₦airaland Forum

Jhamzy:
OK. Was in Hamburg and Rostock during the weekend.

Oh that was nice. Hope you enjoyed your weekend ....?

Jaqenhghar:
Honestly when it comes to people and relationships, it is not science my guy.
That's why I say "my opinion". She may be the one she may not. My advice is do what you feel is right for yourself. Even if it doesnt work dont beat yourself up. Its better to try and fail than to not try at all. If you want ti take your time, go for it.. be friends just enjoy the ride sha and be happy with yourself. Everything in life na gamble

You're very correct. I will give her some times more and see what she's up to...

Jhamzy:
I can relate to what you are saying bro. What's your location? Maybe we are in the same place?

I live in Berlin, Germany.

pacretus:
she is not sceptical, she hasn't fully broken up with her boyfriend, ignore her totally, if you eventually get her, the relationship will always be a one sided thing. And if you are ready to 100% be in charge of the relationship without her sweating to keep it.then continue wooing her. And if you love your sanity quit wooing her.

Thanks for your advise, I appreciate but the issue is that where I live is a different environment and not the Nigerian kind. To see a black and responsible woman is difficult and some guys actually messed things up so girls are somehow sceptical about guys anytime it comes to marriage and relationship issues. Bear in mind, I live in Europe and marriages here sometimes are for papers issues but when one comes out for real and not for the papers, you will find out that some of this girls have been messed up emotionally hence, the difficulty in finding a serious one.
Just confused...

Jaqenhghar:
What are you doing with someone who clearly doesnt want to be with you. I believe communication is key to a good relationship. A woman who doesnt care to communicate with you is not a good sign. Even she marries you I doubt it will last. My opinion

And that's my fear, should I continue and eventually win and get married to her, the whole scenario may look one-sided and I wil always be the one to understand and make sacrifices. I just get confused over the whole issues even though I still have a feeling that she's taking her time to observe me and to get over past relationship. J have also read about people who didn't give up even when the girl displayed the worst form of character but they later won became happy in the union. I'm just confused, could my own case be different?

3mmyz:
You might as well confront her with your worries about her giving you the ill treatment of not responding. Ensure not to seem desperate, that could be a total turnoff for her, clearly ladies thingy.

Give her time though but make it clear that you wouldn't beg to be with her. You could fight for her attention but not beg

Exactly what I did on Saturday and she still came up with her usual "so occupied" excuses. I even invited her to our end of the year session and party but she instantly gave me the "not so sure" response about being there.
In fact, I don't know what or her strategy to use. I not desperate and I also informed her not make me appear as complainant because I expected her to at least, our her busy schedule, to carve out a little time so that we can be talking often and building friendship and more closeness. But it seems she's not into me or she's yet to over her past relationship or wants to fight to get him back.

Asnafsaeed:
What about pastors that sleep and impregnate the mothers in ur region in disguise of prayers

She can organise all the prayers in the world for all I care, one thing I know is that prayers of sinners and pretenders are abominations before God.

Hahahahahahha I don read comments tire and na only laugh i just dey laugh out. Nairaland is a funny place walahi.
Anyways shaa, I've had my pretty share of girl's wahala both in home and abroad. As I write now, I've been wooing one particular girl for almost six months now, all she does is to treat me as if I don't exist and she's so busy with her work. She doesn't even write me even to say Hi, if I write her it will take her like two days before she reads and respond (sometimes she doesn't reply) to my message. I'm getting tired already but I like this babe and would marry her if she says yes. I hinted her about my intention from the very first day we went on our first date and she was happy and she told me how she would like to settle down and have just two kids. But the habit of not talking with me as often as we should is disturbing me. Though she told me about her boyfriend/ex which they have just broken up after 7yrs in a relationship. Could that be the reason she's being sceptical about me or she's not just into me? Can somebody help me out and advise me?

ZaOzaRoom:
Na so the kopa belle big?

If I be the girl, I don fall in love with guy instantly and start marriage arrangements immediately.

DonBenny77:
He doesn't care about meeting our dullard of a pressy

If na you, you go gree meet that dullard to get infested?

YusufTheGreat:
The igbo Amaka group will soon arrive

Just shout IGBO AMAKA 3× and your bitterness will leave you.
Celebrate good people of IGBO.

Dozzywest:
So this is what has been trending on Twitter South Africa!

The story has it that " A guy proposed to his girlfriend in a KFC canteen.
A journalist laughed at him in a tweet but didn't know she was blessing them.

This tweet which has gone viral has had DSTV, Coke and Amstel Malt, the SA Audi company sponsoring, Precious the Planner who is one of the most elite wedding planners in SA is offering to plan the whole wedding for free. Musicians including Zakes Bantwini, Sjava and Amy Faku will also perform for free, free trips to Mozambique, Cape Town and Limpopo by different travel agents, the list goes on and on"!

This is How God works!! He is God!!

I am already in tears now. Love is a beautiful things with the right person. And to the donors and volunteers, you people are so amazing .

Buhari is an idiot. Him and his useless zombies supporters will not end well.

Elder0001:
Imagine...as if not having a child is her explicit fault ! Who knows if the fault is from the idiotic man. If he so wants a child he should adopt one or they should try surrogacy.

