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Skepticus:
We are not the same. I'm not in the business of using 2 or more monikers. It's kinda childish to me. However, I do have an alternative moniker I barely use in case the mods try to be foolish.

mespusinglez:
All this Yeye Rubbish they are building in Psite self....Sha Lemme go and start Enjoying their Wifi Next week...Na my school fees

odinson1:
Good morning Guys. I encountered the Redpill last year and I have to say That last year had the most impact on my life. I have Simped All my life (though only for girls I crushed on) I remember a time when I believed that Beautiful Girls were Angels who deserved to be worshipped and Respected, I believe they don't do the Gross things other people do( like Defecate,fart,pick noses etc ).

But that mentality earned me a few Heartbreaks and rejections over The years. I Was a complete nice guy to the ladies up to the point that a girl my age could send me On an errand to buy something for her,and I'd go happily with a smile on my face so that she won't be Angry with me. I remember one of my crushes that had Boyfriend and a side boo. I was the "Big head" who gives her constant recharge cards, attention and Validation She'd do something that gets me angry,I will then apologize for being angry and Send her recharge card because I believed all these would make her see me as a "nice guy" and eventually Agree to date me..oh how wrong I was! .

I've also had numerous simping experiences but since I Encountered HARDDON"S Thread, Ubunja's Miseducations, and This GLYCOLYSISS Thread,my Life has never remained the same . I always look at women with a third eye because I now Always suspect they are up to no good,I am now Gradually Getting to That MGTOW stuff. I hate Relationships and marriages but my only fear now is Companionship In old age( martinez39s Please Explain this part to me).

Now to guys in this Thread who Are "Purple pilled" thinking Their mother's and sisters are different,that's a big fat lie! All women are like that,and I have observed and had various Confirmations to The redpill.

I want to thank you all for your Contributions On this great Thread

And on a side note,I Think Pansophist and Skepticus are One and the same person using 2 different monikers (just a thought o )

Nazgul:
I did that shit back then in school but mine wasn't chats it was MTN extra cool (midnight calls,).12:30am - 5:30am. I will load N100 on my phone and be waiting for the time to reach.

Crazy thing is that I was doing it everyday not minding that I have lectures to attend. the girl later left me cos it was a distance relationship. And I regained my sense back. I've done so many silly things for love and yet I still couldn't find it.

ubola:
op, 4years relationship is not child's play. you are used to her and vice versa. Rushing into another woman's arm during break up was totally wrong at first. I would advise you as a married man that you marry your friend and not someone you rushed into cuz of heartbreak stuff. She must have cheated on you during dating but marriage is a different ball game. Sit her down and talk to her, at this point she will tell you the truth and why she did that, caution her and move to the next level. If you are always happy around her please go for her and put behind the mistakes. When I met my wife, she was dating a Senator and I knew about it on our first date,I placed my cards on the table and asked her to choose between myself and the man. She retraced her steps and started building our relationship till we got married. At the time my close friends were not in support, believing that she's seen a higher and better life than me who came from the streets, that she'll misbehave after marriage. One week to our marriage she suggested that we should go and invite the Senator officially for our marriage, and I objected. After consultations and several thought I decided to go with her to invite the big man and his wife. The man gave us 200k and 7 cartons of assorted wine while the wife supported with 20k and a bag of rice. For close to a decade today, I've never had anything to regret about marrying her, rather it's been from one success story to another. you would not have thrown her out just like that. The devil is so tricky and may manipulate you into a lifetime regret. Lastly, in this game follow whoever gives you happiness and satisfaction. Its not a game of revenge, 4years no be beans. I rest my case.

RisenPhoenix1:
Graduate single ladies over 20? I don't touch them, no offense.

I've already set my sights on a homely young widow of a deceased family friend of mine. She says she would like to wait for a year at least for propriety's sake (personally, I don't care about propriety, but obviously she does). The advantage is that she is already close to my present wife so they'll hopefully get along well together when the time comes, plus I don't mind raising her daughter like my own since she's my close friend's.

There is already another young lady I'm considering, but not too sure how that would turn out yet.

Xenry:
This is very true. In fact, it's even difficult to invest if you have a girlfriend. Sometimes it's better to go alone.

OcVoice:
Don't mind him. How can sandalilili sandalili be standard living? Sing it with standard living as see if it will enter.

BankyGee:
RIDDLE ME THIS

SILENTandSMART2:
Because they're eleribuu original

Odianose13:
Wetin this Rashford dey play so?

ArchiPelsx:
I'm glad to have been able to read to this point, I had to open an account so as to be able to comment.
Thanks a lot psychologist for the eye opener, a lot of things I read in this whole thread just describe what I experienced in my last relationship, Thank God I was smart enough to walk away early enough.
But I have a simple question, I'm not sex freaked and based on my personal decision I don't engage myself in any sexual relationship with ladies so even if I ask a girl to date me, it's never because I want to get her laid. So now, reading this I feel I really do not need to keep friendship with all these ladies. What advice will you give someone in my shoes? Ignore the opposite sex entirely as they are basically of no use to me or one can still maintain a healthy 'friendship' kind of relationship?

Dpsychologist:
This was not how it was before but this is how it is now. Fair it is not but true it is.

cassidy1996:
procrastination

FactBoyz:
Thread full of Nairalanders who would rather insult the OP than answer the question.

Mr OP, there are PROBABLY thousands of introverts in Lagos. Your coming here wont make much difference. You can survive only if you do what you love.... free your mind from the fact that youre an introvert and be open minded with people. Also learn to avoid wetin no consign you as there are distractions everywhere.

Never allow anyone intimidate you cause there are so many people that will try to make you inferior and weak.. When dealing with a conductor, don't do gentle man o....

New York is as bustling as Lagos and if your uncle invited you to New York, you wouldnt ask this question

chariisGRACE:
My first try at motion...

Junnior:

Omoslim26:
Rubbish talk STUPIDITY is a human character and flaw not a sex thing

some men are stupid

some women are stupid

But if you ask me i will say women are more stupid

stupidity is wen you are waiting for someone to pay your bills when you self get 2hands and legs