ma teeth three times daily.

u brush twice daily after breakfast nd last thing b4 going to bed. Wen u ve in between meals rinse very well with water.

Cutehector:
Just twice? Woman! Just twice?



U sounded like twice was a small thing... Adultery is adultery. Don't even matter if penetrative sex was involved... As long as u find urself lusting after a man dats not ur husband, u are already guilty of adultery..


Now to d second part, ur husband doesn't trust u anymore. Dats fatal! Believe me.. Once a man can't trust his wife again then there is absolutely nothing she will do that will make him trust her back..

I think maybe the first thing u gotta do is to quit ur job if u really mean u are sorry...

it happen b4 she got married , if ur boss still make advances on u then u ve to quit,

Make someone close to her tell her the truth, she is no longer a baby.

thought the contract was made to hook one for 2years or so abi you no read the terms and conditions?[/b][/quote]terms or no terms if better thing shele abandoned the contract.

Ameboo Victoria, I sure say u nor go fit do wetin ton to do so, close ur mouth, and try to b better.

Thank God say u realise

When u don't forgive it becomes a burden to u, thank God for dat under standing

May GOD HELP u, at least no third party.

Mine started with i want 2 take our frndshp 2 anoda level, so wen can i see ur parent, u re my wife, nd i will nt let u go 4 any reason.

indomie & bread, custard & fried yam, tea & fried plantain

Dis is serious oooooo