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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Mcy56(f): 9:35am On Jul 16, 2019
biGDhAp:
so my daughter sits on my laps and i'll be having erection,then i must be havind some mental disorder. i mean who does that .
i guess the females are always right on one thing most males are pervert..
@ the bolded, plenty men nowadays.
Lots of perverts roaming the street. News of this abound in the media. It's disheartening really!

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by chudi1: 9:37am On Jul 16, 2019
On your husband's laps should you sit when ever you are married ok.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by farady(m): 9:37am On Jul 16, 2019
In the first place, your mum knows why she did that. Only she knows your dad's weakness around women.

It shows a level of bonding and affection when kids sit on their parents laps. There are many adults today that their daddy especially never carried them on their laps.

However, as a girl grows up into puberty, the sitting on the laps is done with some decency. For example in this your case, if you had just greeted him as you came and sat on his laps briefly, that would be viewed as decent and morally appreciate. But if is not brief and longer than necessary it is wrong. A morally sound dad would even jokely tell you 'its okay, don't come and break my thighs, abi u want your mum to be jealous, abeg get up and get me a glass of water' . The daughter will smartly decode and understand. It is only an irresponsible dad that would allow grown up girl to sit on his laps and be gisting and watching TV.

There are not fast rules though.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by jaxxy(m): 9:38am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:
Please Did I Commit Any Crime?

Ok so I came home cos we've closed for the semester. And in the evening I came into the living room and saw dad sitting on the couch watching TV so I sat on his laps. then mum walks in and pulls me by my ear and tells me never to sit on Dad's laps again.

I felt very bad and angry. did I commit any crime if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.

Nothing is wrong bt if ure mum doesn't like it just stop it or don't do it unnecessarily. As a grown up u don't need to sit on ur dad's leg like ure still a kid.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Nobody: 9:40am On Jul 16, 2019
ScotMisile:
If the man manifests his manhood nauuu.... It is you that will shout my father raped me...

grin grin grin grin grin grin

These women don't know that the dicck has a mind of its own and doesn't take instructions from its owner

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by shogsman(m): 9:42am On Jul 16, 2019
He is not your real father or your mum is overly protective.I repeat no man with His senses wired right will have a boner because when his kid sits on his laps.
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by annyberry(f): 9:43am On Jul 16, 2019
My dear u did notin wrong,na ur mama no wetin dey worry her,not every guy tink wit his manhood,even bf dose not get moved wen dere babe sit on dere laps.....

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Rubyventures: 9:43am On Jul 16, 2019
@ OP your mum knows best please listen to her, times have changed, there is nothing wrong in sitting on your dad's laps but your mum has her reasons, she doesn't have to explain herself to you all the time. 'what an adult can see far away with their eyes closed, a child cannot see it even if they climb up'. You shouldn't have brought this to a public forum.
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by ernwale(m): 9:44am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:

everyone isn't a pervert. besides I used to sit on his laps when I was much younger. that's what family bonding is all about right?

Why did you seek public opinions when you knew you won't listen?

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by archangel1(m): 9:45am On Jul 16, 2019
psychlogically ,when you attain a certain age, certain things should change. Apart from sexual temptation as many may be insinuating, you need a little detachment from your dad unless you don't want to marry quick or feel for another man to form your own marital home.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by DelilahMakinde(f): 9:45am On Jul 16, 2019
You did nothing wrong dear.

I sit on my daddy's laps all the time.

*But he's not really my father..
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 9:46am On Jul 16, 2019
Sonfethopia:
My dear there is more to it, it's either your mom dont trust ur dad. As for me i will play with all my.female.kids like they are my girlfriends.

Sex will never come to my.mind. i sleep in same.bed with my sister at times.

This is very funny!!!
This generation is too poor for that!!!
Innocence is fading...

It is better to maintain a gender gap with one's daughter!!

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 9:47am On Jul 16, 2019
spiceadole:


Your mother reacted properly.
No reasonable mother should allow her daughter ,no matter how young,sit on any man's lap including her brothers,uncles,cousins and even her biological father.
Yes!
The world is evolving.
Men are now taking pleasure in commiting what used to be serious abomination.

Take heed.you are not a child.
Incest is real.
Don't be a victim.
The world will blame you and your mother
And take sides with your father,giving the excuse that he is a man ,men are moved by what they see,polygamous in nature,bla bla bla.
No matter how young ke
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by city2city: 9:48am On Jul 16, 2019
Young Lady, Please let the dead bury their dead.
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Philpham: 9:48am On Jul 16, 2019
Because Nigerian men are rapists. She is just being cautious

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by frleopardo: 9:49am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:
Please Did I Commit Any Crime?

Ok so I came home cos we've closed for the semester. And in the evening I came into the living room and saw dad sitting on the couch watching TV so I sat on his laps. then mum walks in and pulls me by my ear and tells me never to sit on Dad's laps again.

I felt very bad and angry. did I commit any crime if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.
After thinking of this I came to about five possible reasons
1. Mummy might just be jealous: dad's laps belong to her alone.
2.Mummy might be having a quarrel with daddy and did that to spite him.
3.He might not be your biological father.
4.Mummy might just be trying to send a message indirectly, that you are now a fully grown woman and on no account must you sit on a Man's laps except he's your husband.
5.Mummy might have noticed some philandering traits in your dad recently and wanted to avoid a situation where daddy got tempted to flirt with his daughter.
All in all, I think you should ask them. Get to the root of the matter; there's something you might discover/learn.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Renegadefrank(m): 9:49am On Jul 16, 2019
Go talk with your mum. A heart to heart. Let her know how you felt. She knows her man and is looking out for you/ trying to avoid funny stories.
Her pulling your ears means she expects you to know better. Nonetheless, she could have called you out calmly on it.
Finally, try not to make it a habit of discussing trivial family issues outside your family. Loads of problems can arise from it(emphasis on the "can") Good luck

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Sonfethopia: 9:49am On Jul 16, 2019
eni4real:
This is very funny!!!
This generation is too poor for that!!!
Innocence is fading...

