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Whaledog: Relax time Ghana,relax time .The military wing of boko putting logistics issues in consideration and after that the organization will announce its operational commencement as soon as possible.Remember Jonathan said at G8 summit ,that the threat of boko is not limited within Nigeria border,but the organization have the resources for migration.

let them keep calling for bokoharam,they forget that terrorists are not limited to any geographic area.gaynians have small minds.they even have a street "king james" street in accra where white men Bleep black ape like gaynian boys for 5usd...that country stinks-their youths are too hungry to buy condoms,hence they have the highest hiv.they are really suffering there.

PetroDollas: hahahaha water don pass garri bi dat.yeye dey smell! you apes aint seen nothing yet! modafakas. we'll hunt u down n kick ur dirty azzes back 2 boko haramed country.fuelish goats! let them go back to their fvcked up 'paradise!'

EVEN IN YOUR COUNTRY NIGERIANS DEY OPPRESS UNA...YOU PEOPLE ARE LIVING IN THE STONE AGE,THATS WHY TOURISTS LIKE TO GO TO GHANA SO THEY SEE REAL "APE LIKE" AFRICANS.no good food,imagine people dey chop corn and pepper as food.

hairyman: Have we all forgotten the ghana must go saga, I have read through all these comments but saw none. What a country sows it must reap. Nigeria sowed intolerance back then ang ghana cannot be expected to do otherwise. Its a great pity though. But fellow Nigerians tell me something, are you really happy about the chinese and the lebanese running almost all major enterprises in naija, 'invading' us if I may quote some ops. Ghananians are workig against that, as almost all developed countries are protrotecting their economy. Actually, it. Is naija that needs to change not ghana...take a look at both countries and decide for yourself.

YOU ARE AN IGNORAMUS,GHANIANS STARTED DISCRIMINATING AGAINST NIGERIANS BACK THEN BEFORE WE HIT BACK-NAIJA DIDNT THROW THE FIRST PUNCH-YOU DUMB UNPATRIOTIC IGNORAMUS.

AND THE USELESS GHANIANS AND SMELLY COTONU PEEPS HERE DO NOT PAY ANY SORT OF INCOME TAX OR INTERNAL REVENUE CHARGES,WHAT THE Bleep IS WRONG WITH OUR GOVERNMENT,IS IT BECAUSE THEY ARE EATING FREE MONIES FROM THE NATIONAL TREASURY.GHANIANS WILL BE DRAGGING JOBS WITH NIGERIANS AND LIVING FREELY IN NIGERIA,WHILE THEY WILL MARGINALIZE NIGERIANS IN THAT SMALL WRETCHED COUNTRY,WHERE THEY DONT EVEN BUILD TOILETS IN THEIR HOMES.GHANA MUST GO!

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1 year rent,no dubious agents please.If you have anything,notify me here and leave your contacts.

Once again,no dubious agents,time wasters etc.

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uboma: @ op, I am finding hard to believe ur story. Why work as a bus conductor when u can get atleast a teaching job in any private school with ur degree and even masters if actually ur story is anything to go by...?

Na super story.

Van snickers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0h9KKJgwaH0





A graphic video appears to show a teenager forcibly stripped naked and repeatedly whipped while a group heckled and cursed at him -- all because of a $20 debt.

The video (below) was uploaded to YouTube on Thursday has received almost 40,000 views. And Newark, N.J. authorities are up in arms.

Police are now searching for the victim and assailants in attack, The Star-Ledger reported.

In the disturbing two-minute scene, a man screams, "Where my money at?" at a naked boy on a public street. The hunched-over victim responds, "I don't know," before he is ruthlessly beat with a belt.

For the 90-second whipping, a small crowd laughs, yells obscenities, and tells the victim to say it's a "dog eat dog world" to the camera.

In the end of the video, one of the bystanders reveals that the debt -- apparently owed by the victim's father -- is 20 bucks.

