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angelchinny:
Am a well dedicated nairalander but I created this new account for this issue. I have been married for 4 years now with 3 children and since the 2nd year of our marriage my husband has been constantly cheating on me.

The way he goes about it is even heartbreaking, he does it like his into a love relationship with them and not just for fun.

There is this particular girl that he calls like 3 times everyday because I check his call log and saw they keep in touch more than twice everyday. I stupidly called the girl and warned her to stay clear off my man and she confessed he didn't tell her he was married, I confronted my hubby and he was forming defensive and was telling me dat am accusing him wrongly and he will soon start cheating. I called the girl back in the evening and she told me that even as am calling that his call is entering her phone, that he called earlier to beg her to give him chance to explain..The next day I left with my children to a far away state and he pleaded that he will change and all that. The issue is that he continued with this shameless behaviour, our live-in nanny later confessed to my cousin last month that he approached her and I was so devastated. He knelt down and begged and I easily forgave him..

Forgive me for my long episode but I really need your help on how to punish him cos I went to his call log yesterday and saw the same girl that made me take the risk to leave with my children to another state calling him again and he is reciprocating the calls..his a very jealous person, he goes crazy when a male friend calls me..I want to make him pass through all the pains I have endured all these years.. What do I do pls?

JSayin:
Oh Okay! Will send you an email straight away.
Cheers.

JSayin:
Okay. I will contact you shortly.

Sorry about the hitch you experienced.

TochiPhotos:
"My Oga sent me away without settlement after 8 years of serving him, in the 8 years I was with him, he never accused me of any wrongdoing till months to my settlement date and he accused me of stealing his money and sent me back to the village.
If I had gone to school in that 8 years I would have graduated since and done something good with my life but 'nothing spoil' I know God will see me through.
Someone leased me this keke 3 months ago, I'm slowly paying it off and in a year or 2 it will become mine then I can think of going back to business. I know things will still get better as long as there's life"

ijbeauty:
Tochi keep up with the good work, may God bless you.
From the onset of "humans of Lagos" I have been inspired one way or the other.. I found a similar page on facebook "humans of New York" its really amazing. Please I want to ask, does "humans of Lagos" have a facebook page, cos I will like to also follow it up there..

Welcome bro, God bless you.

spyder880:
I wonder o, someone should tell him that we have able and capable human materials to choose from. I can work as his commissioner for works and housing seriously o

TochiPhotos:
“My son doesn’t help me in the shop; he acts as if he is ashamed to be seen here. He doesn't even know how much I sell anything and would rather stay in the house from morning till night watching movies.
I remember how hard it was for my wife to conceive again after we had our daughter, we had to wait for 15 years after that first issue before we were finally blessed again, 15 tough years of going from one church to the other looking for a solution.
He is my only son and I want the best for him, I did not go to school but I want him to go to university, everything I’m doing I’m doing it for him but I don’t think he understands this.
He has been staying at home from morning till night since he finished his WAEC exam, I’m not even sure he has a friend, he is always by himself. I’m really worried about him and I just need someone to help me talk some sense into him. Please help me talk to him maybe he will listen to you. “

trapQ:
GOOD GRACIOUS

I just fell in love with you

hollarwaley:
You are finished

valmunich:
Society didn't make it for everyone to be or be like you, mister.

God created us to be higher animals, superior and lord over other animals. And some people are behaving like the animals that we are supposedly greater than.


And yet, you sit here and spit out arrant rubbish from the depths of your buccal cavity! Society my foot!!

successmatters:
look at the he picture again, he is already hunched up and bent over with age. I still insist that guy is at least 80. Part of the ineffectiveness of Martin Elechi was his old age. Reminds me of Mugabe.

CR77:
Wow i vote 4 her yesterday

I am so happy to hear this good new.


congratulation @Tohpahz