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Health › Re: Thinking Of Smoking? See What It Does To Your Body From Your Mouth To Your Lungs by defendedvictim(m): 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2015

doesn't Mara, we puffing away

By d way, WHR is my lighter?

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 28th November 2015 by defendedvictim(m): 7:23pm On Nov 28, 2015

Dis vardy guy looks wicked tho grin

The kinda kingpin wickedness in hollywood

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Manchester United (1 - 1) On 28th November 2015 by defendedvictim(m): 7:01pm On Nov 28, 2015

With d way man u is playing, I wonder how they r still in d top4. Dis vardy again..mtcheew

Politics › Re: #PMBDontbeSilentWork Now Trending On Twitter by defendedvictim(m): 6:15pm On Nov 26, 2015

Pheals:
U must be a prisoner !!! I wonder y U are insulting me... and changing my words... empty skull .. ..U die because of politics la beriii U.. .am free with words so was U... y insulting me. . don't quote me again NEVER IN YOUR LIFE

u realize u don't make much sense here ryt? #jst saying

Romance › Re: Share Your Friend Zone Story. by defendedvictim(m): 11:58am On Nov 26, 2015

jayAjoku:
duuuuuuudeeeeee , mah nigga you were like the bloody gcfr of the friendzone dayum

d amazing thing is dat he is feeling good abt it grin

Romance › Re: An Open Letter To The Nairalander My Boyfriend Cheated On Me With by defendedvictim(m): 9:44pm On Nov 19, 2015

Hehe..open letter kwa. Wonders wil probably never end. U cud save dis writing skill for more profitable ventures biko..#ifyouwroteityourself

Romance › Re: After Sex Proposal by defendedvictim(m): 11:32pm On Nov 17, 2015

..d kinda friends nairalanders have these days eh, I tire

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Romance › Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by defendedvictim(m): 9:29pm On Nov 15, 2015

dovetark:
Yeah, I think so...

u think? Make up ur mind bro; n give urself concrete reasons for ur decision

Romance › Re: Help My Bf Is Pushing Me To Marry Other Suitors by defendedvictim(m): 12:10pm On Nov 15, 2015

There are two things involved..he probably doesn't want to be blamed, if he doesn't marry u at the end. Or, he doesn't feel for u the same way u feel abt him.
The choice of whom to marry is a crucial life decison; so have a heart-to-heart with him with a free mind, to knw why he is encouraging u to marry one of ur suitors. Maybe, then, u wil knw if u both are a team or... #mytwopence

And if u are a team, don't bring down his neck with pressure...afterall, u chose to wait.

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Romance › Re: Help!!! Need Advice On How To Break Up; by defendedvictim(m): 11:53am On Nov 15, 2015

dovetark:
Lol, no matter how serious a situation is, when humor is thrown at me, I can't help but laugh... which I am doing right now. but at the end of the day bro, the problem won't be solved. So you can share an experience on how you ended a relationship with a girl before and I can learn from it. I haven't formally initiated a break up before and that is why I ask.

Same goes to you @Pennah

do u really have to break up?

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Romance › Re: "Hello-challenge" Gone Bad (busted) by defendedvictim(m): 9:19am On Nov 15, 2015

She wouldn't even let you land grin

Christianity Etc › Re: How To Make The Most Benefit Of Your Bible Reading by defendedvictim(m): 9:00am On Nov 15, 2015*

Nice one. I really don't think any verse in the bible is useless; and even d seemingly 'boring' ones contain great lessons, which most of us are yet to find out.
#stay_on_the_word!

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Romance › Re: What's The Most Important Thing Guys Should Focus On Making Money Or Marriage by defendedvictim(m): 3:06pm On Nov 08, 2015

frakdon:
if you think that marriage is all about making kids, then you got it wrong, trust me......

not really sir. Buh kids r essential parts of it

Romance › Re: What's The Most Important Thing Guys Should Focus On Making Money Or Marriage by defendedvictim(m): 12:28pm On Nov 08, 2015

Money first; marriage wil follow. U can't start up a family with an empty pocket. Pity d kids u shall have; money wil give dem a good start to life

Romance › Re: Gay Man Wearing A Wedding Gown:this Life Don Finish Oh by defendedvictim(m): 12:23pm On Nov 07, 2015

Doesn't he feel stupid wearing dat?

Romance › Re: Who's Best @doubledatin...a Guy/ A Girl?? by defendedvictim(m): 12:20pm On Nov 07, 2015

Well, guys get caught easily sha..so, based on known stats, it's d guys

Family › Re: My Thoughts On Flogging Of Children by defendedvictim(op): 12:46pm On Nov 06, 2015

rawpadgin:
maybe they were using bathroom slippers.
did they ever flogged u with twisted wire

hehe..no be small wire

Family › Re: My Thoughts On Flogging Of Children by defendedvictim(op): 12:45pm On Nov 06, 2015

herald9:
This issue has been over flogged.

pun intended abi.. grin

afrikaa:
Trust me! They didnt flog you properly... If you had someone like anty kemi my nursery two teacher then flog you, smh that stubborness is not only going to reset but will be parmently deleted.
Im not a fan of flogging tho, i strongly detest it, but i do knw it does come in handy sometimes. Just like the op said.

anty kemi..she must have flogged u real bad for u to still remember her name from 'donkey' years ago

Romance › Re: Ladies..please Step In!! by defendedvictim(m): 12:32pm On Nov 06, 2015*

thread clearly states, for ladies only.