"The perpetrator as well as those who stood idly by laughing and videotaping this act of savage brutality should be brought to justice," said Newark City Council President Anibal Ramos.

Newark Police Director Samuel DeMaio told the Star-Ledger investigators might know where the attack took place.

He also said police know that two Twitter handles were instrumental in making the video viral.

If caught, the assailants will most likely be charged with aggravated assault.

The act of videotaping crimes is no anomaly.

In early February, two high school students were arrested after footage of them brutally attacking a classmate was posted to Facebook.

Last October, a daughter posted a seven-minute YouTube video of her father, a family law judge, beating her. The latter received more than 7 million views.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/12/naked-newark-man-whipped-video-police-search_n_2669693.html


King(Martin Luther King Jr)! Where are your People now? Chained and pacified! Tried in vain to show them how and for them you died.- UB40

too many savages everywhere,please if you can not raise your kids properly with the right upbringing and training-commit abortions and spare the world barbarians and savages-we got too much already.

centje: Are you a learner

na mumu dey worry her-ras girl,see her name self sound like omila.

onila: me= a year and a half

if you no dey careful,na girl like you dey turn old mama youngie.na guy wey no get work go dey pursue normal girl,abi you be Dangote daughter or Alicia keys?
MUMU

Dyt: Still fronting for him o
Very much sef

ugly girl like you self dey front?
chei some guys dey blind ooh.

ladunsky: i Avent seen an exception

how much do you think you have...all these arrogant bitches.

merciie: Forgive me if am wrong, but am basing my conclusion on what I and a few of my girlfriends have observed and experienced.
Guys have now turned gold diggers! The moment they get to know that this girl is working and they have a vague idea as to how much she earns, they come serenading and shamelessly proposing, it’s like the tables have turned, and guys want to settle with a lady who is comfortable and can take care of herself (and him too) .
I cant count the number of ‘suitors” I have had since I got this job…before y’all crucify me n call me a sugar mummy, am in my mid-twenties.

dont get deluded and thinking your little change is money-and do not let your little change rob you of happinness.how much money do you have to make you think its what makes a responsible guy go after you.only dummies do such,or do you have up to half a million dollars?

HR.hotness:
I think people are getting carried away

Social class is not determined purely material things,
other things such as breeding and grooming comes into play,
also education, family background, manners and refinement, language, aspiration and taste,,,

I definitely cannot marry below my social class, like someone mentioned earlier I aim to progress in life.
Of course i definately will marry someone who has worked himself into a higher social class (i don't mean in terms of income),after all i wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth and have worked hard to get to where i am today.

Every man should work towards attaining a better life and stop making stupid excuses
I'm not talking about money,,, i value manners and class over money

shut the Bleep up,bitches like u only see money-dumb bitch

tRoOE: lol right back at you

You have issues girl!!!!!!!gosh

you are a foolish vain and myopic bitch.

tRoOE: Am sorry oh but I can't not date/marry anyone below my level.My future plan is to proceed forward not backwards
I need a man that can take good care of his woman, not a man that can not afford to eat 3 square meals for himself
A real man that isn't afraid to spend on his lady once in a while, show me a good time and i will surely do the same for him

sister no mind them,after all you suffer...kpaki mentality no good.hussle hard.

TopBooty: Why do most ladies feel belittled and reluctant  to date a man who belongs to a social class lower than theirs but guys don't have a problem doing the same as long as the girl in question is lovely? Could it be that women are more  picky and materialistic than men? Do you think that social class should balance averagely for two people to have a successful relationship?

In Nigeria, ' abeg go find your level' is a slogan frequently used by more women than men when it comes  to relationships. Am I wrong?

thats cos Nigerian women are very vain,myopic and dumb-when they have like 5million naira(50,000usd),dem go think say dem don become JLO-its a shame,and funny enough-most guys dont give a Bleep about their money or status.its irritating and it shows a village mentality.

