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Greetings Dear NLanders Family

Please I beg to be forgived if this in anyway will bore you or spoil your mood as it's actually not my joy/way but circumstances.
I have a boring life adventure which I wouldn't want to bother anyone to listen, but at this point in my life, I can't help but seek help to solve a tip of it through this medium even risking my reputation cos of what happened to me three days ago.

I was almost thrown out to the rain/cold by my landlord over rent issue (expired couple of months ago) if not God and the intervention of my neighbors, and in my confused state, I had to beg him to give me till this weekend to pay eventhou I don't know how possible that will be unless miracle happens, he reluctantly agreed and left with his boys.
I have tried all I can to see if I can meet up cos its fast approaching, I tried to borrow from few people I know in this world but none can help. Some ill thought cross my mind at this point with hope I can raise it before weekend but I fear it won't end well as I let go.
Am still breathing and full of hope but fear how far I will cope if am eventually thrown out.

I use this medium to plead with the conscience of good humans who could understand what am passing through to help me out with anything to assist me meet up, as I promise never to do this again in my life if I can just save myself this time.
Thanks and God bless

Accnt number 0266407837 GTB(guaranty trust bank)

Greetings Dear NLanders Family

Please I beg to be forgived if this in anyway will bore you or spoil your mood as it's actually not my joy/way but circumstances.
I have a boring life adventure which I wouldn't want to bother anyone to listen, but at this point in my life, I can't help but seek help to solve a tip of it through this medium even risking my reputation cos of what happened to me three days ago.

I was almost thrown out to the rain/cold by my landlord over rent issue (expired couple of months ago) if not God and the intervention of my neighbors, and in my confused state, I had to beg him to give me till this weekend to pay eventhou I don't know how possible that will be unless miracle happens, he reluctantly agreed and left with his boys.
I have tried all I can to see if I can meet up cos its fast approaching, I tried to borrow from few people I know in this world but none can help. Some ill thought cross my mind at this point with hope I can raise it before weekend but I fear it won't end well as I let go.
Am still breathing and full of hope but fear how far I will cope if am eventually thrown out.

I use this medium to plead with the conscience of good humans who could understand what am passing through to help me out with anything to assist me meet up, as I promise never to do this again in my life if I can just save myself this time.
Thanks and God bless

Accnt number 0266407837 GTB(guaranty trust bank)

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Ya the car isn't that costly, I priced one yesterday, when I was about writing the check to the seller, my pen broke, I had to change my mind cos it could be a sign from.....to be continued

Are you sure its not divine foolishness ministry

Donald Duke, I have so much hope that this man can change the face of this country to a develop country we have always wished for, but......
How is that possible without us getting him there?
Use your PVC wisely

I no want talk plenty!

Emmanystone:
Surrender to Him who created you.

Stop fighting to be in charge
of things.

Thanks bro, that's helpful

Emmanystone:
The real reason why we struggle as much as we do is because we want to be like God. Always fighting to be in total and complete control.

As long as we keep fighting to rule by our terms, we'll keep losing this battles of life.

The only answer is SURRENDER.

DESTROY THAT PRIDE.

You didn't create yourself, hence you can't help yourself. The only person who knows what your talent is, is YHWH, when He reveals it to you, you'd cease from struggles, because then, you wouldn't need to struggle anymore.

You are sowing on a wrong soil my friend. And until you discover the right soil to sow, your seed will keep dying.

Nothing any atheist will tell you will help you.

Rice grows in a swampy area, if you plant it on upland, it'll die. That is what you have been doing.


Redirect your focus and you'll see.

C.S.Lewis said that; 'The more we let God take us over, the more truly ourselves we become'.

Redirect my focus how sir?
Is there something you wish to tell me, please can you do in plain language sir. Thanks

budaatum:
Are those the only autobiographies you know? How about mum and dad? Or have you not seen how they got through life? Brothers, sisters, uncles, aunties, friends, colleagues, you never seen any of them make it? Hang around a bit longer and you will.

And no, its not about overwork. Op has gotten some good jobs, but there's obviously something he carries around with him that don't quite jell at the office, so I advise he take a really good honest look at himself.

You quote me wrong sir, didn't say I carry anything around with me, just here to get views on ' if spiritism contributes mostly to peoples success'

budaatum:
There is quite a lot you don't know, it seems, and what you do know sounds warped to me.

Do you really think all the successful people are "into some sort of spiritual awareness like charms, occult" etc? Is it not more true that a common thing that ties them together is hard work?

I advice that you stop seeking for pie in the sky, and get off your lazy ass and work instead of thinking as you currently do. Try reading autobiographies of some successful people too. You'll find out how they did it.

Thanks bro for the advice, meanwhile I know am not lazy, most days I commend myself for my effort but all these not yielding.
I might be wrong but I got this confidence that there's more to successful people that there prefer keeping to themselves.
I heard someone say some people can diabolically grow from others hardwork unless you protect yourself, could that be reason some don't loose/fall in business while others do?

