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nkwuocha:
I blame both of them.But then the bigger blame goes to the man.He already has got baggages, he should be the smarter one here, knowing how women can be , especially single ladies.He played with her feelings, lied to her , knockesd her up and now he wants to bail

That lady need to contact me, i have a good doctor friend that can bill her that muxh in his private clinic in VI.By the time him pay hospital bills alone, him eye go clear

What if he refuses to pay and keeps denying that the child is not his till a DNA is done before he will spend Kobo

He/she was posing for Tonto to snap are you Tonto

Prominentp:
Lemme try and be brief here.
I dated this young lady last year and things didn't go well. We dated for 8 months and eventually broke up. The thing is, it's been like 6 months since we broke up but yet she still stalks the hell out of my life. Is there any technique I have not used to chase this girl away??... There's none I can think of. I have said very bad things to her, ignored her and all, yet she still comes back after a while after leaving me. She's still preaching to me on how much she loved me and still loves me. She's emotionally blackmailing me like I ditched her but she caused the breakup. I don't know how else to handle the issue anymore. I have told her we can be friends but she doesn't want that, she's insisting on having back the relationship. Pls, what do u guys think I should do??

You don't have to use any technique tell her you don't love her simple

nkwuocha:
Good you asked this question sir!But another question should be asked as well, "Why will a man with wife and kids abroad be sleeping around without any protection?"That child is his responsibility, he is a very stupid man.

That lady should connive with a very good doctor, claim she gave birth through CS and bill him a 500k for a start on well packaged hospital receipt.

The both of them are stupid cause having unprotected sex with someone you are not married to is risky it could have been worse apart from pregnancy STDS are there to watch out for, 500K to start with ?haba this is Nigeria things don't work like that, I have seen court divorcing married couples with 3 kids giving custody of the kids to the mother, placing the father on child support of just 10k a month

LilMissFavvy:
She said she was not aware he was married, she is still unable to believe he is married. You men always look down on a woman that is single and independent? So why blame her for trying to hook a man or seeing marriage as ultimate? Who should she date? Becos most men are like him. Who initiates sex often in relationships? Answer sincerely from your heart. Men are the ones who see sex as vital, so they should have protected sex, or bear the repercussions when it occurs. Same advice applies to women anyway. She isn't worried about the pregnancy, all she needs is his support, she has taken responsibility for her actions, he should do same.

haba so cause men look down on single independent ladies they should risk it all and have unprotected sex with men so they can trap them with pregnancy? really is marriage the ultimate should women see marriage as the ultimate? Come oon hun you can do better than this your judgment is too sentimental, one sided, so because we initiate sex it's our responsibility to use protection, ok what if it was not just pregnancy what if the man infected her with HIV? Even if the man lied about his marital status giving him unprotected sex is not a guarantee he was going to marry her

LilMissFavvy:
What is the current update? Any man who sleeps with a lady and does not practice safe sex from his own angle is a joke. A man cannot force a woman to take contraceptives, so it's best he uses condom, where he refuses to use condoms and pregnancy occurs, he should accept. He has resorted to calling the OP names just because nemesis caught up with him.

Look at the silly excuses the man brought up...''he has low sperm count, he took injection during university days and can't impregnate a woman, he was told in church that he is not the father, he is not ready for marriage'', etc, nonscence!

Sorry lady, that man is married, that is how they go about cheating, he must take responsibility. He must accept the pregnancy. Your health at this time is very Paramount, am wondering why you did not reach out to him since, you need rest not stress.

Any man who sleeps with a lady and does not practice safe sex from his own angle is a joke. But why will a woman not do the same who is more affected when it comes to unwanted pregnancy, you are judging this case one sided , she claims these man was with another lady the lady left him when he started dating her she claims the man was jumping from club to club, dating multiple women, with all these, this lady overlooked all that and was having unprotected sex with him, if truly she saw all those bad things in this man but was still having unprotected sex with him , do you think she will say no to him if he told her he was married? I don't understand why was she with that man in the first place, this lady purposely got pregnant for that man no doubt

This is a self inflicted injury, you saw all those bad characters in that man but you were constantly having sex with him, you say you are not desperate for marriage neither are you a gold digger, my question is why have unprotected sex with a man like that?

It will take a little miracle or luck from the god of soccer for those girls to beat the French girls

ImaIma1:
Environment really matters.

Only a timid and unexposed guy thinks like this

So what's really the problem with these girls that finds it difficult to keep a mutual conversation for 5 minutes with a guy? Gets annoyed with simple mutual questions?

missimelda01:
Get a girlfriend? Was that part a mistake?

Help me ask am o

ibkayee:
*hugs*

Is that all

Adonko:
you have said it bro, that colour is a bomb...I was dated that type of babe with welcoming hips and backside.. She be wan kill me with demands Na I leave am oooo

Hahaha na slay queen you date ni
Me I go for the one's that are natural not those ones with long nails long wig long eyelashes with painted faces o

Lol how many buckets of water did he use to wet his body

dairykidd:
Shid man.Sorry if my words came out the wrong way. I was just stereotyping ignorantly... Salute man

No problems bro thanks, the tiv guy that told u about tiv people didn't tell you deeply

dairykidd:
Thanks for the information btw are u tiv?

My mom is tiv I was born there

dairykidd:
Wow!!! I have learnt something new today... Congo u say? Hmm Congo no wonder. I

The tiv people are from the Bantu ethnic group from Congo yes Congo

dairykidd:
So u mean the Tiv have different types.. i thought its just the Tivs , Idomas and Igedes abi correct me bro so inside tiv, tiv dey?

