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Niwdog:
confidential

I want to know

Niwdog:
where are you from?
Benue or markurdi

Why do you ask this question?

In tiv land things like these happen especially those short short demons with horsehoofs are everywhere in tiv land

Thiwalade:
First off, I'm not a misogynist but a typical Nigerian feminist is often as a result of
1. Bad childhood/families (mostly igbos, I'm not a bigot as well just my observation).

2. Failure in relationships especially meeting the wrong guys....

Etc.

Here are some tips on having a successful relationship with your "Nigerian feminist"

We all know women need money always, so Money is a constant factor in any successful relationship.

1. The most important tool you need in a relationship with a typical Nigerian feminist is "MANIPULATION". If you can't be manipulative, you can't get a feminist to do things. You have to learn to use subtle tricks to keep her doing things she wouldn't normally. Cook for her once and watch her cook for the rest of her life. Clean the house once and watch her do it all the time by simply suggesting it to her. You need this trick as long as you are in the relationship.

2. From my experience so far, feminist like being in control, give her a false sense of control when you're actually the one in charge of the relationship by being in control of your emotions. Make it seem like she's found a good man, make her fall in love completely with you, then take a step back and watch her do crazy things for you.

3. Never demand for respect, Sex or other things, subtly suggests it to her, make it seem like her idea. This is particularly effective when the relationship is budding.

4. Have rules, early on in the relationship not when it's too late. Show her how to treat you, don't be afraid to let her know when she's wrong.

5. A Nigeria feminist will often ask where you stand on certain issues regarding feminism, try to take a middle ground (especially on sensitive issues that keep women under men), never support inhumane activities.

Feel free to add yours.

Can you give me the definition of the word feminists?

They are Evans brothers, not Fulani herdsmen, were are the cows

Mrbrownjay1 these right here is one of the reasons, my school of thought is like this, it's a free world you can do whatever you like as long as you are strong and smart enough to get away with it

eni4real:
You were making a good point until that girl distracted you with her beauty

Hahaha her beauty is worth the distraction Biko
Radiant1020 my heart beats for you my Fulani beauty am ready to collect 1000 strokes of canes for you

eni4real:
Na dem

Na dem who?

nairalanduseles:
There is nothing wrong....your mum is jealous and insecure ... . Don't let it stress you

Add me on WhatsApp send me a private mssg let's chat

You want to help the man carry his daughter on your laps ni

Killing should not divide us, then what should? Why are we forcing ourselves to live together when clearly we know we don't like each other

Radiant1020:
Chai! I'm seeing things on nairaland
Don't tell me your body will respond to your daughters'

The d*ck nerves response to physical touches and stand erect that's why it is possible to drug and rape a man in his sleep

You truly are a radiant beauty love those sexy eyes

AJ is always smiling

MrBrownJay1:
Let me disagree with what you are saying as...A) so long as anything is against the law/illegal, I will always stand against it, B) the reason why so many people are dying today is because of your school of thought. I guess in your world, if your wife can cheat on you and get away with it (while giving you deadly diseases) then you have no problem with living with a deceitful/untrustworthy/unfaithful woman, Abi?

But most importantly, C) Wrong is WRONG no matter how you want to "pretend" to look at it (or whether people get away with it or not) ... But then, I guess in your world, wrong is now right.

Do you know what our leaders, governors senators, president did to put them in that position? They cheated, deceived and even killed to get there, there are many billionaires and millionaires out there do you think they worked hard to make those billions without ever cheating someone, nothing will harm you as long as you see it coming whether you did something wrong or right it doesn't matter, what you might see as wrong another person might see as right, yes in my world My wife might cheat without me knowing, I have no power of her, I might not like it if I know about it but what can I do? the highest I can do is divorce her, you might disagree with me but in reality it is what it is, it's a free world you can do whatever you want as long as you are strong enough and smart enough to get away with it, you talk about death everyone must die eventually whether you did right or wrong you must die, so death is not punishment cause good people die more often than bad people

MrBrownJay1:
And there are equally twice that amount who died trying...or are living while being disfigured.



I didn't even know I was talking to a woman.... But then again, your gender doesn't matter here, only common sense does.
But the fact that you are a woman makes it even worst for you because in a sense you are saying that if you ain't satisfying your husband, he certainly should cheat on you.



If a man has a desire to have multiple wives AND can support them all emotionally/financially and physically. Who are you to call him greedy? That would be as crazy as saying that a man with multiple cars/houses is greedy because others can afford even one?!

I am sorry but I fail to understand your school of thought....so women are so dumb today that they can't think for themselves, thus are forced into these miserable polygamous Union (against their will) but then again, suddenly when they are not being sexually satisfied, they suddenly become strong minded women and decide to cheat....and you see absolutely nothing wrong with that?! Why don't they get strong minded and simply say no to these useless miserable marriage?!



You can't be playing two side of this discussion.... You either say that women are weak human beings governed by men (thus they abide by these men's rules) OR you say that women are strong enough to decide what they want for their (sexual) life by cheating, but if that was the case they wouldn't be in such a miserable union with their grandpas, to begin with. You can't be weak And strong at the same time (whenever it fits your agenda). In my world, this is called being a hypocrite.

Like I said is a free world everyone is free to do whatever he or she likes as long as they are smart enough to get away with it