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melonsgroup:
Tomorrow by God's special grace, I will get my PVC. I don't mind sleeping in INEC office

A very good decision sir.


We should help ourselves!

Even if your candidate didn't win, you contributed your quota to how the affairs of this country should be run rather than sit on the fence and critic on the internet.

Angela62:
I am married for about a decade now, and I am enjoying my marriage. Honestly, if the worse happens and I became a widow, I will not marry any other man, I will train my kids alone. That is how much I love my husband and cherish my marriage. Since childhood, I have always been close to my grandmother, I grew up with her since my mum died when I was a child. I learned a lot from her. I can still remember the advice she gave to me when I wanted to marry my husband, and I will tell you exactly that.

1. Look at the qualities and characters of the man you want to marry. Most ''shine shine'' men, as my grandma will put it are not the real men. `Just as sugar is sweet but unhealthy, lots of men are like that. That bricklayer that sends his mum money in the village every month, that doesn't go to a club, doesn't smoke and buy expensive designers, he might not even give you butterflies, those are the real men. Ten years from now when you are pregnant with your third child, his masculinity will be like an umbrella to protect, provide and be the best father for your kids.

But you see those ones that are doing fine boys only, care more about the phone they use and the girl they sleep with this weekend than their future, those you must avoid. They may be attractive now, but when the difficulties of marriage come especially financially, then you realize that truly, internal beauty (characters and virtues) is what keeps marriage. So do not sacrifice the future due to your youthful exuberance.

2. Look at his patterns, those are the secrets to his future and of course, your future. Does he wakes up and go to work every day? What is the relationship he has with his family? How does he handle stress? is he hardworking? Do people around him respect him? Where does he go after work? What is your assessment of his friends? `What are his goals? etc. You might be clouded with feelings with this assessment especially when you are in love, so you might ask people you trust for advice. I saw this thread some few years ago by pansophist, where he wrote about qualities you should look for in a man for marriage, I implore you to check it out. The guy is on point. As I read through it, I kept nodding my head in affirmation because my husband easily covered all these qualities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Also when I first met my husband, I wasn't that interested. He appears so ordinary (if you know what I mean), but as I scratch further, the depth of his manliness opens up. I was not attracted at first, but everything fell into place, and I was glad I didn't just brush him away. But I couldn't see his qualities quickly, it was my grandma that pointed it all out. So you should really have someone older, that have walked the talk of marriage, to advise and guide you.

3. Support him. Men are at their best when their wive are supportive. For example, my husband never asks me about my income, but every of my penny goes to my household. The idea that a man has to carry all the financial responsibilities is a self-defeating adventure. Such a woman punishes herself due to her short-sightedness and selfishness by reducing her worth in his eyes, making her easily replaceable.

I wish I could give you a bear hug!

May the Lord continue to keep your home and preserve every member of your home.

Thank you for sharing.

God1000:
Putin deserves humiliation

You don't even understand what is going on.

Malory:
You are now irrelevant. No one takes you serious anymore

Nah the lack of job that can actively engage him dey worry am.

shawante:
See a whole general lying on the bare floor covered in cloth.. This life is useless

Nothing in this life...that we why we should live right and affect people positively.


Life is vain.

They want to live a wasted life.

You see...despite all the gory and doom news about cultism and rituals, see these low lives still want to join.

Now you know why I don't with "RIP" on cultist thread...when their head is butchered and body battered nah their parents and loved ones I always pity.

These ones don't deserve love...they don't love themselves, that why they join a group that will bring a gruesome end to them.

Rubbish!

Can this man just shut up!


This man truly talks from both ends of his mouth!

Shameless!

If e too hard, soak am to make am soft.

Xscape1993:
Shameless generation..

Nah sex matter go ruin this generation.

Sex sex sex!

You see all sorts of aphrodisiac and drugs for SEX.

The ladies sexualize themselves for money.

And he "conquered" them all.


