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Why do you want to teach him a lesson?

And why did he get married without your permission?

BRATISLAVA:
It is slavery, wherever you like it or not.

The reasons behind why you want it in his name indicates you aren't ready to be sincere about trust, rather you want him to position himself to be the "winner" and she will work towards it for him, but the day she doesn't meet up he will take away all she worked for. That is not trust. That, to any being, is a red flag. Especially a being you are married to. If it is agreeable, would he have liked to be in the position you believe she should have been in with your interpretation of "trust"? Would you? Certainly not.

What you are proposing is the genesis of marital problems engineered by men who don't trust their wives: power play.

If men and women have their "roles", why was he making her do business and not be a house wife? Are you forgetting it is his "role" to provide everything financial in his home, and her role is to birth and clean? A lot of you love talking about red flags when it appeals to your sentiment.

I get the point in your second paragraph. Apparently, she asked to start a business. It was not imposed on her by the man.

Every gender have their own red flags which should be looked out for. Looking through too, op mentioned that they always had quarrels which is another fundamental problem. We don't know what the quarrels were about...

The man's fault in all these is being beclouded by his emotions, and not being proactive to avoid this situation.

The woman's fault, among others is prioritizing the business over her spouse/family.

BRATISLAVA:
It's built on trust, but you wanted him to open the business in his name, while she would slave away at him for him?

Some of you love talking about red flags in women without really seeing what you feel is a red flag for what it is: another unrealistic expectation.

I think we use the word 'slavery' in marriage a little too frequently and it's disturbing. Running a business and earning money for your use is not a slavery.
Using your capital(money) to start up a business in your name is never a crime. Deciding to put your wife to be in charge of the business is a trust. Every responsible man would will his fortunes and estates to his wife and children as a priority.
A man should learn to lead his family and take charge of things. This does not relegate a woman's role. Both men and women have their roles and where we have a lot of conflict is when one or both parties fail in their role.

In this case, the woman failed in her role as a wife..due to the business. If the business is in her name, she can do whatever she wants. If it is in his name, he can call her to order.

BRATISLAVA:
It's built on trust, but you wanted him to open the business in his name, while she would slave away at him for him?

Some of you love talking about red flags in women without really seeing what you feel is a red flag for what it is: another unrealistic expectation.

What's the problem if he opens the business in his name? If the profits are going to her?

First, it is not right to accept a woman who has left you for another man, back into your life. She is certainly not the same person anymore.

Secondly, you should have opened the business in your own name.
Marriage is built on trust, but wisdom is profitable to direct. If she has issues with you opening a business with your own name, then it's a flag you should look into closely.

You loved, albeit foolishly and got punished for it. Learn your lesson and do better next time.
Sorry about that bro

palmshots:
Have you guys received September Salary? Abi na just me

You are not alone. We are plenty on this table

Let them pay the September salary first..

Why are they having lectures in a stadium?

Apparently, the insurgents make calls too.. And they talk, possibly drive around. Let's ban everything the insurgents use.

We don tire

I didn't even watch the video... But damn, I miss twitter

sammugbes:
time sir

Male -6pm Female -4.30pm

daveseun15:
Male na 6pm Female na 4.30pm

ohkay..thanks

So, both our male and female senior teams will be playing same day..

Germany vs Nigeria
Nigeria vs Burundi.

If it's the same time, which one person go watch sef

wheeeewww..finally. Now the business part of the world cup, no more Thailand.

He took me to write my post-ume..basically, he had to drive through 3states and brought me back. His reason was so I don't get stranded. Glad I gained the admission; it would have been unfair to him.

this one is just a low budget bobrisky

they look gay... see their gown sef. Anyway, all man to himself

someone should download these songs and tell me which one to download...

[quote author=banqalee post=68759308][/quote]less than 2 goals abi

who else read the title as 'anto dumps dodo for plantain'


abi I am just being hungry.

In other news, World Cup starts today. Good luck to the African teams

pure bliss... this biscuit can make you lose home training sha.


maybe there is a problem with that batch...however, I'm still eating my pure bliss today

Just communicate and be open with her. You know her better than we do.

Above all, be wise

Legalizing it will cause more problems sef

At least, we still have an outlook of a morally sane society.




finally sha, who morality epp sef

anytime i see this man, all i remember is 'This nonsense must stop'...

a random girl insisted that you should lick her plate and you did...shey you know you don't have sense

...at least, you didnt have sense on saturday night.


Kindly run a sputum test, or jejely visit a hospital. It might be an infection...emphasis on 'might'

amodu:
April 7th is a Friday while 6th is Thursday

yea. batch b, stream 2 passed out on a friday. i doubt if its an impediment, however, april 7th was d date d LI mentioned

LogoDWhiz:
Bro, I've seen it too. But what I want you to know is that, anything can change.. That timetable was done early January.. So many things have happened since...

our LI mentioned that we are leavin on the 7th of April, on thurs.
Our ID cards hv expired already sef...dis peopl sha

may her soul rest in peace

na lie

nwakaibeya1:
Prayer is key# Pray and tell the mantle of GOD to move with the cutlass of heaven and all the weapons of heaven and invade every evil church that you must have entered knowingly or unknowingly that the kingdom of heaven should slaughter to death every evil church members and put them on chain from heaven Pray and tell the Mantle of GOD to slaughter to death any evil man of God that has hands in your prosperity and decieving you and prophesying evil that appear real, that the mantle should expose and disgrace them and put them on chain from heaven for you to be set free, for example evil prophets ,evil pastors,evil evangelist,evil elders ,evil apostles,evil bishops,evil deacons,evil deaconesses,evil reverend fathers that God should turn their honours to disgrace for you to see them with your two naked eyes in Jesuschrist mighty name we pray AMEN&AMEN

pray and tell the mantle of GOD concerning every hidden ,evil world upon your life,such as evil marine world,spiritual husband,spiritual wife,tell the mantle to strike them to death and put them on chain

na wa o, wat kinda spiritual jungle justice be dis na?

geolan:
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@op are you a pcm too?

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