₦airaland Forum

Elosky20:
at the bolded, cant u see the difference btw WIFE and FIANCEE. the wife recieves child support, the fiancee fends for the child and herself.

The only difference between wife and fiancee is the legal binding. Child is mandatory whether married or not.

Elosky20:
what if the man changes his mind after impregnating her, what will be her faith

What if the man marries skips the "fertility thesis" to marry her then later discovers her womb is damaged? Do you think the marriage would last?

Ishilove:
No seriously, where in the bible? If you wanna use the bible to buttress your arguments, you should be able to present valid scriptures?

That is a commonly used phrase that connotes God's tendency to assist those who put in a good struggle towards achieving what they pray for. I never meant it's written word for word in the bible.

Psalm 90:17
17 May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands.

femimike1:
lovely.....



Check my Bio...

Shoes look nice. Your contact, please.

MISSNORA:
Yuck!Hell no!Datz gross!

For a thief that just robbed you, slapped, kicked, dragged you by your wigs and spat on your face?

Dyt:
Lmao at colleagues

Yes na. Association of Nairaland Ladies (ANL) .

Dyt:
What about it?

Some of your colleagues were beginning to think that the concept is only peculiar to men alone.

raumdeuter:
Then make she go marry who impregnate her

The OP method also help the woman. If the husband is the type to be shooting blanks would she wait in the marriage?

Test driving with evidence helps both party

Gbam!!!

Dyt:
Hehehe
He wanted marriage
So I told him preggy first, once we both agreed, that month I didn't escape it
He was even lucky sef cos I was about breaking up and following another man

You wanted to confirm he doesn't shoot blanks, right?

Dyt:
Hehehe
He wanted marriage
So I told him preggy first, once we both agreed, that month I didn't escape it
He was even lucky sef cos I was about breaking up and following another man

Thank God this is coming from a lady.

jashar:
it's amazing how people who don't know or read the Bible are so eager to quote it; or 'think' they can quote it rather.
Interesting

That's your problem. You can't think or do anything without calling the bible. Now I'm a Christian too, probably more Christian than you are but that doesn't mean I can't take decisions using my God-given IQ.

Jengem:
stay in ya papa house now

oniranu obirin

because you are bored at home

Are you not entertained with boyfy?

And you dont wanna pay dues but be receiving vals gift


u thirsty greedy women....thunder awaits ye all

jmoore:
Bros, which version of the bible is that? Give me the Chapter and verse.

Calm down.

PresVA:
@bolded, Amen ..

Your mentality is funny. . So waiting till after marriage to get pregnant is folding one's hands..
For your mind, you're helping God by impregnating someone before marriage? Nnaa, I don't understand. .

You'll keep hopping from one lady to the other till one gets pregnant? Success in your quest bro..

Amen!!!
But stop making it sound like my opinion is alien to you. Different strokes for different folks. I know a lot of guys out there who have sworn not to marry non-virgins. Some want the wild and exposed ones, others prefer the timid and shy ones. Choices! I hope it's not also strange to you that it's necessary you know your fiance's blood group before marriage to avoid giving birth to im.beciles and wasting lives unnecessarily? Since I know I'm 100% potent, I must also ensure that my fiancee is fertile before I marry her. I can't stay in a marriage without kids, simple! And I wouldn't like a situation where I'd have to read the books of Matthew, pray and fast for 50 days!!

PresVA:
His simple message was 'getting pregnant before marriage doesn't eliminate childlessness because anything can happen' ..so your method of trying to eliminate childlessness is totally flawed... it also places the lady on a huge risk; what if the guy doesn't marry her? It's also like tempting God because it's not man to grant pregnancy..

I can't marry a guy that base the happiness of his marriage on kids because it's not human to grant pregnancy. . If for a few months you don't take in or miscarry, the stress and anxiety he'll put you through eehh will decrease your chances of conception instead of him working together with you to achieve better results. ..

As he said, go to the hospital for whatever test you wish..including the man... can't stoop too low to prove to any man I can get pregnant...

May God bless all our marriages with lovely Children, Amen..