You don't have to call him idiotic man when you have not heard his own side of the story. I really feel I pity for the woman and I pray for God's mercy to locate and give her joy unspeakable in the form of triplets.
But then, you know the kind of society we found ourselves in, this time around Where women does everything and anything when they're still single. Sometimes, the effects of those actions may cause delay in child bearing and thereby affecting the union. How will surely heal you and many other women looking for the fruits of the womb.

MelesZenawi:
Over much.

85 and doing nothing when their work has been shifted under different ministries.

Honestly, I can't guess accurately how many buhari's aids will be, if osinbajo's is this much.


But the irony of this whole matter for the zombies and buharists, non of them were deemed fit to be appointed and those appointed doesn't come online fighting and abusing others for buhari's sake.

IGBO AMAKA!

Neddstark:
Lets face it. Why does the vice president need so much aides. The president already has special advisers why waste so much on VP special advisers. Please lets not tribalize or politicize this issue. This is a very good step.

This is the area I got confused. Why would a vice president have this number of Aids and Assistances and to even think that almost all the offices sounds unreal is so appalling.
This osinbajo is the greatest thief and looter to be known by history. Atiku was a learner comparing to this man.

Ojady:
In a sane society, a video like this is enough for the fire chief, the commissioner of works/infrastructure, the councillor and all others to resign. What we see in this video, is the helplessness every Nigerian is facing each day: to eat, for business to yeld profit, to pay school fees, to get medical care etc...we re faced with a raging myriad of fire from all sides and all we have or provided with to deal with is a bowl...fellow Nigerians, first it was the East, now the West...where is next? What is going on?

Although this is becoming suspicious as to a deliberate sabotage, the lesson here is to get bigger 'bowls'(every shop owner should get their own fire extinguishers, extensive insurance and if possible, shopping malls be fitted with those fire alarms cum faucets that go off as soon as a fire/smoke reaches a certain level like we see in the movies) It is apparent our current polithieves, incumbent, aspiring and opposition, do not care and will not do anything for us, so we have to do stuff ourselves...
My prayers are with those who lost in this fire...may the fortitude and wisdom to restore not elude you...

Thanks God that some of you are beginning to see what we saw and shouted on, many years ago. There's a deliberate and unwritten policy to cripple the Igbos and in extension, the whole of southern Nigeria. Unfortunately, most people from the West are useful tools that sings the praises of the evil perpetrators just to spite the Igbos. It is coming to their doorsteps now even I know very well that all the markets fire incident are where the Igbos are predominantly doing their businesses.
There is an evil agenda going on but they will never succeed .

Monogamy:
We were busy castigating Obiano and Anambra fire departments..

Where are the Lagos fire departments for this?

Relax, we know exactly what is going on. There's a deliberate move to cripple the Igbos and their means of livelihoods, even politically and the final nail will be RUGA and fulani domination even in Igbo land. But guess what, they can't succeed. Igbos will keep moving ahead.

ZombieTERROR:
What about the bullion van master..


When is the Efcc going to arrest him
The petition is already on their table

EFCC is just an attack dog for the most notorious Organized Crime Syndicate aka APC political party.

Marvieduke:
I for like be the 16th wife any lady that desire to be the 17th is highly welcome

You no get joy at all...Lols

ManirBK:
Okay this happen in church but you didn't call it cristians toture center but the one in the north is not in the mosque but private home but you called it Islamic toture center what a hypocrite media!!

Why didn't they shown us pictures yo buttress their stupid claims. I know there's nothing like this, one Muslim blogger just came up with this trash yo get back at the Christians.

IGBO AMAKA!

shakaranews:
Congratulations to her. Never heard of her, this shows how humble she could possibly be. Not like some siblings who would try to ride on a family member's glory for cheap fame.

The Ikejis comes to mind.

Marvieduke:
Just one time

Ok carry go. Do you use Twitter?

Daviddson:
This is quite unfortunate. By the way, who gave the go-ahead for there to be cooking on-board a train? Is that a norm or some people begged to be allowed to cook and the driver okayed it?

Pakistani Muslim Taliban and terrorists at work. Don't doubt it.

tartar9:
Without Nigeria,there is no innoson or any other of their enterprises.Igbos should be grateful.

Just say IGBO AMAKA and your hate-filled will be relieved.

Marvieduke:
I just want to taste his D.

You still dey sample?

Amanda4life:
Oyibo that cannot satisfy a woman knows he cannot, and he will be open to the woman and get her a viberator.
But if na naija man, he go dey form macho, he will never be open, he will be blaming Jedi Jedi, better still he will look for way to cover cover up

Yes you're right. Some of them will even hire a black man to help him Bleep his wife because he wants the woman to be happy.
Naija man? Never.

chariisGRACE:
Sometimes I ask myself 'where people dey see luck sef'

This na luck ooo, reeeeaal luck.
Happy marriage na so e go be

Don't wish for any kind luck especially this type. If that lady tell you what she's going through in that relationship you won't believe. Imagine marrying or being with a mn who can not sexually satisfy you, that you will have to drop your dignity at home and look for a good dick to cure your craze. That's why most black women who married white men goes through especially when they have been sexually active before meeting the guy. That's the sorry situation most of then found themselves because of resident permit.

Lamasta:
Even satan abi na devil self want educated brains not dullards

Not dull brains like buhari and tanko. Satan will surely reject buhari in his hell kingdom.

lebron7:
Arrest loading

Exactly the same thing in my mind now.