₦airaland Forum

dealslip:
You have said it all. I grieve in my heart when I read what this little boys write. Most of them have a dead mindset about women already. I wonder what marriage in the next generation will be like. The words they use on women are ridiculous, LovePeddler, Olosho, feminist all this because a woman is rich, successful or took a decision about her own life. They are so blind to their own fault and wrong upbringing and mindset.

I tell you. May such men meet women that will dal with them fire for fire. A woman that out of fear that they may reject her when they hit it big ignore their need for support and companionship unless they repent.

Mumu girl. When boys are planning how not to help women progress in life because lf Tiwa savage she is there stealing for a boy to progress. How can God honour such sin? Sje got punished and she should ask for forgiveness and move on. If the story is true that is.

nashito:
It is evident now that the crash of Tiwa's wedding is somehow as a result of infidelity,trust issues and insecurity. From the recent activities of Tiwa Savage, we can somehow deduce that TeeBliz was right regarding the accusations against Tiwa.

However, the lesson we must all learn from the crash as men are numerous, but let me shorten it;

(1) HELPING A WOMAN TO THE TOP OF HER CAREERS:

I have often wondered why some men refused to let their woman rise to the very top, it is very simple here. When a woman rises to the top, they tend to forget the ladder through which they climbed to the very top, this is not same case with men. A man will always remain very loyal to the that person who showed him the way to the top. Same cannot be said of women. Most times. Putting ourselves in someone's shoes helps, let's assume TeeBliz takes all that shits we were made to believe, but the question that comes to mind is, does it mean Tiwa wasn't aware of his habits before they got married? If it was Tiwa's habit, Do we really think TeeBliz will divorce her for the same reason?
Women are naturally not loyal to men especially when you stop paying the bills.

(2) With the manner in which Tiwa has carried herself lately. I want to ask all men this simple question; regardless of her career, can you marry such a wife? With all those crazy, ripped off, half naked dresses etc Before you answer that, take a deep breath and think first. While dating, we all love this crazy girl who's always sexy and all that, but this is marriage, Men can you really do that? Lesson learn, don't Marry someone who's career is not suitable to your kinda person.

(3) Finally, As a man. DO NOT sacrifice your own career and future ambitions for any Nigerian lady, they are not worth it, they all have short memories. I know they are few good ones out there. But never you ever sacrifice your life for anyone's career. We should all remember Teebliz for what he did and not what we were told. He picked up Tiwa and put her in the pinnacle of her career, what did he get in return? Nothing.

This is a big lesson for all ambitions men out there. I am not saying you should restrict that woman from being who she wants to be. Just don't sacrifice yours for her.
Thank you. Still your boy Nash.

Very foolish post. But the woman is expected to sacrifice her own for you ba? If we judge by what people do then no woman would allow her husband progress in life because we have heard of a million and one cases where the men turn around and neglect the woman that stood by them to run after other women and even marry more wives ontop. All these wicked posts you peanut sized brain boys make just irritate me because I have daughters and I hope no worthless idiot who can not prove his own holliness will come looking for perfection from them. Have you asked the man tbe role he also played in the breakdown of his marriage?

Beno3:
I don't believe because of divorce, a man will wake up one morning and butcher his lovely wife include his mother inlaw. Though I don't support violence against women.
But I strongly believe that either one of these may be the cause of this.
1, May have disobeyed him, championing her mother's advice, challenging and insulting him beyond his tolerance limit.
2, Comparing him with his mates outside and forgetting when the going was good and how he spent hell on her .
3, Causing him to lose his assets, exposes him and try to run away into another man's arms and her mother is in support of it.
4,Telling him his kids of ten years struggle, werent his, and that she is moving to the real fathers, and the mum supports it under his roof.

But if it was a woman that did the same thing because the husband was planning on secretly marrying another wife or planning to leave her, you will not doubt it ba? Oh I forgot, no man is crazy or bad in Nigeria. Only the women are. Lets just blame them as usual and move on to sports betting.

This is not right at all.

It must have been a woman disguised as a man. Naija men are all saints. Only the women are lazy slay queens who are to be feared after devil. No Nigeria man does this kind of evil.

If you want to go into crime...... Avoid raping the victims. The moment you rape, even the land will spit you out. Rapists die like chickens or easily get exposed. Stealing is bad enough, give yourself a shot at repentance by not raping. once that is done, you are done for you may rape and escape but what will get you into yawa may be something unrelated to the rape. after all said and done, Stay clean avoid crime.

internationalman:
They are all busy snapping to post on social media to get likes..

Heartless people everywhere..

