₦airaland Forum

ImaIma1:
The man in this case is the bigger fool. He pushed his vows to one side, put his marriage and wife at risk because of a money hungry low life.

Hmm she represents a lot Nigerian Young ladies who think the same thing

kaffyadeakeem:
It's initial gragra.You will be fine as times proceed

Nothing like initial gragra there, the guy has a problem how can a normal person cum by just wearing condom?

so you are telling us you are a 10 second man chai, I feel for u bro, don't even bother having sex with a girl, cause u might cum before removing her pants

adekennis:
Shooting ur shot

Lol what shot, persin no go advice sumbori in peace again

lexy2014:
That means u will need 2b extending d same courtesy 2 everyone on nairaland who have d same weakness, especially those whose "emotions are controlled by what people say".

I don't follow everyone on nairaland so I won't know their weaknesses, I know her weakness cause I follow her

[quote author=lexy2014 post=79238714]Circumstances don't make a man. They merely reveal him to himself- Epectidus

U no d strength & tensility of a metal when its under pressure. Now that her emotional tensility& strength has been tested, it gave way. We all live from d inside out. A person can't give what he or she doesn't have. [/quote
Everyone has a weakness i believe that's just her weakness

AntiBrutus:
This is the mentality that makes men behave anyhow and get away with it.

You don't beat a man? Where?

This is just factory reset.
Most men need it every now and then.

On the other hand the mentality of women are weaker vessels, real men don't hit women, is actually what gave that lady the guts to slap that guy multiple times
So don't talk like that guy can't hit her back his just a gentleman

QueenSekxy:
What can I say? Some men would clearly see a slay queen and still go about to date her.

There are many decent girls out there but no, some will prefer drunkards and smokers like them and later come here to complain.
I don't pity him, he must be a smoker himself.

So smokers don't hit women?

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm..... I will ignore them henceforth, they don't worth my time and attention. But fact is, am not really bothered about having admirers on NL. Thanx for your concern..... I have taken note!

Everywhere not only on nairaland, be yourself dear

ImaIma1:
Did i give you any percentage?

Yes you said a lot of Nigerian men, that's a high percentage

LilMissFavvy:
All you have written happens only in your dreams, or when you are ''high''! Wretched hopeless feeble loser, are you done feeding yourself? That you think you can afford to feed another person? Keep hallucinating!

Been following you for awhile, that mature soft understanding personality I saw in you that made me follow you is drifting away, your emotions are controlled by what people say, put yourself together lady it's not worth it, your secret admirer might be disappointed, women usually have secret Admirers everywhere

Tell them o especially these Nigerian ladies like Tonto

imaima1 this is one of them

QueenSekxy:
Some men are gutter tools(shovels) always digging any hole available. Such a disgrace to humanity.

So you agree some women got gutters in between their thighs right?

ImaIma1:
This your statistics is by you and for you. It is not verifiable anywhere.

The one you did is it verifiable?

ImaIma1:
Who gave you this statistics? Your neighborhood? People around you? Almost all the organizations i have worked in, i meet women who have a different mindset from what you describe.

We are not talking about all those girls that their future starts on Snapchat, Instagram and ends with meeting rich men to fund their fantasies. I am talking of real ambitious women.

Just like I said typical Nigerian women enslaved by African culture and religion, not even talking about those prostitutes called slay queens, those real ambitious ladies you met are women who know their self worth, they don't believe a man is superior like religion and tradition make believe, they see themselves equal with men and strive hand in hand with men on an equal level to succeed in life, they don't see marriage as a life time achievement they are not even bothered about marriage, those type of women are just 30% in Nigeria

Amatarasha:
Can he do without me?
He will marry oyibo bla bla bla ...he knows what am capable of ,but thats not d issue !

I'm d air he breathes ,if i hate him he wont only go to russia but to hell ..anam ama aka

Lol you sound like a little god right there, hmm power in your hands will be disastrous, this is one of the reasons God gave men power more than women you know

ImaIma1:
And many also marrying unmade men and growing with them. Nothing wrong with either.

70% of typical Nigerian girls grew up with an entitlement mentality, that it's a duty of a man to provide for her, religion and tradition preaches same, they can't even date guys they call broke guys talk less of marrying them, but guys date broke girls and marry them with no complains at all, so it's a 70/30% thing comparing who benefits from marriage more between men and women in Nigeria

Amatarasha:
see you better go n sitdown

Las las I will snatch you from that footballer cause if that guy enter Russia forget his not coming back

Amatarasha:
i didnt disrespect u dear,
But u ar stil under me now, if u want out make it official

Lol am a free guy, the cashewhead mobs are too violent for me,
Yes address me with soft words like, dear, honey sweetheart , baby, am cool with it

ImaIma1:
Thank God i didn't say "all" Nigerian men. So you can ask Regina if Ned is part of the Nigerian men i described.

