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What is spa date please ... Nairaland people will soon come for me

Jking20:
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The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

PS: you guys shouldn't kill me with mentions Biko. But why is it so that whenever submission is mentioned all hell let loose. I'm a woman and I know what it means for a woman to submit to her husband. It is natural for a woman to do so but not when there is no reciprocation from her spouse. Like I wrote earlier you love a woman into submission and not force. I may not have the time to reply you all but I have taken corrections where needed and the rest kept in the trash bin. Thanks.

I pity the person who'll mistakenly put a ring on that your finger in the name of marriage, cos you deserve to remain single. If you think you're too big to submit, stay outta marriage!

Stop crying uncle.

He's obviously controlled by a legion. God will help him that's if at all he wants to be helped.

We need such men...

insignegianniga:
You love your wife into submission is a manipulative word coined up by women

You submit naturally nothing like loving her until submission

Sarah that called Abraham her Lord what do you think made her choose such a name? My Lord of all names? You guys will cry on this my post. Ike gwuru

If it pleases God so be it. But if our sufferings and groanings has reached His ear I believe He knows what best to do. All I'm asking for is His will be done but as for APC they brought nothing but hardship, frustration and backwardness.

Ayomi90:
Go read ur Bible and stop forming intelligent here.

I laughed hard in church reading this. Well thank you for spotting my intelligence but permit me to ask? What made Sarah call her husband Lord? Was there no better name or any other name than Lord? Women do their things naturally, you don't need to tie a rope around her neck and force her into submission. It happens naturally hence why it was stated first in that verse of the Bible. Then what follows behind it is love. I will submit to you while you love me. Periodt.

Kingozymandias:
Reply the DM.pls

I'm sorry I don't reply to dms here again.

[quote author=PierreAbutu post=113945641][/quote]Sarah called Abraham her Lord? Do you think she was forced into that? Look women tend to show their Love, respect and submission on a man who has shown himself loveable, respectful and the rest. You can't demand submission from a woman when you don't love her And btw I'm not a feminist.

Aguiyimba:
Feminist

Go through my posts and threads on nairaland and see where I have ever advocated that. I am not a feminist but obviously you look pained. I just stated the fact. Hug the nearest transformer.

royalfly:
How can love come without submission. What is there to love in absence of submission. Please count 1 before you count 2

Thank you. I hope they learn from this.

Toktee:
what are you saying?

Are you confused?

Love comes before submission or submission come before love?

Submission comes before love. The latter is the bases for the former to Happen. Leave me Abeg ah never chop morning food

Toks2008:
I advise you stop this baseless comparison.

I even wrote a thread about it years ago.

Let me see if I can reference the mods to bring it to Fpage.

https://www.nairaland.com/5417498/husbands-love-wifes-respect-which

Uncle this is not baseless just that na una gender carry am for head. Look this things happen naturally but in your case you guys make it like a do or die affairs. Sarah called her husband lord out of her own will. Something must have led to that?

jesusjnr2020:
Why seek ye scientific views in a religious section?

it's the why seek ye for me ... How do you guys read and comprehend what King James says. That version of the Bible dey give me headache buy surprisingly most people prefer it cos it gives a more detailed first hand information.

E remain make market women say make we no dey pay with cash again but with PVC.... Well I like the zeal in Nigerians this time around but some people like us that will be shouting " Time for change". "Use your head while voting" and all of that don't have PVC ooooh .. I have the temporary one but I don't know where in Zaria I can get my PVC. Please can someone put me through. Thanks.

Happy home coming to him... I have no issues with Mr. Tinubu just that I feel he should rest. He's been up politically for how many years now,so it's time he rest and eat the fruits of his labor depending on what was sown Sha...

Seniorwriter:
You can't have two biological father's in life.
Happy Father's Day.

Pinned...I hope you are still looking out for his business? Though you refused to relate on partnership investment as extended months back

... Yeah we can't have two biological fathers. My dad is one in a million. Oh how I love him!
Which partnership investment are you talking about sir? Good morning and happy Sunday

That was a act of heroism and selflessness... God bless him and many others who are out there saving lives.

The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

PS: you guys shouldn't kill me with mentions Biko. But why is it so that whenever submission is mentioned all hell let loose. I'm a woman and I know what it means for a woman to submit to her husband. It is natural for a woman to do so but not when there is no reciprocation from her spouse. Like I wrote earlier you love a woman into submission and not force. I may not have the time to reply you all but I have taken corrections where needed and the rest kept in the trash bin. Thanks.

I sent my dad a heartwarming message this morning, reminding him of his good attributes that I inherited and all the training he gave me. He replied and said God bless me that I am the pride of the family. My mind has been racing to and fro on what he meant by that statement. Growing up my dad was tough on me. I never knew why he did that,I have more sisters than brothers and out of all my sisters,I am the only one with the most distractions from men,so my dad was strict in dealing and disciplining me. Now I'm alone in a strange land,I just realized the whole reason why he was doing that. My dad is a courageous, fearless and sound man. I pray God keeps him alive in good health and sound mind. Happy Father's day to all Fathers Indeed.

Owerre ndi oma. In Imo we are absolutely Obidient

Pætience.... Something like this will do. Teaching is for the brave hearted and low in spirit. It's well

Fr Mbaka don buy market...

Men will be like I want a woman that gives me peace of mind or they'll put it this way,if she can give me peace of mind she's good to go. Now my question is if she gives you the peace of mind what then will you give to her? Back to the thread @Op someone said that was then,the last time I checked these village girls na dem tear eye pass township girls sef. My stay in the village last two years before coming back to town omo taught me hard lessons. Except the few ones their mothers know and trust very well. Westernization and the bad influence of technology and media has made it difficult to see a decent girl now.

Peter Obi of course. God is wonderful.

Why do people envy successful people? What's the relationship between success and hate? No one sends a broke ass man but let me make money you will see forces ganging up against him. It's well. But this Elon musk don dey do Sha... Baba wan put hand into many things.

Who else has seen that video of some women and young men carrying guns, singing and dancing around. Whenever the issue of self defense is raise they'll kick against but will prefer to release whooping sums as ransom. Nigeria will never happen to me or anyone close to me again. Very anyhow country with anyhow people...

Before nko what were you expecting. It's time to take back Nigeria.

A fool when silent is considered wise...