I tell you. They are social media whores. Scavengers of human misery. Modern day vultures in human flesh.

trapQ:
Why hunt rapists when slay Queens pose more danger to the society? Because slay queens are the internet scammers who have tarnished the nation's image globally. Slay queens are the drug dealers and boko Haram too.

Exactly

That family just born thieves and killers full Nigeria

NwaAmaikpe:



Walahi.

This doesn't sound like what someone who truly loves and cares about his wife will say at a time like this.

He wants them to help him kill her. LOL

jidamsel43:
The girl should be immediately employed, with her kleptomaniac skill, she can be of great help to secure the money and other treasury of the business center.

Out elders used to say, 'You set a thief to catch a thief'

She will not sit and work. she can hardly make as much as she steals when honestly employed without proper qualification or job experience to earn like that. she go just run with your whole shop on a good day after you start to trust her with your cash.

Hope he will not kill them out of anger one day o.

The last time I checked only naija women were evil slay queens. Men were said to be saints be they sons, husbands, uncles lecturers or bosses.


Let the youths of their community hunt them out. It is possible to do so.

Emma1Oj:
Yes I'm very very normal. I said so for the man safety should in case the woman is not humble... because some woman can be terrorist.

And what about the womans safety incase the man is a terrorist? Since you factor betrayal into it. Havent men being using the get out of my house method to punish their wives too? Why is it now a thing of fear? If it is not a subjectbof discission should a man do it why fear now? Oh it is now clear that such habit is very demoralizing tovthe victims ba? If women also start preping for the future foolishness of their husbands what type of family would the society raise? The only problem I see is if they live with exyended family be it the mans or womans and if the man can not take care of himself should problem arrise (Same wa y wives are encouraged to be economically balanced in case). But if the said house belongs to the wife independently then I see no issue with it.

agarawu23:
@ bolded, fat lie.

Rants of a lazy man who thinks he can escape poverty by marrying a rich lady. U will end up regretting your life cos women will always be women and u will one day like to take control as the "head" which will not be easy and might end u up in the street as a begger.

And must you insult him? Can you not air your views without name calling?

Amebos, shebi bible said a man will leave his mother and father and clive unto his wife? Did he move into her family house? Even if he did so long as they are happy and welcome there and raising worthy children I will pick them over a very distabilized family living in the husbands lavish mansion.

Lets just blame Eve. That has been the exvuse since dawn of time even though they dont know the truth beyound what was force fed them.

Emmanystone:
Be weary of men who are firmly opposed to this. It'll be a far cry if this happens to some distant fellow whom you just read about, but if it happens close to home, the story will be different.

My Aunty who had served God committedly, kept herself for that man, only for one lair who had no peni.s at all, but been hiding in church for years not married giving excuses of 'Very few sisters are truly born again', cornered her. She was excited thinking her prayer had been answered. Mature sisters make that mistake. becos they see one brother inside Church, and they had waited for so.long, they don't take the man to God in prayer for check up. She married the man.

The first night after wedding, he slept with his jean well belted. He was too fatigued, even when he didn't nothing to be tired from. The next night, he was upset over what my Aunty knew nothing about, so, no sex. The situation between them became very unpredictable as she didn't know what to do to make him happy. Days after wedding, he packed his bag and off to Port Harcourt he went, with the excuse of looking for a job now that he was married

2 months passed, no husband. She was yet to consumate her marraige. She travelled to Port Harcourt to at least see him. He refused for her to spend the night where he stayed, excuse? He was living with a Pastor friend, who jointly officiated in his marriage. He said it wasn't respectful. She left and slept in my house.

After more than a year, no job, no money for her, no sex yet, he returned to her still wearing jean to sleep. She didn't tell anyone that she had not had sex with her husband yet.

One night, she went wild, 'It's either you remove this jean or i shall tear it with a knife', after much struggle, when he discovered this woman won't give up, he gave in and began shedding crocodile tears. He explained how all the animals went to the moon to visit God, and the crafty tortoise did this and that. Cock and Bull stories. Finally she discovered she was in for a lonnggg thing.

She took to prayers for peni.s restoration without letting anyone in the family know. 9yrs went by, she was praying, no peni s. 9yrs his family were expecting a Child. When they ask him, he will point to his wife. She was called a man, dry wood, barran goat behind her back until a friend heard it from the family that her husbabd was the one asking them to put his wife in prayers so that she could conceive, she asked why she kept the fact that couldn't conceive a secret for 9yrs? She went wild, confronted the man, but instead of talking about it, he moved out of the house and ended the marriage. She was forced to tell everyone that it's been 9yrs she'd been sharing a bed with a man she never had sex with not even for once.

This is what women go through. But if she was the one with the problem, the man can sleep with her close friend and everyone will support him.

