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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nairaboi(m): 11:18am On Mar 03, 2017 |
knowing how some women brain are wired, she would be thinking of implicating the husband's friend that led him to this discovery. FEAR WOMEN! |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by tbliss22(m): 11:19am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Hey ma'am, its obvious you aren't remorseful on the act. I'm not going to judge you but try put yourself in your husband's shoes, would you be happy if he had done that to you kept it a secret. Let go of that job and open flat to your man, he might not hear you out the first time but just be persistent come to think of it. I see another flow of real battle from your boss' camp (that's his wife). It obvious you fall too fast for men outside your marraige, try work on it as soon as possible before this addiction destroys you. Shallom |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 03, 2017 |
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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by temigreat(m): 11:20am On Mar 03, 2017 |
There is no denying the fact that the trust between couples is crucial to the stability of their relationship together. And trust is not only broken when a partner cheats on the other, little things like lying and deception can easily cause a rift between couples. Now if trust is broken in a relationship, how should couples work on recovering it back? Here, check out these helpful guidelines. Address the issue The moment you discover your partner’s infidelity, you need to confront him with his crime. Mind you, it’s extremely important you keep your cool and don’t turn your confrontation into a big fight! Listen to his side of the story with your emotions in check, then you evaluate his response if it's remorseful, apologetic or nonchalant as that will determine if you can work on trusting him again. Answer all questions The person who broke the trust should be ready to answer every question asked without withholding anything. Even if the questions might be unnecessary to you, you need to give answers to them all without being defensive or accusatory. Bringing all your actions to the limelight is one step towards making your partner come to terms with it. Take responsibility Accept your crime without putting up any excuse for your actions. Then, patiently you give your partner as much time as possible to rebuild trust for you, it might take days, months even years (it ain't possible to get your partner’s trust back overnight). Your patience and deep remorse for your actions can go a long way towards bringing back that connection you had with your partner. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by kelechi17(m): 11:20am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:Cheating women don't knw d implications of what dey are really doin ...a woman is her husbands source of pride ..we men brag about our wives ...our wives are like a brand new Ferrari sports car dat only us drive with care and pleasure ... Nw imagine hw d husband will feel if dsame car he thought was brand new has been wrecked in an accident before by previous users ...women should be careful ...na man go marry Una not women marrying demself so its safe to say its a mans world ...for d Op jus pray to God thr is notin d Lord cannot do 3 Likes |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Bakare19: 11:23am On Mar 03, 2017 |
ednut1:Lmao... It's serious. Truly hoes everywhere. hian!! 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by sirjomore(m): 11:26am On Mar 03, 2017 |
and ure blaming him?
it wasn't a fling from his side woman |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Mouthgag: 11:29am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest:so you bleeped your MARRIED boss abi? NOW you're married and karma is biting back Thank GOD! Somebody must start fucking your husband to in Jesus name |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 11:32am On Mar 03, 2017 |
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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Emidbest(m): 11:34am On Mar 03, 2017 |
[quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote]you are talking rubbish. It is your type that encourages marriage breakups. You speak without even considering the enormity of her keeping such a secrete from her husband, until he got to know about it himself. How on earth do u want dat man to ever trust her again? May be to u marriage is not worth sacrificing that's why you are giving her that crapy advice. because if it does, I'm very sure you won't. Big up 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by omemero(m): 11:34am On Mar 03, 2017 |
[quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote] AND YOU WILL GIVE HER ANOTHER HUSBAND |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by MagnaB: 11:35am On Mar 03, 2017 |
I just love the way we Nigerians read in between lines. I thought i was the only one that saw the "JUST" she wrote as offensive. It would be good if she takes the advice of quitting her job to secure her marriage. Just ke! 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by oforij(m): 11:35am On Mar 03, 2017 |
sex is a bond. he f you twice he can still f you again and again marriage doesn't guarantee fidelity. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Tonason: 11:36am On Mar 03, 2017 |
What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please royalroy[/quote] You have already insulted yourself enough so we understand that. You have said it all, no brain in your head. Your husband already knew everything but wanted to hear it from your very mouth. You had a fling with ur boss twice ' you love ur job in other words because u love ur boss? Clap for yourself. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by pweetixandy: 11:36am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Cutehector:u Don marry? she slept with her boss before marriage oo, not after. I agree, she needs to quit her job. he will trust her again, after she quits her job of course. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by chccho(m): 11:41am On Mar 03, 2017 |
kelechi17: Abeg help me ring the bell o,women no dey wan hear word all this feminist clamouring for only God knows what are only deceiving ladies and confusing u all. A woman/wife cheating on her partner is not the same as the reverse o!!! A man can cheat on his spouse,will get condemned and bashed but will easily get out of the mess soon and also get forgiven soon.This is not the same for women so it's better u don't even try it . |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by torqque7(m): 11:43am On Mar 03, 2017 |
slap1: LOL kilode? |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Getintouch2004(m): 11:50am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Your boss f^cked you two good times and you termed it "Just twice"? Father Lord, please help us the good guys never to have oloshos come nigh us as wives. Amen ooo |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by ICEFLAME419ja(m): 11:51am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: just 2 times |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Cutehector(m): 11:51am On Mar 03, 2017 |
pweetixandy:no I am not married and I don't need to get married to profer advice in issues like this... Its silly to think one has to have an experience in a cause before preferring advice... God gives wisdom freely to whomever he wishes.. Its in the bible.. Use it |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by omemero(m): 12:04pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
and you will give her another husband [quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote] |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by DazzlingAngel: 12:08pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Cutehector:it happen b4 she got married , if ur boss still make advances on u then u ve to quit, |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by petitejolie(f): 12:11pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
look for anoda job or u look for anoda husband |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Acidosis(m): 12:12pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
enigmaticlion: ahahahahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by akblings(m): 12:14pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
But ur husband try o.. I cnt stand to hear my wife tellin me she had sex wt her boss twice den i stil dy talk to her.. Frm d way ur soundin ur job is evn more important dan ur husband, dats y u gave it to ur boss... Check ur motives, if d love u got for ur job is greater dan dat of ur hubby den face d job, divorce d man, live happily... If u love ur hubby is more dan d job den resign... Provided dat ur boss has collected two times frm u, he will kip on collectin til he retired, u cnt deny him |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by fejikudz(m): 12:17pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Eddygourdo:Industrail borehole.. Chia |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by RillJ(m): 12:20pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
'what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.' 'Just twice' - You never and still don't see anything wrong in the life you lived and probably still live. You have broke the heart and trust of a man who was ready to accept you 'no matter what'. He only requested the truth but you decided to lie, a sign that you probably never believed in him. As suggested by 'Gbokukueba', get yourself another job and try to rebuild your marriage. Except of course there is more to this story than you would like to tell. Wish you the best. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Ngokafor(f): 12:20pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
...I dont know how folks cant see that the op and 'her' story is as fake as Nicky Minaj's bumbum .... ....and predictably Nairaland males(more than half of who believes cheating by men,married and single is fine)are up in arms with their hypocritical comments..una no get work honestl.y |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by joseo: 12:34pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Choose one option only A) marriage B) that particular job. That all. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 12:41pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
The one wey just dey annoying me is that You call twice straffing a fling! Fear women |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Ifymma(f): 12:45pm On Mar 03, 2017 |
Just resign and you will have your husband back. |
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