Hate him or love him, has touched the heart of some state actors...they plan to repay his support and backing.


In all of this I pray the plan of God for us come through. We don't want another calamity like bubu Lord.

Phaantom22:
Make dem torture am to death

He can't be human again on this earth after his eventual release.

This guy seems to be very delusional to have thought EU or NATO would step in directly.


He seems to be a brave dude with no brain...at least the brain to decipher when one is about to be used for proxy war. Now it's the innocent lives paying for this grave mistake.

US, EU and the likes will only promise and promise...they will only send you weapons...weapons that will eventually be used between many groups against each other in the same country Libya is a good example.

It's your land, your resources and your people that will suffer the most. Sadly, the people are paying the ultimate price, in droves, for this comedian's supposed "bravery".

It is better oo.


We have lived long enough with goats!


Freeeeeeeeeeedom!

The North knows have to play politics.

Dem Sabi am pass the back of their hands.


The West and East is always divided and that's to the advantage of the North...the North that has more numbers.

Nigeria is the North, North is Nigeria.

Living a lonely life can be depressing in a toxic environment.


May her soul find rest.

Gruesome death awaits those warned not to join or those warned to turn a new leaf but refused.


Sorry, no sorry. No RIP today.

This one is loud ooo


I thought he sponsored and raised money that positively affect his people.


Maybe nah Abuja e dey always dey sha.

No permanent friend in politics.


More importantly, a jobless and hungry man will always dance to the angle the next meal will drop.

We4all:
Alaye, the dumb one here is you. If he didn’t paragraph his post initially and did later, then why didn’t that guy modify what he wrote?

And I don’t have to go and read where he acknowledged nothing cos I am not a yahoo boy like you who spends all his time online.

Oloti, have you ever heard the statement: “What matters is now”? His post is paragraphed now and I don’t know why you want to commit suicide over my observation.

You are simply senile!

We4all:
That guy paragraphed his post. You are the blind one.

You are dumb and brain dead! Guess you need to go back and read where he acknowledged the need to paragraph his write up and he prolly did it afterward.

Sorry, I forgot you are so dumb you can't figure out the post has been edited. My bad!

Nice one

This looks like a poorly written book. No paragraph or continuity.



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Don't tell then who will be the next Nigeria president.

People seems to die from gun related violence than natural disaster and national cause combined!



Where there is too much freedom, so much violence is always present.

All will be well.

Calamity just dey befall ANAMBRA left, right and centre.

The gods must be angry.

Islandlady:

Soo cute!
[s]But why the baby resemble Chris brown instead of A$AP rocky[/s]

Meanwhile chrisbrown rn

No be only Chris Brown, nah Chris Purple.

Women supporting women!

That gender came for his head


Nah real men dey apologize and own up to their mistakes.

Nah real nigger eim be.

After shipping in 3 goals in 10mins, he still chop slap and verbal abuse


Double jeopardy

Is this not madness?


This is barbaric and totally incomprehensible!

This is what yorubas call "alejo oran"


Women supporting women.

Ilekokonit:
I don't really believe in village people having ANY powers whatsoever nor do I fear death (as we all go die one day including the village people and ALL Babalawo's who can not even save themselves from death) and I have actually relocated to Naija once - 2006-2008 - and I only left Naija 'cos all my staff in my restaurant were thieves making it non profitable.

And come to think of it, in spite of all Nigeria's challenges and all the bad news we read daily, IF I had a guaranteed source of income in Naija, I would relocate to Naija like yesterday.

And there lies the conundrum - a stable CONSISTENT source of income for someone relocating back to Naija from abroad.

Hmmm...i get your point but you really need to think about this over and over.

You can sleep a multimillionaire and wake up a pauper! Just one senseless economy policy will ruin lives! GoKada, Obike comes to mind.

Businesses and quality of lives keeps evaporating with reckless abandonment.

Sad thing is, no end in sight!