Yes inside tiv there different groups of tiv or should I say different clans that do things differently though they are from same descendent but things changed along the line the tiv people are originally from Congo their journey from Congo to Cameroon to Benue valley changed a lot of things from their culture Even the language they started off with tiv people were very strong warriors they conquered and enslaved many little little tribes they met on their migration journey those tribes they enslaved became part of tiv by enslavement corrupting the culture and original tiv language they started of with so they are not generally the same in behaviour and culture they are divided in parts but all decedents of chongo and ipusuu the original tiv ancestors

dairykidd:
You may be right tho but Abuja make me dey fear to serious with them sha.. but like i said they can be very nice to u and caring... Those girls were there for me when things were rough from eating to fvcking and even flexing... Babe go take me go club & give me her money to hold and dey spend like its mine .This one works with a bank and isn't an olosho but she's loose especially when she's high another one that almost ruined my life with TM she & one Kaduna girl combo are not oloshoes but they are fvcking loose, A junior staff then that was like a boy to me his young mom very beautiful if them tell u say she done born that boy of about 19 yrs u go deny. I almost ate the forbidden food once again she's no olosho but has a business she runs and married to an igbo man who ran away because of the same matter, another one who works at the airport and is well paid beautiful tiv girl na she dey hang me if i go her house steady, I can go on and on even as i no dey Abj again dey still call me asking when i'm coming back .. I met one in lekki recently tho but nothing happened sha probably i no get time like before that's why.. So u mean Yakua, makua & pakua is a myth I doubt that bro but u may be right too

Like I said tiv girls are not usually after money when they are involved with a guy, they are very kind are caring hospitable, but like I said if you judge and generalize there loose behavior by the once u met outside Benue especially the once in Abuja you are wrong, and if you know the tiv people well you will know that even the tiv culture is divided it's not the same the hyrev tiv people found in gwe gew west and some part of nasarawa behave differently from the pkarev tiv people found in gboko or kwande tiv people or the shitile tiv, even the tiv language is spoken differently with mixed words and different accents depending on the part of tiv they come from marriage is conducted differently amongst them, so this yakua makua kpakua might be from the hyrev tiv people cause they are considered unwise set of tiv people

dairykidd:
Bro i don't detest them, as a matter of fact i used to have lots of them as friends at one time but i found something common with them... They can fvck anybody and everybody so long as ur willing enough and they have no problem with that. There will definitely be exceptions to this tho but from my experience i can't take a girl from that part seriously. A tiv guy told me that its embedded in their culture/ tradition and as a stranger to their land they welcome u with 3 things Yakua (food) , Makua (Alcohol) and Pakua (fvcking). I have constantly put this to the test and it never fails... u can try with any if u find urself in their midst. I didn't know of these people until i was in Abuja. But one thing about their girls is that they can be very very caring once they like u, that is if u like being pampered and ready to overlook the other side

Bro if you are judging this by the group of tiv girls you met in Abuja then you are wrong, cause 90% of the young tiv girls that left Benue for Abuja go there purposely for prostitution Abuja is always their destination cause it's closer, and they are more United there between themselves, saying they f*ck anybody and everybody like they got no choice it's wrong, yes tiv people are hospitable people no doubt they treat strangers well they feed you, give you drinks, and allow you to freely go out with any tiv girl you want without looking at you as a stranger, but this thing of tiv people entertaining their guest with their wife's and sisters is a lie, no tiv person will welcome you with sex, a typical tradition of the tiv people is this yakau nawa mgbian ( eat and give to a brother) tiv people are not stingy with anything concerning food in those days tiv people dont eat inside their rooms they eat outside so that they can invite any passerby to join them any tiv man that ate food indoors those days was considered a stingy man, they willingness of a tiv girl to have sex with you it's a personal one not general they are not different from other tribes, just that when a tiv girl loves you they don't consider material things as anything

dairykidd:
its all written here bro check am... Just my experience tho and i'm speaking for myself no hating

I want to hear your experience bro

dairykidd:
Well so long as she's not a Tiv or Egbirra no wahala

What do you know about these two tribes?

QueenSekxy:
Are you alright?
Always talking from hallucinations.

Girls with this features exist o

AmazonTopaz:
I never did

Thanks, you belong to the NL ladies forever Amazons?

AmazonTopaz:
Indeed.
Whatever makes you happy bye bye.

But am a one man one woman type of guy don't get it twisted

AmazonTopaz:
That definition I gave had nothing to do with romantic love.
You are just one person not two persons you connect with your other half not your other halves.
I hope this answers your question?

There is nothing like a half man and a half woman love is just a mind thing, the mind is strong enough to connect to multiple minds

AmazonTopaz:
I believe love is about putting others before yourself.
Which is a part of our humanity.

Can't you put two people before yourself? Is that impossible

Adonko:
The ebony dark lady I just discovered my new taste for dark ladies but on one condition that she has a good and big backside don't do bones.

Dark brown skin girls have always been my taste since my teens, let her be curvy little chubby with petite boobs and average apple butts, my perfect taste

BLUEJAYY:
Didn't even realize you were male when I posted. Thought I'd played a trick on some female.

BLUEJAYY:
Damn! you ruined the lyrics to Haddaway's What is love.

Oh it didn't cross my mind, was thinking i got a gay crush or something