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A lot of kids who grew up in fenced house not allowed to go out and associate with other kids become this way in adulthood

Adaibeku:
i hope you are not omenlalives
...i heard he ran enugu during jukun invasion

Cc immhotep Lzaa afamed deomelo cyynthiakiss

Lol I have no idea of who that person is, jukun invasion were when? Left Benue since 1997 been in Jos since then though I visit time to time but only makurdi and gboko or I go straight to my mom's village in adipko kwande mostly for burials

Adaibeku:
Tanks so where ar u now ornee?

Am in Enugu, spent most of my growing ups in Benue and plateau state never really had that relationship with my people back home in Enugu so now that am a man I feel its right I return home to my people and learn about my people, especially the Igbo language

AmazonTopaz:
Oyibo men are better men na
African men just have issues.

Lol but you know vasectomy is irreversible even if it is the possibility is just 5% a white man can easily adopt a child if he wants more kids but an African man they don't like adoption

Michellekabod2:
I am proudly a feminist,yes! The only threat some daft dudes(especially Nairaland guys) use against us is that we will not get married....
First,that is a wrong notion. Second,assuming that is true and girls decide not to marry for the sake of feminism, they will still sham us like it's compulsory to be married. Guys have a way of determining what is good for themselves and taking charge of their lives and at the same time they don't want ladies to determine what is good for themselves and to take charge of their lives; they want to control their lives and ladies lives.They set up a tribunal to decide what is acceptable for a lady.
You see guys getting offended when ladies specifically state they will not settle for a guy who isn't rich. But they themselves will proudly say they will not marry non virgins.
Humans are entitled to what they want.
A guy can give his list of requirements from a lady before marriage: beautiful,tall,fair, virgin,industrious, excellent cook, respectful et al. But when a girl gives her list: handsome,rich,tall et Al ,you hear people saying "ah! You will remain single then!".

Ok, enough blaming of a guy..ladies aren't clean as well...
Ladies feel they can eat their cake and have it,they cherrypick alot....
When feminism suits them they cling to it,and when it's against their favor they cry foul. That is why you find many wannabe feminist crying "we are ladies na" when it comes to financial contributions!.


Let me show you what feminism is:

1) The word "fat" should not be used on only ladies, the "watch it on, you are adding weight o" should not be used on only ladies.
2) Except your date offers to foot the bills, you should split the bills on outings,movies and dinners. He pays for his,you pay for yours!
3) if a lady slaps a man in public, he has all right to slap back without anyone saying "you aren't supposed to hit a woman no matter what".... Isn't it equality you want?
4) it's not her duty to clean your house or cook for you when she visits, except she doesn't it voluntarily.
5) it's not your duty to send her money except voluntarily.
6) the "sleeping around" tags should not be used for females only. Any guy who fuucks ladies is a h0e as well...
7) if your lady ever hits you, you are in an abusive relationship, flee! You are been abused!
if a lady ever gropes your manhood or nipples without your consent,you are sexually abused! Take the case up for molestation! You shouldn't be grateful for been exploited sexually....act the way she will act if the reverse were the case.
9)what she wants to drink ain't your business, except off course you are paying for it. If she wants to drink alcohol,you have no right to sham or tag her...
10) what she does with her body ain't your business! If she has sex, don't tag her cheap because you also don't have respect for your body for giving it out to a lady.
11) hygiene is for both genders, i get irritated when I hear people say "she is a lady, why isn't she neat?"
12) when a public vehicle breaks down,both abled males and females should push the vehicle!
13) They say no one can stand a disrespectful lady, but i say no one can stand a disrespectful Human
14) All levys or dues or financial contributions should be equal! Men shouldn't pay more...
15) The tag "broke" shouldn't be used only on guys....they should be "broke girls" as well... Any individual who is financially down is broke!
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How about men paying for bride price,? Should women pay for groom price to balance it 50/50?