Some people are just so privilege to be born in a civilise country but still behave like someone born in a country like Nigeria, GOD please in my next life, I wanna born in a civilise country where human beings are valued

OtemAtum:
Do you have CV? Look for job.
In this nation where we find ourselves, the population is too much, but the resources do not circulate. One just have to keep hustling.
It is not true that people actually joined secret cults and make legit money. Many of them are given bad and illegal underground assignments which I wouldn't encourage you to do. Some of them engage in selling of human parts after killing them, smuggling hard drugs, etc. All these are against the law, so I can't advise you to go into them.

A singer said 'Alaye double your hustle, No time for Yoruba Yoruba.' and to me, he made a lot of sense. Keep hustling till you get there. Don't stop.

I have CV(online and hard copy) which I have submitted to where I could guess there's job openings, I have have had few collapse businesses, the hustling have been doubling each year past.
Nevertheless thanks for the advice, I know some people can do bad things for money but at some point I often guess maybe its protection I need from bad people

I grew under my moms care who is an ardent Christian, Dad is more of a traditionist but encourage people going to church but he is no more goes unless specially invited.
In short, moms relation is very biblical and dad relation not so churchy.
Am a graduate, going to 30, a hardworking hustler since i could remember, but NOTHING I COULD BOAST OF ACHIEVING all this years.
I sit down so many days to think and weep over my life, and each time this phrase/question keeps ringing in my head 'COULD THERE SOMETHING AM YET TO KNOW?'

Most successful people I have come across and read on are in one way or the other into some sort of spiritual awareness like charms, occult, very few Christians(disguised), etc
In my case, am really skeptical with feels I could have been successful if i was exposed to some spiritual group(not blood demanding).
Please could someone more enlighten advice me, cos am not progressing at all and my hustling efforts not seem enough.
I know atleast ONE person will understand me

Zzzzzz

showafrica:
Open is also afraid of the rashes on his skin. If you have a doc, go for medical check up if you are sure no be rat chop the hair.

Not rat

doctore212:
Guy, it is most likely Alopecia Areata. An autoimmune disease. You could Google for more information

You made sense, its very close to what am passing through, will check the hospital when I have some cash with me cos its really affecting me psychologically, I'll be keeping afro, just hope it covers it

tee59:
Ah! Dat is bad omen. D witches of your family at work. You needs prayer and deliverance asap.

God forbid

Please someone say something

Hi guys greetings and happy easter
I am actually worried over this that's why I thought it wise to bring it up here so I could have a better chance of getting the best advice.
Yesterday am sure I went to bed without noticing any hair loss on my head, just to wake up this morning to fine out some small patches of hair(very noticeable) loss on my head.
I have asked few people and neighbours, most of them came up with a particular scary cause and that is "its witches handiwork", while I still doubt this, I believe it should medically explained
Note: am healthy, tested negative to HIV, no sign of sickness physically except prickly rashes suspected to be heat.
So guys/professionals can you please tell a clue of what could be wrong? Thanks in advance

phantonce:
6th relationship

Wetin u dey look for?

Am not surprised, na their way, that's why rich guys useless and dump them anyhow

lefulefu:
op's case dey serious sha. I for recommend make he see one strong pastor to break d chains wey he dey under. Dis one wey na olosho he dey always dey meet ..it is not ordinary oo. Iyam suspecting village connections in dis matter.dem don really sit on im case. Wow is dis breakfuss for me?. How do u know i like eating bread on Sunday mornings?. Wetin be dat black- tin wey dey in between d bread?

Oga more than 90% of guys can't be under village people manipulation at the same time na, more guys can confirm what am saying... The way guys lie is a little bit different, a smart girl/guy can easily detect, but if a girl lie for you eh, 99% of the time I believe them not like am a fool o, but cos she acts so real

Not to brag, I have been into many relationship with different girls of different ethnicity in a bid to find a girl with atleast 50% of tolerable qualities so I can settle down and start a family. In all my search, 90% lie at the slightest opportunity, can even swear on their lives and unborn children on what I have confirmed to be lie. On one occasion, I went through her phone (ex), saw her naughty chat with a particular guy, screenshot it and send to my phone and deleted the trace, later when I asked her about the guy and naughty chats and if she's cheating on me, she slapped me arguing why I should embarrass her in such manner, that the person is her brother in Church and can't even think of such nonsense am saying. She swore on her late mother's womb, her unborn children, her life, sand etc, I almost doubted my evidence in my hands. Later when I showed her my evidence, she began to cry and begged. I forgave her though but can't stop thinking about the act she did, mehn girls can act so well on a clear lie.
Am BEGINNING TO DOUBT IF POOR ADAM IN THE BIBLE REALLY ATE THAT APPLE, EVE MIGHT HAVE LIED

In davidos voice " if you no get money, hide your face, make another man pikin run your race"
That's so true, if you don't have money to take care of your girl, another man must run your race.
If you're a broke guy, you don't give your girl money for her needs, and shes looking good somehow, and you guys only professlove for each other, hmm my guy forget it, she's surviving from another guy/guys.
She can only be your true lover only when she visits your home.
Davido really giving them confidence with these phrase " I love you no mean make I put hand for fire"

Blood of god!!

Englus people

Rubish