Lemme just sit in the audience and watch mrcork mumu himself...
No offeeeince undecided

Family › Re: My Thoughts On Flogging Of Children by defendedvictim(op): 10:04pm On Nov 05, 2015

Hehe..i think so too

Tallesty1:
Stop teachers from flogging stubborn and lazy pupils and the next generation will be full of brats.

as odd as it may sound, some of needed dat kind of factory resetting flogging. What works for one might not always work for the other; maybe we could just keep our choices open

EroticAngelina:
Im not a fan of flogging kids.
when I was a child, my parents don't flog me cos flogging me makes me angry. and as stubborn as I am, whenever I'm flogged, it makes me want to do dat bad thing more. I was hot headed. just sit me down and talk/advise me(u can even insult, jx dnt flog me), and I'll stop dat thing.
Flogging in Nigeria z something else. People misinterpret the bible a lot. mtchew

Family › My Thoughts On Flogging Of Children by defendedvictim(op): 9:53pm On Nov 05, 2015

Recently, I have read about many people forbidding teachers from 'beating' their children. It's gradually becoming a trend. I was once a child and I know, d pain I had to endure from my teachers' cane.
I dare say, I have experienced the ugly (not too ugly though) side of whipping, and the cool side of it. 'Whipping' a child might not always yield the desired outcome but it does, more often than not.
Once upon a time, as a primary 2 pupil, my teacher used to flog anyone dat fails the classwork. The number of strokes you receive will be equivalent to the number of questions you failed. My primary 5 teacher adopted the same approach and, consciously or unconsciously, we took our class work serious to avoid the cane. At some point, I was terrible in maths, but the day I failed all maths questions in the classwork and was flogged well, (I even scored 0/5 in the correction), I stepped up my efforts...few years after, I was representing my school in maths competitions. That might not be a good enough instance but flogging isn't all about maiming or leaving permanent damage on children's skin, it's more about correction and discipline.
Alternative discipline is wonderful; but I don't admire where it has gotten the moral standard of some countries. Sometimes, the very parents who make so much noise against teachers using a cane, are busy at work from morning till night. When do they have the time for these children? I had an encounter with one today, and this inspired this write up.
Maybe, we should give these teachers the freedom of 'training' our kids too. These kids are the parents' responsibility, but the fruits of their future action will become the community's responsibility.
Some teachers take out their frustrations on the innocent kids, or maybe, they are naturally wicked; and get to the extreme. Well, it's a 2 way thing. I feel (my opinion), the cane should not be taken from the hands of the teachers. After all, the pestle mama nkechi used to break her husband's head, can actually be used to pound an excellent pounded yam.
#My 2pence

Romance › Re: Oya Make Una Rate My Throw Back Pix by defendedvictim(m): 9:06pm On Nov 05, 2015

So, everyone jst decided to be fine...dats a good one grin

Romance › Re: Does Getting Married A Virgin Guarantee A Successful Marriage by defendedvictim(m): 7:13pm On Nov 04, 2015

Virginity is overrated...virgins may be tagged as being more decent and responsible (by d society, of course), buh u need so much more to have a happy marriage.

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Romance › Re: Is She Still A Virgin? by defendedvictim(m): 6:41pm On Nov 04, 2015

handie:
well, what can I say? D story she told me is, they were nude, dude was romancing her, told Her to let him use his rod to rub over her punny and promised no penetration only to feel a sharp pain there which made her push him away

accident, my broda.

Wats d fuse abt her virginity anyway?
I bet she wil start telling niggas dat she was raped; when she clearly carried her two left legs to a man's house n removed her clothes..wetin remain undecided

Romance › Re: My Aunt Married At 39 by defendedvictim(m): 6:35pm On Nov 04, 2015

Coming from Onila?
Lemme gaan find anoda gist

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Romance › Re: A Lady Posted This On Facebook (daring) -pix by defendedvictim(m): 7:05pm On Nov 03, 2015

#chewingmypopcorn

So, u people have spoil like dis abi grin

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Romance › Re: Who Invented The Popular Nigerian Relationship Slogan "Have You Eaten" ??? by defendedvictim(m): 10:48pm On Nov 02, 2015

Agreed...d question is lame sometimes. Creative conversations abound; n can even begin with d 'have u eaten' shi, buh doing it all day, everyday is outright boring.

Errmm, op, have u eaten?

Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe And Her Daughter At The Premiere Of "The Victims", Her Movie (Photos by defendedvictim(m): 6:31pm On Nov 02, 2015

D girl is pretty ryt? She is learning all d wrong things ryt?

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Celebrities › Re: 5 Things You May Not Know About Nigeria - Ali Baba by defendedvictim(m): 4:12pm On Nov 02, 2015

Cool stats; buh nigeria is broke sha o. Money aint flowing as it used to.

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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Brazil: FIFA U-17 World Cup Quarter Finals (3 - 0) Live by defendedvictim(m): 10:43pm On Nov 01, 2015

shizzy7:
The game was an Interesting one... I already shouted goal for Osimhen's last shot but *****

Yesterday I said that the final will be Nigeria - Mexico... You said Nigeria CAN'T Meet Mexico....
Mexico will definitely defeat Ecuador...
AND
I still stand on my word that its Nigeria - Mexico,, just like 2013....

d final can't be nigeria vs Mexico na..mayb d semi final wud be

Romance › Re: 2nd Child In Every Family Is Always Outstanding by defendedvictim(m): 9:36pm On Nov 01, 2015

kokoA:
3rd borns always end up smoking weed and running after anything in skirt

Romance › Re: 2nd Child In Every Family Is Always Outstanding by defendedvictim(m): 3:26pm On Nov 01, 2015

mubarak001:
Rm 9;13 and Mal 1:3...said it all. So also in Gen 48:20 where Jacob did same...it is with God and who can question Him?

ok, agreed! God has mercy on who He chooses to. However, it isn't a function of being a first or second born.

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