Yes, God will bless your marriage with as much lovely children as you want. But this is one problem about Nigerian Christians. They tend to place all their burdens on God, then fold their hands and wait for miracle. But they forget that even the Bible said 'heaven helps those who help themselves.' As for me, I can't risk marrying a woman I don't know her fertility status. Death is inevitable, when your time comes you'll die but it's not certain that every pregnancy will miscarry. So I'm ready to take the risk. Team #pregnancyBeforeMarriage#

PresVA:
Answer the other important questions he asked...

You mean the "ifs"? There is an "if" to almost everything we do but leave that for another discussion. Let her get pregnant first then we'd know how to deal with the #ifs#

The collision of two giants.

jmoore:
What if there is a miscarriage after the wedding?

What if the baby dies later, and the lady can't take in again?

What if the man dies before the wedding?

What if the man changes his mind after the pregnancy and decides to marry another girl?


If you want to be sure of her fertility, go to a hospital for a comprehensive medical test.

I've seen couples who got positive mark on fertility from doctors but still remain childless. Abeg, make she carry belle first jor. Mind you, it works in the favour of ladies who wish to know their men's fertility status too

Elosky20:
bt did they impregnate their self. it a 50-50 blame on both the man and the woman.

Believe me, I can't impregnate a girl and ask her to abort it. Never! It is the girls that don't want to keep their pregnancy because they believe it reduces their value. But as for me, I can marry a single mother

Joromi1:
I think the issue here is to ascertain her fertility status

It's not just about fertility. Most of these girls have lost their wombs in the series of abortions they had

Hahaha! Op, ladies would hate you for this thread. I and your elder brother think alike. No belle, no marriage. Na who wan begin do fasting and prayer? Iranu!

Dis one na troll

Faith111:
Did you read the Op's initial post
He said he works and has the ability to train her...

Back to your question, lot of guys earn far more than that...Infact some earn that daily..
If he doesn't have the resource, he won't think of training her..

Even if he's earning a million per month why must you suggest 30 to 40k for a mere student? Is that how your boyfriend has been taking care of you?

Faith111:
Op is ur girl not normally entitled to monthly allowance and basic upkeep? If yes simply increase her alawee to like 30 or 40k and let her do with watevr she wishes with it...I'm sure she'll naturally sort out herself this way and still have a raised shoulder and high self esteem be4 evry1.. The Word TRAIN can be out of ur HEAD since she will necessarily not come to you asking for fee or dues....
If she decides to sacrifice Brazilian for Books with d alawee good for her..

On the other hand knowing her background is what makes u think you gonna train her...If she pretends to be 1 big babe and at the end of the Month calls you for 50k to buy clothes and other stuff, I know you will naturally make immediate transfer to her and tell her to manage it..while the babe will just use the cash to sort her sch Bill..
The problem is Guys don't value Real girls..They prefer Pretenders..

See your mouth like simply increase her alawee to like 30 or 40k. How many Nigerians earn up to that as monthly salary?

Don't even dare! Use that money to take care of ur parents and siblings and find a career woman to marry. That girl would definitely dump and deny your ass!

Kreamie:
14years for Homosexuality, 20years for woman battery! 34years plus his present age should put some sense into his empty skull


Omo Ale oniran kiran

I believe those allegations are just to put him in a tight corner. Nobody has explained his reason for beating up the wife. What if she was caught fvcking around?

LMAO! Yeye guy.

Linda Ikeji's house is now a "family house"? Old girl, better go out there and hustle for your own.

This is the type of thread you would never find the likes of Omenka, Egift, PassingShot and the effeminates Irunoobo, Obiagelli and NgeneUkwenu making comments. They try as much as possible to avoid the truth

More grease to your elbows, Firefire. May you never give up like Barcanista.

irunoobo:
9 kids and 2 miscarriages

You seriously wish you were a female.

3 children. 2 males and a female.

This is the type of thread you would never find the likes of Omenka, Egift, PassingShot and the effeminates Irunoobo, Obiagelli and NgeneUkwenu making comments. They try as much as possible to avoid the truth