Devil is learning work where some women are.

Working in a bank can be likened to being a part of a cult. They are all fuccking around with each other yet will meet each others spouses and be smiling.

Your cheating wife will introduce her colleagues to you who will all be smiling to your face knowing fully well your wife's back is being blown out by one or in some cases, several of them!

Female bankers are glorified prostitutes who all have work-husbands. Especially the light skinned, bleached ones.

Don't say you weren't warned.

If your wife is
1. pretty
and
2. works in a bank,
.. especially the light skinned ones, she's fuccking around on you bro!

JustMichael:
I took my time to go through your previous posts, scrutinising them thoroughly and I arrived with these facts:

1) Your family hates your wife and disrespects her for no reason but you took no due action towards this even though you claimed to cherish her

2) She complained to you many times about your ineptitude and your unhygienic lifestyle but you likewise acted deaf to her voice

3) She also tried to bring your attention to your recent appalling look but you didn't bother

4) Your sex life reduced drastically perhaps due to fact 2

5) She endured all this from 2017 and now it's 2021

6) In your own words "she is a good woman"

With all this, I've every reason to say YOU'RE AT FAULT. Swallow your pride and patch things up with her or face whatever comes up

Despite the insults and backlash I received from my last thread, I listened to all critics and improved my personal hygiene.
although, if I'm to be fair, losing the weight has been difficult. I've made a lot of changes that I expected her to appreciate. but she pays me back by flirting with an old fling?

cococandy:
The time you spend trolling ladies on NL could have been better spent loving on and defending your wife.

Wish you both good luck. Sincerely.

Trolled which ladies?

There is only one "lady" I have a problem with and that's because she childishly ridiculed my previous thread and tried to mock me for what I was (and still am ) going through in my marriage.

She's a mean-spirited bully and a well known troll on this forum - and from the looks of things, I'm not the only one who has insulted her on NL.

i'm here seeking advice and trying to be as transparent as I can - it's taken a lot of courage for me to put my business out here like this. warn your friend to act with sense and maybe she wouldn't get as much insults as she gets on this platform.

I'm sure many of you have seen the previous threads about my turbulent marriage. Truth is I feel less shame discussing my marriage here as I'm anonymous.. so insults are welcome as no one here knows me personally..

So, my wife and I have had issues from the very beginning, from the lack of relationship between her and my family members, to her growing cold towards me, to me distancing myself from her etc..

Truth be told my marriage as reached breaking point on numerous occasions but this is the height of my pain as I sit here typing on Nairaland whilst others are busy celebrating the new year with their families.

My wife wished me a happy new year by informing me for the hundredth time that she has fallen out of love with me and is tired of our sexless marriage - only this time she also informs me that she recently reconnected with an old flame from uni (who happens to be from Ghana). They had always had a thing which never materialised as she refused to date him due to cultural differences (she couldnt marry someone that isn't Nigerian).

I recall her telling me shortly after our engagement that this particular 'friend ' cut off contact with her out of anger & frustration when she told him she has decided to marry me.

Now recently, this guy is back again in the picture and they've been talking. When I questioned her further, she admitted to my face that she is sexually attracted to him and the only thing stopping her from cheating is the fear of God.

I have every reason to end this marriage but things are so complicated. We have this strange connection I can't explain despite our marriage and sex life being in tatters - she's got such a magnetic character, kind, and wears her heart on her sleeve. If she has slept with that guy I would know for sure (that's how open she is). I actually grabbed her phone during the altercation this morning - read all her chats ..with him saying all the nasty things he would do to her, how he doesn't give a fucck about the dude she's married to (me) because he knew her before me, how he doesn't want to disrupt her home but wants to be there for her sexually and emotionally, he's accepted his fate bla bla.

I'm at my breaking point right now..

Newman20:



What was the comment about?

na hin be dis:

..audio infection which very conveniently affects Army officials after being summoned by the Endsars Panel,

same way Snake-wo Olu also claimed his own positive test result.

I guess Covid is the new 'Get Out Of Jail' free card

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apatheticme:


[s] You may not admit, but most of the 'marriage is a scam', 'no Virgin to marry', yen yen yen team on nairaland toxicland are simply unemployed or underemployed. We understand, the country hard!

However, do not hide under the umbrella of alpha male wimp to come and take out your frustrations on women. You don't wanna marry, so be it, stop rejoicing because a marriage crashed somewhere, because y'all desperately need marriages to crash so as to justify your assertions and wishful thinkings.

What y'all fail to realize is that as many as those marriages you see crashing, several also stand the test of time, waxing stronger against all odds. It's just that no one celebrates them, or you and your ilks tag the man simp for staying with a pvssy for several years, not realizing y'all red Broke pillers are the real simps seeing as you're confused and can't take a stand.

Why can't men be Broke shamed?? Many of you here are still been fed by your parents with your mamas having substantial contributions to the family purse (either known to you or not), yet y'all come here and tag all women Broke and hoeloshos.

In many homes today, women contribute substantially, yet they do not loud it. If women started creating threads to wail like you ungrateful lots like zombies all over the forum how they help their men and fund several projects yall will still tag women as arrogant and proud, that she's not submissive to her husband. The way yall picture women here, it's almost as if no woman in Nigeria is employed. One wonders those women working in banks, schools, ministries and parastatals, government agencies, force, private sector, hospitals etc if they are not paid and if they don't support their men with funds.

Date or marry better woman una no go gree, na ass and boobs una go dey run after. When dey do una strong thing, una go still come wail here. This generation of men has got to be the most confused so far.

So what exactly is your point, Mr e-piller, alpha coward and red wimper?? [/s]

You honestly think imma read this trash?

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Martini101:
Guilty Conscience is at play here.����

Seriously