My dear, I am not surprised o. I have heard many such stories from so called very christian men and sometimes women. The women tend to be more sobber when found out but the men mostly feel entittled to their deception because bible says till death do us part. They start emotionally blackmailing the women saying so she can not stand by her man in trying times. Its well.

AlanSugar:
Which kind story be dis, woman no get sex organ, how? Can the parents of such woman be that wicked to the unsuspecting groom? Impossicant!

Well some are born deformed some were circumcised and some had accidents ie fire burn. But because this is rare with women men will make a higher percentage of the defaulters. Eh, I wish all intending couples the best.

Lightening:
Poor emotional blackmail. I never mentioned women in my original post. My follow up comment was the consequence of your alluding that it was men with dysfunctional/small blokos that have anything to worry about. Leave 'women' out of this.

Yes. Men and women who have no ability to consumate their marriage and in some instances who even have had accidents or are naturally born with next to no sexual organs. Why is it cool and fun to call out women and their mischief but then when men are called out tbe person is tagged a threatened person? I am sure if I had said women are whores and the church should do even more to expose them; you would have agreed and shared my post. Hahaha. Anyhoe, you memtioned where I said the test is not for virginity but to check if sex can be performed. That was your first mention and I wonder why you picked on that one and why you think women with vagonas as wide as river niger should fear the test. Once again .... it is mot a test to see how sexially active the intending couples were in the past!!!
. Many men are impotent and they hid this info from their wives until the wedding night. Some are not sexual at all but just do it once and thats all. The church is tired of the complains and seek to address the issue . I was a redeemed member and I support the move. If it hurts you that I called out men.... then you will be hurt for a long time because I still stand by my words.

Lightening:
And sisters with hole wider than river Niger will be the ones to jubilate.

Whatever rocks yoir boat young man

Lightening:
You betrayed your fear in your numerous replies. You are obviously worried that body count might be revealed somehow. Go through them again. No ill feelings pls

If that idea rocks your boat then by all means bask in it. Unfortunately the desire to bash women is strong so you choose to see what you want to see. The text is self explanatory. I never read where they said it was designed to check if any of the party was a virgin or to check how much sex they ( "she" since you love to shame the woman in this case) has had. But its okay. Lets agree with you so that your joy shall be full this beautiful morning.

madridguy:
I am always the last man standing with whoever am with. I have stood with total strangers in situation like this so no reason will I abandoned my spouse so far am alive, able and agile.

And may God keep you happy all yhe days of your life.

madridguy:
Don't blame the man. I pray we don't see problem especially health challenges, we human get tired of each quick. The only you can see in situation like this is blood relative.
Forget spouse.

Yeah if the wife did the dumping at such a critical time I wonder if people will say dont blame her.

Lightening:
Madam you sounds threatened. Hope you will pass this test o.

Maddam? Threatened? I just corrected your ignorance and you say I am threatened? Hahahaha you must be a very poor student if you think that because I did not turn the tables and bash women means I am threatened. LOL.

malware:
Shey you don retire abi? Kuku enroll for pension... Nonsense

Hahaha

johnjames2009:
condemning people to hell if it is true. genital test cannot entirely tell if 'anything' has happened. dead on arrival.

There were reports of impotent men decieving sisters into marriage only to discover that the man can not perform. Tbere have also been cases where it was claimed that some brides did not have sex organs only diacobered on the wedding night. Those okobo one second men that lie and hide their true medical status will be the ones to fear.

daylife7:
those wen don drill their oil well finish and suck all d oil commot.... come go church to go deceive one brother with sex after marriage ..... then after marriage,the man now discover the d oil well is just a dry borehole... genital test na to check wether na borehole or oil well

It is not a virginity test or a test to see howmuch sex you have had.

ikorodureporta:
If u carry out virginity test on ladies, are u going to do masturbatn test for the guyz ...why not allow them to test themselves if they are truly fertile b4 wedding them

It is not a virginity test.

Very good idea. I know that the average Naija man will not see that the reason had to do with men. Many wives have discovered the okobo or impotent state of their husband on their wedding night. Some have next to no sexual organ yet they decoeve sisters and use church to cover their true history. They should also do sperm count test many women are surffering because their husbands are infertile yet they are comfortable with their families blaming the innocent wives for their childlessness.

Obainoneandonly:
am telling u,some people made a hell of money out of it.each compound was made to pay some certain of money,when I calculated it,it was in d hundreds of thousand.
the most money they made came from tree log.many trees were cutted,because d priest said its inside d woods dat d mermaids live.d wood they sold was in the millions.woods that have been there for hundreds of years

maybe it was even planned work