Kobojunkie: I will say this, the story told by this @OP is typical. People get into marriage EXPECTING this and that, not realizing that marriage does not come with guarantees of any kind. You have to be willing to bend and stretch yourself as much as is necessary to get what you need/want and to maintain the relationship.

My advice to woman going through similar situation as described by the @OP, and those who are depressed with thoughts of this kind about their marriage, is that they look inwards to find ways they can change their own desires and wants to suit their marital situation. If you are a lust-monkey under covers and your husband turns out not to be the romantic hunk you expected, why not adapt? Humans are built to do just that . . . yes it is unfortunate but reality is marriage is what it is . . . a transaction with no guarantees, and no refunds. So either you adapt to accommodate what you end up with or you walk out and go look for what you need elsewhere. No need whining, and certainly NO ONE-SOLUTION for all cases.

I feel I need to stress the NO ONE-SOLUTION message when it comes to marriage. No matter how sexy you become or already are, you are not guaranteed that you will have the best sex in your marriage or that you will not be abandoned at the end of the day. No matter how much "take charging" you do in a relationship, you are not guaranteed that the feelings will be returned. No matter how much you try to push a man into bed, if he is not interested, he is not interested. No matter how much you try to make a sloppy women into a clean-freak, if she is not meant to be a clean-freak, she will not be. So, this is why I preach that people who are married learn, to accept their partners AS-IS. As @OP explained, what she expected is not what she got. That does not say @OP cannot then move on to accept the reality she now has, and work towards a solution knowing this.

is this not suffering and smiling?

since you took your time to think of it carefully and feel its what you want,i think i feel you.
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i will make u happy.

BetaThings: Based on mere suspicion, people are deprived of their right as parents
The only adoptive parents they could find were those likely to put hatred of their parents religion in their minds

Some issues
This people never gave up the children up for adoption
They were under suspicion because their child died due to an ailment. This is enough jeopardy
Then 3 other children are taken from them. A woman labours to carry a baby for 9 months, the baby dies because of ill health and the a total stranger steps in and takes away the remaining 3 (THREE) children

says "what we have been through". Really?
how? were you forced to adopt?

what about the person who gave birth to the children? They could not have access, they were under suspicion for homicide while mourning!
People are really very very selfish!
The adoptive parent knew the biological parents were alive and were working to clear their name and then decided to adopt the children and turn them against the religion of the biological parents
She spared no thought for the family - what could happen if the parents were later found innocent!
Or perhaps to avoid the parents having a normal relationship (if the parents are found innocent) with children, this peculiar adoptive re-orientation process was engineered
For the parents to end their old life in misery!!!
She believes adopting all the 3 children from one family in a manner that estranges the parents from the children is commendable
The parents should be thankful that their children are now practising a religion that the parents believe will not lead the children to Jannah!!!

These loving Christians parents would never accept this if the story had happened in reverse
At least they would not be thanking the people who contrived to deprive them of being comforted (for the loss of that child) through the reunion of the other children
If this happened to a christian from the West living in a muslim country, it would be on CNN for months

big lie,not all news gets to CNN.

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190smh: Seriously we Nigerian men are tired

We are tired,

The question remains - why do Home based NAIRALAND NIGERIAN WOMEN Lack respect

They are always angry, disrespectful, bad cooks, suck in bed and sexually faustrated and they disrespect all men (inclusive of 190)

on this forum as if we are the cause of their trauma

so we Nigerian men are saying it out loud - HOME BASED NAIRALAND WOMEN CHANGE - CHANGE FOR THE BETTER

So we men could marry you - stop been disrespectful and stop asking us for money ( we are not ATM's )

Stop thinking with the left side of your brains - HOME BASED WOMEN -

If you think you can wear short mini skirts and the first man that approaches you would marry you - we Nigerian men are sorry for you -

Change - change - change - A word is never enuf for a home based Nigerian girl only experience

this is uncalled for-have u been heartbroken or just desperate to find a woman?