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Can't u see that u want to become her own village people.... Why can't u follow the same steps to gain ur own admmition? Guy stop complaining like ur the one sponsoring her abroad and get a life. I don't know what is wrong with all these our young men.......is marriage by force?untop person wey wan go school aah!

Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.

While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.

[You did d right justice to the money.... In this suffer head country I come hear sey return the money ehhhhh! I for find u flog.quote author=omojesu202 post=120686214]Had problem with my area manager since November 2022. The branch manager advised him not to sack me but he insisted he can't work with me anymore.

January 1st, he removed my name from all WhatsApp platforms. No sack letter till date.
February 1st, I got January salary of 49k (not complete salary).

As a broke jobless man, I rush the money like a hungry lion. (Managing something of 30k)
This is an employer that's owing me 8months unremitted pension. After sending and posting pension details more than 5times. They even said they'll pay it in arrears but nothing till date.

Just finding out someone salary must have been wrongly paid to me. Money wey I do chop and clear my debts.

It's like my area manager forgot to notify them when he removed me.

What would you do in my shoes?[/quote]

Mercury12:
If I was you I will return the money because I didn't work for it.

. Holy Holy.....I hear u

Thanks for sharing

You see how this Government has turn every individual to mad people....because over calmness is killing us

Tokotaya:
Danfo driver strips, excretes into his palm, smears LASTMA official’s head (Video)

A commercial bus (danfo) driver went ballistic when he was told his vehicle was being impounded for traffic violation in Lagos.

The exact offence and the location of the incident are not known.

However, a viral video of the incident shows the driver stripping down to his pants and threatening the LASTMA men that he would show them some ‘film’.

When the officials seemed unmoved, he squatted, excreted into his palm and used it to smear the head of the LASTMA official who sat in the driver seat.

The official had to hurriedly get down, but they refused to let the driver go.

https://microsecondnews.com/index.php/2022/07/06/danfo-driver-strips-naked-excretes-into-his-palm-smears-lastma-officials-head-video/

Poor parenting poor parenting......I know of many families who instill good discipline in their wards but yet, they turned out to be useless. Most of our children today get spoilt by peer groups. So is only God that will help us.

dfrost:
The major problem is parenting. I really do not have time for words. Fix parenting, fix 90% of the problem. Simple.

[Some of u will come here, type sentimental rubbish just to get people to believe ur story. My dear I'll tell u that u are a cheat, hmm! what do u mean @#2? Because u flirt around, u began to see ur wife having a low sex drive today. Again, u always hurt her so badly that will warrant @#3. So if ur tired because u want something new just do so and stop coming here to mislead ur fellow men into believing that women are so terrible,......I mean there is no smoke without �. And for those of u whom will judge men/women base on people's opinions on Nairaland, I PITY U. Mquote author=echomanji post=112049429]I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially theen like u are everywhere female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....[/quote]

Please leave while u still can

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Nursing a baby.,.. But it's All beautiful, trust me.( quote author=annyplenty post=110820830]Mothers, which one do you actually consider more tasking and challenging; Pregnancy or Nursing of babiy, especially immediately after delivery?

I pray that God bless those couples that are waiting on Him for children with their own children and help mothers to nurse their children in Jesus name.

Share for Pregnancy
Like for Nursing[/quote]

OMH! This is loud oooo

If you judge and refuse to employ him because of dreadlock, hmmmmm, u will go to hellfire

And why don't u simply explain to him ni after all u said

AgriHub:
Simple explain something to him... Many of you are forming woke.

A whiteman will disseminate information. A black man will either horde it or make you pay to get it. Very anyhow people.

This is a public forum and people come here to seek information.

Just buy Aquasurf from any local market and apply, it will clear ASAP.... No too much panic it's eczema.

KINGJAJA888:
Good day Nairalanders. I need your opinions please. Don't know what's up with my skin these days
Noticed something like a patch on my hand and Abs last week but I ignored it bcus it wasn't visible.
But Now it's worsening daybyday and giving me great concerns. Pls fam and Experts in the house what's your take on this and how can I make it clear off Pls? Any opinion on this will be greatly appreciated

You choosed wisely, I shake shoulders for u .....goat head.

1sherlockHolmes:
I'm a corp member passing out this coming december, during the previous month I have managed to raised 180k from my alawee.

Last month october I discovered bet9ja online betting through my friend, and decided to give it a try at first I was winning, I was happy that I discovered a way to earn extra income, I ignored all the warnings that I saw online about betting. Gradually I started losing, sometimes my games enter and sometimes cut but i refused to stop.

To cut it short guys I'm now pennyless, my 180k turn 0k in just a month and next month I'm heading to my village empty handed. Its been so long since I cry but today i did.

U said ur father in-law married her and not your hubby, so why worried so much about that when you were also "married" into the home. My candid advise to u is that u should accept and love her like ur own sister..... because if u continue with d angar and hating on her, I tell u sis, u will live to regrate one day. Chop some sense abeg. And please stop with that #housemaid# stuff because she is human like u are

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

Na so e dey startooo...,from 1slap to killing by mistake. Endurance kill you there.

ogbiwa:
I really hide my face in shame for the mere fact that I'm sharing the same air with this person.

Face. Palm.

Yusuf Tarfa @YTaf iya_Jnr:

"I slapped my wife and she had the guts to arrest me with police, because of one correctional slap? I was so surprised when the police stormed my office to arrest me, We have lost wife materials, it's funny how this Woke generation can't endure like our mother's."

"She had me arrested and had the nerves to remain in my house, it's the audacity for me? My father slapped my mom and she never had him arrested, instead she apologize like the good wife she is, then cooked and to wash his clothes. But now it's pathetic that we can't correct them."

"... and I have been happily married for 3years, she had me arrested for slapping her, Lol. I'm done with this shitty marriage."

Increase of things in the country is an understatement...the insults that accompanies that alone mehn.....is killingoooo

Failed parenting....

Nwodosis:
At the end the IPOBs will be exonerated. The Igbos don't kill for fun or to make a statement.

. You're right