AmazonTopaz:
Yes, Men should do vasectomy

White men do vasectomy but an African man can never do that I have a friend female friend who is married to a white man they have only two kids the man didn't vasectomy to ease his wife from taking contraceptives

I don't believe it

Adaibeku:
Am nt speaking wt u ,

Oh ur mama be dookwasi doogido frm kwande ba,
Ur fada is Enugu ,u be igbo ok

Lol u have a funny accent u try sha

Adaibeku:
I can speak fluently , woow kwande

Actually, mama wam ka kwase sha kwande baba wam ka or Igbo shin Enugu

Adaibeku:
So u be tiv

Obeseh ,upa ndeeve

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Lol since u love tiv people so much and even answer the name mimidoo aoundofa I assume u can speak tiv, yes am very fluent in tiv language I was born in adipko kwande

Adaibeku:
At d bold ,Amatarasha will conquer at cutting off dicks ,

But these we arent dishing out deep insults ,we and u guys are having fun , but d problms here is d Mods .most of dem are .......
One of dem is khiaa

like you said
Y not say stress ,acute migraine and depression because am nt far frm it ,cos they just stole my big generator

Don't take it on the mods hun the kin ban wey I Don receive in my short period on NL no be here, torkwase u tiv lu a bemshima

Adaibeku:
I av 10 tiv , 7taraba n 3 igbo girls working under me ,i pay on due date ,
So tell me where is d low esteem ? U ar a smallboi finally

Y not say stress ,acute migraine and depression because am nt far frm it ,cos they just stole my big generator

Wealthy people struggle with low self-esteem too hope you know that?

Adaibeku:
See this one hmmmmmmm
U get badmouth sha!
But cant you see injustice meted on this ladies ,dont you have feelings at all...we are one here dis segregation n anti-feminism should be reviewed am not joking

The guys are not totally to be blamed on how you ladies are treated here, cause many of you are verbal warriors most of you derive pleasure in insulting guys spitting in there faces making them feel worthless my crush Amatarash is a champion at it with many trophies, why can't u all act with a true feminine nature, soft, kind ,sweet ,lovely remember women conquer strong men with love not violence, ask king Solomon and Samson

luminouz:
As in,I'm totally confused on what dafuq is happening o...I just saw my moniker up there!!!!

Bro no mind them o they are only strong on NL in real life they are struggling with low self-esteem

Adaibeku:
As i said b4 ,i dont talk much!
In ur wildest dream,u can believe u ar stronger dan d weakest feminine

Omg what influence are you group of ladies under, if you ladies at that strong we should hear of you outside NL I guess you all are just verbally strong las las una all go end up under a man begging to be loved equally

These Amazons are Stronger than Any Man Alive
Adaibeku really? The weed you group of ladies are taking to boost your self-esteem has crippled your human sense of reasoning

lilianofentse:
doing all these without confidence still amounts to nothing. At the end of the day he still goes home sad knowing that he just put up a show. Confidence is what he needs to work on. My opinion

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Someone without confidence won't even argue with anyone

LilMissFavvy:
I was not complaining about the ''message'' I was complaining about the ''messenger'' who is delivering the message. He should advice himself first as a married MOG concerning adultery, before blabbing on single girls.

Hmm are u saying cause he did those things in the past he has no right to preach against it now, who knows he has repented, apostle Paul preached against things he once did right?

Hmmm ok

I think something is wrong with me, am too lazy to read long thread on NL especially here in romance section

Never went to boarding school, my school was only for day students so my friend hired a one room apartment close to the school cause he wasn't from that town , hmm we did a lot of stuff there with junior students sha sometimes we will go for break and won't return till closing hours

It can't be alcohol he did it for money rituals , if he has money to drink he can as well pay a prostitute for sex

missimelda01:
I really don't care if it's true or not... In the appropriate time, my husband will find me


In the main time, I'm busy searching for money

Men are getting weary of searching and finding Biko women should take over

He is right

Lies

Girls dig a hole in the in ground when they squat down to pee boys can't do that

derrydinny:
and which law states that it I only the man that should make the conversation lively?


but the man f up true true, wtf is what does gloria likes to do?

He didn't say what she likes to do, he asked what she does for a living

Amatarasha:
see you yeye

Lol sorry na, but the resemblance though

The real great men

Is that not Amatarasha Biko come and explain