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Confusedwomsn:
Is this all?
You all believe it's fun to cyber bully someone, you know you can express your opinion about me without insulting me.
Did I offend you or do you know me or whst.

As you've caused me to shed tears this Sunday, so will tears be your portion all your life and happiness will be far from your life until your death. Thank you

Confusedwomsn:
Let God be the judge.
Even if if this forum is s faceless forum, do you know what your words can do.
Did I offend you or insult you in any way, did I.
Say all you want but trust me, I serve s living God that never fails.
He will y judge accordingly. Thank you

Theicecode:
What about you don't you have alternates too you are glued on this forum like your life depend on it, marry you no fit marry nah to they follow men up and down you sabi, even your friend cocacandy is 100 times better than you in all ramifications, she's younger than you, live in a sane country and married with kids, what about you? do you have any plan in ur life?

I pity you!

pocohantas:
Because they decided to gang up and run me out of the forum. I know they try to trigger responses that will get me banned, they don’t get that.

I dare any of them to post their mains for Seun to see what they type to me. My own main is here, I am not hiding. I can’t be bullied. They’ll get tired like the rest before them.

madridguy:
You know what you just write now can attract ban if i call the attention of the mods I am not a mod here and me self dey chop both yellow and red card

madridguy:
You're so popular here that everyone are making reference to you

Biglittlelois:
Lol this is my one and only moniker, if I want I defame or insult anyone, I will never create another moniker to do that cos I fear no one here, only cowards do that and I sure as hell ain't one, but then, I don't have to prove myself to faceless lots who jerge off from a little bit of controversy just to feel good or important on a faceless forum(lmao)

Frankly you guys can continue with the assumptions, its actually entertaining

pocohantas:
Nah, i won’t be fine. my wailings just begun. It is really that easy to stay away from bans, but some people (like me) carry NL and certain monikers (like c o c o c a n d y) for head. The end result is ban.

madridguy:
Madam, if you will be sincere with yourself you will know you brought this upon yourself. Even in Nigeria law system, false accusation is wrong. You called the person several monikers which you he/she reported you and you got ban.

On this forum, having more than one account is offense and if you get caught, na ban. So the person did not want you to implicate him/her so he/she reported you.

This is the case here.

pocohantas:
Seun can you see? Their ultimate goal is to run certain monikers out of NL. They are not succeeding and they are all getting frustrated.

Why don’t they all post their mains, so that you can check them and check mine too.

Biglittlelois:
[s]I notice it's mostly guys that are whining- you all will be fine

As for the few ladies that complained- you are excused

Thanks to the wannabe doctor that called my attention here, I've been laughing like kilode, thank you[/s]

bukatyne:
Interesting thread.

Now, I cannot accuse anyone of having the mods under their 'thumb' or numbers or whatever.

However, there is an irritating practice of alternate monikers springing up to 'gang up' on a moniker they do not agree with his/her message.

Perhaps the Mods feel it is OK so let it continue.

Why these monikers are not confident enough to use their main monikers beats me.

I believe that Nairaland should be a platform where people can interact respectfully and intelligently and we can learn from one another.

It was on NL I understood the concept of stay-at-home mothers and polygamy in Islam because I was open minded.

The registered users are increasing: let the engagements be increasingly intelligent and let everyone be mature enough to overlook or respectfully engage different opinions.

DateMynd44:
oga you know dey fear ban

Theicecode:
Why won't she? when her favourite asslicking superhero mod got her back.

Visualize:
Please look very well.... I equally created a thread about their high-handedness.


Mynd44 in particular is guilty...

I don't care if I get banned, I just want to let you know that Mynd44 is killing this forum.


God bless Chief James Onanefe Ibori.
https://www.nairaland.com/5835613/what-moderator-becomes-hurtful-forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Some of the complaints are justified and I believe there should be an overhaul.


Some of the lengthy bans given are so proposterous and unnecessary.

What is the point of giving someone a lengthy ban to enforce some of your rules only for that person to deactivate open another account and keep breaking the same rules you are trying to enforce

DateMynd44:
the pocohantas of a person insults freely and gets away with it.

pocohantas:
Aww, you actually report me? I know you guys are waiting for me to slip, but nah... Baby girl has perfected the act of e-warfare.

Control your emotions and you will be fine, but then, you are men, you think every is by brute force.

Enjoy your bans.



Seun can you see? This is how they insult me o. I don’t even insult them. I only post my opinions that doesn’t go well with them.

pocohantas:
Report me. My posts are there.

If I break a rule, please report me.

pocohantas:
They just can’t do that. These guys need to learn tact, till then, they will keep getting banned.

ednut1:
it ain't that serious. I have been banned many times but am not bitter about it. Say what you like about justwise but give him props for ridding the travel section of scammers. Many also come to ask questions that are about beating the system and he deletes them. So bro it aint that hard or personal.

Richy4:
Where u a couch patato before marriage or was that a habit that u picked up recently?... if that was a new habit please drop it..

Bad breath.. That can put any reasonable individual off at any time. It's like a switch no matter how nice u are to your spouse...it doesn't work.. Try and brush your teeth after the late night snacks.

As for snoring, I don't think Nigeria hospital has the capacity to cure that or give guidance..it takes lot of therapy to contain... .

please Do not forsake or abandon yourself because u were married. It is not a crime to still look exactly the way she found u or even better.

I was trying my very best to find a valid reasons why she shouldn't do what she was doing . But I couldn't find any. Other than for better or worse. But she has been sticking to that at least u testified to it...so look into her concerns / grievances and do something about it.

Some guys assuming reverse was the case, they would have started dating their coworkers, their secretaries, ladies across the street etc. Especially those that can't put up with dirty habits

Sterope:
Wow..You are blaming your wife now

pocohantas:
It doesn’t go on any how around here.

Genq and crackhead are the rudest insulting men in this section, maybe NL as a whole. The only person that trumps you guys is NextD18.

The minute someone doesn’t agree with you guys, na insult upon insult, with side attacks. When you guys get banned, you start playing victim and accusing mods of being biased.

I never knew NL means so much to una, yet to converse with some civility is hard.

Quote me with nonsense and I will report you; at least now I know say e dey pain una. Bye

Hathor5:
I find it hard to believe that you would open threads instead of taking care of your mouth odor and refuse to try what your wife suggested because you find it rude that she came up with a solution. Do you know how disgusting mouth odor is? Alone the thought of it makes me want to

Then you are sitting in front of the TV getting fatter. Are you jobless?

Mr, you are as unattractive as a man can be. Instead of opening embarrassing threads, respect yourself and do something about your poor hygiene and bad habits. I pity your wife.

Are these the men a woman is meant to respect?

Agbaletu:
The damage has been done but it can still be salvaged if and only if you want your wife to return. Your brother must not celebrate this Xmas in your house. He must leave, yes, it is a must. You need to go and meet your wife and bring her back. This brother of yours is of no value to you. He is a parasite and he needs to fend for himself.
I still don't understand why you allowed him to even stay beyond one month since you knew from day one that your family didn't like your wife. Forget about blood is thicker than water. It's your life bros!

thorpido:
You didn't say anything about the ways you've been stressing your wife too.
Let's deal with your brother's case.Tell him he will need to get his own place.Give him just a few weeks.
Change the locks in your house and shut him out when the time expires.
Go and make moves to reconcile with your wife. Complete your bride price osiso .