Is Regina part of the women you described? No and there are many like her looking for already made men

Amatarasha:

Dont be deceived

by that name village boys ,They are always better than you city canalboys : Check their Six packs Abs so awesome and Girls claim they are stronger in bedmatics algebra Unlike lagoscity boys who Always pass-out 40sec° in sex After drinking terrible agbo ,baboontail and akporo eg Trollkill..er...All these are true and you know it.
Financially they are better, For an example My village footballer friend has 100s of thousand to shower on me Anyday! anytime!!
What city smelling boys has never done b4 when i was living in Yaba...Yes he is skillful at football unfortunately he is leaving for Russia by the end of june , I will miss him Like Dooooor
These village guys are so generously extravagant.
IDiots ,b4 u call me myopic ...Am telling u Fvvvvvvvck You ,And no fvcking Apologies
Know it that Love revolves around the village with handsome White skin dudes with "no bleaching" Acting As Romeo ,while Am the Juliet Unlike In the City(lagos or Ph) where innocent girls are raped to death..




My servants Lucifer1419 n deepfeel bring my towel and bathwater please ..Lolz��

Amatarasha you need some serious bed beatings to humble you, stop disrespecting me

ImaIma1:
You brought her up. So you tell me.

Because it seems that quite a number of guys on this forum use one to judge all.

Ladies do porta potty business in Dubai, now any lady that goes to Dubai is a porta potty.

A lady claimed a duplex as her own. Now any woman that builds a house even with a legal income is lying.

Regina Daniels marries a rich old man, all ladies are now Regina Daniels.

Please try not to lump all ladies into the same category. Every lady, like men, have their different principles that they live by.

but this is what you said about Nigerian men
A lot of them get married and become lazy bums. Their wives wash their clothes, takes care of the house and kids and still works and brings money home...sometimes even more money. And the men will still not be satisfied.
So I asked if Regina married Ned for same reason, cause apart from her every Nigerian woman wants to marry an already made man they don't want to marry a man who is still struggling, so women benefit more than men in this marriage thing, cause once you marry a Nigerian woman all her family problems becomes yours as a man. Nigerian parents push their daughters to find a rich man and marry to bring them out of poverty

ImaIma1:
Regina Regina Regina

Is she the new standard?

I don't know you tell me

ibkayee:
The average man doesn't have Nnayi Ned money though...

When people talk about women benefiting from men, they're usually talking about money right?

Rich men don't benefit from marriage as much as average men, true

But most men are just average...or broke. And nowadays, many women also financially contribute their share to the homefront

Why do rich Nigerian women give men money to marry them?

LilMissFavvy:
Don't let that bother you. People know these things happen in marriage. Keep your head high, continue with your job, look good. If your decision is to divorce him, tell the pastor and your parents your reasons: which are the beatings he gives you, and his low sperm count issue, where he turns around to blame you.speak up, before he turns around to tell people you are barren. If only he can stop beating you, the beating aspect is the major problem.

Emotional abuse not physical, emotional abuse most times is worse than physical beatings

Elesta:
very very well without him. I am not ugly, I am not a bad person, neither am I eating from hand to mouth. I really can't wait to divorce him

Good luck hun

Elesta:
my sentiments exactly oh. no b pikin go make this one stop e stupidity. God hates divorce yes, but the gift of God maketh rich and added no sorrow. This cannot be the gift of God

Hmm am glad you know all these, don't worry you will be fine without him

ImaIma1:
It is men in this country.

A lot of them get married and become lazy bums. Their wives wash their clothes, takes care of the house and kids and still works and brings money home...sometimes even more money. And the men will still not be satisfied.

Same thing Regina married Ned Right?

Elesta:
Very good question oh. I have actually left several times but family members and pastors usually settle the matter,but I know I have had enough. d moment I able to rent an apartment, I will certainly leave and we will work out the divorce from there

Very good plan, look no pastor or whoever it is, should make you stay in an abusive marriage, " with that quote God hates divorce" See God is love and a marriage without love is not recognized by God, his using your delay to conceive as an excuse now, even if you have a child for him he will come up with something else to abuse you the more