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Preshy561:
His business.

So what exactly will you be doing involving yourself with multiple guys in the name of relationship?

Preshy561:
Are you serious? Why should I sleep with someone that isn't married to me?

If I wanted to do that, I will do it cos of fun not cos of pay back, I didn't force you to pay those bills. You did it willingly.

Lol why will a guy give you something without expecting anything in return you are not his sister you know?

Preshy561:
True. Emeka for sub, tunde for food, Olaniyi for weavons and clothing.

Utilise your youthful age now that you still have the chance.

And when all these guys finally slacks and expand the opening in between your thighs to a wide ditch, what will be left for the man who marries you? Just asking for a friend

lilwetdick:
and where did i write that i was a youtuber?

It seems you do not understand the content of the write up, next time read before commenting emotionally.

I understand the content pretty well, just saying you will excel in it, since you claim to know more than the actual Nigerian YouTubers

Ilamina:


No money to buy McDonald's

Apply to work at McDonald instead

smadav:
Bro for me to come nairaland seeking advice no be joke now, for real I did no hurt her we started asking friends before the flings, OK I asked her if she want me to take sniper and die just to know how angry she, but to my surprise she said no I should not try it oh but she must deal with me.

Hmmm oh so you two are, still communicating fine fine, guy you can still sweet talk her out of this mess it's possible, tell her you are falling in love with her since the incident, from her response u will find a weak point to hit and make her submit, don't act tough act vulnerable like a guy in love, love kindness softness is the best gimmick in situations like this

Why are the shakers looking so happy in the picture

Beautiful,

smadav:
Bro as am talking to u I don beg her 20k she no gree, she just wanna Mess me up, according to her for playing with her

Really? She turned down 20k hmm I guess it's not about money anymore, op are you sure you didn't hurt her?

Op since you know all these why not take advantage of Nigerians laziness and lack of knowledge, outsmart them, build a YouTube channel and gain millions of subscribers yourself

Guy but you cheated na she agreed for two rounds at the price of 5k cause you fooled her you always cum quickly , since it took longer than that you should have just paid her the money,
My advice to you is call her beg her, and give her extra 5k

boyfwend:
I never expected it! I thought this shot was never going to be fired at me. First time being in a relationship, all my life. I only wanted to do what my mates are doing. I'm already 19, I thought maybe this is a perfect time to have someone close enough to me.

There is this girl I've been running parol with some couple of months ago.
It all ended yesterday night...
Caught her cheating me with two other guys.
Worst of it, she is not ready to apologize after I confronted her about it yesterday night.

I'm regretting my actions, because I've so much invested on her to the extend of planning our future together.

This is a girl I promised never to have sex with, and I didn't.

Now she's gone and still haven't called me since morning to apologize.

I'm the only one feeling this pains now.


No. I am not going to harm myself.
Please don't blame me, this is my first time.

I just need a reasonable way on how to overcome this pains.

Welcome to adulthood son, the pains, are normal it teaches you a lot of things about life, take your mind off her the pains will go away sooner or later, we all passed through it

He will eat when his ready

You don't have to marry him, tell his parents and keep the baby, no one will force you to marry him, at least his parents will be paying for child support even if the guy doesn't want

Marialavina now see this and tell me a man is not more dangerous than an animal

I don't support her keeping multiple males friends to extort money from them like she claims guys don't give girls money for free

But on the thing of her playfully saying she will slap you etc I will say you two don't really understand each other, true lovers are also best of friends playmates
You two are not just compatible so no need of you two being together

[quote author=aseosa post=79133960][/quote]And you feel your butts are not pretty enough I guess, well don't bother not all guys are sucker for butts

aseosa:
To me i feel strech marks are pretty and for some people say its disgusting and am asking you all.

Can you marry a pretty lady with strech marks on her butt.

Do you have stretch marks?

Not a fan of light skin girls

liberalchick:
I agree. However, it’s beginning to change though. More women are increasingly starting to recognize their self worth, hence the backlash from men.

Same way it's beginning to change in women recognizing their self worth, men are changing too accepting the fact that, women are worth more than what our culture and religion made of them

AmazonTopaz:
Maybe

Waiting for your second thread of how some Nigerian ladies have low self-esteem then :

AmazonTopaz:
I agree same goes for our men who not only lack self esteem are insecure and lack self confidence.
I have adressed it in my post.

So it's a 50/50 thing

Op I guess they just scammed you abi

AmazonTopaz:
That one is a topic for another day the focus in on men.
Maybe women have high self esteem because they are well trained than boys.

Nigerian women Don't have high self-esteem, the training they got from their parents even contributes to their low self-esteem, most of them don't know their worth, marrying a rich man is an ultimate achievement for most of them in life, they see themselves as weaker vessels like their religion make believe, they see men as superior, even those women richer than men, give men money to pay for their bride price, to show they are under a man, the problem is right from the African culture and religion

AmazonTopaz:
I am writing this based on some of the comments I read on this forum by males as regards female issues.
The african society focuses on training females more than males. They teach girls how to be good wives and mothers and they forget to train our boys on how to be good husbands and fathers.
I believe the average Nigerian man (some) are insecure, have low self esteem and lack self confidence hence why they derive pleasure in insulting women. Sometimes I wonder who raised these boys that they believe their manhood is validated by a woman subjecting herself to him and allowing him be the alpha and omega of her life. That is why a lot of them are obsessed with the word "submission", "captain" and "head of the house title".
A man with confidence, high self esteem would not be obsessed in wanting to control a full grown woman in 2019 who basically has the same rights as he does.
It is insecurity, lack of self esteem and self confidence that makes a man feel intimidated by a sucessful and independent woman.It is due to lack of self esteem that they want to feel on top or over a woman.
They believe their gender or sex makes them lord over every woman. They are obsessed with authority, power and do not know how to be leaders.
They feel it is okay to slut shame sucessful women call ladies despicable names and you wonder if these men have sisters or mothers.
They feel it is okay to lord over a full grown adult and that such adult(women) cannot be a partner but a subordinate.

I believe some of these men raised in Nigeria have personal issues that they need to deal with on their own before bringing an unfortunate woman to share in such misery and clean up their mess.
I blame society's double standard that fails to hold men accountable as much as women are held accountable maybe then this self entitlement mentality, the view of women as commodities and superiority complex would be a thing of the past.Our men need exposure and enlightenment. I hope we raise better boys to become good men in the future and not just women alone.

Nigerian women do they have high self-esteem?

Lol A.I.T Don suffer for Buhari regime

This is the type of cult Charles Manson was running before he was arrested in 1969, women are easily manipulated with sex money and soft words, those ladies murdered and did a lot of devilish things for Charles Manson

NwanyiOkpa:
This is no longer funny as i have come across 4 girls who claimed their first sex experience was a rape. Is this the latest technique girls use so that they won't be seen as bad people?

I don't know if this is just me. Have you also come across a girl who claimed so?

A lot of typical Nigerian girls will never verbally consent to sex even though they want it they will always say no, no when a guy makes the move, for fear of been called a cheap girl they always play that hard to get game, though that mentality is gradually changing back in those days, when a girl says no she means yes, if she says no and you don't go ahead to do it, they will call you a fool behind your back, this same type of ladies are now claiming rape victims

Is that all?