₦airaland Forum

jericco1:
If a guy is to offer the following with what you omitted, how would you feel?

I won't feel bad cos I'm not indebted to his money unless he wants to

I think you guys should answer the question. A woman has everything else to give aside her body both the modern day style and systems of relationship opines that a lady must give back in equal proportion usually in kind to the money offered. This does not hold water anymore because ladies nowadays have learnt that theory is inconsequential and without value.

Thanks how can we say we love who we have not seen when we find it hard to love the ones we have around us. Love still is the greatest. The strongest weapon too hard for devil to handle let alone dismantling. Our sins and inactions didn't dissuade God from sending His son, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us . Thank you Lord for loving us unconditionally.

BKayy:
Have you heard of the terrorist soldiers burning houses in Borno?
Or burning markets in Borno?

This is simply an attack from Nigeria.

biting more than they can chew. I won't be surprised or feel bothered if a reprisal attack break forth,na dem sabi.

Drabeey:
If we don't, pray for the next generation

We're the next generation sir. Whatever ours didn't correct or do right it just means it has become a trend and will keep being one till someone decides to change it.

Ojikutumomiage:
My father was a farmer but he has this friend who was a naval officer, the man was the oga to where they keep arms and ammunitions. He didn't steal a penny and he's still poor till date
I saw many of his friends during his son's naming ceremony and I was dumb. They were too rich to be called his friends.

that's just the case, being good sometimes doesn't pay but we must not because of this stop being good. I watched my dad serve the government and up till now he's neither recognized or rewarded. Such is life for you. Whatever they didn't achieve or enjoy,we their children will do it for them. My sincere prayers.

Asides money ooooh I'm fun to be with. No dulling moment. A good cook but not all dishes please ,emmm I can also do what again sef, yeah I love cleanliness and I love God. Can also engage in meaningful conversations and I love asking questions,well I'm inquisitive by nature.So being my friend you're in for a good and safe ride but be ready to have an extra heart from laughing and arguing. You'll be needing a new voice too,I can sometimes be annoying sorry please

That's how I'll make headlines when God finally lifts and blesses me. Forget there's this joy and satisfaction one gets from the blessing and lifting of God. I don't know where you're taking me to Lord,I trust your leadership and process oh Yeshua. The lifter of men!

I'm amazed we have sensible and sensitive youths like this. God bless you richly@Op. You've made a clear and well understoood post. While we do the best we can we still ask for His Grace and mercy. Not our will but His.

Righteousness2:
FATHER! Have mercy on her. She knows not what she doeth..

Exactly sir. Preach on let he that thinks he stands take heed least he fall. One day we'll know true children of God and those who claim they're. Light and darkness can never have anything in common,one dispels and replaces the other.

Flexherbal:
The good old days!

void of peace and tolerance just as we have today. What changed? A few

Yeah I've noticed that, why do they do that,this zubby Michael movie bury me, I noticed the mortician knocks on the door each time he wants to clean them up or do something inside there,well I just assumed based on what our grannies do tell us that they dead have their own world and also requests for permission before being interrupted. @Op see I'm scared ooooh you've raised a topic I don like...

The real beauty is without makeup. Nevertheless they are beautiful.

My throat is dry.. yeah tis cold outside and hot inside.

Ebaling...
Ebament
Eba Making @Op don't stress my already stressed brain

You've made good and constructive points to ponder on. Lost my first admission because my father a man of integrity refused paying a certain money before I'll be admitted. Of course if I hadn't passed the exam that would be a different story altogether but I did and was denied admission simply because I didn't reach the aggregate mark or point. Well disappointed as I was then,I had to make up my mind to sit for another examination. @Op see we have few people of integrity in this country and I'm unashamedly to say my dad is one of them. A man who served his state with cleanness of the hands and pureness of the heart,he retired with nothing,not even a regular pension to start with. I'm very dissatisfied and disappointed whenever I remember I have someone who never bribed his way to get favor or even falsify his age to stay longer than expected,of course people were shocked he retired quite early even before I was through with secondary school. I'm sharing this because I'm most close to my dad than my mom and he has told me alot about his services to the state and government and then the treatment he's receiving afterwards. He's one of the reasons I pray to God to help me get favor and kindness from my fellow men, honestly he deserves a lot. Our system is corrupt from the leaders to the led nevertheless I won't judge everyone with this same measure. People of good morals and sound judgments abound but the question is where can we find them and in what condition will you see them in? Of course you know the best answer to that poised question judging from what we have in Nigeria and how fair our system has been to us. God will help us.

So in summary date a girl who has money okwaya , some have the money but not the heart to give or even love to share. Some don't have the money but you have their kindness and love. While some posses both. Well good luck to everyone with sensible ladies.

I find it hard to believe this. She's big enough to stand her ground unless she's been threatened or blackmailed. I understand how embarrassing it might be to the family but concealing it will endanger her more to the poison she calls a father unless she's not gonna stay with them again.

If suffer never tire some people,e don tire me Biko, which kind frying pan to fire situation we wan put ourselves into, noo God forbid it's better someone else rules Nigeria than Tinubu,Atiku or Him ruling infact make dem just gatat. We're tired of corrupt and unaccountable individuals ruling us.

Imo is now the new Bornu btw how did we get here. Shey the forest no contain them na small imo wey no reach anywhere they want to destroy,it's well just reach out to your family and loved ones and make sure they're safe.

Rick,he just drove in

MufasaLion:
He won't be killed. Death sentence don't work like that. He might be on the death row for decades.

Okay in other words he might be pardoned in the process right?

This same kogi that their health care system is at the verge of collapsing. Students learn under a mango tree and all that. No be only singing your praises na dance your dance

SmartGadgetz:
When she dey talk video her as skit, omo you go blow.

you go blow got me laughing. Well I do video her but never thought of uploading it. Thanks though.

eedimo:
I'm gonna love that child.

lol she'll bore you with her talking and questioning. But she's loving too.

When I first heard it from a friend,I know he won't be killed don't know but he'll find a way out of this. I'm not saying we don't have fair justice system in Nigeria but my mind tells me so.

Mrluv:
Yo stammer?

nope. I talk really fast and sometimes not audible enough.

19 months these people are wicked how on Earth will someone feel relaxed knowing fully well workers in his state aren't paid or sometimes underpaid. Na so we see am everyday for Nigeria people will be protesting for one thing or the day,show me a day without protesters and I'll believe the saying Nigeria shall rise again.

Egungun be careful na road you dey cross , someone forgot to tell him that Nigeria isn't for him 70 years old man

Typical example of my fourth sibling. She's practically the good, obedient and most loved. Very quiet,less associating and rarely talk. She just finished writing waec we even thought the exam will expose her to people and make her less introverted than she is for where, she'll come home after the exam straight to the room to read for her next paper. And the worst she's easily intimated and always looking frightened. I understand your plight @Op, people like that are just cool with everything and everyone,no much stress, just you and yourself but believe me it can be boring. Just try and free up somethings within you,be a conversation starter,find something to talk about with someone. Stroll around and greet people, walk into stores, outlets or any place at all,try starting up a conversation after greeting. I used to be an introvert before due to my speech problem but mehn I rather be accepted for who I am than die in silence.

Not all pretty ladies Biko, besides why will you be comfortable being insulted and disrespected, doesn't make sense. But Sha as a lady I know some girls can mumu for love, and I know of few friends who are pretty but were verbally abused and even physically assaulted lolzzzzz to my surprise,well I wasn't these girls still went on with the relationship. Omo I no fit try am,why person go intimidate and assault me and still want me to continue the relationship things don't work that way.