It is better to maintain a gender gap with one's daughter!!

Not me. No woman can ask my daughters not to sit on my lap
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Mcy56(f): 9:50am On Jul 16, 2019
RulerIAm:
One lady once told me she's scared to live her 2 young daughters with their father alone let alone with an uncle. So you see.
It's also advisable not to allow a man bath your baby girl, be it uncle, dad or any male. They shouldn't clean for them after defecating.
It's meant to protect the girl-child from any sexual assault.
The world is really going cra.zy and female children are mostly at the receiving end of this sexual molestation.
Its better to prevent than be sorry.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 9:51am On Jul 16, 2019
Graduateacher:



There are many sick people.
And those sick people are majorly men??

It is not about being sick, it is just a moral etiquette suitable for this generation!!!

Gender gap must be maintained between Father's and daughters
And Mothers should not dress up in the presence of his son however young he is..

This is a 21st /Pornography century

Sad but true!!!
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Damfostopper(m): 9:52am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:

everyone isn't a pervert. besides I used to sit on his laps when I was much younger. that's what family bonding is all about right?
they are trying to correct u and ur still blabbing...... next time UnCloth in his presence na

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by AgentOfAllah: 9:54am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:
Please Did I Commit Any Crime?

Ok so I came home cos we've closed for the semester. And in the evening I came into the living room and saw dad sitting on the couch watching TV so I sat on his laps. then mum walks in and pulls me by my ear and tells me never to sit on Dad's laps again.

I felt very bad and angry. did I commit any crime if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.
You have not given enough information to contextualise the situation. For example, was there anything to suggest to your mom that this was a sexual gesture or was it just that you innocuously sat on his laps?

However, I will assume positive intentionality on your part and offer that there is nothing inherently wrong with sitting on your father's laps.
Your mom is wrong to sexualise your relationship with your father. By so doing, she has casually objectified you and your father to one dimensional beings whose singular motives is sexual. This can be forever injurious to all of you, but especially you, as a young woman since her message now is that there is no man in your life, not even your father, whom you can trust and feel safe with. It will also deny you the opportunity to experience the full range of your platonic affection for your parents, which is unfortunate. I still struggle to express my affection to my parents because of these kinds of unnecessary barriers. Perhaps the most damaging effect of her action is that it feeds into the prevailing culture of toxic masculinity that victimises women and forces men to project a false image of the disaffectionate, malevolent sexual predator.

I would give you the advantages of her actions, but I frankly see none. If anyone knows any, let me know.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 9:54am On Jul 16, 2019
Sonfethopia:


Not me. No woman can ask my daughters not to sit on my lap
If she is still young, I don't see anything bad. But once she cross 15 years, you have to stop it so that your wife will not be paranoid about it...

This is a 21st/ pornography century

Sad but true!!!

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by friendl: 9:57am On Jul 16, 2019
As a young adult lady ,you only sit on a male leg that you agreed to have sex with (it is a proverb in my place)during our traditional marriages ,a lady is counted seven times on a man leg,means approval for sex.

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Isoduwa(m): 9:58am On Jul 16, 2019
From laps to the bedroom
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Nobody: 9:59am On Jul 16, 2019
It means just one thing; you are not his daughter.
Apologies for breaking your heart.
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 9:59am On Jul 16, 2019
maxiuc:
My sister sits on my laps

My sister sometimes UnCloth when I am around but knowing that I am not supposed to be there I will just walk away

My sister we grew up together took bath as kids together even when she was 18 with her boobs pooping we still groove togther

Self discipline the key
That is not proper shocked shocked

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Deepfeel(m): 9:59am On Jul 16, 2019
nairalanduseles:
There is nothing wrong....your mum is jealous and insecure ... . Don't let it stress you

Add me on WhatsApp send me a private mssg let's chat
You want to help the man carry his daughter on your laps ni undecided
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by TANID(m): 10:00am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:
[b]if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.
You Should Sit On My Laps Rather. grin

Seriously You Mom Did The Right Thing At The Right Time.
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Olajenyo: 10:01am On Jul 16, 2019
Hmm
Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by eni4real(m): 10:01am On Jul 16, 2019
Deepfeel:

The d*ck nerves response to physical touches and stand erect that's why it is possible to drug and rape a man in his sleep

You truly are a radiant beauty kiss love those sexy eyes
Na dem shocked

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Re: I Sat On My Father's Laps, My Mum Walked In And Warned Me by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 16, 2019
asdfjklhaha:
Please Did I Commit Any Crime?

Ok so I came home cos we've closed for the semester. And in the evening I came into the living room and saw dad sitting on the couch watching TV so I sat on his laps. then mum walks in and pulls me by my ear and tells me never to sit on Dad's laps again.

I felt very bad and angry. did I commit any crime if I can't sit on my Dad's laps who's laps should I sit on.


OP, with this your beautiful looking face and mature/alluring body that can almost make a man cum while having fantasies about them?


You want to implicate your daddy abi? You want to 'koba' your father? With that your hard yansh angry


Kindly go sit somewhere else angry If not that you are mad and I am not even sorry to say it, I have been keeping my own laps since, waiting for it to be sat on and you went to sit on daddy's laps.


Lemme remind you that this is another daddy here grin C'mon come to daddy and come sit on my laps like a good girl.


Nonsense and tohyorsih2, RiyadhGoddess and OP herself angry

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